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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by GloriousGbola: 12:11pm On Jan 04, 2023
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by obembet(f): 12:11pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

My dear, until weeding night, no sex.
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Enemyofpeace: 12:11pm On Jan 04, 2023
Kajaard:


So Sheep and Cheap can be used interchangeably? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked undecided
yes of course,just like boat and both
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by iezeiyida(m): 12:11pm On Jan 04, 2023
I don't think that's the yardstick to determine if the man gotta dump you or not.. If he is a man that is really into you; he'd still stick with you weather you give him sex on the 1th date or 4th date
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by nkemdi89(f): 12:11pm On Jan 04, 2023
Why not enjoy the sex and forget about if he stays or not , the moment ladies start enjoying sex and stop the thinking otherwise , this mentality will reduce, if it's about marriage, keeping yourself doesn't guarantee a man will stay, I am talking from experience.

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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Cutehector(m): 12:12pm On Jan 04, 2023
Very soon, the op will be coming over to visit me, we'll both read this thread together and laugh.
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by deyplay: 12:12pm On Jan 04, 2023
Enemyofpeace:
I hate girls that are sheep, I always like girls that are tough to get.
Your programing. I dislike hard to get girls. They end up not worthing it after working unnecessarily hard to get them.

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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by ipobarecriminals: 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2023
sad finish ur story biko.We want to knw he explored,dive and FINALLY RUNZ.
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Enemyofpeace: 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2023
obembet:


My dear, until weeding night, no sex.
you don't know what you are missing. You better bring it out for boys to dey service it for you, before the oil wey dey inside go dry finish
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by wiringdpt(m): 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2023
Have you heard of post nut clarity? If you like the keep sex away for year, we decide if the relationship will continue or not after the first sex. You do not get to decide the relationship unfortunately. Me and some of my exes had sex on our first date and still dated for years also women should learn what a man really wants, everything isn't about pretty face.
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by ElijahIme1992(m): 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2023
Sweetplum:

I m the one, Sucre is Sugar. Be fair to women pls
I am fair to anyone that treats me fairly wether men or women.... I don't belong to the school of thought that says all women should be pampered, because there are bad women as there are bad men..
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jan 04, 2023
Omo me ehn I believe whether u have sex with him on d first day or not a man will doesn't love u won't still love u... that's just d truth

If a man is in love with u u sef u wud know because he will show it

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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Timekeeper452: 12:14pm On Jan 04, 2023
Buhari4sale:
Lol.. You can't get our of this world alive, same as your pvssy can't escape being bleeped numerously or at least multiple times before you found the right glue dick.. It gives you more knowledge about how men are differently programmed & how to deal with them.


My dear if your pussy is sweet with good behaviour, you will stay, if there is no space, a reasonable man will create a space for you.

Just make sure you are giving in for a wise, educated and God fearing man.
fact.
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by DoreJoe(m): 12:15pm On Jan 04, 2023
;D5 grin grin grin
VeryWickedSimp:


It didn't occur to you that he ran away because what he finally got was trash compared to the stress he went through?
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Enemyofpeace: 12:16pm On Jan 04, 2023
deyplay:
Your programing. I dislike hard to get girls. They end up not worthing it after working unnecessarily hard to get them.
you eat dem buraciously with anger and dump dem immediately after the first sex, you drive her out of your house as soon as you finish.That kind of thing dey pain dem die.
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jan 04, 2023
nkemdi89:
Why not enjoy the sex and forget about if he stays or not , the moment ladies start enjoying sex and stop the thinking otherwise , this mentality will reduce, if it's about marriage, keeping yourself doesn't guarantee a man will stay, I am talking from experience.
grin grin absolutely! i also think women should start using men for sex more, there are many women who uses and have used men for sex, alota women have used me just for sex, they gave sex on a first date, i call them few days after and invite them for dinner they pretend ever meeting me or tells me straight not to call them again. grin

Women should not have to use sex to keep a man or believes that sex would keep a man, The man should WANT to stay because he WANTS to.

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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by ayo2008: 12:17pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies


The Bible is clear on fornication but deviant sons and daughters won't yield to divine instructions cos of temporary enjoyment that will ultimately lead to destruction. For young ladies, chastity is the best for those who are not, is not the end of life BUT never go to your vomit.

No mather the 'love' a boy, guy or man your are not married to, showered to you, dnt descend so low opening your leg for him such are called ladies of no virtue or no value.
God bless!
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Duru009(m): 12:17pm On Jan 04, 2023
Even if you like give him SEX on the seventh date. A man that will STAY will certainly STAY...

If a man feels COMFORTABLE and free around you. He will certainly STAY....

Know this, and have PEACE....

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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Jeweltz(f): 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2023
wiringdpt:
Have you heard of post nut clarity? If you like the keep sex away for year, we decide if the relationship will continue or not after the first sex. You do not get to decide the relationship unfortunately. Me and some of my exes had sex on our first date and still dated for years also women should learn what a man really wants, everything isn't about pretty face.

What really do you people want? Why do you cheat on a woman you claim you love? Cheating is in the blood of 99% of Naija men. A man will convince you he loves you and your mind will already be at peace thinking he's the one, only to start ignoring you after that. I think you people should tell us what u want shocked angry angry angry angry
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by MilitantAtheist: 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:


But opening legs doesn't still mean he'll love, right? We all know this. Men are committed as long as he loves you and you give him peace. But these men still leave as long as they get sex. Like it's all sex they want from you
you are right to a reasonable extent, I can only commit to a girl if she doesn't allow me fhuck her but on the condition that she is a virgin that has not been fhuckd before but if she has been fhuckd then it get to my turn she say no sex I will move on in peace, but she says no sex and I confirm she's virgin I will protect and pamper her for myself as a wife. So you can only deny me sex if you're virgin and not when you have been a LovePeddler
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Fcwilly: 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

When you keep denying him sex while getting sexual satisfaction from a secret relationship with another guy whom you are not serious with, but only to discover that you are pregnant for the wrong guy when you have made up your mind to give right guy sex because he has fixed a date to see your parents. Sorry ooooooo
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by MilitantAtheist: 12:19pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:


What really do you people want? Why do you cheat on a woman you claim you love? Cheating is in the blood of 99% of Naija men. A man will convince you he loves you and your mind will already be at peace thinking he's the one, only to start ignoring you after that. I think you people should tell us what u want shocked angry angry angry angry
be my sex slave is what I want
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by sukkot: 12:21pm On Jan 04, 2023
Fahvvy:


If men leave you after they have sex with you, it's not necessarily because that's all they wanted, but it's because that's all you had to give undecided....

So stop blaming men and start working on yourself madam!!! undecided...

And it's obvious you're very ignorant about how men think, so lemme help you with a nugget on male psychology undecided...

Men don't leave what is VALUABLE TO THEM, if they left you after sex it therefore means that you're of NO VALUE to them. And if you're of no value to them then you're not worth keeping (dare I say you're worthless to them)!!! undecided....

So before you start spewing your half baked knowledge about how men operate, ask yourself one question, what value did I provide this man? undecided...

And besides, what is it about you that attracts these kind of men? undecided...
i have to disagree with you. many men leave women they value because of immaturity or they are just not emotionally or spiritually or mentally or financially where they need to be. further down the line when they are fully settled every man has that GIRL THAT GOT AWAY who i should have married story. that girl that you threw away and you are regretting it. that girl that deep down you will always be thinking about her even if you are now married

but as to the topic, men are weird creatures and are not predictable. sex on first or tenth date is not going to keep a man who is not emotionally spiritually mentally or financially developed. to such men you are a needed liability for the moment to be dropped when his life situation worsens. but if you encounter such a man and by your actions you show that you are willing to support and encourage him and not be a liability then your chances of being kept around increases.
life is tough, people want to be free these days. no attachments lol. its a rough time to be dating
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by izubext007: 12:21pm On Jan 04, 2023
Brothers never you grant a girls request on first date or she will call you mumu.
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Lindajames1010: 12:22pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:


But opening legs doesn't still mean he'll love, right? We all know this. Men are committed as long as he loves you and you give him peace. But these men still leave as long as they get sex. Like it's all sex they want from you
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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jan 04, 2023
Duru009:
Even if you like give him SEX on the seventh date. A man that will STAY will certainly STAY...

If a man feels COMFORTABLE and free around you. He will certainly STAY....

Know this, and have PEACE....
Gbam! A man who WANTS to stay will stay, regardless of sex or no sex. A man should WANT to stay, any man that do not WANT to stay will not stay even if he gets sex everyday..
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by afadi2410: 12:24pm On Jan 04, 2023
The lady that opened her leg on our first date was the lady I hopelessly fell in love with,true story.
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Blakjewelry(m): 12:25pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies
Forget all the rules, who loves you will continue to love you the only thing is choose someone with cool head, it just you girls love danger and lies.
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by godoluwa(m): 12:25pm On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that angry.

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Starving a man for sex will not keep him likewise giving him sex steadily will not keep him

Men want more from a woman than sex

Only teenagers & simp run after a lady these days, if you are proving stubborn, they move to the next available lady

Life is too short

I'm not asking ladies to be loose but thinking that forming too hard will make a man love you dearly & stay then you are paying yourself.
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by wethebest(m): 12:26pm On Jan 04, 2023
Kajaard:


Just leave her. She should continue saying rubbish.

We men know what we want in our women. If you like withhold the pussy it doesn't stop us from dumping you if you lack the qualities we want.

I have been dating my fiancee for four years now and we are getting married in June this year and yes we had sex on our first date. So leave the mumu to continue consoling herself.

I jst tire. Is jst general mentality for Naija gals. Thats hw they miss their husband thinking by withholding sex will keep him
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by nkemdi89(f): 12:26pm On Jan 04, 2023
gypsey:
grin grin absolutely! i also think women should start using men for sex more, there are many women who uses and have used men for sex, alota women have used me just for sex, they gave sex on a first date, i call them few days after and invite them for dinner they pretend ever meeting me or tells me straight not to call them again. grin

Women should not have to use sex to keep a man or believes that sex would keep a man, The man should WANT to stay because he WANTS to.
Exactly, our religious indoctrination in this part of the world makes sex a taboo for women , a woman who can handle her finance, will not see sex as an obligation to any man , just that women attach too much emotion to sex, or pretend a lot , same women will indulge in using gadgets to satisfy their urge, so that the society will not frown at them for sleeping with a man .
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Jeweltz(f): 12:26pm On Jan 04, 2023
Kajaard:


Just leave her. She should continue saying rubbish.

We men know what we want in our women. If you like withhold the pussy it doesn't stop us from dumping you if you lack the qualities we want.

I have been dating my fiancee for four years now and we are getting married in June this year and yes we had sex on our first date. So leave the mumu to continue consoling herself.

Because you're a good man doesn't mean your genders are. Unless you are not truthful, you also know how you people discard a woman after sex. That's not even painful. The most painful aspect of it is you wasting our time when you know you're not going to marry. Unfair

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