Nozino:



Ma, In all honesty, no orphanage home will accept a child with cerebral palsy. Most orphanages are understaffed and do not have the required skill set to care for a special needs child.

Most orphanage are owned and operated by a an older woman. How will she care for this child and others in her care?

Many orphanage homes especially in Lagos accept kids wt disability. It's d reason I asked for her location. I visited one recently on children's day at Badore, Ajah axis, a section is for kids with challenges while another one at surulere too is for disabled kids.

Kobojunkie:
1. Since she is concerned about her own child in her womb, why is she taking it on herself to decide the status of the other child?

2. If they abandon that child and disappeared, and that child ends up dead where she is abandoned by them, wouldn't the blood of that poor child be on them both then?

3. If the father of the child decides to kill his own child, then the blood is on his hands, not hers, right?

4. You all speak as though all kids in orphanage homes are better cared for, particularly in a place like Nigeria. I have seen stories of children raised in appalling conditions in so-called orphanages, so I would hesitate to recommend one for any child particularly if the father and mother are still alive.

5. I would rather a child with both father and mother alive be left in a hospice where the father and mother remit a certain amount regularly for its care, rather than advising them to completely abandon the child in an orphanage so they can go on and continue their lives like that child never happened. These children are not born without a heart and emotions to boot.

Put ur sef in her situation and advise what u will do in this circumstance and leave people's advise if they don't suit you. That's my own advice, give yours and stop turning yoursef to monitoring spirit. She needs help on what to do cos shes depressed and pregnant at the same time. If shes your younger sister, advice accordingly ehnn and move on or better still go and help them take the child. Have a nice day jare.

Kobojunkie:
So, let's say she and her husband get to abandon this child at an orphanage somewhere, does that mean they can settle to having other kids? Is that how you intend for this to work out for the couple then?

Did u read where she said shes heavily pregnant and can't take care of the child? for now it's her sanity that matters the most, since d mother abandoned the child and they can't afford a maid, Sis inlaw refused to help, her best option is Foster care till they are able to find their feet. Wod u rather they kill the child or abandon her n disappear? Hav u tot of if she leaves as planned the husband can do somethg terrible just to be free of the child? What is wrong wt an orphanage home in this circumstance if I may ask sef? I own an NGO where we visit orphanage homes regularly, 50% of kids there are not even adoptable, they will tell u the parents kept there on Foster care and will come back for them, many of these parents are either single girls who don't want to throw away d child or single fathers whose wives passed on and they just want the child to be taken care of till they find their feet. Its better than abandoning these kids like we see daily in dustbins n gutter so there is nothing wrong with orphanage home so far d child is taken care of there.

What state are u based? Why not look for an orphanage home and drop the child? Most accept kids with disabilities and am not sure they charge this much. Your husband made a mistake by not telling you before marriage but he probably thought its because you will leave him. Forgive his mistakes and help to find a solution. Both of I should look for a government orphanage home or school with boarding facilities and take d child there

Lagbenjo:



Okay . Am convinced that I should go for the zoladex.
Am not using doctor Ese. The doctor am using is in lbadan. By the way, who is Dr Ese and where is his hospital located?

Thank you for your reply .

That's the primecare Doc and he's in Abuja. Gentle on the supplements since ur tubes are patent. Even at that you need to flush if u are taking them for adhesions. All the best.

cutiebum17:
Hi mama,

Can anyone suggest Ivf clinic with high success rate in Lagos.
Anyone with experience with St Ives in Lagos, planning to do procedure with them

Would appreciate your kind and quick response

Olive branch Dr Emeka is very good. Though expensive now due to d dollar hike. U can also try Dr Ivie if cutting cost. She's sound and knows her onions. But if u really want to cut real cos and do ivf half d amount Lag Drs charge, your best bet is Abuja, Primecare. The results from there is somethg else.

PossiblityGod:

Ok mama.
I have been on ubiquinol 100mg 2x daily, omega 300mg 1daily, dhea, vit D3, melatonin and larginine for the past 3months , please do I need to add coast science it?

No. This shd be okay but endeavour to check ur amh if there is improvement or not. How old are you? I always advise those over 40 with very low amh and poor response with boosting to embrace donor and save themselves d headache of whipping their ovaries. Thank God for science and tech which has made everythg possible. If u still hav age like in ur 20s or early 30s with low amh then ur best bet is to find out and tackle d underlying factor responsible for the low amh. Once you can trace what's responsible, the rest is history

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Please mama,do you have idea where I can buy coast science in Lagos and the cost?

Unfortunately all d people I kno who used it ordered from amazon from d US. Where are u based? let me see how I can help. I kno Quinol plus is readily available but coast science am not too sure if people sell it here cos of the price. But do me an email lemme see how I can help. Ruonar2000@yahoo.com. I hope u kno Quinol plus does exactly the same job? 200mg Ubiquinol in Quinol plus = 400mg COq 10 while the COq 10 in coast science is about 600mg COq10 so it's close and over twice d price of quinol plus. Secondly a lot of peeps who use COQ10 equally got very good eggs both in quantity n quality but u need to boost for a while, depending on your age and AMH, minimum 3 months is recommended. If you still want d coast science do me an email stating ur location let me see how I can help. But check d prices of both on Amazon.com to infor ur decision

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Yes you can

Lagbenjo:



Thank you mama. I didn't see your reply before now , it was an oversight .

Am 34. My hubby sperm parameters is ok and he has been on men supplement for boosting motility and sperm so as not to take chances.

My issue is endometriosis , fibriods and left ovarian cyst . My tubes are patent .
I had surgery to remove all. It was after the surgery that the doctor told me that the issue is the endometriosis not fibriods . I have been try for 5 months now after the surgery. I still experience stabbing pain in the pelvic. In my last appointment to the doctor after 5month, the doctor told me to go for IVF and that if am ready , I should be injected with zoladex to stop me from menstruating for now.
My hubby said I should take the zoladex injection.

Anyone that has /had endometriosis and got pregnant through IVF or natural should please tell me what to do

Thank you

I think we have a couple of people with same condition who overcame this thru IVF. Zoladex for 3-4 months helps a lot with this condition. Are u considering Dr Ese as well? He handles such critical cases too. Heard d injection is expensive but it's worth it since it freezes ur natural cycle while ur egg quality is being preserved and improved. In all of this, do not take loan sha, save gradually for ivf as advised by others

Lagbenjo:
Good morning mothers and fathers of nation.
Thank for taking time to share your experiences. Am TTC considering IVF, though the money is not even at hand . My hubby and I are thinking of taking loan.

After reading part of this thread, I would want to ask , after taking supplements like Ubiquinol, Myo inositol , coast science, ferti lady,fertil men and host of others to improve sperm and egg quality and to improve the chances of IVF, why didn't it still result into natural pregnancies and one will still have to proceed for IVF.

As anyone use those drugs aforementioned and still got pregnant naturally ?
Thank you .

Pls don't take loan for ivf o, the outcome is not cast in stones so loan is a no no. Better to save little by little while boosting both ur eggs n sperm. What are ur issues? Are ur tubes open? How old are u? What about sperm iss? Do u hav any? The suppys u hav listed are all in d right direction so it should happen soon. Keep hope alive n keep trying naturally while saving gradually for ivf. U can also try flushing ur tubes even if they are open. There are times, little adhesions might not be picked up by hsg but ordinary flushing, with serra and even castor oil can handle it. Then praaaay! All the best Sis.

Osoderi:
Hello house, any body here that has done fibroid surgery and later did ivf.

pls i want to ask how many months can one allow wound to heal before going immediately for IVF?? Thank you for your response

3-4 months is very ideal

Emaaaaaaa:
Who can recommend a good fertility/Ivf clinic in Lagos and Abuja. With positive results?

For Abuja try Primecare. That's where it's happening now at a very good affordable rate. The results my people are getting from that axis cant be compared to many expensive centers in Lag. Dr Ese knows his onions and very sympathetic to this cause. He also experienced infertility so treats every case like his own. All the best

wonyi:
Please someone should recommend good vitamins to boost egg quality for 3 months

Try Quinol plus and vit E or coast science and vit E. They work like magic

Kayma2000:
Please Can someone recommend the best three fertility clinics/Doctors in Port Harcourt

For PH try Care Women Clinic off Peter Odili Road. Most of my people in PH got results here just that he's over 1m. Check online for his full address

This one just dey seek for relevance by all means

That's mud fish. It's very expensive compared to normal catfish cos it's very tasty n fleshy. The dry/smoked one doesn't get scattered in soup so classed alongside barracuda and red snipers hence its more expensive than normal catfish

TooNoisy:
Keep deceiving yourselves. Peter Obi will not get 25% in any northern state. He is unknown over there.

He is not known in Osun, Ogun, Ekiti, Ondo and Oyo. No chance of him getting 25% in these SW states.

He wouldn't get 25% in Edo and Delta for sure. Oshiomole/Obaseki will secure Edo for APC/PDP. Okowa will secure Delta for PDP as he is on the ballot.

Obi cannot win any South South State. Udom will secure Akwa Ibom for PDP. Duoye Diri will do same in Bayelsa. Wike will probably join APC or at least remain in PDP. Cross Rivers will be split between 3 parties.

Keep deceiving yourself. Who wants Okowa in Delta State? What project can he point to as his project in 8yrs? Atiku picking Okowa as his running mate is d beginning of his downfall. Obi all thr way

Bright2:


Good evening, wish to rejoin my set , I graduated in that school.

What year

Kazeem47:
NO SANE MUSLIM CAN TALK BAD ABOUT JESUS CHRIST,SO DON'T TALK BAD ABOUT PROPHET MUHAMMAD (S.A.W.).
For those that listened to the voice note of late Deborah,you can clearly hear some of her colleagues(which I believed are of the Christian faith too) warning her in the background about what she was about to post to the group chat.They knew they are in an environment that have different types of Muslims;the Extremists,Those on drugs e.t.c.They knew it won't end well but she still went ahead and post it.In the voice note,there was a point where she talk about Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) which I believe no Muslim in his her or her right sense can refer to Jesus Christ like that;even Boko Haram Terrorists don't use to talk Ill about Jesus Christ no matter what.Any Muslim that talk Ill about Jesus Christ has disobeyed God,the Books, Messengers and the Prophets.
If Deborah listened to the warning of her colleagues she would be alive today. Na stubborn fly dey follow dead body enter grave.Had it been she listened to her colleagues warning,all this will not be happening.
BTW,those that beat and burned her are supposed to take her to the appropriate authority and not to take the law into their hands.

So ElRufai who spoke about Jesus sleeping with Mary Magdalene is not a Muslim? or the Sterling Bank MD who compared Jesus resurrection to Agege bread is not a Muslim since you claim no Muslim insults Jesus. Life is sacred. If your religion teaches you to commit murder whenever anyone speaks ill of your prophet then somethg is wrong somewhere. Can you give life? What right do you or your religious brothers have to end someone's life cos of religion? You guys should sit down and ask yourselves, why world over only one religion causing havoc everywhere. Live and let live. If your God is truly God, you don't need to kill for him. No true religion serving God encourages spilling of blood of human beings. Know this and know peace. One love!

Just imagine the number of lawyers coming to defend murderers. It is well with Naija. The sooner this people understand life is sacred the better o. BTW, I thought news said she's been buried and showed her corpse being lowered? Which corpse come dey morgue again?

Politics will not let him send condolence message to Deborah's parents. Bunch of use'less polithiefcians. May God help this country

nedujizzy:
HELLO GUYS,PLEASE I WILL LIKE TO GET IN TOUCH WITH FORMER COLLEAGUES IN SECONDARY SCHOOL,IF YOU ATTENDED OR KNOW SOME ONE THAT ATTENDED BERETON COLLEGE IN PORT HARCOURT BETWEEN 1991 TO 1993, PLEASE LETS FORM A DISCUSSION UNIT HERE,

Hav you seen your classmates now? I finished in 1994, the pioneer set. Started JS 1 in 1989 and my set has a WhatsApp group. If you remember those in your class I could help you ask but I kno most sets now have their WhatsApp group where they coordinate their affairs. Also check Facebook if you haven't found your classmates yet

Tripletwins222:


Available!

Do u have quinol plus? 200mg coq10 +250mg Omega 3. Pls do let me kno if you hav it in stock as a lot of sisters need it urgently. Thks

cutiebum17:
Hi all TTC mum,

I am new to this IVF forum.I had both tubes blocked due to ectopic pregnancy. I tried IVF once in 2020 but it failed after embryo transfer.
Can anyone suggest best IVF centres with high success rates and could anyone testify using this centres with positive outcomes.
If yes?

Can i have the list of this centres.

Thank you.

Hello Dear, do u mind sharing the type of blockage you have? If its at the uterus side then you can try ivf again or take serra n flush to hav them opened but if the blockage is at the ovary side, then there's likely build up of fluid which prevented ur ivf from working. 2 options u can try out if ur tubes are blocked close to the ovaries, either you hav them tied, gummed, removed or try opening them with serra n flushing (though not easy with this type of blockage but in this journey, everythg is worth trying).
Its not just about changing hospitals but about investigating what caused the first failure and taking care of it before trying again. All the best

Beautifulsenora:
Blendy77 please I sent you DM. I need your counsel on an issue ��

So so sorry Dear, please resend the email to ruonar2000@yahoo.com. I have issues accessing the email registered on NL.

Upon the suffering in the land and salary not increasing, these people still want to add toll. It is well

Bosjack:
Dear Sirs/Mas,
Kindly advise especially if you have experience as regards this.
We have been TTC for about 7 years and my had done HSG about 6 years ago where it was revealed one tube was blocked. Nothing has happened after doing everything humanly possible. Recently, we met a Dr that has us to undergo some test including HSG. I initially told her that I had vowed never to allow my wife go through that process again since she insisted it has to be done to aid her investigation and treatment, we had to do it. The result shows both tubes are blocked and we can only go for IVF. The main issue is that since about 10 days that my wife did the HSG, she has been having serious and intense itching inside her private part. Some drugs were actually prescribed for her to take after the HSG to prevent infection, she has completed the drugs but the itching has persisted. I dont think this is normal. so i will like to know if anyone has had that experience and what can be done to stop it. Thank you

Hope ur wife is okay now? Obviously she had an infection after the HSG and it's best she treats it before it gets complicated. Depending on the type of blockage she has, she can take Serrapeptease, the Chinese teas and castor oil massage and flush. Many hav gone thru this routine and gotten results. Pls note hydrosalpnx are a lot more difficult to treat cos the blockage most types are at the ovary end so it take the grace of God to open it. But she can still try it out, otherwise the best is to face ivf n tie d tubes to avoid interference with toxic fluids from d blocked tubes.

Is it fully detached?

Truth is parenting is not for the faint hearted. I have a set of twins boys and they are 9 years old. I see of lot of this drama daily and honestly it's not easy. Get his Dad to be more involved in his life, keep talking to him and let him know kno you won't need to shout at him if he didn't preempt it. I have different sizes of cane at home and my boys know where they are kept. They kno what warrants flogging and what offence warrants talking calming and what office warrants shouting. Atimes when I say some things they might even respond that this is a new generation, that if its America they would have called in the police. I'll respond and say till u go to America na, for now you are in Nigeria so behave like Nigerians if you don't want more cane . Haaaa parenting is not easy o, many times I get tired and go in to report to their Dad to talk to them man to man, maybe they will understand. Don't give up Sis, don't be too hard on him and at the same time don't be too soft too. Instead of slaps get a cane and let him know the reason you have a cane. Reward good behaviours with goodies like small salary in their piggy banks, icecream and other largesse but let them kno that d reward for bad behaviour is cane so they have a choice to choose their behaviour
Parenting is not for the faint hearted I repeat.

nnamdiosu:


I had a better idea, which was getting a graphic person design a card, and I went to shomolu to print it. It was better, cheaper and how I totally wanted it

Can u help me with contact of a printer at Shomolu? I have already designed card so its just printing I need

OLESCO:



Thanks for the reply.... Pls I am not driving, had to use commercial taxi

Don't knoenif i can get to the place through cms or through yaba

Yes u can access it from CMS, its a long walk though cos Adeniji is closer. From yaba if u enter Obalende bus, tell them you want to drop at Adeniji then use bike or keke but I think it's walkable from there. Just look out for the wema bank