bennyraz: and i know you would turn it the other way round Mind you, i'm not in any form of competition that would warrant defeat. We Nigerians, we fail to tell ourselves the truth. You see the truth for once, you say it. Even if he's not married to her yet, he has every right to yab and embarass his friend not his girl-friend. And as time goes on, the poster has to figure out if his Gf is totally committed to him or not? by bringing up this issue. Charity begins at home. Relationship i believe is the dress rehearsal of marriage. If one partner is not being open in a relationship, the marriage cannot work. Every marriage needs a solid foundation. @OP prepare for the worst. [b]If your GF dumps you over invasion of her privacy, know that she's a cheap s.lut. [/b]Don't bother over spilt milk. Next time you would know who to make friends with and who not to. I humbly rest my case

Smh. So, the marriage will not work because his friend wooed her? What are you blabbing about? He has every right to yab and embarrass his friend? WTF? So a solid foundation to you is reacting like a mad man to the slightest provocation? What if 10 different guys woo her on facebook? Guys you've never met from Adam, you mean you'll track them all and embarrass them, making a fool outta yourself in the process? So much for "Intelligence"

So invasion of your girlfriend's privacy is the new cool, and she is a sl[i]u[/i]t if she opposes that move? So many smokers on here. . .

kunletiwoo: A close friend of mine is wooing my girl friend via Facebook, though he never knew i had access to my girl friend's Facebook account, and the last thing my babe would ever imagine is me logging into her account cos I've never done that before.

On Wednesday I logged onto her account, cos i was less busy in the office, after i had logged on what I saw was my friend's mails telling my babe sweet words, though my babe is yet to give positive answer to all his messages...

Now the both of them are not aware of this, cos I didn't disclose it and my babe is not telling me anything.

Tell me what do you think i can do about this? should i keep reading the mails they are both exchanging or should I burst it all out?? and even if am to talk, whom should I confront? my babe? or my friend?

I'm kinda confuse need your advice pals.

Regards

kunletiwoo: A close friend of mine is wooing my girl friend via Facebook, though he never knew i had access to my girl friend's Facebook account, and the last thing my babe would ever imagine is me logging into her account cos I've never done that before.

On Wednesday I logged onto her account, cos i was less busy in the office, after i had logged on what I saw was my friend's mails telling my babe sweet words, though my babe is yet to give positive answer to all his messages...

Now the both of them are not aware of this, cos I didn't disclose it and my babe is not telling me anything.

Tell me what do you think i can do about this? should i keep reading the mails they are both exchanging or should I burst it all out?? and even if am to talk, whom should I confront? my babe? or my friend?

I'm kinda confuse need your advice pals.

Regards

Killz.:

Smh. So, the marriage will not work because his friend wooed her? What are you blabbing about? He has every right to yab and embarrass his friend? WTF? So a solid foundation to you is reacting like a mad man to the slightest provocation? What if 10 different guys woo her on facebook? Guys you've never met from Adam, you mean you'll track them all and embarrass them, making a fool outta yourself in the process? So much for "Intelligence"

So invasion of your girlfriend's privacy is the new cool, and she is a sl[i]u[/i]t if she opposes that move? So many smokers on here. . .

bennyraz: @OP. Print out the messages & call your friend & disgrace him amongst your group of friends or even disgrace him openly on facebook. When you print out the messages, scan and jpeg it and post it as a picture. Tag him to it. He's not a friend. He's your enemy & a backstabber. Embarrass him, soil his name. Nonsense.

mykejones: Talkin from experience,i tink the op is loosing the girl already. She could have desuaded his friend frm sending those messages,and from wat the Op said,she didn't. Rather,she encourages it by replying him.
I followed d 'patience' virtue killz is presently preachin durin my time. I knew wat was happening,but kept mute,hopin tins would sort itself out one way or the other. I got the shocker for it.
Op..confront them; ur friend prefearably. Wateva comes out of it,fine! U move on. Simple.

kunletiwoo: Latest update!


Though I've refused to confront anyone of them, as I keep reading their conversations...

From one of the mails my babe replied, she said she's "Scared of saying 'YES'". Hmmmm! what does that implies?

and you guys think I should talk?

However, i would advice you to allow everything to just play out.

Rogerss: Heartbreak comes when someone is trying so hard to keep something away from you and you are trying so hard to discover it! Since u have seen it, Just be patient and see how it goes. If he is your best friend, she probably dont no how to tell u. if he's not, then if he has enough GAME, u no the rest.

kunletiwoo: @Idowu, thanks for your comment I really appreciate.

Killz.:

Patience. . .