BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

Saintmary:



I don't see how your quote will help either the boy or the mother.


Unless you're looking for attention.

Vyvyanvyvy:
Hello fams just want to keep you updated , son messaged his father on Saturday he had attached a picture of him and his sister , he didn't get any response , so on sunday son called again through facebook video call he picked up and told him he is on his way to church he will call back later. He hasn't call back yet and son wants to call him back again today but I've told him to not call he should be patient he will call him when he's less busy. Son is desperately waiting to hear back from him and Hopefully he will call back anytime soon

achiever12:


You know all these because you live with her?
Stay there and be deceiving yourselves.

4 children from multiple fathers.

That's a sign that this woman is mentally dumb.

Did she get married to these men legally or was just opening her legs and giving birth?

Saintmary:



Go back and tap quote on the first post, so that the person who needs it can see it.

Saintmary:


If I were in your shoes, I would tell my son to delay contact with his father, then I'll enroll him to learn a skill.


Only when he has become financially stable will he be allowed to have a relationship with him, it's more difficult to manipulate a man who feeds himself.

peadel20:


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Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

lilianngozi:
Fruit mama’s, pls any remedy for high AMH?

sotall:
No R.I.P to type, no sorry given.

To think APC still won Benue state after the insecurity that state went through in the last 8 years. .....

That state deserves whatever insecurity they get.

Osoderi:


just to ask can one who come from far place travel back after two days when the embryo is transfer?

Andrenalin:


Can I pm u for details on this ... thanks

1Sharon:



You knew you had medical issues that interfered with conceiving so why blame it on fetish?

You Nigerian women don't tend to go for antenatal and other kinds of pregnancy tests to confirm the health of your baby then when you have stillborn and other issues with your pregnancies you start looking for an imaginary being to blame because your ego won't let you believe you're wrong.


You think your ex-landlady could have pulled that fear tactic on a skeptic? She wouldn't because she knows they'll laugh in her face and she'll look stupid.

You were the perfect paranoid candidate for your landlady and you fell for it and quivered.

zongemadel:
Hello house , please I need help because my wife open her tube 2 month ago and we have been trying again still no positive , please where is the best and sure ivf center in Ibadan here . Thanks

Exclusive143:


This really helped, thanks. I did the test early last year. So I might do another one next month and take you up on your offer. Thanks again ma'am.

Exclusive143:



Please how do I know if it's from the uterus end or the ovary end or if it's hydro? I'm a bit confused, but I'll start with the serrap and castor oil massage.

TwinHeart:
Hello mamas, I have a question about 2WW. My doctor said he was only going to give me 3 days sick leave to present at work.

So my question is that is there anyone that worked during 2WW or am I overthinking it? Should I apply for casual leave?

Exclusive143:


Thanks for the reply, ma'am. I did HSG last year. One tube is blocked and the other is open. Both Docs said I can depend on the only one that is open. Husband's sperm count is around 21 with a 5ml volume. Motility 40 percent. He was given some drugs to increase the motility but we've not done a follow-up SFA. The doctor recommended Letrozole for ovulation. Is there anything else I can add through the six months before we try IVF? I really appreciate your response ma'am.

Preggymum:


Good evening mama, pls are you in lagos? I want to know where you took zoladex injection, my gynae seems not to know what zoladex is. Kindly reply me. Thanks

lilianngozi:
pls how can one prepare the natural turmeric combo for detoxification?

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XXLaughter:
Thanks for your response sis. The range given was 1.5-4.0ng/ml. And I'm not even up to 35 years.

Timitoyo:


Clomiphene is bad , it disrupts your circle and leads to chemical pregnancy. I have used it before felt pregnant but got BFN , a week later I passed out a large clot of blood and was sick for almost a month.

Freshtwins:
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XXLaughter:
My Amh is 3.9, can i take these drugs too?
Been trying to conceive going to 3 years now, but no show. I haven't taken any ot these prenatals before.