Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Kobojunkie:
Which God? The god of your pastors wey no even fit save many of your own gay pastors abi which one?

Go change yourself first before you go trying to change others.

YourGFsnatcher:

Your hate for men is legendary. Person weh break ur heart do u strong thing

sofiscatedmoron:

Africans a d God, instead of looking for a way out, you are calling God

Shinjawestern:
No man was born a gay ..

Seems like you r the one..

Death to all gays..

Death to all head slamming mohammadian

ProudWitch:
Devastated why? You sound like he's a criminal or a demon. You and your family will have to learn how to accept that side of him, show him love and protect him by not outing him to people you know till he's ready to do so himself.

Let me add this, being effeminate as a young male child doesn't mean one has a tendency of being gay. Most gays I know were very masculine when they were young.

omooba969:


What's wrong with being gay?

epainos:

Shapa is the reason a masculine man will give his anus out.

Kobojunkie:
Which God? The god of your pastors wey no even fit save many of your own gay pastors abi which one?

Go change yourself first before you go trying to change others.

YourGFsnatcher:

Your hate for men is legendary. Person weh break ur heart do u strong thing

Necrophagia:




Everything


I can tolerate lesbians but not fággots

xristos:
This is a Pro LGBTQ thread

The thread aims to promote homosexuality as natural which is never the case.
It's a mind game

By advised accordingly.

santaclaws:


What steps did you guys take to help him develop masculine traits as a child? You see a boy acting like a little girl, y'all should have made sure he did more manly things like playing sports with males and generally reminding him that he's a boy. You don't allow a boy play with dolls, it's very wrong.

It may be a bit late now but there is nothing God cannot do. You all just need to pray for him cos if he's already having gay intercourse, then it's a serious issue... Nevertheless, God can change anyone.

joelliving:
Exactly my thought!
I may be wrong though, but I think it's reverse psychology.

The OP may be trying to justify their delusion that gays are born that way!

It's mind game!
Guys don't fall for it.

God would not warn us to desist from homosexuality if he created anyone that way!

The western world and their stupid theory has been the major culprit justifying that disgusting act.

I am still astonished that bestialism or other psychological disorders are not supported as being the way people are born.

Psychos kill other people for fun yet no one says they are born that way!

IMASTEX:


Those two bolded are kind of conflicting. If he was born that way, meaning he was created same way by the same person you asked him to handover to. On a lighter note though

Personally, I think people's social & behavioral pattern is largely the influence of the immediate environment & the society. The females around him may have unconsciously played a significant role while he was growing up. I have observed cases where bigger sisters regularly costumed their kid brother with their own wears & makeup. Bath & freely unclothe completely in his presence, etc. Its even worse when he happens to be the only "male" around.

Kobojunkie:
You couldn't do anything to save him as a child yet now that he is an adult, you think it your place still to monitor his life and choices? One would expect that by now you would have learned to love him as he is. Is that too much for you to so?

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In case anyone would come in pretending Scripture on their side in this, make I help una small. In Genesis 3 vs 16, the Almighty who created man ans certified man of good quality, took to washing His hands off the multiplying process --- childbearing--- which was meant to populate the earth with more of the man He had made. Guess what that meant? With God's cursing childbearing, rendering it not of His Kingdom, all who are born into this world are born unrighteous, removed from God. That means no single individual born of a woman is born perfect from the womb.

So, whenever you look at a gay man or a disabled individual, realize that you are just as cursed as he is, only that your damage is just not as obvious as theirs may seem to you.

epainos:

Shapa is the reason a masculine man will give his anus out.

ProudWitch:
Devastated why? You sound like he's a criminal or a demon. You and your family will have to learn how to accept that side of him, show him love and protect him by not outing him to people you know till he's ready to do so himself.

Let me add this, being effeminate as a young male child doesn't mean one has a tendency of being gay. Most gays I know were very masculine when they were young.

SharingIsLife:
I have never come close to tolerating gay until I read this. I used to have hot arguments with my neighbor who said that many gay guys are born that way. Could this just be true? I'm actually shedding tears right now😭

Hathor5:
There is nothing you can do about a person who is gay. There have been conversion therapies done with homosexuals and their results have been desastrous to their mental well-being and otherwise changed nothing about a person`s sexual orientation. In this world, people who are different, need acceptance from their loved ones. The world is still very much a hostile place to this group of people. And as you have already rightly observed, people are born this way and there is nothing they or anyone can do about it. I don`t understand why it is a problem anyway and I will never understand why people get so worked up about it when clearly there are much bigger problems.

santaclaws:


What steps did you guys take to help him develop masculine traits as a child? You see a boy acting like a little girl, y'all should have made sure he did more manly things like playing sports with males and generally reminding him that he's a boy. You don't allow a boy play with dolls, it's very wrong.

It may be a bit late now but there is nothing God cannot do. You all just need to pray for him cos if he's already having gay intercourse, then it's a serious issue... Nevertheless, God can change anyone.

xristos:
This is a Pro LGBTQ thread

The thread aims to promote homosexuality as natural which is never the case.
It's a mind game

By advised accordingly.

Raylight2:


You sure say you truly shed tears? No lie o

Well, your advice is right. God can correct that .

Chibuzoripob:
it is too late to correct this abnormal bro of urs .Dem for don use cord wire flow the DEMON outta his gaybriel brain wen he started that nonsense

Scholace:
i don't think so. Some are comfortable but chose same sex partner over opposite sex

SharingIsLife:

Yes, I shed tears.

Phoenix999:


You are 100% correct. I wish I can like this comment 100times.

Nairaland MODs intentionally created this thread and pushed it to FP to try and use reverse psychology on unsuspecting Netizens.

Be'like Seun and Myndd dem done collect Rainbow🌈 people money to do promo!

No one is born gay and no amount of twisting will convince me otherwise.

I have zero empathy for the sick alphabet folks.

Rubbish!!