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Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Candidlady: 7:02am On May 11, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Candid.lady how do you do this? The bolded.. Good morning chapstick Go to symbols you'd find it there •°•●○■ |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Bignuell(m): 7:03am On May 11, 2022 |
At OP, not saying it's not good to get your own apartment, but you're broke at the moment. Try find out whether she dey stay alone or na those 5 girls one room kinda combo. Your priority should be finding a job not succumbing to the ultimatum of your girlfriend. Maybe the banny self dey find where she go dey crash 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by GreenArrow1(m): 7:05am On May 11, 2022 |
Better step up your hustle and get that apartment. Not just because of her, but mainly for yourself. It will be the start of the next chapter of your life. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:08am On May 11, 2022 |
Candidlady:
Good morning chapstick Go to symbols you'd find it there
•°•●○■ What symbol tho.. |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by OscarJaden(m): 7:11am On May 11, 2022 |
SNEFF: you dey let girl wey no get 50k for account stress you.. why you wan impress the girl when you no get enough bar(money).. the girl even wise pass you na girl were help op settle him loan no get 50k for account? Lol 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 7:18am On May 11, 2022 |
Zanzibar1: I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.
There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me. She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.
I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her . She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.
I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.
Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.
I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.
Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart my babe did the same in 2019 now I'm living alone.. your babe want privacy n she really likes you 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by 1876sxx: 7:22am On May 11, 2022 |
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She obviously likes him very much.
You took the words outta out mouth(s). You typed down word for word what we were about to type even before seeing your comment.
@OP, your priority should be about getting a job now, then you can save towards getting an accommodation, which will make both of you happy at the end of it all. All the very best. [/s] |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Clinghton: 7:22am On May 11, 2022 |
Flow with the tide that suits you, step into the sea with caution. |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Nobody: 7:28am On May 11, 2022 |
This relationship will never work. The relationship is built on lust, the op likes her because of her curves.
She is financially buoyant than you, this is a problem that will lead to your depression later in the relationship except maybe you are shameless.
Nigerian men love it when a girl is spending on them not knowing they are creating their own ruins. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Fiscus105(m): 7:32am On May 11, 2022 |
Zanzibar1: I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.
There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me. She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.
I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her . She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.
I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.
Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.
I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.
Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart If it's girl following guy without knowing his job, you guys would be saying all sort unprinted names for herDnt u think that you need to set urself up for now and leave anything call relationship? That's why many men Normally lost it, you leave most important issues and pursuing less important. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Jaysleeves(m): 7:32am On May 11, 2022 |
Zanzibar1: I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.
There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me. She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.
I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her . She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.
I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.
Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.
I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.
Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart Thats a wife you got there dude. She sees something in you that you haven't seen. Get a hustle (legit please ) and stop overthinking on what she does for a living. The babe they package you for good. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by JoyousFurnitire(m): 7:55am On May 11, 2022 |
You're a mumu man because you borrowed money from loan shark to take her out. You could easily take her to a mama put and the love she got for you will be * 5, ladies love real niggas. You didn't even specify the kind of job you want na over love ( ) wan kill you. If you guys are yet to have fun fun all this talk from her for you to get an apartment is just for you guys to have fun without the thought of your guy will soon be back or taking her to the hotel like a hoe (I've been there). My advice: this relationship could boost you or break you. How easy will it be for you to break up with a girl that contributes to you securing an apartment? If she does, make sure you pay her back her money. Else you really want to be with her and not just for fun.Use your head. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by lilachiever(m): 7:58am On May 11, 2022 |
You no get money and you dey love.
Wetin dey motivate you abeg. Most relationships don't last in the absence of mulla. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Candidlady: 8:05am On May 11, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:
What symbol tho.. Symbols on you keyboard How do iexplain this 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:06am On May 11, 2022 |
Candidlady:
Symbols on you keyboard How do iexplain this ••••••••°°°°°°°°°°•••••••√°°°°°°°°°••• Haha CandidLady I am sorry.. Now I got it.. Wow.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Thebadpolitican(m): 8:23am On May 11, 2022 |
Zanzibar1: I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.
There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me. She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.
I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her . She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.
I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.
Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.
I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.
Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart Bro for now I would advice you look into ashawo hustle Yes no capping ladies can do it you can aswell just stay focused and determined I see you succeeding Goodluck bro |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Nobody: 8:27am On May 11, 2022 |
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Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Milotus(m): 8:39am On May 11, 2022 |
OK |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by gift2xl: 8:41am On May 11, 2022 |
Since creation women hate to share. |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by chukwuibuipob: 8:41am On May 11, 2022 |
u borrowed money to impress a lady ? Thank God,she's NOT a Aradite/parasite type, ur life for don BEND beyond repair .Collect the money and go luk for moderate self mini fl@t in Aboru/ipaja(if u stay in Lagos) A minimum of 180/200k will give u one there sha.From there, hit the ground running (job/biz wise) |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Fedrick100: 8:42am On May 11, 2022 |
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Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by BlackBarbie007(m): 8:43am On May 11, 2022 |
PerfectStranger: What are you doing in a relationship with a Nigerian girl when you could barely afford a house? Sometimes na we dey use our hand cook breakfast give ourselves. But she ain’t complaining about him not giving her money. She just wan ate him to get his own house and she said she’d help out too when it’s time. I think she’s a good one |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Rexymania(m): 8:44am On May 11, 2022 |
She's a good lady. We need ladies like that to wake us up |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by remiopash: 8:44am On May 11, 2022 |
TELL HER YOU DON'T HAVE MONEY FOR NOW,WHEN YOU YOU HAVE, YOU WOULD GET YOUR OWN APARTMENT .DONT LET ANYTHING STRESS YOUR MENTAL HEALTH.BE PLAIN TO HER.IF SHE LOVES YOU,SHE WILL STAY. TRY AND BE CONSISTENT WITH YOUR JOB SEARCH AS WELL.ABOVE ALL,TRY AND FIND OUT WHAT SHE DOES FOR A LIVING APART FROM SELLING HAIR BLA BLA... |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by akins33: 8:44am On May 11, 2022 |
bmdmix14: U took loan to take a girl out. Lol u are finish Dem don wash beans water on top his head..hahahahahha |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Mendy101: 8:45am On May 11, 2022 |
Zanzibar1: I have come here to raise this issue because i believe someone must have passed through what i am going through at the moment.
There is this Lady i met in March, she is super classy and has all the curves and looks like a model. What brought us together was just a friendly convo and a friendly tease that i admire her nails and since then she has been all over me. She asked me if i lived alone and i told her i currently stay with a friend because i just relocated to the city based on job hunting levels. She asked what my plan was and i told her that i would like to first get an apartment while i sort out other things.
I don't know what exactly she does for a living although she said she sells women hairs, bags and shoes. I have actually seen her post them on her whatsapp. What surprise me the most was that she doesn't deny me access to her phone. This made me to loosen my grip a bit regarding my phone privacy ... Then one day, she saw a loan app message requesting me to pay my outstanding debt, she asked me how come and i told her the truth that i was seriously broke and i wanted to take her out. I wanted the two of us to go swim together and have fun. And that was why i took the loan. She frowned and asked why i was stressing myself to impress her . She transfered some money to me to offset the debt. it all happened like juju. i am still trying to wrap my head around that.
I am trying my best to fit in with her but something is really off somewhere. I don't want to assume i know entirely what she does for a living but then, i have grown to really admire her. I wouldn't want to call it love but all my thoughts are always about her nowadays. Like 4 days ago i questioned her about some friends of hers i saw on her icloud and since then she has been giving me tough time.
Lately, she told me point blank that if i cant get my own apartment, she'll have to stop dating me. she said she is ready to even pay part of the money involved but a nigga got nothing to afford even a face me and face you room. I have tried my best to explain to her how i am even surviving and how broke i am to get a 150k self con. She keeps saying i am going to get a job and ill be fine, that i am a man and i will certainly raise the money if she as a lady can raise part of it.
I dont know why she believes so much in that tho cuz i have been very opened to her. My mind has been filled up and i dont have anyone to share it with thats why i brought it here. i have my doubts about her but i love her.
Please pardon any typos, i am writing this straight from my heart You see someone trying to push you to be better you in your own does not believe that you will be better, instead you believe in loans and poor decisions... Try and raise any amount and get whatever you can afford |
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Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Nikkganc08(m): 8:46am On May 11, 2022 |
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Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by DenreleDave(m): 8:46am On May 11, 2022 |
doggedfighter: How is she your girl?
Your jobless self met a lady in March and you know next to nothing about her .
The next thing is to call her your girl .
And to think you relocated to come find work.
Reason you are squatting
Now you are creating threads on ' your girl '
Call your mum on phone and narrate what you are telling us here to her
And hear what she will tell you
Gently roast the guy.. Miss dog |
Re: My Girl Wants Me To Get My Own Apartment Or She Leaves by Badgers14: 8:46am On May 11, 2022 |
ifex370:
The thread should be focused more on getting you a job, than on your new found love.
comrade OP try de focus naaaa.
Are you trying to say you're not currently engaged in anything? Anything at all.
That girl will leave you oooo. E go do you like film. Better make her see you're not wasting her time.
Better go out and do something.
I can't say much.. But even if na lebuke work.. Try do. Let her see you're not a lazy person. |