Killz.:

Gbogbo won ni. . . I work part time with the three both of them ke. . .

~Bluetooth:


Nigerians and their hypocrisy. . . .be sincere to yourself,can you marry a 34 years old woman ?

~Bluetooth:


Dont mind them hypocrite. . . . .they want the OP to end up like them.what is wrong in being in a serious relationship at OP age ? But who would blame them when most of them are in their late 30s and still searching.

tttn726: Very interesting post.

Listen...i,m at work now (in London) can't stay on for long so here goes

Would love to "subscribe" and or "friend" you on Facebook. Why? You're yoruba (decent Yoruba pals (girls)are scarce in this city-London - for me atleast) and you sound interesting (like one can hold a discussion with you)

Can I say...I don't see you as desperate or anything. I am also not rushing in to say I want or anything else.

I created a temporary mail here - mail your FB or Googleplus addy (eterpetee@hotmail.co.uk)

dubem3:

only you na examiner, referee, mediator... make ur mind dey oh... The children of Israel can de vex sometimes oh!

Daovris: I honestly feel your pain and understand the environment you are very well. It is not as you stated that guys in London are immature, it is just that most of them have one issue or the other that may influence largely any decision they make, especially when it comes to settling down with a woman. I also think that some ladies do not help matter as well. [img]http://www.dubaa.info/g.gif[/img]

KarmenK: I'm about finishing a degree this year. Ive only dated two guys one of two years and the other I ended last night after 4 months.
Both who are in there 30's were just wasting my time with no goal or plans for the future.
Their own concern or goal was to make money and wear the latest garms ( clothes).
I find guys in London are immature too much on a hype. The I dated for 2 years ( a ghanian ) told me he wanted to settle down at 40.( I mean come on)
All my mates are married with kids or have a kid and on to their second. I can't even mingle with these girls to say I'm scouting for potential bf

I dnt have a problem getting a guys it's keeping then long enough to like me more then my physical shape. I thought by now I would be in a serious relationship, pregnant or planning a wedding.
I'm I rushing it. My Nigerian name is Okemute = there's a time for everything. I know Patience is a Virtue. But I'm to damn inpatient my attitude is if I want something I'm must have.
I feel at 25 as a female I'm too old. Im also the eldest in my family I dnt to be 30 and single still with no kids let alone no husband. I've even considered moving to Nigeria in search of a bf potential husband.


So NL is Gods Time the Best shall I learn to be more patience. My mum keeps telling.
Or shall I get on the case and do fast.

segunjowo: Poster: Drop me a mail thru maxrussells@yahoo.com. I am a system analyst, based in lagos. We can work things out and get married ASAP.

luckgames:

Ok lot of BS above, some good information too
If people get marry their standard of living might go up some time
Don't buy or wear all expensive brands in the world, catch all good cloths on sales
Save, save , save, save, save lot of money
My wife bought a car put lot of money down and paid off the car within a year (Car of about $55K)
Go see the world
we just started doing trips ( two trips every year)
We both on good finance standing because we saved

Precious15:
An excerpt:

Most women say they want to be a wife. Now the question is...Do you really want to be a wife?...Do you really want to love a Man through all phases...the immature stage, the scared stage, the stage knowing there's no going back, then finally the Man stage where he has come to grips with the oath he took....richer for poorer, better for worse, sickness and in health till death do you part...For some that journey takes awhile for some not so long..are you still willing to be a wife..(unconditional love)..Men have needs also..notice I said MEN....They crave attention at the right times, affection(come here and lay ya head on my chest, rub me down baby)..I mean it is not a hard thing to do...Do you still want to be a wife....ME time replaced by WE time(you still get your occasional girls night out(but no man wants a club hopping bar sitting posting pictures sideways type of wife)...Don't take this the wrong way ladies(do you still want to be a wife)...Unconditional love constitutes...a continual love through all your feminine hormonal changes, your up's and downs, your attitude adjustments, your feeling of wanting attention when He has already given it, your desires to do as your single friends still do...Do you still want to be a wife...Those days when you don't want to have sex and he does..do you?...Do you still want to be a wife..Understanding that He as in your Husband has emotions, feelings, pride and many of the same attributes and desires you want as a wife...RESPECT AND LOVE....will you be willing to put aside your I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T ways to follow a good mans lead..again ask yourself..Do you really want to be a wife?..Unconditionally....r​emember you still have to be a mother also.

luckgames:

Ok lot of BS above, some good information too
If people get marry their standard of living might go up some time
Don't buy or wear all expensive brands in the world, catch all good cloths on sales
Save, save , save, save, save lot of money
My wife bought a car put lot of money down and paid off the car within a year (Car of about $55K)
Go see the world
we just started doing trips ( two trips every year)
We both on good finance standing because we saved

chineloSA:


Just as much I would say your opinion is BS as well.?
I did not say that Poster must not save, its very imperative. I just highlighted possible things that she needs to consider doing before she settles and before babies come and be an inconvinience.

Yes standard of living can improve after marrige and can also regress, since you have to buy a house, kids school fees, saving for their University fees, saving for their first cars etc. So, improvement is not guaranteed, since God also choose a husband for one ( rich, average or poor ) .

Travelling the world does not need to wait for a husband, she can do it while single. If yours had to wait for a wife, sooory, that was your misfortune.

Thanks for revealing details of your sorry life, who cares, not that interesting. Good for your wife.

One thing I learnt in life is that, Tomorrow is not guaranteed. While you still young, enjoy and be merry.

KarmenK: I'm about finishing a degree this year. Ive only dated two guys one of two years and the other I ended last night after 4 months.
Both who are in there 30's were just wasting my time with no goal or plans for the future.
Their own concern or goal was to make money and wear the latest garms ( clothes).
I find guys in London are immature too much on a hype. The I dated for 2 years ( a ghanian ) told me he wanted to settle down at 40.( I mean come on)
All my mates are married with kids or have a kid and on to their second. I can't even mingle with these girls to say I'm scouting for potential bf

I dnt have a problem getting a guys it's keeping then long enough to like me more then my physical shape. I thought by now I would be in a serious relationship, pregnant or planning a wedding.
I'm I rushing it. My Nigerian name is Okemute = there's a time for everything. I know Patience is a Virtue. But I'm to damn inpatient my attitude is if I want something I'm must have.
I feel at 25 as a female I'm too old. Im also the eldest in my family I dnt to be 30 and single still with no kids let alone no husband. I've even considered moving to Nigeria in search of a bf potential husband.


So NL is Gods Time the Best shall I learn to be more patience. My mum keeps telling.
Or shall I get on the case and do fast.

Konnektions146: Sometimes I wonder how people talk, is it better to get married and be unhappy than to get married and stay married? At 25, diss girl is talkin so desperately like dis. I bet OP is so naive that she doesn't know how guys behave, yu will end up sad and frustrated if yu don't sllow down.
I ve once asked in dis forum y people get married and I can sense OP certainly don't even know why she should be gettin married-refuse growin up and wen u get married u dastand marriage are not for kids like u.

I hear someone say his mother got married at 23, yes!, just like my own mother but in this century 21, how many 23 year old think like an adult? Except chewing gum and carryin blackberry, maturity in de real sense is needed in dis marriage biz.
For someone like me, if u show dis kinda desperation to me as a boyfriend, yu become an EX sharp sharp.
OP , dd u say u get whatever u want?? Den marry yourself!
Grrow up and know dere is more to marriage dan producing kids.


Be wise if u wish!

luckgames:

We can agree to disagree on issues
Don't be FKing disrespectful Fucker