190: Most Nigerian girls even offer FAKE PUNNY as well

MRbrownJAY:

what has that got to do with the subject at hand?! who is even talking of gifts here?! LOL!
btw: if you do not want to be with someone then do whats right and return his gifts. in Nigeria, gifts are down payments for the exclusive use of your body. if your bf gave you gifts then your body, and everything connected/affiliated to it, is his....unless you also gave gifts (which we know you didnt). lol!

MRbrownJAY:

what has that got to do with the subject at hand?! who is even talking of gifts here?! LOL!
btw: if you do not want to be with someone then do whats right and return his gifts. in Nigeria, gifts are down payments for the exclusive use of your body. if your bf gave you gifts then your body, and everything connected/affiliated to it, is his....unless you also gave gifts (which we know you didnt). lol!

MRbrownJAY:

someone truthful, someone REAL, a person that doesnt need accessories/lies to define his being. someone HONEST, someone who has no problem being HIMSELF.

that is MY definition of a real man!

~Killz~:

So, a woman who is all of the above and has no problem being herself, but needs accessories, not because she's lying, but because she chooses to, is considered Fake?

MRbrownJAY:

bro, how can you be truthful when CONSTANTLY wearing accessories that makes you look different? (the important word here is CONSTANTLY).
how can anyone have no problem being themselves, YET, wear wigs and what not, on a daily basis?! i dont understand what you wrote.

if you wear a disguise every day (that conceal your true self) then you cannot be considered REAL....thats a damn contradiction.lol!

MRbrownJAY: bro, how can you be truthful when CONSTANTLY wearing accessories that makes you look different? (the important word here is CONSTANTLY).
how can anyone have no problem being themselves, YET, wear wigs and what not, on a daily basis?! i dont understand what you wrote.

if you wear a disguise every day (that conceal your true self) then you cannot be considered REAL....thats a damn contradiction.lol!

~Killz~:

Answer my question pls. Then, answer this: Is my true self reflected by my wig?

ogugua88:

Don't clothes and glasses change one's appearance constantly?

Mrs.Chima:
If the women who wears make up and weave are insecure then what does that make the men that are chasing them?

MRbrownJAY: it makes them blinded by the smoke screen looks, maybe?!

@Killz
we are all different and therefore we cannot see eye to eye on every issues....but at least, we can all put our views on the table.
and my views are that: if someone needs to hide under some wig and what not 24/7 then there is something really wrong with that woman and how she sees and feels about her TRUE/REAL SELF.

now remember, i am not saying that it is wrong to wear any of the accessories we mentioned, i am just saying that if there is a need to wear them MORE OFTEN THAN BEING AU NATUREL, then there is a serious issue at hand.

i mean, think about it for a minute.......... some of these women are going BALD because of rocking weaves, and yet, they have no intention of stopping. their hair have never seen the sun and is not in contact with air, what do you expect?!

~Killz~:
MBJ, for the first time, you make no sense. . .

MRbrownJAY: @Ogugua
does it pain you that what i wrote made sense?! why would i not answer question that people ask me?! thats would be rude. lol!

@Slimyem
if thats how you feel therefore you shouldnt be here then.

ogugua88:

To know what it feels like. As a male, you live a world of less judgment and less peer pressure. No one cares about your eyebrows, eyelashes, butt, brown fingernails, or much else that's exterior. Men judge women constantly, primarily on their physical appearances before what's inside. If you want to blame anyone for some women constantly searching for a new way to look attractive, blame your brothers. It's easy to point at women and call them weak for succumbing to pressures, but there isn't much you can do when a woman's outer appearance can determine the kind of man she'll attract, the kind of job she'll obtain, and, in some cases, the amount of money she'll make.

According to your logic, any bra is a misrepresentation. Do you know the function of a brassiere? All bras are for support. "Natural" breasts sag. If that's what you want, then tell your woman not to wear any.

I choose not to wear them because, quite frankly, I'm lazy and would feel very uncomfortable with those things on. What I choose to wear and not to wear works for my person. It may not work for the next.

Why aren't you beefing me about my hair? It's my hair, sure, but it's chemically processed. You, and others, seem to like it however.

~Killz~:
MBJ, for the first time, you make no sense. . .

MRbrownJAY: NL and their funny people, someone is putting their point across on a subject, and here they are trying to shove THEIR beliefs into someone's throat. i am sorry if my words have offended some of you weave wearing, fake accessory wearing ladies out there. my apologies lol!

fortunately, it is only a few men's views and nothing more, so you have nothing to worry about.

Booty4me: MBJ dont waste ur time with dz dude. He can never agree with you i swear.

talina: Not really. What is this real man?

MRbrownJAY: NL and their funny people, someone is putting their point across on a subject, and here they are trying to shove THEIR beliefs into someone's throat. i am sorry if my words have offended some of you weave wearing, fake accessory wearing ladies out there. my apologies lol!

fortunately, it is only a few men's views and nothing more, so you have nothing to worry about.

honeric01: You can't change everyone, but you can actually change someone who wants to change. they just don't like the truth and you can see how "hard" they are trying to beat down the message out of guilt. trying to push the blame back to the men.

HOW WOULD SOMEONE SAY BEING NATURAL MAKES YOU LOOK UNKEMPT? 90% of men are natural, does that make us look unkempt?

ogugua88:

The only one shoving anything is you actually. These "artificial women" are out their minding their own business, and you're judging them based on your values, without knowing why some women do what they do. It's much easier to ignore them and find someone who's beautiful in your eyes. That's one of the wonders of this world. There are 7+ billion inhabitants. The chances of you picking one without artificial hair and nails are pretty good.

I'm not worried. I'm not one of the people OP mentioned. I just don't see why you and honeric are taking panadol for someone else's headache. Whatever floats your boat.

ogugua88:

A lot of men are unkempt and have bad personal habits, especially in Nigeria where there's scorching heat and not enough deodorant to go round. Luckily for you, women tend to care about what's on the inside.

honeric01: You are not getting the picture, in the days of no make up, did men complain about women? in the days of your grannies, were there fake wig and all that? didn't men appreciate real beauty then? the problem now is that all the woowooish girls have now used fake stuffs to lure the naturally beautiful ones into copying them. women keep competing with eachother at the detriment of their own true self. i can speak for myself, as long as i see any fake shitz on you, your value AUTOMATICALLY drops, that's me.

honeric01: THE WOMEN ARE THE ONES PUTTING PRESSURE ON THEMSELVES TRYING TO OUTDO EACHOTHER, NOT THE MEN, PLS BLAME YOUR FELLOW WOMEN FOR MAKING YOU PEOPLE LOSE SIGHT OF YOUR REAL YOU.

honeric01: I know the function of brasseiere, hence the reason i used the word "padded bra" and not bra, we have different kind of bras and padded is really for making a breast look different from what they are in the real world. NOT ALL NATURAL BREAST SAG except the USED ONES. i have seen firm breast without the need for a bra, not to talk of a padded one.

honeric01: It's naturally processed (your hair), but at least it's yours and not like you added attachment, wig and all other shitz like that or did you? if you did, then you are no different from the rest.

honeric01: If a con man is seen conning people all over town and someone tries to bring this act to the notice of the public, does that mean the person is taking panadol for someone else's headache? all these useless liberal live and lets live is actually turning this world upside down. well we can't really help it but then we also can't fold our hands watching when we can actually save a few (started with my girl and i am glad it's not fruitless.)



Alot of men? lol how many do you know that are unkempt? if men are unkempt, then women are 110% unkempt because they actually take care of the fake stuffs they wear most of the time and not the real self. spending hours fixing fake hair on the real hair, hours fixing fake nails on the real nail e.t.c thereby neglecting the real body.. except unkempt in your own dictionary means something else, i really don't know what you are trying to say here.

what is it "inside" that you claim Nigerian women actually take care of?