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Poll: Can u do it or appreciate it?

Guyz yes: 55% (105 votes)
Girlz yes: 19% (36 votes)
Guyz, hell no: 16% (31 votes)
Girls, hell no: 1% (2 votes)
Guyz nd girlz, not my business: 7% (14 votes)
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Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jun 24, 2012
uihebom: i can cook for her, kaii that will be so romantic,then goodluck to her stomach. hellooooo 95 percent of girls have plan B, incase if john dump her peter will marry her, so for those of you washing your girlfriends G strings goodluck with that.but mind you she is not your wife yet,meaning she is not for you alone.we are talking too much, if my grandmother should hear ,see or even dream of me washing a girl that is not my wife pants she is going to die and i will be held responsible for that.
Hahaha, guys dey para o. Bro please, save your grandma o I donn't think any babe is as important as she. Lol. If it were my place I definitely would in fact I'd prefer it that way cos I'm finicky; I don't want these mmaggi girls to destroy my intestines. Having said that, the only time I would do that at her place is if she's ill or swamped with more important work.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by ayosmiles(m): 6:50pm On Jun 24, 2012
qualified: @op, dont allow all these hypocrites talk down on u. Most of them are kids, js bragging n trying to 'belong'.

There is nothing wrong wit wht u are doing. The truth is, i will forever love any guy takes so much care of me, cos they are hard to find. Girls appreciate such men.
thanks 4 d compliment. I wasn't even conscious i was doin anythin remarkable, it was just fun being around her. She was my first, i lost my virginity 2 her nd sex was good
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by mrluve: 6:55pm On Jun 24, 2012
I use to try to be nice to girls b4 to the extend i see cooking and washing 4 them as love. But, now , i will never try them again cos i ve learned that they respect me now than b4. Beside girls use to tell me they like bad boys
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jun 24, 2012
Tinkybabe: There is absolutely nothing wrong in a man doing those things for his girl.All those saying they would do it for their wives and not gf should spare me..isn't your wife first gonna be a girlfriend? And I'm sure that wasn't the reason the op's gf broke up with him so y'all should stop capitalizing on that.I'm gonna respect a man who can do those things and still maintain his stand as a man.Any man who feels the only way he can prove his masculinity is by being domineering and excessively bossy is nothing but a coward..some guys need to snap out of their ancient mentality.
It might not have been the only factor but it sure played an important role. If you paid attention you'd noticce the brothers talking about being taken for granted and in some cases being outrightly disrespected. Blame your fellow females for taking sensitivity for weakness.

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Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by JANK23H(m): 6:58pm On Jun 24, 2012
paris10: I dated this pretty damsel years ago. We were so much in love, and I would say yes to everything she asked of me; from money and gifts to cooking and all. Her family were so nice to me as well.

One day her mother called her and suggested that we both should start preparing for marriage since we'd dated for years. Do you know the answer this girl gave her mother?..So sad, she told her mum that I was too nice and would not want to marry me because she would take advantage of me. She said she wanted a man that would handle her roughly and challenge her demands. She got what she wanted folks!

A year later, she got pregnant for this dude working in a bank. The guy refused accepting the baby because he had a family somewhere. The guy was begged by the girl's family to at least show up at the naming ceremony, which he did. And that was all. Two years later, she contacted me and admitted her mistakes. I attended her son's birthday and made love to her once more just to say goodbye.

I totally agree with you bruv,most ladies don't appreciate a good guy when they see one.Yet they all say they want somebody who will love and appreciate them.Sometimes i think women are confused.

personally,i can help my women with chores at home,because it comes natural with me;but the moment she starts taking advantage of me,it's over.

She's still single as of today... God forgive me for everything.

Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by otumfour(m): 6:59pm On Jun 24, 2012
e dey be
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jun 24, 2012
Tinkybabe: There is absolutely nothing wrong in a man doing those things for his girl.All those saying they would do it for their wives and not gf should spare me..isn't your wife first gonna be a girlfriend? And I'm sure that wasn't the reason the op's gf broke up with him so y'all should stop capitalizing on that.I'm gonna respect a man who can do those things and still maintain his stand as a man.Any man who feels the only way he can prove his masculinity is by being domineering and excessively bossy is nothing but a coward..some guys need to snap out of their ancient mentality.

A coward in what sense.better be sincere with your self.
mind you bossy could be relative. Imagine a stubborn wife who is so full of herself and a cool headed and submissive one that is open to learning from the husband.Out of this two, which one motivates the man
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jun 24, 2012
qualified: @op, dont allow all these hypocrites talk down on u. Most of them are kids, js bragging n trying to 'belong'.

There is nothing wrong wit wht u are doing. The truth is, i will forever love any guy takes so much care of me, cos they are hard to find. Girls appreciate such men.
Will you stop with the generalisations already! Have you ever dated a babe? Babe-daters are dropping opinions and experience, guy-daters like you should take notes.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by JANK23H(m): 7:05pm On Jun 24, 2012
paris10: I dated this pretty damsel years ago. We were so much in love, and I would say yes to everything she asked of me; from money and gifts to cooking and all. Her family were so nice to me as well.

One day her mother called her and suggested that we both should start preparing for marriage since we'd dated for years. Do you know the answer this girl gave her mother?..So sad, she told her mum that I was too nice and would not want to marry me because she would take advantage of me. She said she wanted a man that would handle her roughly and challenge her demands. She got what she wanted folks!

A year later, she got pregnant for this dude working in a bank. The guy refused accepting the baby because he had a family somewhere. The guy was begged by the girl's family to at least show up at the naming ceremony, which he did. And that was all. Two years later, she contacted me and admitted her mistakes. I attended her son's birthday and made love to her once more just to say goodbye.

I totally agree with you bruv,most ladies don't appreciate a good guy when they see one.Yet they all say they want somebody who will love and appreciate them.Sometimes i think women are confused.

personally,i can help my women with chores at home,because it comes natural with me;but the moment she starts taking advantage of me,it's over.

She's still single as of today... God forgive me for everything.

Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by deekseen(m): 7:12pm On Jun 24, 2012
DECOtech: WHERE THE LADIES?

Busy LIKING posts that suit them.

Anyways, i can assist only when she starts off.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by jmoore(m): 7:12pm On Jun 24, 2012
What the hell? Is she my wife?
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Akbee(m): 7:16pm On Jun 24, 2012
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Of cos why wont i?but i cant do dat everytime she wants me to.u know gals r quite gud at taking undue advantage of things of this nature.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Jun 24, 2012
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Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by ocelot2006(m): 7:43pm On Jun 24, 2012
Wife: Yes

Girlfriend: HELL NO!! I dey craze?
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by angelhair(m): 8:47pm On Jun 24, 2012
Please come and date me. I need a caring man in my life.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by ferhyntorlah(f): 8:50pm On Jun 24, 2012
stepo707:
liar! Guys dont ever try it o.its an abomination.A word is enough for the wise
Wow! Mr, nice outburst there. You don't know me so why use such derogatory adjective towards me? You've your opinion, I've mine.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by bqnoble: 11:06pm On Jun 24, 2012
i dont see anything wrong with that.
i even think its romantic
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by andyanders: 11:07pm On Jun 24, 2012
You should as well, help her clean her bombom and discard her menstrual pads. That will make you a whole man and a stupid housemaid. Also help her clean her private part when she is through defecating. That also will make you wonderful boyfriend and a qualified husband to be.

Make sure you also feed her and clean up her mess after eating. In the night, use your tongue and clean her bombom and her private part. That should be when you will get the best taste of the food you earlier prepared for the day.Mumu
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Omogbhollahorn(m): 11:17pm On Jun 24, 2012
Dona won use laff finish me.....wat a lovely topic......cook and clean for a chick hell no in a mata of tym she would b calling me to remind of my houseboy duties and even tel me to go and sleep wen am watching football.......what a useless life so when i start doz things which day i no go dey carry hand bag..
My advice, it not worth doing for a chick only when she is a wife and it must be moderate b4 u become d bread-maker and ur wife b d winner for house......
My obeservation it seems u stil new to relationships dat y u did it first luv syndrome

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Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Omogbhollahorn(m): 11:21pm On Jun 24, 2012
andyanders: You should as well, help her clean her bombom and discard her menstrual pads. That will make you a whole man and a stupid housemaid. Also help her clean her private part when she is through defecating. That also will make you wonderful boyfriend and a qualified husband to be.

Make sure you also feed her and clean up her mess after eating. In the night, use your tongue and clean her bombom and her private part. That should be when you will get the best taste of the food you earlier prepared for the day.

laff won kill me......u write dis tin d way he take pain u
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by fem88(m): 11:26pm On Jun 24, 2012
You guys have said it all...There is nothing wrong in helping your partners but watchout for assumptions from the ladies.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by stpat1(m): 11:57pm On Jun 24, 2012
There is nothing wrong with it my Guy.If thats your kind of person and you enjoy doing it why not. I do it and its like I am doing it for myself and I enjoy doing it.

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Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by bukatyne(f): 12:15am On Jun 25, 2012
@OP: there is nothing absolutely wrong wit it, it shows u love n care for her, that u re not only after wat u can benefit from her. my fiancee does such for me and it makes me respect him more. i know he's a gift 4rm God n i pray to be a better wife to him daily. however, i ll agree that a lot of women take it for granted maybe b'cos they were brought up to see such tasks as lowly or they have been taught that men been 'superior' shouldn't demean themselves wit such tasks. some other ladies would tell u they want a man in 'control' etc., well i would say it's b'cos they have not experienced hatred n so can't appreciate love or they re so used to been battered emotionally. wat most guys don't understand is that a lot of pple esp ladies are emotionally sick, have low self esteem n lack faith in themselves b'cos of abusive parents n society and therefore d guys need to work extra hard to make d woman come alive n be whole although this is d work of God but He uses d man n vice versa. ladies should learn to appreciate a man that genuinely loves them n not wait til they lose him and have experimented round b4 they come back n start beggin like losers. guys should start investing more in their relationships, communicate n try to understand their women. as for those guys sayin they can't do it cos d guy's not a slave or wateva, is d woman a slave
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by abysirius(m): 12:47am On Jun 25, 2012
Billyonaire: Dont try that thing again. Ladies are gonna take you for a ride always... its a good thing but ladies are ridiculous...
How u feel about this depends on ur person and d understnding with which u're doind it. Left to me, I won't feel less or abused if i find d grace to help her in this regards. She's my world.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 12:57am On Jun 25, 2012
ayosmiles: I used to have this girlfriend I loved so much that I would go to her place, sleepover and cook her breakfast. On weekends I would help her tidy her room before takin her out. When she left me, I thought she felt I was too attached but now she's back beggin me to come back, sayin she made a mistake and no guy could care 4 her like me.

Guys, is it wise to do those things for your woman? Girls, will you appreciate a guy that does that?

Mukekekeke Oh my word grin grin grin
Umm lipsrsealed...homeboi cheesy...No grin


Only a woman that has "been around the block" would understand the rarity you brought and would have appreciated it and given thanksgiving in church, etc.
So essentially, we're talking a woman above 30 here.

I can totally see a 2X year old girl (they're still children at that age) reading into this the wrong way. Their minds just aren't there yet. Their perception of what a man should be is someone aloof, slightly arrogant and who THEY do house keeping for so they can complain about it. As we all know, girls love to have reasons to complain. Take away the reasons and the relationship to them quickly becomes "boring".

A child won't respect you if you cater to it's every need in an attempt to show love. That's what we call bad parenting. I assure you, the same rules apply even more so when dating young girls as the OP's girlfriend undoubtably was.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by MrsChima(f): 1:08am On Jun 25, 2012
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Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by MrHim(m): 1:17am On Jun 25, 2012
U know the elizabethan era abi? Fine. Now, if u so desire to be a king's fools fool, then go ahead with the chef and dish washing duties, silly thing! The only cooking i can do is if the chick na the food, oh yes! I can cook her real good! hehehehooohohhhe grin
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 1:24am On Jun 25, 2012
abysirius:
How u feel about this depends on ur person and d understnding with which u're doind it. Left to me, I won't feel less or abused if i find d grace to help her in this regards. She's my world.

FAIL, FAIL, MEGA FAIL cheesy

You sound really young. For the sake of your mental sanity and the health of your relationships, always consider such words as "things you tell her", not things you tell yourself. These girls, their brains are fried my friend. If they feel they can do whatever they want to you and you're still going to be licking their boots, then extreme abuse is inevitable.

Girls fair better when they know they are with a guy that cares, but WILL drop them like a hot kettle if they act a certain way.
Again to my point, If you let your children walk over you just because "they are your world", what good are you truly doing?
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 1:31am On Jun 25, 2012
Omogbhollahorn: Dona won use laff finish me.....wat a lovely topic......cook and clean for a chick hell no in a mata of tym she would b calling me to remind of my houseboy duties and even tel me to go and sleep wen am watching football.......what a useless life so when i start doz things which day i no go dey carry hand bag..
My advice, it not worth doing for a chick only when she is a wife and it must be moderate b4 u become d bread-maker and ur wife b d winner for house......
My obeservation it seems u stil new to relationships dat y u did it first luv syndrome

You talk am mehn. Out of principle, some things are best not started AT ALL.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Hoodrat(m): 3:21am On Jun 25, 2012
50/50 is the way to go...Carrying her bag massaging her body after a long day,cooking for her,taken her to party/clubs with you while you dance the night away and make them girls around jealous making her feel special everyday is the main duty. I am sure she will be more than happy to do the same because women are more flexible than men.
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 4:53am On Jun 25, 2012
When i was in Naija, i had that slavery mentality that a woman was a chattel of service, now i know that for the sake of my unborn children, i need to treat my woman with dignity and respect because whatever you sow you reap. Men are physically stronger than women and are deemed to be the lead in the family, a good leader leads by example not by compulsion, if we lead by example, our children will become better servants and leaders and our nation will progress.....
Re: Guys Can You Cook & Clean For Your Girlfriends? by Nobody: 5:10am On Jun 25, 2012
Most importantly, if you know yourself and you know you won't continue it, don't start it...

As I like to cook certain things, i have no issues whipping her something up if she visits me, but I am NOT going to her house for cleaning or washing her pata for her.
Na so see-finish dey start be dat.

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