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| An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 2sexy(m): 7:02pm On Nov 19, 2011 |
Dear Heart Broken Guy(Downcasted& MR Chuk), you have been a memory refresher as I read your thread, I remember how I got out of that shackles. I say kudos to Mr. Chuk for his matured way of dealing with his girl. But my concern goes to you,downcasted. Really, I was where you are right now just 2years ago and at about the same age and my girl at that time was just the same as yours. You are giving that girl more chance do what she is doing to you. Being too emotional is BAD and I tell you from experience. Inasmuch as I want this girl to regret what she doing now,I bet she would if you read me. Think about this, there are more girls in the world than men. Its a FACT! You are a serious guy with plans but you are only 1 or 2 of you in every 10 guys out there. That means, that girl of yours will DEFINITELY get F. U. C. K. E. D and Dumped by the 9 bad guys out there. That guy she is crazy about now will surely dump her and so are other to come. Why? Because they have no plan for her. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by seedord247(m): 7:04pm On Nov 19, 2011 |
Make i get my eye glass. . . e don tey wey i don read novel. But plz don't tell me this another complain about nigerian Girl . .  |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by Sijo01(f): 7:38pm On Nov 19, 2011 |
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| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 2sexy(m): 11:54pm On Nov 19, 2011 |
There certain things that you must know. Most Naija girls lack a lot of moral ethics. This not a naija girl bashing thread and I just had to speak up. Downcasted is being too emotional. One thing is sure, most naija girls do not appreciate the nice guys and so how they often regret ever leaving him in the long run. One thing that has helped me is when I realised that I am a nice guy and that my type is hardly found out there. It made me proud of myself cos I knew that in every 10 guys out there, there are only 1 or 2 like me and that really made me happy because I knew that the bad 8 guys would f. U. Ck and dump any this worthless girls. I looked around, hardly do any guy want to marry and all they want is just sex and fun. That means the girl will always be moving from bed to bed. This does not apply to the nice,sincere,down to earth, straight forward ladies out there. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by downcasted: 12:17am On Nov 20, 2011 |
Thank you OP Thank you - She's at the moment saying the dude would call me and confirm there;s nothing between them That girl has disspointed me, i would never trust a woman ever again Even if things work back up- she would have to work hard to get me trust her again after 5years cheating should be the least of her priorities - I thought by now she would be concerned bout marriage I just dont know why her eyes are too wide - she isnt ready to calm down and think cos shes 22 she got age on her side so she can gamble away, i got talking to a friend of mine here in cyprus who married her husband (Both Nigerians) she married her husband at 21 and has been here for her past 5years - I Just dont know why my girl choose to take the path of destruction I wish i could even put the dude's pic up here but i wont, im too gentle for all that - Thanks for your encouragement - God would lead me out cos he got me into this 5years ago and he knows best |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by jayjay2011(f): 1:20am On Nov 20, 2011 |
I dont know why nice people always get screwed up- whether u r a man or women. As a female my only encouragement for such is that they will regret it one day and will want to come back but it will be too late. Take heart. The same way u r nice, there is one nice level headed girl out there praying for some1 like you and u will find her. See it as Ur exprience is vital for ur success in marriage. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by iice(f): 5:32am On Nov 20, 2011 |
2sexy: Talk about pot and kettle |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 195(f): 7:17am On Nov 20, 2011 |
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| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by pendo89(f): 8:04am On Nov 20, 2011 |
downcasted: All will be well if you decide what it is that you really want for yourself. good day |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by Mynd44: 8:55am On Nov 20, 2011 |
iice: iice: hmmm |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 195(f): 11:39am On Nov 20, 2011 |
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| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by iyatrustee(f): 1:36pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
Pendo, God knows u ve tried ur best with downcasted. He just seems determined to drown in a relationship dat is going to bring hin noting but heartbreak. Downcasted is discombulated and need some sense knocked back into him the hard way. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 195(f): 1:49pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
iyatrustee:  |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by pendo89(f): 1:58pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
lol at discombobulated,This virus is catching. Yeah ur right.I dont know which guy can knock down sense into him.I think some people are meant to be experiments for others to learn so let him sail that way and get burnt. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 2sexy(m): 3:37pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
Downcasted, forget all those cooked up poo she's saying. That guy had sex with her and she is saying the guy would call you? Damn! I could slap that girl. This is what a girl do when she knows that you love her like crazy. She can tell you any lie because she knows you are blinded by love. She knows your achilles hills. I hate girls that play with a guys emotion. Guys, don't blame this dude. Its really not easy to get out this kind of situation because its his firt love here. I was there and I know how I got out this. I will like to say it couldn't have been easy without you guy here at Nairaland. Back in 2009, Nairaland gave me the needed push. You won't believe that the idi. Otic ex came begging me like crazy. She begged for months and I told her that I was long gone. After over 6months of begging, she left UNIPORT to come beg me in DELTA STATE in 2011. She was the shadow of her old self when I saw her. Talk about what too much sex can do to lady,humping from bed to bed. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 2sexy(m): 4:01pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
In my own case, my ex thought she was the top. She felt the guy really loved her. The guy f. U. Cked her and she told me. Man, I was crazy. Despite that, she said she wants to come and see me in Benin. I allowed her and at the hotel we stayed, I went to buy some snacks and on getting back, I met another guy with her. She knew I wasn't happy and I went to keep the snack in my room and I came down stairs to get a drink. Lo and behold, this girl left with this dude at 8pm and did not come back till almost 10:30pm. So, what are we saying guys? Downcasted, what I did was to analyse the whole thing and it has helped me alot. Despite all this, I chose not to be a bad guy or treat any girl bad because I have a sister and I wouldn't treat any in a way I wouldn't want any person to treat my own sister. Just apply the ratio as I gave above. In every 10 guys out there, there are only 1 or 2 of me. That will make you appreciate the bad guys who f.u. Ck and dump these brainless girl to teach her a lesson. Hence, she will always regret ever leaving you. And please DON'T ACCEPT her back! |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by tellwisdom: 5:54pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
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| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 195(f): 7:24pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
2sexy: Na wa |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by slex(m): 8:21pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
@2sexy and downcasted, I have read through he various post here and past, cheating or being cheated rather by a girl you hold as you whole world , you number 1 , the lady that you would go through fire and water just to get what she wants even if you can't get it , you look for means to make her happy,you keep yourself for her , you get tempted but you shun all others because you are 'DIFFERENT' you don't want anything to push your mind away from the love of your life, i have been there, and what happened the girl cheated not once not twice not even thrice, but each time i forgive and accept , thinking ,hoping she will stop, Must have something to do with bad company that's why she did it. Then you finally see her at it again, then you tell her,''Babe i want out, lets have a break, then you cry and cry. Surprisingly after months she is back at your doorsteps , begging to be let into your life, This is a warning, Never allow her back because she will hurt again. I have been in this situation before,now have a sweet girl that will be my wife very soon, i couldn't have made a better choice |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 2sexy(m): 11:24pm On Nov 20, 2011 |
That's right. They come begging. I thought they love b. A. Nging. Them don deal with my ex finish o o o. No b small. The girl beg me tire no b small. Imagine traveling from PORTHARCOURT TO DELTA STATE, Useless Entity! |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by slex(m): 12:26am On Nov 21, 2011 |
@op ont be surprised, when a lady really wants something she has lost, she can travel to the moon to get it,this also unfortunately i learnt in 'heartbreak mode' i allowed thrice and then, came along the fourth. being Undertsnading atimes is seen by these 'category' of girls as 'you being stupid' Another example is that of a white girl i was dating, we dated no problem 5 months,anything she wanted i provided,even atimes rent money, yes i turn mugu 4 whitie, after i obviously 'outlived' my usefulness. she left me in the cold. dated and moved in with her white guy and warned me, warned me ooo, that i should never call her again. Fine i deleted her from my contacts. 3 months after that she started calling and calling crying that she wants me back. saying he guy drinks everyday and when he comes home, beats the shit out of her, in her words, we met and i saw some of the marks on her body, i tod soorry i a m already taken, she said noo, lets rekindle our love. In my mind (you de find house rent money abi) i never accepted her , and it was now my turn to tell her and warn her, Pls dont call me again never again ths is not nollywood, this happened to me. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by kpolli(m): 2:27pm On Nov 21, 2011 |
nice post |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by LongOne1(m): 3:09pm On Nov 21, 2011 |
Get used to it bro, everybody gets screwed at one point in time or another, even the so-called players. Advice from Will Smith, the original ‘nice guy’ in song 'Just the Two of Us' One day some girl's gonna break your heart And ooh ain't no pain like from the opposite sex Gonna hurt bad, but don't take it out on the next, son Throughout life people will make you mad Disrespect you and treat you bad Let God deal with the things they do Cause hate in your heart will consume you too Come to think of it, Will Smith divorced once. My point is, not everybody gets it right the first time. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by LongOne1(m): 3:30pm On Nov 21, 2011 |
Just read all your posts now. Damn, is this a Pity Fest or something? If so, who deserves the most pity? For me, I think slex out-pitied 2sexy, while downcasted carried the World Cup of Pity. Jus joking o, before someone crucifies me. I am true to the ‘Nice Guy’ cause and pledge my allegiance to forever remain loyal. But eh, some peeps have suffered in the hands of women sha. |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by downcasted: 6:32pm On Nov 21, 2011 |
Thanks Y'all for your various contributions You have all been indeed helpful Truth to be told, Not one - i repeat Not one person im not talking of here on nairaland told me to give the girl another chance. Despite been mad tipsy and high as im sending this message- I really want to thank y'all for your help She is gone and her family seemingly seem to back her on this one Dont know why - they all claim i listen to people too much without necessarily getting to the root of the issue when 99% of what these people said are true, shes been cheating on me but no body addressed that issue instead i am the wrong person here for listening to others She hides things from her family and tries to paint a good image of who she isnt to them, she has turned her family against me and made them hate me (they always had my backings anyway) Its all done and completed - you can find the rest of the story here https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-806457.128.html |
| Re: An Open Letter To The Nice Guy Who Got Heart-broke. . . by 195(f): 3:46pm On Nov 22, 2011 |
Tenk God downcasted has been able to move on  |
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