Cuddlemii:

Go to church to receive communion. the bread is usually sweet even if its not the size of a loaf but you are getting heavenly peace. Stop stressing on fight, today na Sunday.

Boyloaf:

next PLS!!!!!

Istand:

@sexkillz, Won't d guy b feelin lik a super hero? As in she xpresin it.[/color]

harakiri:

Another reason why I keep hammering that there is nothing like "just friends" between an adult male and female unless he's man-lover,impotent,she's hideously ugly or deformed. Apart from that, it's only a matter of time before the inevitable happens. People just prefer to delude themselves all in the name of being "civilized" and "enlightened". Study broken relationships and marriages and you'll notice that the individuals they start seeing are the "friends" they had all along. The way and manner human beings choose to delude themselves never fails to shock me.

sexkillz:

I'm back Lola!
I'll start with asking you a simple question. Whose happiness is more important? Yours or the people here that dont know the turmoil of emotions you are going thru? Do any one of us realize how much you really and truly love this guy? Would you rather be proud, and not ask him just because there is an unwritten code that says, 'the guy must ask out"? Lola, i'm not a fan of unwarranted nonsensical egotistical behavior, that i some times categorically refer to as "gallivanting bull[b]s[/b]hit"! This is your heart we are talking about! Would you let a good thing pass you by, because you were too proud to stretch your hand? Do you know if the guy has been expecting your response all along, cos he made the first move, by saying you guys would make sense together? Pls realize that NOT ALL GUYS are MACHO when it comes to matters of the heart, also realize that not all relationships are meant to be formally or officially initiated, by the guy! It doesnt take anything out of you, does it? It also doesnt make you look demeaning, does it? Afterall, you did not just meet him! Look at this scenario. You already know him, you know when he's strong, weak, angry, happy, infact you can almost predict him! He makes you happy, you feel protected and safe when u are with him. You two already have chemistry. My dear, would you rather let him go, start a fresh relationship, and keep missing him, even when you get married to another, all because you were too proud to ASK? C'mon girl! All he'll say is yes or no! Does he bite? Or am i missing something?
Conclusively Lola, be the architect of your own happiness! NO ONE here, not even me, knows your own emotional infrastructure, more than you do! Dont allow some people use their Reggae Music, to spoil your R&B! Cheerz Babe!

dipo+:

Nobody is despising a lady for expressing her mind.

IF a MAN loves you, he'd ask you out  in clear terms. Would you choose the person you love over the person who loves you? Its not adequate that a woman loves a man, she must be sure that the man loves her and the only way is by expressing it in words. Ask the lady to be yours!

Till he is bold enough, i'm sorry, he is still a boy and probably will never be MAN enough if you take him as a boy

taio luv:

@ poster, let me tell me my experiencce. I like a guy very much n he too like me bt I wanted more from him, I invited him to my house and explain to him hw I felt abut him n want a lover, d guy wz so matured by letting me know dat all he wants from me wz my friendship, I felt so bad but afta dat day my mind wz at peace wt our friendship,I had to let go and I finally move on to get anoda date, we are still good friends up til now and no akwardness btwn us, so pls make your feelings show to him, it is either a yes or no, and dos word can make u stronger in future.cheers

muzay:

i jst dnt knw y galz find it dfclt 2 xpres dere filinz 2 guyz evn in dz 21st cntury of ours,babe i'v got jst 1 advice 4 u dnt lose dz by nt tllin him hw u feel,u said d guy z a gud christian,u knw hw guyz lyk dt bhave na dey ar mstl shy of tllin a gal hw dey fil bcz he doesn't wnt 2 u start seein him d oda way rund.i jst dnt knw y galz find it dfclt 2 xpres dere filinz 2 guyz evn in dz 21st cntury of ours,babe i'v got jst 1 advice 4 u dnt lose dz by nt tllin him hw u feel,u said d guy z a gud christian,u knw hw guyz lyk dt bhave na dey ar mstl shy of tllin a gal hw dey fil bcz he doesn't wnt 2 u start seein him d oda way rund.

sevule:

Ehm I guess the difficulty experienced by women in telling men how they feel would be the same as the level of difficulty in comprehending the morse code you wrote

NRI PRIEST:

Most peeps here have spoken well but you all are missing something else. I think this chic might be not so pretty!
Something similar has happened to me b4 and I bailed using"i dont wanna be in an unholy affair".
Lola,move on coz he doesnt like u in that way. You are just wasting your time with that chap.u will keep waiting till u get old and u will wake up oneday and find him with one hot chic phucking with the bible beside them.
He isnt feeling your personality and looks,period!