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Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by agiboma(f): 9:01pm On Dec 23, 2011 |
@TEMI please i beg you dont do anything harsh, i know trying to have a baby is difficult i had 3 miscarriges it took me over 7 years to finally have my son. I lost a pregnancy @ 5 months and it broke me heart i never got over it. I want you to know G-d is good he will bring joy back into your life. Their are so many tretments available when you are trying to have a baby. Temi listen to me the problem of not conceiving may not be your fault it could very well be your husband. Temi please join the thread trying to conceive on nairaland i will attach the link below, their are so many women on that thread including myself trying to have babies we all love and encourage each other on that thread you wont be told anything bad, we take each others problems as our own. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-318334.99999.html#bot |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by webbjamie(m): 8:52am On Dec 26, 2011 |
Nice uplifting thread, |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 3:49pm On Dec 26, 2011 |
Akaraoku$: Amen and thank u |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 4:06pm On Dec 26, 2011 |
Sunshine, blue skies, please go away. . . .my life is filled with gloom. So day after day, I stayed locked up in my room. I know to you it might sound strange. But I wish it would rain. . . 'Cause so badly I wanna go outside. (Such a lovely day) But everyone knows that a man ain't suppose to cry, listen I gotta cry 'cause cryin' eases the pain. . . People this hurt I feel inside, words can never explain. . . . Day in, day out, my tear stained face Pressed against the *pillow*. . . . . . . . . . I Wish It Would Rain by The Temptations may God grant us all our good wishes & dreams on/in time IJN. AMEN |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 5:35am On Dec 29, 2011 |
. . .i need YOU 2 set me free, take me far away from d battle i need u to shine on me, I LOOK TO YOU whitney houston - i look 2 u |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Ivynwa(f): 9:35am On Dec 29, 2011 |
@Perx Your poems and songs are very touching, I can sense your love for life and the desire to break away from the circumstance. I am almost wishing that I have the power to make it all go away. I feel you dearie. Lots of hugs to you okay. How about the blog? I want to share this song below that I love very much with you. Be strong dearie. [flash=425,344] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lc9kjeAZWbU?version=3&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="420" height="315"[/flash] |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Nobody: 3:03pm On Dec 29, 2011 |
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-834710.0.html. so so sad. Painful when Nigerians arrogantly claim "suicide is not in our culture" or Nigerians dont commit suicide". This guy cried for help, check his face book page, he had talked about taking his life for day yet no one talked him out of it and gave him practical help, we always like quoting scriptures even when we re supposed to show Gods love, the Bible says if someone comes to you hugry feed him dont pray for him, for our faith without works is dead, i feel so sad, he lost his faith in God totally, I have been at rock bottom, I know how he felt, I feel so sad. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by maclatunji: 3:29pm On Dec 29, 2011 |
Is there a way we can make this page viral? So that it can spread across different online platforms? @Perx, how far with your blog? Stay strong! |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by inspirenet: 3:32pm On Dec 29, 2011 |
Suicide occurs first in the mind. There are a lot of factors that could possibly lead to someone committing suicide. I personally think these victims need help. I really hope this thread would fulfill the purpose for which it was created. Just like [b]maclatunji [/b]said, its a matter of life and death. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 5:09am On Dec 30, 2011 |
@ maclatunji, Ivynwa - thank u. still thinking of how to start d blog. is it just my real names i'd need to put there? anything else private/personal? i went 4 xray 2 days ago and it was not good, it did not heal and its even worse than d 1st xray report i dont know y or how but d docs here r on it, to see if they can do my right leg but d left leg is a no no go abroad they say. still checking if i can do both here. fingers crossed. it will b way cheaper but i want a good job done and no high risk |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 5:10am On Dec 30, 2011 |
. . .There are worlds and worlds of ways to explain To tell you how I feel But I am speechless, speechless That's how you make me feel Though I'm with you I am far away and nothing is for real When I'm with you I am lost for words, I don't know what to say My head's spinning like a carousel, so silently I pray Helpless and hopeless, that's how I feel inside. Nothing's real, but all is possible if God is on my side When I'm with you I am in the light where I cannot be found It's as though I am standing in the place called Hallowed Ground Speechless. . . "Speechless" MICHAEL JACKSON |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by maclatunji: 6:42am On Dec 30, 2011 |
perx: I am sorry to read that. Please, keep hope alive. As for your blog your name is important like I said before. However, anything else you want to add is up to you. I just want you to tell your own story and tell the world what you want/need. It is not an exam, feel free to express yourself as you see fit. I just don't want you to use abbreviations that people will not understand. Try to be upbeat in everything, better days are coming with God's Mercy. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by ifyalways(f): 7:05am On Dec 30, 2011 |
@Perx,life is beautiful,God is your strenght.Please hold on firm. . . Uju ajo anu.hows my baby in-law doing? |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Ivynwa(f): 7:28am On Dec 30, 2011 |
Perx you can go to www.blogger.com Click on "Get started" and you can begin In your blog you may need pictures showing your legs or other pictures that can move people into helping out. I was wondering whether some companies offer such help but I am not sure-----did you approach such big companies like MTN and some oil companies that easily donate to charity? I was also thinking of this-----opening a thread inviting nairalanders (that reside in the United States or UK or any other country your naija doctors are referring you to) to help you with charity organisations that help out people with health issues. I was racking my brain thinking of any but have non in mind. You must never think of harming yourself sweetheart, conditions change in life. Tomorrow, days and years to come may bring you such recovery and joy that when you look back to now, you can't help but bless God. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 5:27am On Dec 31, 2011 |
maclatunji: ok thx. God bless ifyalways: beautiful? hahahaaaaa.no b this life wey me dey so? NOOOOOOOO. life is BITTER SWEET AND RIGHT NOW IT IS UGLY AND BITTER but thanks Ivynwa: i do not know about mtn or d oil companies u stated opening a thread would be good though if you can. thx, will start d blog soonest then let u know |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by perx(f): 5:37am On Dec 31, 2011 |
I am the God that healeth thee I am the Lord, your healer I sent My word and healed your disease I am the Lord, your healer You are the God that healeth me You are the Lord, my healer You sent Your word and healed my disease You are the Lord, my healer I Am the God That Healeth Thee by Don Moen |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Ivynwa(f): 7:36am On Dec 31, 2011 |
perx: Perx I opened threads asking for contact info of charity organisations from nairalanders living abroad. I posted it in the family, Romance, Properties, Auto and Politics section where people frequent most and here are the links below for you to be monitoring in case somebody sends you a useful piece of information there okay. Romance Section https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-836032.0.html Properties Section https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-835896.0.html Autos Section https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-835895.0.html Family Section https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-835893.0.html Politics Section https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-835892.0.html Please Sweetie, I am sorry but I do not know whether you are feminine or masculine (you did not affix your gender in your profile), do let me know so that I can write your right gender as you can see I referred to you as a "he". Please don't be offended about that----just let me know and I will quickly change it. Do you have an e-mail address that can be left on those threads so that whoever needs to contact you can do that. Have you ever googled for charity organisation as in searched for the contact address of some in the internet? Such info may be online. Your e-mail address is important, leave it here so that if I get info on any I can forward it to you. If your email address has your full names and you still want to maintain your anonymity, you can get another e-mail address that does not have your real names on it. See whether you can do this - open a thread and copy on the details you listed here about the illness with pictures if possible and I can add the link to that your particular thread and remove the link to this thread so that people can easily go to your own very thread to read about it. If there is something you wish changed in the thread do let me know okay Baby. Do keep your spirit up. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by PatKing(f): 10:38am On Dec 31, 2011 |
Oh, Pls keep hope alive! |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by PatKing(f): 10:47am On Dec 31, 2011 |
charles79: I wish I have answer to your pains, I guess you are married? Your Hubby is your best friend at the moment. You need to be positive about life so you can see this happen to you. God did not seek the seed of David to serve Him in vain" You are emerging victorious, But you must have faith to be alive. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Nobody: 4:30am On Jan 01, 2012 |
^^Happy new year BB my twinny |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Busybody2(f): 4:38am On Jan 01, 2012 |
jennykadry: Happy new year jare boo Getting this out there before the new year Don't wanna start the new year with a cane in hand, afterall na the teeth wey the dog dey take play with hin pickin na him e dey take bite them |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Ivynwa(f): 4:39am On Jan 01, 2012 |
Happy New year to you Perx and to everybody! |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Nobody: 4:41am On Jan 01, 2012 |
Busy_body: Happy new year and merry christmas o. You neva check your FB again? Mr wont let the ikebe alone for me and you to talk again abi? Oga ooooooo. . . . . Come back to cloud 8 o. Happy new year iyawo wa. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Busybody2(f): 5:15am On Jan 01, 2012 |
Wow, that Ayinba1 na woman of valour, my kinda gyal, not afraid of any backlash nor repercussion, a breath of fresh air, wow, i doff my hat, this section needs more of your matured type, seriously Ileke-IdI: Wetin be FB How many i fit remember facebook, plus the one that said i should call him linkedin, plus him younger brother twitter, their cousin skype, the grandfather YIM, the godfather myspace, etcetera etcetera etcetera, una wan kill ketekete ni Get a pigeon like me so you can be sending telegrams too jare, its far better and more efficient than those BB thing Ileke-IdI: Ehn, am i seeing right You mean to say that ya nephew that was 2 year old last year has finally turned 18 and is grown and ready to walk me down the aisle, yippee, yay, tell him not to worry about brideprice and dowry, he should just come and wife me so we can go on our honeymoon instanta, its been a long time coming |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Nobody: 5:19am On Jan 01, 2012 |
Busy_body: |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by Busybody2(f): 6:17am On Jan 01, 2012 |
perx: This should be your anthem. I don't want to rain on your parade, but here goes: Dr Balogun is one of the most, if not the most influential and definitely the most selfless and invaluable person on NL, so anyone of his professional standing would equally dismiss you outrightly as a malingerer and hypochondriac. These people spend on average a decade in Medical School, so if i read you correctly, no Doctor will take you serious for plucking your "diagnosis" out of thin air/the internet. It is a dangerous and foolhardy path to tread. I am not in the Medical field, but from the little i know, from the symptoms you have listed such as the fractures, the out-of-proportion chronic pain, the jerking and feeling as if someone is yanking your legs out of the socket, the shortening of the limbs, etc, you could equally be diagnosed with Osteoporosis+Fibromyalgia+Restless legs syndrome. YOU ARE ALREADY GETTING MEDICATION FOR THESE TRIO OF DIAGNOSIS, for which some could even say you are already being over-medicated for. And for your information, all those medication you are on have the potential to make you gain weight as one of their side effects. If you manage to get to the US, they will bombard you with all sorts of tests and eventually loads of medication, not because it is the right thing to do, bt because it is a highly litiguos environment whereby Doctors can be sued for near-misses and mishaps and misdiagnosis and whatnot. If you come to the UK, you would not get that much pain relief, you would get xrays and tests 18 months part at least, after spenging around 2 years on the waiting list, and if you wanna start telling your Doctor you have found out what is wrong with you on the internet and it is so, so, so and so syndrome, the next referral you would be getting would be to a Psychiatrist because in reality, most illnesses with the blanket term "syndrome" attached to it as a suffix is kinda like a temporary unbrella term for "we don't know what to file these symptoms under", hence the many other names these "syndromes are often known by. To cut the long story short, at your age, you will not be deemed a suitable candidate for surgery, because, these joints have to be replaced every 10 to 15 years once they wear out, meaning you have to be replacing them based on the ones you get fitted with, and hey not every surgery works, i have met tons of people who regrets having operations as it did nothing to alleviate their pain and suffering and sometimes made it worse. Based on those 3 diagnosis i listed up there, according to you, all you have had was an MRI scan, so you need to get yourself to an Hospital in Nigeria where you can have a bone density scan or an isotope scan or whatever to rule out whether your fractures is being caused by early onset of severe Osteoporosis. Peradventure you have already been told you have a diagnosis of Fibromyalgia, this means damaged tissues, which means you would never be recommended for surgery because every joint would have to be replaced every 3 years on average, and there isn't enough downtime to recuperate from surgery if you have to be having them that close, so all you would keep getting is pain relief as you already are on, and you might possibly be referred to an intensive rehabilitation for pain management programme to help you learn pacing and coping skills to deal with these chronic pain. Anxiety and stress would not get you anywhere, cast your absolute faith in God, It is well. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by bigbumper(f): 6:26am On Jan 01, 2012 |
Ha, this Mr Spambot is a very nice chap and a gentleman oh, it mistakenly banned Busy_body, then magically supplied me with this name to use to repost her post addressed to PERX Busy_body: |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by mukina2: 6:33am On Jan 01, 2012 |
big_bumper:Happy new year lemme check . . . stop reposting, until your post is visible na. |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by bigbumper(f): 7:05am On Jan 01, 2012 |
mukina2: What is your own if i keep shamelessly throwing myself at the sexy spambot Did he complain to you that his arms are paining him What is your own if that is the method i want to use to get the handsome spambot to always keep noticing me and only me Mukina is jealous i am the apple of my Romeo Spambot's eyes Somebody jealous me Somebody jealous me Somebody jealous me Because of my Darling Spambot honey, come closer let me kiss you to make some people jealous jare |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by mukina2: 7:08am On Jan 01, 2012 |
this is new year, your crase pass at yaba left don expire |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by bigbumper(f): 7:36am On Jan 01, 2012 |
mukina2: My eyes are firmly planted on you and this is the 17th time you would be sashaying past this thread in that short tight skirt of yours, SO LADY THE ONLY THING YOU WOULD BE CATCHING IS COLD, NOT MY GORGEOUS SPAMBOT Your ulterior motive has been duly noted, so kindly walk on by and leave me and my bot alone |
Re: Are You Feeling Suicidal? Come Here First! by maclatunji: 11:39am On Jan 01, 2012 |
Happy New Year 2012 to you all. Some of you ladies want to chase me from my own thread with your fighting. I am. not happy with you at all, can't this thread be fight free? Mukina2, I have suggested it before and I am suggesting it again: we need a fight zone on this forum, people who have issues against each other can vent their anger there and stop derailing threads as is happening here. Look ladies, I don't know how your disagreement started and I don't really want to know but I just want you to stop derailing this thread. Come-on, you are all obviously intelligent and have good things going for you in your . |
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