Despicable-VII:
Religion and Culture do not choose the people...

People choose the Religion and Culture...

And the Last 2 Points We agree on.

Shollypopz:
the men were the decision makers; they chose [b]we followed.[/b]We can't blame the Religion and Culture but we can blame men!
lol, i can blame men?! then, i totally agree!

yinkaGreen: A proud feminist I am! Undisputed. It has its pros and cons.
Buh ah well, people dat'd lyk u, will eventually lyk u and people dat ll hate u... Hmmn dey just keep on hating. So, if u lyk feminists, yaay! If u don't, teehee ; maybe in another lyf yh? Life is too short to be hauling abusive words on sum1else.

yinkaGreen: Teehee I typed 2 paragraphs and decided to delete it... I type jargons a lot doe.
Buh in all honesty, lyk I said sum pipl misJudge feminists and think we r arrogant people and all dat. Personality has to do with an individual. So if u meet an arrogant feminist, know she chose to be 'arrogant' on her own. I personally choose to me free, childish-a-bit, open-minded, but a strong feminist who believes in gender equality, equal respect for n from every human being regardless of gender. (Hmmmn... I just typed jargons again.. *sigh* will I ever learn?)

shymmex:

You still haven't defined feminism.. And gender equality is subjective depending on the aspects of life you think all genders should be equal.

It's a known fact that there are things men can do that women will never be able to do in this lifetime, and vice versa.. So, what type of gender equality are you talking about? Or are you one of those insane women who singing hallelujah noise about feminism but don't know what the heck they're chatting about..

Define what your opinion on feminism is - and we will take it from there.

cowgurl: She laughs in feminism. Believe me you, 'l be glad being a feminist than to be stuck with some chauvinistic arsehole. @Shollypopz, I applaud u gurl. @Topic. Cause unlike our fathers, majority of our guys are born arseholes.

cowgurl: She laughs in feminism. Believe me you, 'l be glad being a feminist than to be stuck with some chauvinistic arsehole. @Shollypopz, I applaud u gurl. @Topic. Cause unlike our fathers, majority of our guys are born arseholes.

shymmex:

That's a retar/ded statement.. Most naija girls are worse arseholes than the guys.. I don't like bashing naija girls - but truth be told, you're one of the most undesirable females out there.. Most of you are stuck up and needy.. That's the TRUTH!!

Shollypopz:
i beg to differ......

cowgurl: Oh please! Spare me that crap Shymmex. And about most ladies being worst arseholes than guys, why won't they be? She laughs @ being stuck up n needy, why do you care mister? Is it ur cross to carry? And I still repeat, 'l rather be called a feminist than to be stuck with a chauvinistic arsehole and since you've identified yourself as one of 'em arseholes, I ain't gat tym for your kind. #word#

shymmex:

I don't know where you live, but where I live - naija girls don't really make the cut.. Everyone knows most naija girls are stuck up and needy - and they definitely don't offer the best in terms of looks.. Naija girls can't really compete with most other African girls in terms of looks.. I'll give it to them, when it comes to being classy, though..

It's just the cultural thing that makes people like me attracted to naija girls - without that, I don't even think naija girls would be on my list, to be honest.

cowgurl:

Totoplayer20:

May be you are ashawo
so you can't appreciate a good man

Shollypopz:
your comment is too opinionated for me, you give me no basis to argue on. i can't oppose your conception, but i can tell you my opinion. Naija girls might not be the best but we are one of the best in looks, fact! as you said, it might just be naija girls around you that are stuck-up and needy.

shymmex:
feminism is about independent women + mutual respect,

cowgurl: I digged that.

shymmex:

My comment is not opinionated - it's the general belief in London.. And London has the highest number of diaspora Nigerians per city - in the world, the last time I checked.

Naija girls being one of the best in looks is laughable.. But I won't like to argue that - because looks is subjective, and the definition varies from one person to the other...

You don't need a soothsayer to tell you naija girls are stuck up and needy, it's a universal belief.. I used to think it was a London thing, but NL has shown it's the same everywhere...

PS, I don't like bashing naija girls - but cowgurl made me do it.


Can someone please explain feminism to me??

shymmex:

My comment is not opinionated - it's the general belief in London.. And London has the highest number of diaspora Nigerians per city - in the world, the last time I checked.

Naija girls being one of the best in looks is laughable.. But I won't like to argue that - because looks is subjective, and the definition varies from one person to the other...

You don't need a soothsayer to tell you naija girls are stuck up and needy, it's a universal belief.. I used to think it was a London thing, but NL has shown it's the same everywhere...

PS, I don't like bashing naija girls - but cowgurl made me do it.


Can someone please explain feminism to me??

Shollypopz:
it was once a universal belief that the sun orbits around the earth, but we later found it false. the fact that a particular knowledge is a universal belief in your location doesn't make it true.
With that being said, i would answer your question. The belief and aim that women should have the same rights and opportunities as men in political, economic and social disciplines; the struggle to achieve this is known as feminism.

shymmex:
I hear that.
You dig it, but do you exhibit it - or just practice your own pseudo-feminism like most girls do?

I see girls say they're feminist, yet still needy.. A feminist should never be needy because she got her own..

yinkaGreen:
But y u post to me? *sadface* I dint ask to knw what feminism was.. Shymmmy did.