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Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by house10s: 7:10am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:na now u know how u great ful women b shey |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by FiverrTutor(m): 7:12am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Davash222: I tell you my brother. It's so so annoying. All Nigerian women care about is looking for an unfortunate man to take care of all their needs. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Dalil8: 7:21am On Nov 19, 2021 |
phorget: What is the woman in question doing? That's why most parents don't bother sending their female kids to school or investing in them. It yields nothing. To marry Nigerian woman these days just be like to go buy bag of cement put for house. Useless to their own selves. @distinguish Even if you hack yourself to pieces, sell all ur body parts and give it to your wife she would still come to ur grave nagging about how u neva took care of her when you were alive. Women are never grateful, no matter what you do for them. So just focus on yourself and your kids when they come. 33 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Belafonte(m): 7:23am On Nov 19, 2021 |
endsarrrs: Amen 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:38am On Nov 19, 2021 |
The truth is a business that started 2months ago had not grown enough for you to start eating from it. It will run down in a week. Remember each time one goes to the market to restock, prices of goods are never the same. The amount you buy vegetable oil today is not the same amount you will buy it next week. Which means even with the little profit you thought you made, you will still not have enough to restock talk.more or buying extra things for the house. Someone who's starting a business for the first time will find it very hard to make it because the business is still in it's infant stage. Your wife knows what's she's experiencing and you should understand with her. If you people eat off the 2montjs old business, then be rest assured it will close down soon and that's why your wife is seeing. Things are really hard. 19 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Harddiskng(m): 7:40am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: I guess you didn’t talk because her comments made you really mad at that moment, that is good. Thanks to that we no dey hear man beats wife to d….. But the thing is you have to have a thorough financial discussion with your wife, at the end I think she would be more grateful (that is if she is not naturally ungrateful). You need to let her know how the money you loaned her for the business is affecting you and you need to make her very accountable (atleast this would help you know the limit to what you can take from the business): you need to know how much she is making from the business - I have seen this alot, men keep pumping money into their wife’s business all because she wants to keep busy, only to find out years after that their wife has zero entrepreneurial skill and the business is a money pit. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Fourwinds: 7:44am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Bola146: Guys should avoid (I will manage with you) kind of women.every woman na material being.dem like good things and naso GOD create dem. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by dawnomike(m): 7:57am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:Take her for pregnancy test... She might be pregnant already unknown to you. Women misbehave alot when pregnant. 6 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 7:58am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: Did she not know your status when she said yes to you?? You're doing your best for a jobless woman and rather than her to be appreciative and supportive, she's giving you faces and all... If she thinks it's easy to make money, why is she not making enough to take care of herself (at the very least)?? Abi them tie her leg with chain?? OP, everywhere get as e be... I believe you're a good man who is doing his best to make his wife comfortable, that's probably why you could forgo your program in favour of meeting the family needs (I like to believe so Sha)... Go out there, work hard...work smart, make more money, and please don't succumb to pressure.... And OP, try chop food o, you can't hustle effectively on an empty stomach!! 5 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Talib93(m): 8:01am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Bro check your blood pressure twice a week oh, na silent killer dey come so......Secondly, u need breakthrough..... any relationship built on panic na so the man dey suffer. Next time, quarrel and eat the food oh, na your right be that, as a man "na dem dey rush you"... so long as you know you don do wetin her papa no fit do for her, relax... If she make yanga too much, pikin wey misbehave you go flog am but wife wey misbehave you go waka commot oh b4 you hear for instagram " marital abuse" Lastly, you no need to force kids out at the moment if you're been honest , you need peace of mind...with peace of mind kids go come easily distinguish: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Kobicove(m): 8:03am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: For a new business to become profitable it needs to reinvest it's profits for the first few years. Try not to overburden the biz with daily expenses but make it very clear to your wife that she needs to manage it properly so it can start making profit 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Talib93(m): 8:04am On Nov 19, 2021 |
dawnomike:Guy no dey deceive am, na "indaboski" him marry... 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by NarcissistKing(m): 8:14am On Nov 19, 2021 |
You are the cause of your problem. You married someone with no job. An idle woman with high taste! Deal with it. Or were you expecting us to advise you divorce her? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by AfroKnight: 8:25am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Try to stop eating from a business of 2 months. Let it grow. 6 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Chummynoni(m): 8:26am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Dont lose your sanity. I will remind you again |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Dagger111(m): 8:26am On Nov 19, 2021 |
If she is driving you crazy, ride her madly too. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by snoopz: 8:28am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Na you wan kill your self... Marry someone that is matured and self sufficient and not a burden or that will turn out to be a burden.... I children con come nko, how una wan survive |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by LyfeJennings(m): 8:28am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Hmmmmmm Wahala is loading Oga, just do ur bits |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Imustreturn(m): 8:29am On Nov 19, 2021 |
I must have money before I marry you can't tell me otherwise.. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by DabuIIIT: 8:29am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Women hardly respect good guys. 14 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Mvena(f): 8:29am On Nov 19, 2021 |
No matter what happens, try dey chop abeg 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by marsup: 8:29am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Ignore her and keep taking care of your responsibilities as a man. One day she will bite more than she can chew. May God meet you at the point of your needs. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Frales6(f): 8:30am On Nov 19, 2021 |
No marriage is without challenges, it's left for the couple to intentionally make it work no matter what. Marry who is mature enough to understand that anything can happen in life, wether in marriage or not bcox life can happen to anybody. I wish you have that kind of family that husband and wife can easily communicate and discuss how to make things work without abusing each other. 4 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by RealLordZeus(m): 8:30am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Any relationship that survive this economy need tiri gbosa 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by COdeGenesis: 8:30am On Nov 19, 2021 |
There is a communication gap between you guys. It seems you guys are not true to each other. I believe the state of your finances should be known to her and hers to you. Put heads together as partners to see how you can sustain the business. If she is complaining about the house expenses affecting the business then you guys should talk and consider various options that can help mitigate this issue. Bottom line there need to be understanding and communication. Seems you guys dont understand eachother 7 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by OgbeniOptional(m): 8:30am On Nov 19, 2021 |
It’s good to empower a woman but I think it’s high time men stop sacrificing their professional growth for that of a woman, always end in tears, talking from experience. I don’t know why m some women are like that though and it’s really challenging mentally for men. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by lomprico(m): 8:31am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Bola146: it's not a foundation issue ogbeni! it's a financial 5 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by philo04(m): 8:31am On Nov 19, 2021 |
silvoclaira:Op listen to this advice ....okay all will be fine 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Solofresh2: 8:32am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Anything wey concern marriage matter,I no dey shoot mouth again Make everybody carry him cross abeg 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by fredoooooo: 8:32am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Take care of yourself before you take care of other people. 5 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Divoc19(f): 8:32am On Nov 19, 2021 |
There's time for everything. A time to fight and a time to makeup. Try and let it slide by growing a thick skin. You cannot kill yourself. |
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