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Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by mrksquare: 9:04am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish: But you ain't suppose to be feeding from the business. One of the major reasons businesses die in Africa is the inability to separate the business from its owner. In Accounting it is called the "Business entity concept". At the pace you guys are running the business it won't grow. Meanwhile, just take things easy with your wife. Don't give in to her sudden attitude. Everything will be fine. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:05am On Nov 19, 2021 |
This not a matter of whether the woman has a job or not. [s] NarcissistKing:[/s] |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by IJEYdiamond(f): 9:07am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Davash222: Simps full everywhere no be only Nigeria na because ground no to level for naija. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:08am On Nov 19, 2021 |
The fact of the matter is, they are trying to conceive. It is possible the woman is anxious about is looking for ways to distract herself. A woman not being able to conceive 1 year after marriage would certainly cause to be anxious and worried. Frales6: 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by emmanuelbrown26: 9:08am On Nov 19, 2021 |
flokii:As in ehhhhhh, u see why marriage is overrated, just look at a very hardworking guy, that had his peace of mind, but now that he has married, he started loosing sleep and joy all bcs of marriage, Jah forbid 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by gbagyiza: 9:09am On Nov 19, 2021 |
GoldenJAT: You see the economic pressure is affecting a lot of marriages. That marriage is too young to go through this stress. The woman needs to calm down and encourage the husband. Calling him names will not solve the issue, it will only lead to the destruction of the family. Things are hard generally in Nigeria, and the woman needs to take it easy before she will do something she all regret in the future. This is one of the reasons young men will run away from getting married and at the end ladies will begin to lament that there are no husbands to marry. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by femi4: 9:09am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:Let her know how you spend your income . She believed you have money somewhere.....you have to be open with her financially |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Francismeek(m): 9:09am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Brother there's a reason they said men love unconditionally but women love opportunistically, women love only on the bases you provide something, what you did for them in the past doesn't matter once you ain't doing it continuously,... Don't be frustrated ,just pray to God to improve your finance that's all... But know women can change on you anytime any day ,... Their loyalty is only to their feelings. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by emekafelix1: 9:10am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Brother, go and eat her food, don't kill yourself before your time. woman are same .her problem is conception to keep her busy and her joy full. your marriage is too young and you do not distraction just focus and hustle for more money. If business is not properly manage especially when its same source of feeding it will close down. let the business. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by NarcissistKing(m): 9:11am On Nov 19, 2021 |
angelfallz: Says a kid that's being fed by his nana. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by garyaustin(m): 9:11am On Nov 19, 2021 |
She might be pregnant! Go for Lab test. Congratulations in advance. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by BigBashiru: 9:11am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Davash222: And never mind the woman don old finish at the point they wanna marry and don fukkk tire. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by alizma: 9:12am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Which model of car are you, automatic or manual? These will help me to advise you properly. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by emekafelix1: 9:12am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Brother, go and eat her food, don't kill yourself before your time. woman are same .her problem is conception to keep her busy and her joy full. your marriage is too young and you do not need distraction just focus and hustle for more money. If business is not properly manage especially when its same source of feeding it will close down. let the business grow |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:13am On Nov 19, 2021 |
I agree it is not a foundation issue. But i disagree that it is financial. Remember the OP said they are trying to conceive. The keyword is "trying". It is possible that not being able to conceive yet, is playing on the woman's mind. Hence making her act irrationally and looking for things to distract her or take her mind of the issue. It is probably why she wants to get out of the house. It is also possible that, she is fearful that her husband might be thinking of getting another wife, hence her accusations that he is not taking good care of her. lomprico: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Lamanii22(f): 9:13am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Bola146: I love the way you reason.... |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by mayo47(m): 9:13am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Very Good Comment Here..... Bola146: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by NarcissistKing(m): 9:13am On Nov 19, 2021 |
vickydevoka: The guy should carry his cross and deal with it. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by lucky4west: 9:13am On Nov 19, 2021 |
i know how you feel bro, i can see you are a good fellow....and your wife too is a good woman, you guys need to find a way to handle the pressure and the ups and down that come with marriage....you have to try to raise cash via another source not only salary otherwise wahala go plenty....my salary cannot take care of my family of 4 kids and a wife i have to put alot of other machinery in motion to bring in extra cash...i have a side bizness i run all legit ....also give ur life fully to Jesus Christ and be committed to his work...God no de abandon his own, soon u will surmount all these trials... |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Francismeek(m): 9:14am On Nov 19, 2021 |
phorget:I can gladly set up my wife to be it's nothing, but she has to be a hustler too |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by SilasIBB: 9:14am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Never in any cases refuse food prepared by your wife. |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:14am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Lol is that the best you can come up with? You seriously need to improve your game. NarcissistKing: 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Frales6(f): 9:17am On Nov 19, 2021 |
angelfallz:It's true. Not easy sha...both for the wife and the man too...everybody dey under pressure 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by NarcissistKing(m): 9:17am On Nov 19, 2021 |
angelfallz: I won't indulge you no more, kiddo. Now, run along.
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Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:18am On Nov 19, 2021 |
vickydevoka:That's your sister. That's why our businesses run down few months after starting. We want to start reaping from a business that we should be building. A business needs to be built to an extent before you can eat off it and it will still stand. It's like starting a business today and expecting to start paying house rent from it and school fees the way someone running that business for 5 to 10yrs is doing. Yours will die off and you will be calling village people. If you want to start off such business, make sure you have your rent for that year and if possible the following year iean including the shop rent if you are renting a shop. Make sure you have food to sustain yourself with while the business grows a little except you are willing to starve fora few months or years. You sister allows your guys to take coke but can't let her husband take groundnuts, that's her. She thinks her husband is the enemy of her business meanwhile you guys are. It also depends on her relationship with her husband so don't you that as a yardstick to measure other women's relationship with their husbands. Businesses grow faster when the owner has less responsibilities, like being single, staying in a family house, doing the business in a good place, not paying much transport to the place of the business and all that and also how much was use as the kick off capital. Not when you use 200k to start w provision store and then your bills and feeding comes from the same shop and you think such a business will last 6months. It won't. 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by cymbal24: 9:19am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:Guy, you're not the only one in this... The first year of marriage is very tough cos you need to be patient as well as loving. Whenever you feel down, simply think about the good things that made you love your wife in the first instance. You can do well to read articles from this page as they've helped my marriage too: https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/ 1 Like |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Funkybabee(f): 9:19am On Nov 19, 2021 |
I hope you are repaying the loan from the business money, it must not be from your salary pls make it clear so that u can balance your responsibility at home |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by WHITELIGHTER: 9:19am On Nov 19, 2021 |
MadamVanessa: As a lady I wouldn't expect any less from you. If na woman post this now, u for nu Yan like this....I fear who nu fear una |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by BigBashiru: 9:20am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Francismeek: Their loyalty is only to their feelings and to whatever is convenient for them. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by angelfallz(m): 9:20am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Where do you want me to run along to mister? Funny picture though, where did you get it? Lastly, you seriously need to up your game. Your insults or comebacks are not up to standard okay? NarcissistKing: |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by OlawaleBammie: 9:21am On Nov 19, 2021 |
distinguish:should i add salt to the injury?? Wen u finally bear children, dey will value her more than u. 3 Likes |
Re: Advice Needed, My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy by Ruggman: 9:22am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Normal things in marriage, just chill and continue, your are doing well. Sacrificing to establish her is wonderful, she need to grow up and appreciate what you have done. It is good that you didn't respond to her outburst, otherwise things would have gotten out of hand. Don't stop Loving and supporting her, she will later show appreciation. NB : NEVER ABANDON FOOD TO SLEEP HUNGRY YOU WILL HARM YOURSELF. AFTER ALL THE FOOD IS YOURS, THE WOMAN IS YOURS, THE HOME IS YOURS. God bless your family |
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