You see am? He was just interested in getting married to her as a cover up of his sexuality. And then she ends up miserable and all alone in the marriage without being touched! In fact, she really dodged a bullet!

They're so many of them like that whose wives have been reporting and complaining bitterly about them on Facebook groups! May God not allow us to " miss road".

ednut1:
its in the link I attached na. She did an interview yesterday with sdk blog. Wait o i just read it well again. He was cheating and didn’t nack those woman , chineke . Either gay or impotent

engrpheleeks:

Well, I think she must have seen the signs all along that he is gay. She cannot deny not have read the handwriting on the wall. Was she expecting him to openly tell her that he is gay? She saw all these signs and still decided to stick with him.
And talking about deceit, if you say 'why didn't he travel abroad to marry a white guy? Why did he deceive her?' Maybe he is not proud of being gay. It's possible he is gay but not proud of the lifestyle. I feel she should have confronted him about the decision of staying celibate.
We can only say he deceived her if they eventually got married and yet couldn't have sex. But as long as they didn't marry, he didn't deceive her.

He was deceiving her if she wanted sex and he told her to be celibate when the truth is that he's not attracted to her. He needed her money to do certain things, but was not there due to attraction or love. That's considerable deception. He should've traveled to a country where he can marry a man rather than tie her down for 5 years with celibacy, like he's born again.

From their chats he is egotistic and self-absorbed. Narcissists claim not to deceive people, even when they do.

siofra:
I knew there was something very wrong with their relationship.

Nigerian men will stain your black!

Fancy has a good heart. Nigerian women with good heart are a perfect prey for wicked Nigerian men. Stay wicked ladies!

Did you know that there's a fake app I can use to run a fake chat with anyone and it will look lime it's the person

Dey there, internet and all dey advance on a daily ..... meanwhile I've not been following all these brouhaha sef, if e pass action film, osadebe,Oliver, chijioke mbanefo etc, I'm not interested

HitSong:

Why should any sane and right thinking Man commit sincerely to a whóre/SLÚT?

What's there to value or cherish from what has been passed around by multiple men like football?

Any girl with more than 2 bodycount is a WASTE and a waste of time.

Cc: fucksilly

Bullcrap!! Na people like you go still marry olosho las las

Was he also celibate, or was he sleeping...around with everything in skirts and trousers.

Kapeter:
Shouldn't she still be happy abi at least one thing I've come to learn about Nigerian girls is that if you are not so certain about marrying them (infact if you never marry them self) don't even ever let your chest mistakenly touch theirs especially when you notice they are in love with you cuz na the beginning of their witchcraft madness be dat. If you ever hear them screaming "You used me" after breakup na wetin Dem dey talk gan gan be dat. Honestly Alexx did nothing wrong by not touching her really. You can see dude is quite more concerned about his life, Fancy just insecure nothing more. Wrote that long epistle about how she'd cancel the wedding bla bla bla and then still waiting for Alexx to reply even after already telling few friends and one Mrs Toyin. When you know you don't share same vision then take a stand and be sure what you want to do. All the she's spending too much bvllshlt are just excuses.


One thing I noticed here is I think she wasn't getting enough attention from Alexx, and I think Alexx belong to the school of silent achievers. Men that don't do much talking but prefer to take care of things instead and then Alex looks ambitious too, person say him wan go for doctorate you dey complain. Abeg jare this fancy just bring the poor boy matter for open market. Nonsense.

stop thinking, work with the evidence at your disposal, Alex is a closet gay

Omoooo
this lady has a golden heart abeg..
E no easy to marry a celeb, just look at what he, Alex was concerned about. What people would say about their wedding not thinking what the marriage would be like.

siofra:
I knew there was something very wrong with their relationship.

Nigerian men will stain your black!

Fancy has a good heart. Nigerian women with good heart are a perfect prey for wicked Nigerian men. Stay wicked ladies!

Women like Fancy are rare.

Women like you are common

siofra:
I knew there was something very wrong with their relationship.

Nigerian men will stain your black!

Fancy has a good heart. Nigerian women with good heart are a perfect prey for wicked Nigerian men. Stay wicked ladies!

From this whole episode,it's obvious the girl was well brought up,he loved Alex deeply and I guess the guy knew that as much,reason he was doing this to her.
For those who don't know,the girl father is a multi billionaire and one of the power brokers in the country.they can singlehandedly finance the wedding .
Lastly, Alex was with the girl probably because of what he intended to gain from her but I think the girl was wise and forward thinker to a fault.
Kudos to her.

you're spot on here ....

zed7:

From my perception of the girl, she seems highly disciplined and focused. Such women should not be marrying celebrities, they should marry their kind- someone who's likely not in the spotlight. That's the only way to have a good marriage.

siofra:
You can't tell me otherwise abeg, this guy is gay.

Don’t be hasty to conclude @ gay . But something is definitely wrong somewhere . 5 years celibacy ? Wonderful ! But it is achievable . Alex is so controlling and disrespectful to that lady ! It is borderline Narcissistic. This is why Yoruba men are winning hearts everywhere . I thought it is mostly ladies that are hell bent on big weddings . Yeyebrities everywhere.
You want a big wedding , you want the girl’s family to foot majority of the bills and you want to use your own money to do doctorate. Selfishness.

siofra:
I knew there was something very wrong with their relationship.

Nigerian men will stain your black!

Fancy has a good heart. Nigerian women with good heart are a perfect prey for wicked Nigerian men. Stay wicked ladies!

I wish I knew you personally.
I will paint you with tatasi and serve you a very chilled shege.

did you read everything ?
because it seems you only picked the ones that support your Alex there

Kapeter:
Shouldn't she still be happy abi at least one thing I've come to learn about Nigerian girls is that if you are not so certain about marrying them (infact if you never marry them self) don't even ever let your chest mistakenly touch theirs especially when you notice they are in love with you cuz na the beginning of their witchcraft madness be dat. If you ever hear them screaming "You used me" after breakup na wetin Dem dey talk gan gan be dat. Honestly Alexx did nothing wrong by not touching her really. You can see dude is quite more concerned about his life, Fancy just insecure nothing more. Wrote that long epistle about how she'd cancel the wedding bla bla bla and then still waiting for Alexx to reply even after already telling few friends and one Mrs Toyin. When you know you don't share same vision then take a stand and be sure what you want to do. All the she's spending too much bvllshlt are just excuses.


One thing I noticed here is I think she wasn't getting enough attention from Alexx, and I think Alexx belong to the school of silent achievers. Men that don't do much talking but prefer to take care of things instead and then Alex looks ambitious too, person say him wan go for doctorate you dey complain. Abeg jare this fancy just bring the poor boy matter for open market. Nonsense.

peepydelano:
Yes you are right, she admitted her fault and also blamed her close family for releasing those private chats. You see Alex, Uti and most of those bbnaija guys dy live some kind lifestyle but using some gullible ladies as cover.

i just read the interview the babe granted, i like that she acknowledged her fault of bringing the whole thing public and all of that. She tacitly confirmed his sexuality, and its a surprise she says she has no problems with that, she must really be in love with the guy. It somehow looks like if they go on and get married, they will get a divorce soon after marriage. They appear way too different. No matter how much they love each other, they have fundamental differences on Two leading cause of break up in marriage, Sex and Finances.

tunapawizzy:

i just read the interview the babe granted, i like that she acknowledged her fault of bringing the whole thing public and all of that. She tacitly confirmed his sexuality, and its a surprise she says she has no problems with that, she must really be in love with the guy. It somehow looks like if they go on and get married, they will get a divorce soon after marriage. They are appear way too different. No matter how much they love each other, they have fundamental differences on Two leading cause of break up in marriage, Sex and Finances.

Exactly, you are right bro. They are better apart.

Alex is bi.

Girl sorry.

when I saw that part, I was like h'olup, what's going on here ?

Ishilove:

This is shocking. You want a flamboyant wedding but don't want to contribute?? Isn't that what Nigerian men accuse us of?

Go check the meaning of celibacy .It has nothing to do with what u are saying.
Leave celibacy for religious people.

atheistandproud:
Who cares really?

So long as hypergamy exists, high earning men will continue to use women to play volleyball abi na squash. Squash is a lot more apt to describe this.

Dear Nigerian women, Nigerian men do not think like you do. We do not like celebrities or die after rich women. Some of us do but majority of us do not because we live in reality. If we reach a certain level of financial stability, we look below to pick someone up to reach our level.

The average Nigerian woman on the other hand will never date a man at her level or below, unless she decides to settle well into her 30s. Celebrity worship and materialism lives here rent-free.

I'm sure that there's a guy that loves Fancy for real but he doesn't have Alex's status so she sidelined him. This is not about Nigerian men, it's about the subset of Nigerian men that you keep choosing. Funnily enough, like NPCs, majority of you want the same subset of men. These men have endless options of other women like you who want the same thing. They can pick and choose at will.

It is no wonder John Doe of Twitter will keep advising men to stay 5 steps ahead of their wives on every societal standard available.

At the bolded, Everyone will be fine.

FiremanX:
Mumu! both lesbianism and gayism is foolishness, how do a fellow girl Bleep her own gender? isn't that foolishness?

actually he may have a point...maybe a woman can do some things on another woman that are exciting..maybe. i no know as e dey do dem. but mehn how is the sight of a fellow male's penis not irritating for a man, not to even talk of bringing it close to you.

siofra:
You can't tell me otherwise abeg, this guy is gay.

so celebacy is impossible?

blaquebelle:
There's nothing wrong in convincing her to stay celibate as far as they are on the same page. And as for the wedding expenses, Nigerian men have been suffering worse than this in the hands of my gender It's best to just avoid shallow people. Meanwhile, this people should carry their wahala off our faces. No one cares This new year, unnecessary drama is not allowed. Since the wedding scattered since, what should we all do?

can u agree to b celibate with your woman for 5 years

siofra:
I knew there was something very wrong with their relationship.

Nigerian men will stain your black!

Fancy has a good heart. Nigerian women with good heart are a perfect prey for wicked Nigerian men. Stay wicked ladies!

By the time you don turn to evening newspaper you go understand say stay wicked nor de pay. You're a woman, do not forget that.

Magnoliaa:


Alex is doing like a Nigerian woman, but watin e dey do na some guys' behaviour...

Paw paw na King of memes abeg

It amazes me when women fall in love blindly with irresponsible men

siofra:
You can't tell me otherwise abeg, this guy is gay.

Na today you know say alexx dey yansh bobrisky ?….he don tey , the guy na Comfirm gay na..100%

peepydelano:
From their leaked chats and interviews she granted, she was naive and inexperienced and Alex took advantage of that.

Can you please rest a little bit.

Chochocho like a woman on this thread. You are a man for goodness sake. Smhh.

O

Treassured:


Can you please rest a little bit.

Chochocho like a woman on this thread. You are a man for goodness sake. Smhh.

Shameless gay, keep living a dirty lifestyle and Bleep off my mentions. Defending nonsense

How are we sure that this chat is not fake��. Besides this is 2023, i no wan dey hear all this kind thing abeg

meobizy:
All lies.

How e take be lie

lyricalejeh:

How e take be lie

My friend, move.