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|Romance / Re: Nairalanders With The Most Handsome Faces by abbey621(m): 3:31am|
No guy is ugly, it all depends on perception. Even those like me with an acceptable face still get teased by some certain females that I no fine at all, so it's all about perception. Girls nowadays care more about your pockets than face
|Romance / Re: Nairalanders With The Most Handsome Faces by abbey621(m): 9:50pm On Dec 18|
No surveys, no voting polls, who came up with this list, they deserve to be flogged
|Romance / Re: New Survey Ranks Nigerian Women As Top Most Unfaithful Wives In The World by abbey621(m): 5:25pm On Dec 18|
I'm not doubting that there might be a few cases here and there but do not be mistaken it's nothing compared to what we are witnessing here. The Nigerian society still gives the man much more power over the woman and unless some form of spiritual battle is involved, most Nigerian women cannot physically overpower their husband. Over here, the law is on the women's side, she can do and undo and you dare not raise a finger at her or even shout at her. It's highly depressing, that's why 9ja men abroad usually look for wives back home. Like I said before I'll take my chances with a 9ja born and bred woman anyday anytime than to risk it with the deceitful, parasitic women of the United States.
|Romance / Re: New Survey Ranks Nigerian Women As Top Most Unfaithful Wives In The World by abbey621(m): 4:55pm On Dec 18|
You think I'm talking of one instance, I'm talking about a pattern, a way of life. I'm not talking of American born Nigerians because basically they are the same, I'm talking about Nigerian raised women, those living in 9ja or fortunate enough to migrate over here, they still value human lives more than the evil women living here in America. Most American women over here basically have no regards for their men, men are continuously undermined and reduced to nothing.
|Romance / Re: New Survey Ranks Nigerian Women As Top Most Unfaithful Wives In The World by abbey621(m): 4:27pm On Dec 18|
Girl please, statistics or no statistics, you can't pay me to marry an American woman, the risk far outweighs the rewards. Nigerian women will always come out on top and are less likely to end up as drug addicts, lesbians or psycopaths
|Romance / Re: New Survey Ranks Nigerian Women As Top Most Unfaithful Wives In The World by abbey621(m): 4:13pm On Dec 18|
Hurt by whom?? Woman what you been smoking
|Romance / Re: New Survey Ranks Nigerian Women As Top Most Unfaithful Wives In The World by abbey621(m): 3:49pm On Dec 18|
Oh so you are quick to accept data published by Durex without questioning the sources but are very skeptical of someone with real life experience? Black or White, Americans still have the highest rate of infidelity among developed countries, they have poor moral values and marriage is becoming a mockery day by day. Durex is a joke of a company and only an ignorant person would accept their statistics without exercising due diligence. My personal experience with married women goes far beyond what I can explain on social networks but it's safe to say most American women are shameless, they cheat on the flimsiest of excuses and unfortunately their men are a lot worse! They can't really be blamed much cos they are a victim of the media which constantly promotes infidelity, feeling of entitlement and the belittling of the man in relationships.
|Romance / Re: New Survey Ranks Nigerian Women As Top Most Unfaithful Wives In The World by abbey621(m): 2:02pm On Dec 18|
I can't help but laugh! Durex, really, you people are taking Durex seriously . This company is not trustworthy, they have been known to stir up controversies and it is so obvious the statistic is bogus. For example, how did they conduct the survey? Did anybody actually witness it? Sources Mumu Nigerians will believe anything. I know for a fact that American women are much loose than African women, marriage in America is becoming less important day by day and majority of divorces involves extra marital affairs. I work with a lot of married women and I can't count how many times I get hit on daily, they see nothing wrong with it, there's even a TV show which encourages married couples to explore alternative sex methods such as sleeping around. Durex probably based their statistic on condom sales
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 4:48am On Dec 18|
Now you are just ramblings and trying to justify yourself by comparing apples to oranges. What do you mean by lawful? Where in the Oath does it say lawful and also are you telling me this oath applies to the Nigerian military? Please do not insult my intelligence! I'm in the U.S and I am very familiar with the oath, you do not disobey a direct order for any reason, it would land you in military court and a quick dishonorable discharge. Nigerian military laws are much stricter than U.S laws, so please stop trying to justify yourself with the rubbish you posted. You are not an attorney, you do not know anything about military laws and I have my doubts you ever served in the military and if you did definitely not in the U.S Armed forces, cos based on our conversations so far, you can never pass a military psychological evaluation, your fellow men in the armed forces can never trust you in battle and hence can never be allowed to serve! Stop posting rubbish and trying to justify yourself by mixing apples with oranges.
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 4:10am On Dec 18|
I would love to educate you but I think you have a great resource at your disposal. Why don't you ask your close friend about the oath? Because I feel like I'm going in circles communicating with you. I come from a military family, with two siblings currently in the Nigerian military, both of them graduated NDA in 2002 and are now Majors in the armed forces. If that is not enough, how about using plain old common sense, do you honestly think you can join the armed forces without pledging your allegiance? Even common police officers undertake an oath, so I'm surprised a military man like yourself is debating this issue. Like I said before arguing on here solves nothing, I suggest you reach out to your close friend for a little more enlightenment on military laws.
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 3:39am On Dec 18|
If you ever had any military training then you would know the oath every recruit signs. It's obvious you need more education. If you pm me your details, I might be willing to help you meet someone that can educate you on military laws(I'm serious, free of charge!)
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 3:36am On Dec 18|
You are a flat out liar! What's the name of the Navy school you attended, what year?? Where did you serve? Call yourself a Veteran, which battles have you fought. I hope you know that impersonation is a felony punishable under the law, it might be ok to do it on a site like nairaland but please don't do it in real life o, you could land yourself in serious trouble!
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 3:30am On Dec 18|
Dude do your research on military laws, you are just making me laugh!
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 3:25am On Dec 18|
Oh men, can you hear yourself? I'm just laughing cos it's obvious you know nothing about the military world. If you are given a direct order to kill your father, if you disobey you would immediately be arrested and scheduled for a trial. I suggest you stop looking at things from a civilian point of view and do your research on military laws.
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 3:22am On Dec 18|
I am being objective, imagine if you were among the soldiers in the middle of a war and 80% of your fellow brothers refused to fight, leaving you vulnerable and susceptible to an invasion by the enemy, would you feel safe?? The military does not operate under the same rules as the civilian world, why can't you guys comprehend this simple fact
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 3:17am On Dec 18|
If you want to fight corruption then do it by tackling the lawmakers and the executive level of government. You don't tackle corruption by disobeying a direct order, that disobedience is not only a treasonable offence, it also jeopardizes the entire mission, the enemy could have used that opportunity to infiltrate their base and kill them all. Joining the military is a choice, they all knew the rules and swore an oath, it's not like an office job where you can just quit whenever you feel like it.
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 2:38am On Dec 18|
I don't have to prove anything to you, you have your opinion and I have mine. All I know is that Civilians have no business meddling in military affairs.
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 2:21am On Dec 18|
Cannot do that but Google is your best friend, my assertions are based on 2 family members in the Nigerian military and my close friends. This is not the first time mutiny occurred in the military and not the first time such a sentence has been passed down, civilians should stay out of military affairs!
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 2:00am On Dec 18|
They refused to fight, they fired their weapons and caused unrest among the units, I suggest you do more research on this case because there's a lot more to it.
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 1:58am On Dec 18|
No they do not deserve the death penalty, they should be discharged dishonorably or imprisoned but unfortunately they are subjected to military laws and Nigerian military has one of the harshest military laws in the world.
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 1:47am On Dec 18|
I'm not basing my assertions on just this article, I'm well familiar with the case.
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 1:46am On Dec 18|
Do your research, if you have time to type on nairaland, you'll have time to read military books and laws. Google is your best friend!
|Politics / Re: Mutiny: 54 Soldiers Sentenced To Death By Firing Squad, 5 Freed by abbey621(m): 1:40am On Dec 18|
Stop spewing rubbish, you know nothing about the military. These men are entrusted with guns and not only protect themselves from the line of fire but also protect their fellow men. If there's no order, no discipline then how can they conquer the enemy. Shooting at your fellow army men is a treasonable offence let alone shooting at your commanding officer. The laws in the military differs from the civilian world, treason, mutiny and vices similar can never be tolerated. While I disagree with the death penalty, the law is the law and they must face the consequences of their actions!
|Politics / Re: Why I Withdrew From Vice Presidential Race- Bola Tinubu by abbey621(m): 10:23pm On Dec 17|
Life isn't complicated, it is people that are complicated. At least we can agree on one point, PDP is useless and 4 more years of GEJ will amount to nothing. Based on this agreement, there's only one solution, vote for the opposition. You might not agree with all their principles but why don't we give change a chance, or do you prefer the same mediocrity?? PDP is a party that has gotten too big to help the masses, the opposition still has a lot to prove and would want to prove to the masses that they can be trusted. I understand you want the perfect candidate but Nigerian politics is way beyond that, change is systematic, it starts little by little, as much as I would want to vote for a youthful, vibrant candidate, Nigeria is still being run on a party system, it's either PDP or APC, do not be fooled!
|Politics / Re: Why I Withdrew From Vice Presidential Race- Bola Tinubu by abbey621(m): 6:10pm On Dec 17|
Then my friend you are part of the problem. There's only one thing worse than those who vote for the same party or person and expecting change, that is those who refused to vote. If you don't vote you don't matter, you cannot be an agent of change! I will implore you to reconsider, you might not like Buhari or his choice of a VP but keep in mind this election is much more than that. We have all seen what absolute power does, we all know it corrupts. While I have nothing personal against GEJ, I believe he is just a pawn in his political party. The power that PDP has over Nigerians is overwhelming, it's high time Nigerians taste something different, let's stop being pushovers and reason for once; APC is not perfect, Buhari is not the savior but at this point we must vote PDP out, a political party cannot be greater than the people, impossible!
|Politics / Re: Why I Withdrew From Vice Presidential Race- Bola Tinubu by abbey621(m): 5:10pm On Dec 17|
You have good intentions but you sound a little naive. How can you hope to stop PDP by voting for someone that can't possibly win? Why not support the opposition? At this point anything other than PDP is worth trying, unless we want to deceive ourselves, the election is between PDP and APC, one represents the same mediocre governance since 1999 and the other a slim hope for change.
|Politics / Re: General Buhari Shares A First Shot With Prof.osinbajo His Running Mate. by abbey621(m): 5:03pm On Dec 17|
Typing in huge bold fonts, signs of inadequacy, attention seeker(Perhaps deprived of attention as a child). Next, religious undertone in your post shows you are indeed myopic. Furthermore, your tribalistic references are highly inaccurate(Igbos does not represent the majority of voters in Lagos, I dare you to come up with proof of such!). Finally based on my analysis I suggest you seek counseling as you suffer from a condition called INSANITY. Unfortunately many Nigerians suffers from this tragic condition, as the white men would say insanity is the definition of doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Voting PDP since 1999 and expecting your lives to be better is just plain silly!
|Nairaland / General / Re: PHOTOS: The Most Dangerous Things People Do In Lagos by abbey621(m): 3:50pm On Dec 17|
You better believe it! The poverty guideline is based on living on less than $2 a day, that is about $300 to $400 naira a day. We have about 170 million people in Nigeria, a workforce of about 20 million, which leaves room for most of the population to be dependents. Poverty is real, back when I was in school I lived on less than 200 naira a day so it is very possible!
|Family / Re: Nairalander's Boyfriend Wants Her To Keep Washing His Clothes. Please Advice by abbey621(m): 3:42pm On Dec 17|
Wonders shall never end! You can't wash abi? When a guy treats his girlfriend as a wife this is what happens. It is customary in African traditions that the woman cater to all the man's needs as long as the man does his part too. Forget about not being married yet, you did not complain when you spent the night or started living with him. You did not complain about cooking or collecting gifts or him paying some or all of your bills, so please chillax! Any girl that does not want to be treated as a wife while in a girlfriend status should stop putting herself in situations, you can't eat your cake and have it.
|Romance / Re: 10 Signs You Are A Woman Now by abbey621(m): 2:46pm On Dec 17|
Funny how everything that makes a real woman involves a man in one way or the other, yet some of those feminist hypocrites try to downplay the importance of men in their lives. Nice thread
|Family / Re: Woman Divorces Her Husband Of 25 Years For Turning Her Into A Punching Bag by abbey621(m): 3:24pm On Dec 16|
What do you expect when you mix poverty+ illiteracy+ polygamy.
|Family / Re: Which Should Come First Between Career & Marriage In A Family? by abbey621(m): 3:27pm On Dec 15|
Part of being an adult is learning how to balance all things to work for the greater good. Married people must learn to balance their marriage and career. One must not affect the other, in a typical Nigerian society, the man is the workhorse so naturally he should be more career minded and the woman the home builder, she would be more concerned about the welfare of her marriage but when the situation is reversed, men must learn to be understanding cos at the end of the day all that matters is survival, if my child or children don't have food to eat and their mother is the only person that can get some type of income then as a man I would support her career and try to understand.
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