ifihearam:

He nor get wetin person nor go hear for nairaland.you sleep with a guy UNINTENTIONALLY??this serious,take advantage of in what sense?? where you drugged to follow the guy to his place??did he rip you off your clothes?? Lies you had wanted to sleep with the guy all along and don't blame that as taking advantage. I hate that word like the word boko haram ..

And who said these must be the case before a girl can be said to have been taken advantage of? U sound like it is totally impossible for a girl to be taken advantage of. I may agree with jigwe101, who said cheating and being taken advantage of are two different things, but i'll never agree with u. When u hear peoples' stories of what happen to girls both in and outside their homes, (even at their work places!) u won't say what u just said.

Mynd_44:
Dump the girl jorh. She did not regret it and you are still considering her sorry?
Or perhaps there is more to this than we are seeing. OP please give us the real gist

Dump her just like that ?
She go celebrate oooo.
That's what she wanted and you want to give it to her on a platter of gold.
If U do me, I do U, man no go vess (P square)
Before U dump her, Bleep her sister, friend or a babe she knows and let her find out.
Tell her it's for political reasons and continue until she realizes exactly how it feels.
Nonsense !!!!!!!

Women will give all kinds of excuses to portray themselves as unwilling victims. Everyone's basic needs are just that basic. Emotional, financial and sexual needs are all part of them. Molestation is different. But sleeping with someone and saying that you were taken advantage of is just rotten. Accept responsiblity. I've never heard of a guy being taken advantage of in such matters.
As for the OP, it is either she wanted to avenge the wrong you did to her or she just does not give a f**k. You alone can tell how she was before you wronged her. So think abt that time, You might just find your answers there.

@OP, What did you do to wrong the girl? Share it.

kayceecompany:


Dump her just like that ?
She go celebrate oooo.
That's what she wanted and you want to give it to her on a platter of gold.
If U do me, I do U, man no go vess (P square)
Before U dump her, Bleep her sister, friend or a babe she knows and let her find out.
Tell her it's for political reasons and continue until she realizes exactly how it feels.
Nonsense !!!!!!!

Badt guy. Political reason indeed

ijebuboy18: Dude, she told u she cheated 2 spite, dats quite clear. If I were u, I would bleep 1 of her friends or some1 she knws den den her 2 n also tell her I asked d gal 2 stop callin my fone,(what is gud 4 d goose is gud 4 d gander ryte). Let's see how she responds 2 dat.
Note: d gal u r wit is no gf or wifey material,jst a gal 2 get down wit if she gives it up anitime u have probs.

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kayceecompany:
Dump her just like that ?
She go celebrate oooo.
That's what she wanted and you want to give it to her on a platter of gold.
If U do me, I do U, man no go vess (P square)
Before U dump her, Bleep her sister, friend or a babe she knows and let her find out.
Tell her it's for political reasons and continue until she realizes exactly how it feels.
Nonsense !!!!!!!

and would that solve exactly?! just because you are hurt, doesnt mean you have to belittle yourself to her animal level.
you would make yourself look really childish if you would try your hardest to fukc her sister or friends.....as if they would even give you the time of day (and if they did then you would simply be sleeping with a bunch of who.res)

Security reason ke,chai chi bo anu ozo.buh poster. U neva marry am nah u still dey plan 2.so u hav no right over yet.so better hurry up go pay ur her dowry b4 anoda man agba gi azonto n'isi

@ chikk
When u said taking advantage of, I was thinking rape, molestation, e.t.c. if the Guy took advantage of the girl like deceived her by ttelling her a lie & she slept with him, its considered cheating

If she cheated and you can't handle it, dump her. If you still want her forgive her.
What other advice do you want?

Its obvious ur deeply in luv wit dis gal and she s using it against u.She had sex wit anoda guy and went ahead to say it to ur face.What kind of insecurity culd av led her into such?WATCH OUT

Mynd_44: If she cheated and you can't handle it, dump her. If you still want her forgive her.
What other advice do you want?

.

Exactly!

Guy, count your teeth. The girl doesn't not want you. To get back at her, marry her close friend or her rival who is a better person than her and I tell you, she'll commit suicide.

Obipat: I had problem with my girl friend when i was doing my youth service though we settled same day because i begged her. When i came back she changed her artitude towards me,last week she told me that she slept with one guy for security reason and this is girl im planing to marry. Please advise me

why she wan jam ''Security and Reason'' head without beta excuse? Ok so as u don graduate now come get work for rig you come hear this news wetin u go advice yourself?