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Poll: Can you go down on your knees to beg him not to leave you?Absolutely not! Am not that desperate.: 24% (34 votes)Yes, if I truly adore him.: 44% (61 votes) No, but one can never tell: 21% (29 votes) never thought about it.: 9% (13 votes) This poll has ended Poll: Can you go down on your knees to beg him not to leave you?Absolutely not! Am not that desperate.: 17% (15 votes)Yes, if I truly adore him.: 40% (35 votes) No, but one can never tell: 16% (14 votes) Never thought about it.: 25% (22 votes) This poll has ended |
Guys, What Do Girls Do That Make Your Knees Weak? / Ladies, Can You Go On Your Knees Before Your Man To Apologise? / Should A Guy Beg A Girl On His Knees If He Offend Her? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Mar 21, 2012 |
dabrake: @Good Girl, I had to check if you were the originator of this thread. I do not get it. Are you seeking our opinions or you are just trying to defend why it is wrong for a woman to kneel down to beg her bf/hubby? Yes Dabrake, I am the original OP and I created this thread stating my stand on the issue. In other words I already have my opinion concerning the whole thing. Good Girl: Hi all!As you can see, I've already stated that I find it a distasteful habit. dabrake:Actually Dabrake, I just had to bring it on the forum because I've raised this issue before in some other thread, but a forumite sternly warned me against believing everything I watch on TV and denied the commonality of such a "vice" in Nigeria. However, after seeing the same thing over and over again in the Nollywood movies, I started to believe that going down on one's knees to plead with a man who wants to call it quits is an accepted phenomenon in Nigeria. For the men on here who say that they can go down on their knees to beg their ladies, you've just revealed a new thing to me because surprisingly, I don't get to see that side of Nigerian men in your movies. That aside, since I didn't want to place myself in a position where somebody else would tell me not to believe everything I watch on TV, I decided to pose questions to the very same people living in that society. . . . Good Girl: So far, few have directly given me answers to the 3 questions, but many more have raised their opinions concerning the matter which is fine because opinions/reactions reveal a lot anyway. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by dabrake(m): 1:48pm On Mar 21, 2012 |
Alright. Like I posted earlier, it's no big deal. I can also do same. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Nayah(f): 2:01pm On Mar 21, 2012 |
ifihearam: @nayah and good girl Well brother logically she should'nt have to put in such a position if the guy really loves her sorry |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by slimyem: 3:00pm On Mar 21, 2012 |
Good Girl:you are welcome. At least someone gets the point! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by MrsChima(f): 5:53am On Mar 22, 2012 |
Okay it is official! Scraped knees is imperative in keeping your man! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by lastpage: 7:01am On Mar 22, 2012 |
@Goodgirl: I have said inter-alia that "there is nothing that kneeling and begging will achieve, if the guy has made up his mind to call it quits". abi u no dey read persin contribution before you begin yarn? Having said that, even at times, my Mum use to say to me back then, "Call a Mad-man, the "Groom" ("oko-Iyawo", so he would allow you have peace of mind" She also use to say "it would cost you nothing to call "the Cow", "a Brother", if you're desperate for its meat"! Finally, one of her Cliches which stuck to my brain (and my kids will easily reel-it-off as well) is that "You need to drive the Fox away first, before coming back to admonish the chick, for venturing outside". If you're good with proverbs and Cliche (l know it could be a challenge for 21st century pikins, no bile at all ), the summary is that even if you have to kneel and beg anyone, for anything, it is a "transitory position" and takes just a minute to do but at the end, YOU WILL HAVE ACHIEVED YOUR GOAL, whatever it was! The "end", they say, justifies the "means"! "General" Dipo DIYA begged and cried before Abacha, Today, he is ALIVE and kicking, whereas others involved in the phantom coup(no disrespect to them) are dead and buried!. Is Diya still crying and begging right now? Nope! "Your ATTITUDE" they say, will determine "Your ALTITUDE" in life (marriage inclusive!). "Wisdom, they say, cannot be found in the lap of fools" (Book of Proverbs). We need to apply "wisdom", even in dealing with our spouses, especially our egoistic, Nigerian male spouses, like myself! Cheers. Lastpage! BTW: Idowuogbo, l've always respected your positions on marital issues (and moral issues in general), you are very matured in "thoughts", l would say. Why u dey call me Pastor sef? Mind ya sef o or you wan make l start church for Olodi-Apapa area? Okay, l see, na yabbis you dey yab me abi? |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by queensmith: 12:52am On Mar 27, 2012 |
Sagamite:Fagamite quit trying to hog all my attention ,i have told you to go and visit the nearest crack dealer for further solutions to your many many problems. I also hear manor park is a good spot for some serious rough housing. You can let the hobos play with your backside. I cannot help your case. I sympathise with you sha, its not easy being gay with soo many beautiful smart women around. Kpele. Try your best to stop being such a nuiscance sha, we cannot tolerate your iranu any longer! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Tintino(m): 7:03pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
4teelaw: Tufiakwa! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by MrsChima(f): 1:40am On Apr 26, 2012 |
I wish a mofo would ask me to beg for a dick to stay. Shidddddd! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Nayah(f): 8:29am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Mrs CHIMA I need your help please tell me when you're here... |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by LaParisienne(f): 8:39am On Apr 26, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima:Dayum |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by scribble: 10:07am On Apr 26, 2012 |
I have gone on my knees to beg d woman I love cause I was grossly at fault. I aint to proud to beg. All d women here forming, get on their knees for other worthwhile reasons. So I see not why they r protesting. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:16am On Apr 26, 2012 |
scribble: I have gone on my knees to beg d woman I love cause I was grossly at fault. I aint to proud to beg.U dey mind dem! Dier begging go pass Oliver twist own sef. Liars!!! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Hoyeenz(f): 11:58am On Apr 26, 2012 |
God 4bid! Y wl I do dt? |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Killz3(m): 12:01pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Hoyeenz: God 4bid! Y wl I do dt?Even you? |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Idowuogbo(f): 12:18pm On Apr 26, 2012 |
Hoyeenz: God 4bid! Y wl I do dt?Wetin do u? Mrs pride abi na proud de ni, stop including God wen u doing d opposite of wot he laid down.Women are meant to b submissive, but in ur case u wan form warrior abi? Hmmmmm..... If God vex slap u, na ur fault o! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Hoyeenz(f): 5:36pm On May 04, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:how wl he do dt? If hez my husband , I cn bt my bf? No, cz it means hez nt meant 4me. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by victorian(f): 7:00pm On May 04, 2012 |
Heaven FORBID! .... hell no!!!!!. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by MrsChima(f): 7:12pm On May 04, 2012 |
Nayah: Mrs CHIMA I need your help please tell me when you're here... I am here. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by MrsChima(f): 7:13pm On May 04, 2012 |
Some of you dumb biatches are still begging a man to stay with you? |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Hoyeenz(f): 7:22pm On May 04, 2012 |
~Killz~:wat z even me? |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by cowgurl: 8:57pm On May 04, 2012 |
@Topic, NOT EVEN IN MY DREAMS. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Killz3(m): 8:59pm On May 04, 2012 |
cowgurl: @Topic, NOT EVEN IN MY DREAMS.o_O |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by cowgurl: 10:16pm On May 04, 2012 |
~Killz~:Damn! R dos ur 2 eyes poppin? One of 'em is bigger. Yes, I CAN'T do dat sh[b]i[/b]t n I hate it wen a guy does dat as well cept e wants 2 propose. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Nobody: 10:30pm On May 04, 2012 |
cowgurl: Damn! R dos ur 2 eyes poppin? One of 'em is bigger. Yes, I CAN'T do dat sh[b]i[/b]t n I hate it wen a guy does dat as well cept e wants 2 propose. On your knees wench! BEG for my forgiveness!! [img]http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRcmNSPJ6O36a_2nkl1N3ocpoujoOsrxMm9tOpk46_p0jmFj347s6p2TGtg[/img] |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by cowgurl: 11:00pm On May 04, 2012 |
2buff:Different strokes 4 different folks mister, so quit it! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by cowgurl: 7:50pm On May 05, 2012 |
Now see who 'v got on his knees beggin 4 my forgiveness mak sure der is no recurrence of dis buff buff, u can now rise. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Nobody: 9:07pm On May 05, 2012 |
slimyem: never begged anyone on my knees and i dont think i will EVER! |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Nobody: 11:35pm On May 05, 2012 |
mikron: @ op na lie. Na u want to do the begging. You are just trying to get our views if the larger society frowns down on such behaviour before going ahead to do the begging ministry. Halleluyah. Dear girl you can go ahead and beg if you are @ fault.You don't have to contribute to the topic if you have nothing to say. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by Nobody: 11:51pm On May 05, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima:They've got no choice. They become "outcasts" when unmarried. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by MrsChima(f): 12:04am On May 06, 2012 |
Good Girl: Hmm. |
Re: Can You Go Down On Your Knees To Beg A Man Not To Leave? by solomon111(m): 1:32am On May 06, 2012 |
Mrs.Chima:And what is wrong in begging a man you love to stay with you,when it could also be the man doing the begging, or are you just trying to enforce on us your strange, unafrican(or should i say western) marital ideologies which i have seen in a lot of your posts,which without a shadow of doubt has been largely responsible for the staggering rate of divorce and all kinds of marital dysfunctionalities, from where you come from. This is africa,and we have our culture,our traditions,and it has been working for us for generations. I really pity any delusional african woman here, who takes your ideologies, hook,line and sinker. |
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