Emylexray:
she thinks marriage is for kindergateens, people like her don't last in marriage.

chineloSA:


What nau What was disrespectful in my response. You indicated that what I said is BS, and I said as much as I may view your opinion likewise.

Such vulgarityI pity your imaginary wife?

Pricelesss: Am over 28yrs Old, and i feel so good and happy with my life, don't care wotever any1 says about me. and i don't feel pushed or intimidated by anything.

cindyrella: 25 and desperate to get married seriously??

Pricelesss: Am over 28yrs Old, and i feel so good and happy with my life, don't care wotever any1 says about me. and i don't feel pushed or intimidated by anything.

pauloman: @op...it is good to have such goal to get married at 25 as u are wishing. The blunt truth is that a good number of gals reason this way which is good. But the irony of it all is that 90% of such girls are not even prepared for what they are wishing for. They probably might be physically,but mentally,emotionally,spiritually and financially they are never there. I met a girl last year and she was so crazy about getting married to me which i didnt mind doing because she was what i wanted too. But on venturing into a relationship with this girl,i realised how inept she is for that institution called marriage. You can imagine a girl that told me she was ready for marriage still wanting to club,flirting about with different men,still dresses like she wants to hunt any man that comes her way down...just to mention a few. The truth is a good man has a natural radar to spot a girl that has good virtues and is marriagable. So i my take is if you are one of them good girls from your tender age a good man would have spotted your and asked for your hand in marriage. Your words gave you away that you are so naive about the instituition you so crave to go into. You obviously do not have a mind of your own when you compare your frends that are married to yourself. To tell you the truth you really need to work on yourself before you enter into marriage because my take is you
would be a liability to a man that would want to take you as a spouse now. As such i pity all the guys sending their email addys on here because they read your post. Bewarned ! They would treat you like the other guys because i believe you have issues you need to work on as a person and one of such is your desperation. I wish you all the best though. Cheers !

Nonso Chris: Girl can you hook up with me through my email? let's talk.(chris4christ24@yahoo.co.uk) i'll be looking forward to hear from you.

KarmenK: I'm about finishing a degree this year. Ive only dated two guys one of two years and the other I ended last night after 4 months.
Both who are in there 30's were just wasting my time with no goal or plans for the future.
Their own concern or goal was to make money and wear the latest garms ( clothes).
I find guys in London are immature too much on a hype. The I dated for 2 years ( a ghanian ) told me he wanted to settle down at 40.( I mean come on)
All my mates are married with kids or have a kid and on to their second. I can't even mingle with these girls to say I'm scouting for potential bf

I dnt have a problem getting a guys it's keeping then long enough to like me more then my physical shape. I thought by now I would be in a serious relationship, pregnant or planning a wedding.
I'm I rushing it. My Nigerian name is Okemute = there's a time for everything. I know Patience is a Virtue. But I'm to damn inpatient my attitude is if I want something I'm must have.
I feel at 25 as a female I'm too old. Im also the eldest in my family I dnt to be 30 and single still with no kids let alone no husband. I've even considered moving to Nigeria in search of a bf potential husband.


So NL is Gods Time the Best shall I learn to be more patience. My mum keeps telling.
Or shall I get on the case and do fast.

rokiatu: Is marriage the only pathway to happiness? Just asking.