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Crime / Re: Edo Police Arrest Cultists Who Killed Rival In His Daughter's Presence by Blendy77(f): 5:47am On Apr 29
Imagine old men who should be cautioning the younger generation to resists from cultist are the major cultists. Na wa o this country

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Travel / Re: Air Peace Staff Land In London In Ishiagu Attire, Sparking Outrage In Nigeria by Blendy77(f): 8:56am On Apr 01
bmaster2000:
Now we will have more airlines...

.How will I see Qatar Arline to London and will go and board Air Peace which disappoints ordinary Local flights it disappoint talk less of International air flight....nah to drop passenger for dessert and beginning to set look for fuel in the desert


Rubbish!!!!

Go enter Qatar na, suffer 7hrs to Doha first before the actual trip to London when airpeace will take you directly. Airpeace send u? Bad belly human beings

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 1:49am On Mar 18
Osoderi:


It is is well. The same prime care I and my cycled three times no result. Only God can do it and direct one to the one he wants to give u testimony. Even lot of pple have used unknown places and they got BFP. Only God can perfect IVF. Thanks for y response.

So sorry to hear you already had 3 cycles with them. You are right that God can give you testimony even with DIY local IUI. In your cycle with the clinic, how would u assess them? Wod you say there was somethg the Dr ought to hav done that he didn't do right? Dr Ese that I know is never in a hurry with his procedures and he tells all his patients to tackle underlying issues before he commences his IVF. If u didnt get results with them, my Sister I will advise you try another place as planned if u honestly believe the issue is from the hospital. If u follow my post very well, you will see the hospital I used, Olive Branch at Lekki, Dr Emeka, that's my Doc for life, I had 2 failed IVF with him back to back after 2 failed IVf with Dr Giwa Osagie's Omni and went to Bridge for the 5th IVF, I not only had a failed IVF with Bridge but almost lost my life due to the way a very bad OHSS was handled so went back to Olive Branch for the 6th IVF where I got my twins. Now after my twins av lost count of the several failed IVF I had with this same my Dr even with surrogates. Will I say the hospital is bad because I didn't get results with them? Will I say the Dr didn't do what he was supposed to do hence I got negative? The answer is NO, especially when others are getting results in d same hospital, infact they are about the best in lag, you can't blame the hospital so am only recommending primecare because of the numerous results we as a foundation hav recorded with them. 90% of my group's results are from primecare. Infact if I know half of the thgs I kno now 11 years ago, am not sure I will waste 7yrs of my fruitful years jumping from hospital to hospital but you kno what? It's good you are planning to try elsewhere, pray about it cos truly like u said God can meet your needs at any hospital even at home. All the best, I wish u baby dust Sis, u too will testify by His grace

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 1:29am On Mar 18
Happyfellow147:
Mama please I PMed you

Can we talk privately if you don’t mind?

I responded but I think d nationwide Internet issue is also affecting emails cos it kept bouncing back. Try this ruonar2000@yahoo.com
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 8:16pm On Mar 16
Osoderi:


ok. Thanks . Then what of Jece fertility clinic in Kubwa, Abuja

Na Lag I dey live o Sis, I only kno of Primecare cos a lot of my group members in Abuja got results with him which prompted me to pay him a visit and form a partnership with him. Then Joje too cos both of them worked in Diff before opening their seperate hospitals. People travel all the way from Lagos and overseas to use Primecare. Why would u be looking for clinics that majority haven't tried? Even in this group a lot of women hav shared their testimony so my Sister, pray for God to order your steps to the right direction.

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 11:15pm On Mar 15
Osoderi:



Hi Blendy please do u know Viva fertility clinic in Abuja?

Hi, I haven't heard that name before
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 12:48pm On Mar 05
thopesy:


You are far too kind. This is a very tortuous journey and God has been good all through. It’s a case of blocked FT. We were referred to the Doc by my in-law. They already told me she’s a bit expensive but competent but I never envisaged the sudden price surge when we had already agreed upon a specific amount. I am still trying to rally around for the 500k. I

This means you have made up ur mind to go with them. All the best Bros. Pls check the kind of blocked FT she has, if its blocked towards the ovary area, u might need to take off the tubes first or do a procedure called salpingectomy to block the tubes b4 going for ivf otherwise, u might just be using basket to fetch water. Many Drs won't tell you this unfortunately. But if its blocked at the uterus end, u are good to go. How u will kno this, if tubes are visualized via the xray but did not spill it means tubes are seen, dye passed thru it but its not coming out from d ovary ends. This could be hydrosalpnx, retained water in d tubes. But if the tubes are not seen at all, hsg report will say tubes not visualised, this one ivf will work better cos no obstruction to implantation of the embyos and this type of blockage is also easy to open via flushing n serrapeptase. All the best wt ur procedure.
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 7:22pm On Feb 29
thopesy:
Hello people I will like to know the current cost of IVF. I and my wife consulted a doctor in November and she told us to get 2M. Heaven knows how hard I worked to get 1m in December as deposit payment. Paid 700k in January. Last two weeks, I paid 300k again, now she’s saying we should pay 500k again.

Walahi I am tired.

Mind you, she said there are drugs we would need to buy for darling wife that she will be using monthly. Said the drug is 100k per month.


At this point I just want my money back

God that created me will give me a child


So sorry about ur ordeal with ur Dr. If u already made payment she has no right to increase d fee. Did she tell u about the 100k drugs before u made the deposit? If no, u hav an edge here, request for a refund on the basis that you can't afford the extra charges she's coming up with If she cannot stick to the earlier agreement. How old is ur wife? Where are u based? If u can travel to Abuja n use Primecare? his ivf is about 1m drugs inclusive. Its just test n registration you will pay aside d ivf fees. If u calculate ur flight plus accommodation am sure u won't spend more than 600k extra so look in that direction to save cost. But hav it at the back of your mind that ivf success rate anywhere in d world is 50/50. What is ur diagnosis to start with? Are her tubes open? How long have u been trying? It is well Bro, don't take it too hard on yoursef. The fact that u are supporting your wife this much, by His grace ur first attempt will yield good fruits but try to clear any pending medical issue before commencing the ivf to increase ur chances.
All the best.

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 9:53pm On Feb 28
3greatnations:





Thank you blendy .Could you please kindly drop androcare number as well

Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 2:09pm On Feb 28
3greatnations:




Thank you blendy. please can I get their numbers for Dr ivie is she same one from medisson also what do you mean by live contract


Dr Ivie - 08068691568. you are right she was with Medisson before opening her own IVF Clinic.

Life contract is a type of surrogacy program where the IVF money paid covers unlimited ivf and miscarriages till the surrogate delivers a life baby. If the IVF fails or surrogate miscarries, the process is repeated at no extra cost. Dr Ese and even Diff are very good in this before we introduced Ivie to start it in Lagos, to the glory of God we have been getting very good results with her as all our Elders became mothers with this program. Unfortunately, due to several failed ivf and miscarriages plus the dollar crunch, she has attached some conditions to the life contract program i.e like after 3 or 4 failed IVF, you pay for the next IVF which covers for just stimulation drugs, collection and transfer.
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 9:50am On Feb 27
BBIA:

I was just curious.

how many or them do you now own?

It's the reason I advised you see a psychiatrist first cos if your question is to gain knowledge you should have checked with Google before coming to ask a mother if her children are mentally stable becuase she conceived them via IVF. May God forgive your stu.pidity my Dear. My kids are in a Jesuit Secondary School and both topping their class and am very sure you can't even stand their intelligence with the kind of stu.pid question you go about asking online. Go and check Google the difference between naturally conceived kids and IVF kids. After that ask your mother how she conceived a mentally unstable human being like you cos you cod hav been conceived naturally yet worse than a mentally unstable animal.

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Romance / Re: Man Marries Two Beautiful Women In Delta State (pics, Video) by Blendy77(f): 11:25pm On Feb 26
MyVILLAGEpeople:
Why always delta state men. Lol.


Check well e go be urhobo man grin grin grin

Funny enough I said same thg before opening the thread. It is becoming a norm
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 11:11pm On Feb 26
BBIA:

Do you own IVF babies?


are they mentally stable?

I should be asking if you are mentally stable cos if you can ask this sort of question in this age and time then you definitely need to see a psychiatrist.

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 10:55pm On Feb 26
Movian:


Please how long should we detox? When should i stop taking the quonol plus. Before stimulation or after egg retrevial?


For Qunol plus, you stop a day b4 egg retrieval. Depends on d type of detox, one month is okay
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 10:52pm On Feb 26
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My Sister, seems all ivf clinics in Lag are operating on a different level. Dr Ese in Abuja is still my first choice cos the amount u will pay for his IVF, plus flight plus hotel is still not up to what u will pay Lagos ivf Hospitals. My Foundation is currently negotiating with a clinic at Shasha area called Androcare because some of our members got results with them. He said their ivf is 2m -2.5 and only 100-150k can be given to our NGO. Whereas with 900k Ese is charging us, 95% of my members are getting results with him. Its just the accommodation we are battling with now cos the sef con a member gave the NGO Landlord refused to renew rent otherwise everyone is facing Abuja for their ivf. So look in that direction. If u still want to do ivf in Lag, try the Androcare or Oasis by Dr Ivie. We mostly use her for life contract not regular ivf cos hers is also about 2m for members. Do let me kno if you need their contacts

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Politics / Re: Dapo Abiodun Rolls Out Palliative Measures In Ogun State by Blendy77(f): 6:27am On Feb 25
Am still wondering what 5 and 10 thousand will do in the lives of people in that state. Just imagine fo.olish people hailing these thi.eves
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 11:57pm On Feb 10
Movian:


Good morning, please I need a list of wat I should do before embarking on another ivf. I would be 34yrs in May. I had a failed cycle September 2022. I was able to conceive naturally 7months later, (April 2023) I had to do evacuation due to absence of heartbeat in June, since after my evacuation been trying no pregnancy yet. We are planning on cycling in April. Our challenge have always been low sperm count for the past 7yrs. Though during our ivf in 2022 hubby was diagnosed of having Varricocele. He has been trying to manage the situation with supplement, exercise, cooling and stud brief. I was able to achieve conception wen he was serious with his exercise, cooling and supplement. Please help me with wat I can do to increase my chances

Hi, u can detox, u and hubby, tumeric combo or even ACV comes to mind. U can also boost ur eggs using coast science or quonol plus as this prepares d uterus as well as boost ur eggs in preparation for ivf. Hav u done HSG or hysteroscopy after d evacuation to check d state of ur uteus and tubes? Pls do if u havent done that as anythg cod hav happened between when u last got pregnant n now. Also amh readily comes to mind to check ur ovarian reserves as well. Truth is, if somethg worked for hubby before its better to go back to what worked before so keep encouraging him. Most men fear vericeole vein surgery so don't blame him cos there's even no 100% guarantee that after surgery his count will improve. Check online for other natural thgs he can use to improve his count invluding bitter kola and tigernuts plus dates. For mem's supplements what I kno worked for others are Fertilovit, fertimen, fertilaid, adyzoa. There are a lot of suppy for count improvement in pharmacies but u hav to go to d drawing board to check what has worked b4 and face that cos some suppy can cause more harm than good by reducing d count. At least i know of fertimen that worked perfectly for many and also worked against 2 people in my group so do ur research and go for what works best for him.

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Crime / Re: The Story Of Nabeeha Al-Kadriyar: How Kidnappers Killed Her by Blendy77(f): 11:30am On Jan 14
mayortunes:
In a heartbreaking turn of events, Alhaji Mansoor Al-Kadriyar and his six children fell victim to a harrowing kidnapping incident that has left the nation in shock. Tragically, one of the abducted persons, identified as Nabeeha Al-Kadriyar, lost her life at the hands of the kidnappers. This incident, now widely discussed under the hashtag #NajeebahAndHerSisters, has sparked outrage across social media platforms.

Nabeeha, a dedicated 400-level student of Biological Science at Ahmadu Bello University, was laid to rest on Saturday in accordance with Islamic rites. Compounding the tragedy, others abducted include Najeebah, a 500-level Quantity Surveying student, and Nadheerah, a promising 300-level Zoology student. The kidnappers initially demanded a ransom of N60 million, a figure that has since escalated to a staggering N100 million.

The news has triggered an outpouring of grief and solidarity on social media, with users expressing their outrage and calling on security agencies to intensify efforts to rescue the remaining victims. The family and well-wishers are turning to social media platforms to seek financial assistance, amplifying their desperate plea for support.

Sherifdeen, a relative of the victims, took to social media to share the family's urgent situation, stating, "We have been given until Friday, January 12, 2024, to gather the money. That's N10 million per child. To support the efforts in securing their freedom, we humbly seek financial assistance. Bank details have been provided on my Facebook page."

Notable figures, including Prof. Isa Pantami and former presidential aide Bashir Ahmad, have expressed their condolences and are urging swift action. Ahmad, in a tweet, called on the Nigerian Police to respond to the situation promptly.

This tragic incident serves as a call to action for all concerned citizens. The hashtag #NajeebahAndHerSisters is being used to raise awareness on social media platforms. It is imperative that we unite in demanding swift and decisive action from the authorities. Our collective efforts can make a difference in amplifying the urgency of the situation.

Mayor Blogger will continue to provide updates on this heartbreaking situation. Our hearts go out to the Al-Kadriyar family during this challenging time. As we await justice and the safe return of the remaining victims, let's stand together against such heinous acts. Stay informed, stay connected, and contribute to the collective call for justice.

Watch full video below ⬇️

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5u00ElCHyGk



This is actually family issue sha, they will settle. These same Northerners did not see anythg wrong wt what the terrorists were doing. Not even when Deborah was killed did they show any remorse so na dem dem business. Most of them voted in the current government so make everybody enjoy the change.

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Politics / Re: Nigerians Have No Reason To Be Poor, Tinubu Tells APC Governors by Blendy77(f): 11:23am On Jan 14
Kuginzi:



https://www.channelstv.com/2024/01/12/we-have-no-reason-to-be-poor-tinubu-tells-apc-govs/

Him that increased Fuel, custom duties are these policies that targets the poor in Nigeria? Talk is very cheap indeed
Health / Re: Update On My Sister's Leg Injury 2 Years Later by Blendy77(f): 11:21am On Jan 14
This is indeed a miracle. Is she able to walk wt it?

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Family / Re: Should I Be More Selfish? by Blendy77(f): 1:24pm On Dec 29, 2023
Teach your siblings to hussle so u too can rest. After sponsoring ur bro thru OND you ought to hav told him to work and continue his education while u face ur own life. Same person will marry tomorrow and forget how u had to pause ur life for him. Love your neighbor like yourself not more than yoursef

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Family / Re: AWidow That Didn't Visit Me When I Gave Birth Expects Christmas Money From Me by Blendy77(f): 1:21pm On Dec 29, 2023
Ememmmi:
I have an uncle that passed on early last year. My daddy told me he's my "uncle" but a distant relation because I don't know him in the village. We only met in lagos here so I think we are related but not close relation. Before he died, I use to send money to him especially during covid. At times he will ask and atimes I will send without him asking me. So when he passed on early last year, I was still sending the little amount I can afford to his wife. Its been 4 months I gave birth and she did not even come to see me. Her house to my house is about 500 transport fare to and fro. She knows there's no how she will come to my house and I won't give her cash even if at all she don't have transport fare.

She called me 2 days ago asking of Christmas money. I told her I will send it but inside me I am not happy honestly. People came from very far distance to visit me when I gave birth but this woman didn't even show concern. Anytime she call me will always be to ask of money. She said all her husband relative has abandoned her.
It is not like I don't have money to give her but her attitude is bad. She has only one daughter which she claimed she's in university. I don't know how true is that
Do you think I should overlook her character and give her the money

You must be an extremely nice person to have spoken to her nicely. I gave birth 4 months ago, you never called or came to visit and assist me means you are not happy for me so let's all be selfish together. Tell her ur reason for not giving her so next time she won't repeat same attitude with others.
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:48pm On Nov 29, 2023
eseh1:
Please im just curious, i have been calling Dr Ese
he is not picking up. Please is there another medium of reaching out to him, does he prefer messages, chats, email?

Send WhatsApp message, he will respond when busy. Depending on reason u are calling, u can also reach his staff Joy 07039673757
Family / Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Blendy77(f): 9:07pm On Nov 28, 2023
beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.


Pcos is not a death sentence Bro. It only indicates she's not ovulating regularly and simple ovulation drugs/ supplements can take care of this. If u truly love her, u shouldnt hav this feeling of her being infertile at the back of ur mind. Love does not count wrongs nor keep records of wrongs. It covers all thgs. What's the guarantee that u will marry a presumably fertile woman and u will hav kids immediately or she will give u kids? See a gynae and drugs/supplements to manage pcos like furocysts or metformin will be given to her. She will be ok. Las las ivf is there to solve majority of fertility issue. Tell ur bro's wife to reach out to me lets see how we can help her out. Gone are d days when women suffer infertility in silence. There are so many ways to have kids legally now. Ruonar2000@yahoo.com is my email address. All the best
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 4:05pm On Nov 28, 2023
DoubleeT:


@Blendy, I sent a pm pls

Responded.
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 4:03pm On Nov 28, 2023
eseh1:
Hello blendy, pls assist me with DR. Ese phone number.

Dr Ese 07039706610
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 7:31am On Nov 27, 2023
Beautifulsenora:
Hello Everyone, I ran an ultrasound and the result..
It was detected that there is a subserosal fibriod on the left side of the uterus measuring 1.4cm in size, another one on the right side intramural in location measuring 1.8cm, this one is seen approaching the submicosal surface of the uterus and there is mild changes of adenomyosis. My doctor isn't available to analyze the result for me

I want to undergo ivf soon and was wondering if these things can hinder the success of the ivf, @blendy77, towerofgrace . Also if anyone has had a successful ivf with fibriod and all.

Thank you

The fibroid size doesn't look that big but atimes location matters especially the one in the womb. Talk to ur Doc, especially the one you are doing the IVF with. The Dr Ese we get most of our results with most times will ask you to remove or at least give lupron or zoladex for a while to reduce the adenomyosis. Fibroid removal atimes is not just for getting positive results but the discomfort and pains of carrying pregnancy with it is why most Drs advise removal especially if u are pregnant with multiples.
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 7:18am On Nov 27, 2023
JadeWilliam:

Wow!! Do u have a website!

So sorry for the late response, been busy planning our end of year hang out so havent checked this page in a while. We do not hav a website yet, we started as a BBM group, later moved to whatsapp and now telegram cos of space. We registered as an NGO last year. Our Facebook name is fruitful Babes.
This is just us in Lag, over 300 women in Lagos alone but we have members scattered nationwide, and even dispora all hav subgroups where we all gather and unwind at d end of the year.

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 7:30pm On Nov 06, 2023
JadeWilliam:

What does ur foundation do? Like what type do u have?


Its still centred around helping women conceive

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 12:18pm On Nov 04, 2023
Just saw these remaining Serrapeptase I assisted my people to buy from the US. Still going at old dollar rate of 27k. Expiring 2025 Anyone interested holla me @ ruonar2000@yahoo.com

Both taken please. Thks to all who reached out

Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 10:03pm On Nov 03, 2023
beesan:

Please Blendy help me with this, if one has done laparascopy for investigation is there any need for hysteroscopy again?

They are 2 different tests. Hysteroscopy that I kno checks the interior walls of the uterus for stuff like adhesions, polys, endometriosis, adeniomiosis etc with a view to correcting abnormalities. Drs recommend hysteroscopy most types after several failed ivf to see if there are issues with the tubes while laparoscopy checks the external areas of the womb like ovaries, tubes for blockage etc. Primecare just sent us a message sef that from January all ivf procedures must be accompanied by hysteroscopy results. If u hav done laparoscopy b4 and ur Dr is recommending hysteroscopy, close eye and do it especially if u hav had a failed ivf b4. Its just to increase ur chances. Although many times they don't find anythg from experience Cos scan also picks some of these abnormalities. Good thg about hysteroscopy is it can also be used as a corrective measure if somethg is found unlike scan

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Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 5:24am On Nov 01, 2023
TinaJoe:


Tanx blendy. Pls I sent you an email.

Seen and replied. Sorry for the late response

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