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Poll: Would you date/marry a submissive man?Yes, Of Course!: 30% (18 votes)No: 38% (23 votes) Depends on the situation: 31% (19 votes) This poll has ended |
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| Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by MrsChima1(f): 12:32am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Ladies Would you date/marry a submissive man? Men always complaining and begging for submissive women when they aren't the men they should be. What qualities do you think a submissive man would carry if you were to meet one? Do you think your relationship/marriage would be successful with a submissive man? Do you view submissive men as equal to you? Be honest and don't worry about being called a feminist or skirt chaser. The NaRats are harmless.  |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Princek12(m): 12:40am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Mrs Chima, as the poster, what is your own answer? |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by MrsChima1(f): 12:43am On Jan 04, 2012 |
I am a man according to the manbitches. Are you a submissive man? |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Princek12(m): 1:36am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Mrs, Chima: I am the leader and not submissive. |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Nobody: 1:42am On Jan 04, 2012 |
it depends. lol@ men are repulsive.  |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by MarcAnthon(m): 2:34am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Last time I heard, ladies want their man to be in control. So  |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 2:51am On Jan 04, 2012 |
@OP: No, I do not want a submissive man. MarcAnthon: Not all of us are the same. We don't all want to be controlled or dominated. |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by MarcAnthon(m): 3:14am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Inked_Nerd: To be in control and to be controlling/domineering are two diff things. btw, you don't want a submissive man and u seem to suggest u also don't want a man that takes the driver's seat as well so what do you really want from your man? Just asking. . . |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Serpentine(f): 3:16am On Jan 04, 2012 |
I would vote no. I do not want a man who is submisive, or controlling. I want a man who can take the lead with out being domineering, who has confidence in his decisions and is prepared to listen to my opinions. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by InkedNerd(f): 3:27am On Jan 04, 2012 |
MarcAnthon: I know that to be in control and be controlling are two different things. All I said was that we're not all like that. You said "Last time I heard, ladies want their man to be in control." which is untrue. Some women enjoy that while others don't which is why I pointed out that not all of use are the same. As for whether or not I want a man "in the driver's seat", when it comes dating and relationships, I expect a level of fairness in such things. I wouldn't expect that the the person I'm with will control or dominate me and he shouldn't expect that I would do that to him. For there to be submissiveness, there would need to e some level or control/dominance on one partners part. With that being said, that is not something I want, expect, or desire in a relationship. I don't mind the idea of a man taking charge of his life but to do that to my own, that's a different story. |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by iice(f): 4:07am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Nope. I'd prolly smash him. The success would depend on the individuals. |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by freecocoa(f): 11:00am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Osara oku A submissive man? Like a man that will dance to all my tunes? Mbanu I don't want that. |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Nobody: 11:03am On Jan 04, 2012 |
OP is a bearded she-male who beats Mr. Chima at the slightest provocation. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by wendybaby(f): 11:07am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Nope. However, my man should be willing to let go some things. |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by tellwisdom: 12:02pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
U mean a MUGU?? |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Flashaldrin(m): 12:49pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
^^^^hehe, lol @op, you need to expatiate, submissive in what regards?? a man could be submissive and still in control you know? just not stubborn |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
Flashaldrin:Exactly does she mean a weak man, subject to her every whim and caprice, or just a gentle easy going fella |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by minute(f): 2:27pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
Consideration is a lot different than being submissive. Letting me take advantage is different than picking up dry cleaning across town on his way home from work so I wouldn't have to go out later. I would never ask my partner to do ridiculous things so it doesn't matter to me. However,submissive in bed is a different thing. Hahahaha |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Natasha2(f): 2:34pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
Yes of course  |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by MrCork17: 2:48pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
Natasha,,: Matasha. Sweery Today is your lucky day: Moi Single!  |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by iice(f): 3:06pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
minute: Ding! |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by yme1(f): 3:33pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
Submissive man as in 'Mr who doesnt have a say? or when he does the thought of it putting it out might hurt me hence he agrees to everything i say?' NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO thank you I will pass  That relationship is gonna be filled with scornfulness I love my man to be man enough in a submissive way for me and not a vegetable that calls himself a man There should be some situations where and when he needs to be submissive no doubt but at all times, geezzzzzzz no way  |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by slingfox: 3:46pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
u mean a submissive, shy and awkward silicon valley millionaire Hell yeah!1 Like |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
minute: |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Demdem(m): 4:09pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
slingfox: Thief |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by CalienteMi: 4:10pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
tellwisdom: Let me get this right, a submissive man is a mugu according to you so does that make a submissive woman mugu too? |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by CalienteMi: 4:11pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
minute: So you are saying men that wants submissive women are "taking" advantage of their women? It seems to be a majority agreement that submissive means mugu, weak, and vulnerable. Hmm. Interesting. |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by vitality22(m): 4:13pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
OK_2_NV: |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by CalienteMi: 4:21pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
vitality22: You want a beating too? N20,000 abeg! |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by searay(m): 4:23pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
NLanders, it's either u r submissive or u r sturbon. Choose one |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by Okijajuju1(m): 4:33pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
Why isn't the poll visible to none voters (MEN)?! I am not submissive but rather understanding and love a woman with the balls of a man. A woman who would to an outsider look like she runs the show, until when I say "Bitc'h, back the Bleep up". . . I just love strong women, women who aint afraid to have an opinion and let her man know how she feels on a subject matter. A woman who knows shes the second in command/co-captain and acts like one. I'm a man who knows the size of my nuts and isnt intimidated by a woman who can stand up to me (in private). I really do hate subservient women with a passion. I have no confidence in them. IMO, they are only good for fuc'king with a condom on. |
| Re: Ladies, Would You Date/marry A Submissive Man? by tithe(m): 4:33pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
@Poster, you are looking for a man you will use remote control on abi, If you want such i will advice u go to akwa ibom or calabar there u will see a submitted submissive man. |
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