tochimas: [color=#990000][/color]. I have begged a guy before bt a wrong done by me. I will never beg a guy not to leave, it is a waste of time. Two guys has begged me, one even nelt down,bt it didnt even change my mind cos my mind was made up. My opinion is tnever beg a man that want to leave .

Pakavy: dat was a honest one said out of xperience.was on d same boat too but a different deck.

Idowuogbo:
My name is ndidi 2, no wonder we think alike.Abeg nne make sure u are nakeddd wen u are begging oo, dem no born am d next thing u go hia na honey all is well get up.

~Killz~:

Are you really a yoruba girl or are you a "remixed" version of a yoruba girl? Yoruba girls know the koko, pls stop falling their hand. . .

What if he wants to stay? Would you beg him or not? Pls answer. . .

queensmith: I have way too much pride. Before he opens the door i will have already calculated his replacement.
They say there is plenty of fish in the sea!

Idowuogbo:

She's a pako gal forming Angelina Jolie, as she dey sef, trust me na "Buda mi Buda mi" she go tell call u if una eye to eye.

Nansense!! Who she dey form righteous 4?

Boneypako ka jun mbe mehnnnn, amo bo she lo, iwo bawo.

sexlog:
see the kin word wey dey come out from your mouth.

Sugardiva: Kneeling is not a proof of sincerity. I had a bf who knelt to beg for my 4giveness at evry given opportunity whether in public or private but guess what? As soon as i 4gave him he went right back to do the same thing again!
I can sincerely apologise but not kneel.

Like every other thing, kneeling is abused. . . Doesn't change what it stands for.

slimyem: iwo ntie,o mo pe oo ni sense!
Oo de mo natin!
Ya segbe kan,koo maa fagbo e lo.ode!

Honeycity: yes i can go on all fours to beg my man not to leave even if it was his fault and he feels he does not deserve me

Sugardiva: Kneeling is not a proof of sincerity. I had a bf who knelt to beg for my 4giveness at evry given opportunity whether in public or private but guess what? As soon as i 4gave him he went right back to do the same thing again!
I can sincerely apologise but not kneel.

freecocoa: Most of you are even getting it wrong.

The OP didn't ask if we would beg or apologize to our man when\if we wrong him.

The question says"can you go down on your knees to beg a man not to leave?"

Nobody is even considering the fact that the man may be at fault and still want to leave maybe cos he's fallen out of love with the lady or he's just tired of her,you people should leave all the long talk and address the issue the way it is.

Miss EZ:

FreeCocoa, God bless you. Even me sef i goofed. Was just reading the topic again and mesef i come see say i just de talk kneeling down and apologizing if i am wrong, i no come address the begging of the man to leave.

To finally answer this question. The answer is No. If he wants to stay, he will accept my apology before it gets to the point of him threatening to leave especially if i have mended my ways. If he wants to leave, let him go. Na him know wetin him de find. The grass isnt always greener on the other side. I dont know about others, but it is a hassle keeping someone who doesnt want to be kept. Plus me i know say i be correct chick, i am not perfect but i try.

freecocoa: Bless you too my sister.

I just wonder why any sane lady would go through the stress of begging a man who has made up his mind to leave,he may stay after you've crawled,rolled,knelt and begged but hey he'd keep threatening to leave at the slightest provocation till he finally leaves.

hadg33:

lol...u be mumu

~Killz~:

Helloooooooo. . . Leaving doesn't always mean leaving the relationship or does it? It may be a serious quarrel, thoughtless use of words on the man etc. Once she realizes he error, she tries to make peace with the man. Most times, going down on the knees is a sign that she is truly sorry. . .
Lemme tell you. Kneeling is part of the Nigerian culture to appease someone, not just a man. I've seen an elderly man go down on his knees begging a young chap after he damaged his car. Kneeling is the final resort. It depends on the gravity of the offence committed! Did you not see men on this thread saying they'll kneel and beg the woman they love, just to show her how sorry they are? Does it make them less man?
A wife doesn't need to beg him if she is not at fault, but then, what if she is at fault and is trying to save her relationship? You'll ask her not to beg her man the way she deems fit? Like seriously? That you won't get down on your knees doesn't mean the other woman wouldn't. Kneeling may just be the last ingredient to melt a mans heart. Begging him and kneeling is not a guarantee for him to stay. but then, would you not rather exhaust all your resources to make him change his mind, if you "really" love him? It's NOT a must to kneel, but you choose to do so to show how sorry you are. At least you tried. And even when he leaves, he could have a change of heart and come back. I'm yet to see anyone that has dropped dead as a result of saying "I am sorry" in the language the man understands. Kneeling is a way of saying "I am sorry" when it comes to that extent. I wont ask any woman not to use it to try making her man stay. Hell, i've seen grown men knee walking, not minding the bruises, trying to beg the woman they love. Cultures are different. This is Nigerian Culture we talking about. . .

freecocoa: Most of you are even getting it wrong.

The OP didn't ask if we would beg or apologize to our man when\if we wrong him.

The question says"can you go down on your knees to beg a man not to leave?"

Nobody is even considering the fact that the man may be at fault and still want to leave maybe cos he's fallen out of love with the lady or he's just tired of her,you people should leave all the long talk and address the issue the way it is.

freecocoa: ^^Hopefully you won't have to wait for too long.

Mrs.Chima:


Nigerian culture shout once was good enough. I heard you the first time, however many of your Nigerian brothers and sisters DISAGREE with you. You guys may want to have a country meeting to iron out some miscommunication or confusion perhaps.

I have asked two direct questions and YET to get my answers.

Idowuogbo:

Iyawochima, list ur questions again.

I am here to help.