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Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Bbqekpa: 8:53am On Nov 19, 2021 |
I'm in same dilenmA Women are not loyal atal 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by EngineerOloye: 8:53am On Nov 19, 2021 |
simplepee:How much money you do gather o.... E no go fit finish? 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by vickydevoka(m): 8:54am On Nov 19, 2021 |
NarcissistKing:To worsen it all de lady don hit menopause. Some women menopause is as early as 32 o. O.p u don enter one Chance. Most men de love forget de fundamentals for marriage n couples. Women no de love, Dem de very strategic. De work with age n Time with physical attributes. If age no dey, Dem go wan use romance finish u like say na love 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by assent: 8:54am On Nov 19, 2021 |
silvoclaira: The wife is not a good woman. She is a bad woman |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 8:54am On Nov 19, 2021 |
This has absolutely nothing to do with whether the wife works or not. The woman has other issues that are eating her up. Bola146: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 8:55am On Nov 19, 2021 |
This has nothing to do with liability. phorget: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by robortonia: 8:55am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: Lol....she must have been thinking to her sef..."which kind marriage be this sef?" Why i go marry this poor man? Wen she was alone and wen u came back she couldn't help but pour the aggression on u as if u are the one responsible for her misfortunes, while u work ur ass out and feel worthless...am sure there is an unholy union she is keeping that is bringing in those thoughts...its a red flag....i can bet my balls that her regards and respect for u has taken a nosedive....just try and improve ursef and enjoy your life else you go just die b4 ur time |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by CsRockefeller(m): 8:56am On Nov 19, 2021 |
simplepee: Your post doesn't relate at all. One can have both at the same time. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by ityP(m): 8:56am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Divorce her now please 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Exceed15: 8:56am On Nov 19, 2021 |
I m married for 4years now and we had share of quarrelling. My guy calm down, u people are going through the adjustment stage. At least the first 1- 5 yrs would have a lot shakings. Infact sometimes you even regret marrying your spouse but all na lie ( you did not make a mistake) because that's is the feeling you get It's just a stage and it will pass over . More importantly there is need for more open communication on this current matter and lay emphasis of her verbal abuse. Tell it breaks your heart, I m sure she'd apologize . I can tell you that your wife is a good woman but just letting emotions drive her instead of being logical , that's woman for you. Guy calm down you go still carry this your wife enter Maldive go chop am well well. God go do am. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Nobody: 8:56am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:I want to first appreciate you for your commitment towards your house, is not all men that çare about the well-being of there wife so I really appreciate you for it I have some questions I want to ask you 1, She knew you get the loan from work? 2, Are you open up to her financially? If you can answer all this question faithfully the problem can be resolved, don't develop hatred she has a point eating from business will affect both of you try to understand her shallom |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by TUTU147: 8:56am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Take easy for my brother, everything will be fine. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Sermwell(m): 8:56am On Nov 19, 2021 |
MadamVanessa:Swear that you have never given your opinion on a matter here on nairaland without hearing the other side of a story! You do this everyday! 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by braine(m): 8:57am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Davash222: Deep. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by jornwhite: 8:57am On Nov 19, 2021 |
MadamVanessa: Yiimu ! is their something OP said that we've not heard before, or is it not the same nagging & brokeshaming women do when a man is not bringing in enough money. whats new naa advise dem need, leave judge for courtroom 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Jonah507(m): 8:57am On Nov 19, 2021 |
.....my advise is that you continue refusing her food till you faint off |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Jonah507(m): 8:58am On Nov 19, 2021 |
.....my advise is that you continue refusing her food till you faint off[/quote] |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by lomprico(m): 8:58am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Dalil8: she complained, yes she should have been considerate. if he had enough money he would have given her what she complained about and woulnt have posted this here. that's why I said he should talk to her about the finance issue. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by rajiedreez: 8:59am On Nov 19, 2021 |
There's always little or no preparation from couples before going into marriage lately. Women tend to still be used to the dating days ideas when going into marriage and men thinks that the woman should automatically adjust her reasoning since she's now married. It take two to tango. The way you toast her when she wanted to be your girlfriend, you'll need to do another toasting when you intend to take as your wife. Both of you should be realistic enough to be prepared about the next face of the relationship |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Nyascobar1414: 9:00am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Ok ;DOk |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Goldiness: 9:00am On Nov 19, 2021 |
The beginning of every good marriage is sometimes tougher than expected. Relax don't worry this phase shall pass I tell you, most marriages faced even worst than this at the beginning, but later on they overcom and became stronger and wealth came. The one thing I would say is that both of you should love and co-operate with each other, prayerful and move forward. Don't let anyone here or there discourage you about your marriage. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by rollywise(m): 9:00am On Nov 19, 2021 |
First you have to understand this is the nature of women so you don't get too paranoid. If she's not complaining and she's not encouraging you then she doesn't love you. She must be doing one so thank God she's complaining. Don't push yourself too hard. Her life will take a new shape if you drop dead and she'll MOVE ON! Your wife needs to be talked to. Talk to someone she respects to call her to order. But if this is the first time she's nagging like this then call her and talk to her. If it's now a normal occurrence then get someone she respects and listen to to talk to her coz fact is you've married her o. It's solution you'll seek. The cost of divorce is far higher than what you seeing now |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:01am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Many of you commenting about the wife working are just trying to force the issue in that direction. Whether a woman works or not has no bearing on how appreciative she would be as regards her husband. Also, the OP made it clear that they have been trying to conceive and the stress is getting to her. Women have been known to behave differently when something is disturbing them. From what the OP said i can reason that she is trying to look for something to distract her from the issues they are facing, hence her giving her husband attitude and complaining. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by ayenale1(m): 9:01am On Nov 19, 2021 |
God will give u the strength to pay the loan finish and never never in ur life try such even if she complain from now till eternity my brother don't alter any word jus be your self...if she no give u do d do...get it outside but use ur brain... |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by emmanuelbrown26: 9:01am On Nov 19, 2021 |
okoroemeka:They wayu guys give excuse baffles me. op has told said that he wanted to run a professional course this November but bcs of the money he borrowed from his work and used the money to set up business, what else do u want him to do? To go and Rob or what 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by willarrie(m): 9:01am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Hi Op, l feel ur pain, but one mistake u made is empowering ur wife and expecting her to take care of the home, it hardly ever end well, no matter what, make sure u still run things in the house, the empowerment u gave her should simply be for her to take care of her little needs & probably her parents. Never & l repeat never leave the the upkeep of ur home solely to ur wife, when u go this route, with time, she will willingly support u out of her own volition without disrespecting u. Shalom! 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:02am On Nov 19, 2021 |
This has nothing to do with whether the woman is working or not Fourwinds: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:02am On Nov 19, 2021 |
That is a possibility dawnomike: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by tunize(m): 9:02am On Nov 19, 2021 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:Wisdom |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by gabicon: 9:03am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:Oxygen for a year old marriage is communication, you guys have to sit down and talk, bare all the emotions out. The conception thing can be the underlying issue but I believe the main issue is that you don't have a family vision. I tell folks before they get married to have a family vision, it will save them a lot of head aches. Your vision will encompass finance, children, career/business, home running etc. Then your vision will require goals to make them achievable. As it stands you and your wife are going in two different directions she wants more TLC and you are financially strained, it's just like your left leg going one direction and the right leg going the opposite, there is no directional movement. A family vision will help take care of direction, every party knows where the family is heading, financial vision will ensure that your wife doesn't ask for what the family doesn't have, romantic vision will ensure that every ones romantic/emotional needs are satisfied. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:03am On Nov 19, 2021 |
You guys are really funny. This is not a matter of whether the woman is jobless or not. Favfables1: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Olayetan(m): 9:03am On Nov 19, 2021 |
You will find out it's basically money that causes 90% of every marriage crisis. Before you go into marriage, pls have enough savings to avoid seeing your marriage crashes. I'm also facing one despite we aren't married officially... 2 Likes |
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