Hi ,

Good day my sister, I am so happy to read ur post and all the comment.

I will go by saying I appreciate ur kind of person so many ladies hav this problem and they keep it, to them self and at the end they ended up dating the man, ur feeling is natural maybe because u see him everyday and he is so caring.

I will advice u to take ur mind off dating him and do it prayefully. pls dont try telling him ur feelings it might not lead to a "sack eventually" but dont because men are like small baby wherever u push them to that is where they go he might honourably welcome the offer so they are. "BUT DONT DO THAT IT IS A SIN AGAINST UR BODY"

If you are not in any reliationship pray to God for a genuine one that wll love and adore u.

ITS really saddening,in my own case the man is married with kid,he cannot seem to leave me alone,dough he is nt my boss but we both work in the same office,he claims he loves me and want to marry me as second wife.

only u wan chop him salary, then chop him money, then chop him wetin call , abeg leave that man, na woman like you get am, touch not my anointing, just face ur work or face it squarely.

u need Jesus. in other to be delivered

wait till his son is grown now,

what attracted you to the father will surely be passed to his son, genetically.

gold digger.

the man no fine, he no smart

and you still dey attracted.

My dear i know its not easy, i know how u r feeling, being attracted to someone else, am in such situation 2, but i have been living with that all this while in the ofix, cos am a so called married woman but my husband is not in d country, but am attracted 2 some1 else in the ofix but my dear, i stil resist him with all my soul, i avoid him at all cost and make sure we dont get peared 2 do anytin 2gether.

I always do tins that wud make us luk as if we dont lik each other and he thinks i dont lik him and also in the ofix they think we r cat and dog but i know deep down in me i love him. That is my own way of fighting the urge.

I am looking for a new job so i can leave the environment becos i know Temptation and for how long can i resist him so its better 4 me 2 just leave and my husband being away 4 long and comes bac once in 2yrs or 3 yrs can give me room 2 do wat ever i can but my dear, i dont want 2 start wat i cannot finish. He is married, so resist with all ur might and soul cos it will not pay u both in the long run and short run.

Just try and look 4 anoda job cos if u say the feeling will go away its a dame big lie.

FAITHFULNESS AND HONESTY: IS THE BEST POLICY
YOU WILL SURELY REAP WHAT YOU HAVE SOWN,
DONT BE SURPRISE WHEN U START TO SEE THE RESULT, I WISH YOU WELL ANYWAY

Let your feelings be known if you are sure he would be interested, if not, you might end up being fired. The ball is in your court.

The Lord is your strength.

You cannot ever come out of it if you begin. It is a ploy of the devil to disgrace you. When it happens not even your Closest confidants will deny you. You will only end up making new friends like you and making you stuck in the mess you found yourself which might cause u to regret yourself al your days.
You can say no to it. Do it now in JESUS name. AMEN

The Lord is your strength.

You cannot ever come out of it if you begin. It is a ploy of the devil to disgrace you. When it happens not even your Closest confidants will deny you. You will only end up making new friends like you and making you stuck in the mess you found yourself which might cause u to regret yourself al your days.
You can say no to it. Do it now in JESUS name. AMEN

play i sincerely appreciate you for taking this bold step by sharing this. This thing is rampant among secretaries only very few could maintain their image, even the married secretaries are doing it.

Don't be part of them girl, control your self. Take for instance if you are not a thief and you see, say about N100,000 thousand naira own by your boss and then u pick up the money and hand over the money to him and then tell him sir, i pick it down your table, have your money sir. That is self control. Then you can control yourself in front of your boss, no matter your feeling for him.

I have worked with a man like that, infact i work with him for five years, very kind, handsome, gentle, caring etc then i was 19yrs and he likes me so much because i had self control, to God who made me i did not for one day lost after him because i decided in my heart to take him like my father. He wanted me to work for him for life, but that was not possible because i needed to grow.

I can boldly say that i can still go to his house today and i will have respect because of my self control and the fear of God in my heart. Infact I still have his picture and once in a while i pray for him to make heaven because he is a good man, but he likes women.

You need to accept Jesus as your personal Lord and saviour and He will bring your husband and then you will NEVER lost after him in your hear but you will begin to see him as a father.

send me your full name and i will join you in my prayers.

God bless you love.

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This thread goes to the Romance Section now!

favourina:

My dear i know its not easy, i know how u r feeling, being attracted to someone else, am in such situation 2, but i have been living with that all this while in the ofix, cos am a so called married woman but my husband is not in d country, but am attracted 2 some1 else in the ofix but my dear, i stil resist him with all my soul, i avoid him at all cost and make sure we dont get peared 2 do anytin 2gether.

I always do tins that wud make us luk as if we dont lik each other and he thinks i dont lik him and also in the ofix they think we r cat and dog but i know deep down in me i love him. That is my own way of fighting the urge.

I am looking for a new job so i can leave the environment becos i know Temptation and for how long can i resist him so its better 4 me 2 just leave and my husband being away 4 long and comes bac once in 2yrs or 3 yrs can give me room 2 do wat ever i can but my dear, i dont want 2 start wat i cannot finish. He is married, so resist with all your might and soul cos it will not pay u both in the long run and short run.

Just try and look 4 anoda job cos if u say the feeling will go away its a dame big lie.

i know u and i know the man u r talking abt i am going to tell him abt this ur post and tell him to pursue u with a vengeance u must do

Arm Robber ni e Ole Gidi Ni e
You meet EFON 4 ABATA u think say na water him drink die

Ole Ashawo u better find one a never shop guy and start up with him idiot

It's okay to be attracted. But please be from afar.

stop degradiing your potentials try and caution tour act you are being driven by emotion
if yo continue this way the it means you may end up freaking with guys arround try and look on someone who cares 4 u who is willing to take you to altar am sure this is what u so desire
am i right?

I think u have to remove that from your mindset cos its not a good idea. U taking any further step will chatter the man's home. Above all, its biblically wrong. Remember, do thee unto others wot u will like them to do unto u.

i'd tell his husband,

nop radar his wife.

i agree with okoponwa's advise and please read it carefully and another thing the fact that he is a married man that is a no go area, Ask God to give u your own man, be contented with the person you have if you have any, that is just a crash and can be worked upon,

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