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firestar:
Ever confessed to her straight-up?
Its up ter you eventually, might as well end for good the heart of the matter playa or no.

I took a first step by telling her I kissed my ex and that didn't end well. So not a good idea

sexkillz: No matter what anyone says to you, you are only going to listen to yourself. . . So, until you tell yourself to stop, you ain't gonna stop. Ask yourself who is in control, you or Mr Dickson. If you are in control, Dickson should learn how to listen to you, but again it will be difficult, cos i think you've allowed dickson to take control for so long. You have been giving him so much allowance. The realistic way to stop this trend, reality 101 is to stop it gradually, just like every other thing in life.

If your car is in motion and you want to come to a stop, do you step on the brakes abruptly? Have you seen a smoker that quits smoking abruptly? Your cheating has become like every other addiction that has to be stopped gradually. If you are used to cheating 10 times a week, reduce it to 8, remind yourself you want to stop, remind Mr dickson you are in charge, and then monitor your progress. Reduce to 7 and then 6 and then. . .

It won't be easy, but a journey of a thousand miles begins at the airport!

You're right bro