Ikanium:
■ He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.
I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.
Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

santaclaws:
■What steps did you guys take to help him develop masculine traits as a child? You see a boy acting like a little girl, y'all should have made sure he did more manly things like playing sports with males and generally reminding him that he's a boy. You don't allow a boy play with dolls, it's very wrong.
It may be a bit late now but there is nothing God cannot do. You all just need to pray for him cos if he's already having gay intercourse, then it's a serious issue... Nevertheless, God can change anyone.

Kobojunkie:
Which God? The god of your pastors wey no even fit save many of your own gay pastors abi which one?

Go change yourself first before you go trying to change others.

santaclaws:
■ Funny thing is that most of you that attack Christians or claim to be atheists are covert occultists and fetish individuals...
You can keep writing carelessly & attracting curses to yourself. I won't force you to have sense.

Kobojunkie:
You couldn't do anything to save him as a child yet now that he is an adult, you think it your place still to monitor his life and choices? One would expect that by now you would have learned to love him as he is. Is that too much for you to so?

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In case anyone would come in pretending Scripture on their side in this, make I help una small. In Genesis 3 vs 16, the Almighty who created man ans certified man of good quality, took to washing His hands off the multiplying process --- childbearing--- which was meant to populate the earth with more of the man He had made. Guess what that meant? With God's cursing childbearing, rendering it not of His Kingdom, all who are born into this world are born unrighteous, removed from God. That means no single individual born of woman is born perfect from the womb.

So, whenever you look at a gay man or a disabled individual, realize that you are just as cursed as they are, only that your damage is just not as obvious as theirs may seem to you.

And here comes again the false teacher. When did GOD curse the human multiplication (child-bearing)?

“Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
— Genesis 3:16 (KJV) when the same Almighty GOD blessed:

NOAH:
(After the flood, after your contorted version of Genesis 3:16)
Genesis 9 (KJV)
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¹ And God blessed Noah and his sons, and said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth.

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⁷ And you, be ye fruitful, and multiply; bring forth abundantly in the earth, and multiply therein.
⁸ And God spake unto Noah, and to his sons with him, saying,
⁹ And I, behold, I establish my covenant with you, and with your seed after you;

Luke 24 (KJV)
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⁴⁶ And said unto them, Thus it is written, and thus it behoved Christ to suffer, and to rise from the dead the third day:
⁴⁷ And that repentance and remission of sins should be preached in his name among all nations, beginning at Jerusalem.

So, where did GOD curse the human mulitiplication - child-bearing? you false teacher and mislead?

GOD stated there He will mulitiply the woman's sorrow and conception, meaning, she won't find things easy and the days of her conception will be more than the initial stated to the now 9 months; and in pains she will now have her babies… O come on!

Kobojunkie:
Stop rambling abeg! The length and breath of your kind of sense no pass religious gibberish!

What is wrong with folks engaging in occultism and the lot? Let people worship and live as they please. So long as they commit no crime wetin be your own?

Jennyclay:
It’s already too late to change him. God created him like that for a purpose

Maybe If he acts like a man he would have been gallivanting all over social media like Zonefree ranting Nigerian women are this…. Nigerian women are that.

Zonefree and his likes should go and marry your brother.

Nonsense!!

santaclaws:
■ Thanks for confirming the obvious. Whatever you do with your rear end is of no importance to anyone and whichever demon you chose to bow to is also of no relevance...
You're the one attacking people up and down cos you feel affected by other people's comments.

15 “On the day the Lord spoke to you from the fire at Mount Horeb, you did not see him—there was no shape for God.
16 So be careful! Don’t sin and destroy yourselves by making false gods or statues in the shape of any living thing. Don’t make an idol that looks like a man or a woman,
17 or like an animal on the earth, or like a bird that flies in the sky.
18 And don’t make an idol that looks like anything that crawls on the ground or like a fish in the sea.
19 And be careful when you look up to the sky and see the sun, the moon, and the stars—all the many things in the sky. Be careful that you are not tempted to worship and serve them. The Lord your God lets the other people in the world do this.
20 But the Lord brought you out of Egypt to make you his own special people. He saved you from Egypt. It was as if he pulled you from a hot furnace.[a] And now you are his people. - Deuteronomy 4 vs 15 - 20

Kobojunkie:
Attacking? More like shutting you and the lies you spew using the mentions of the name of a God you pretend to know down.
God of Israel permitted those of other Nations to worship any gods they please. But here you are demeaning their God-given right, why?

Kobojunkie:
Attacking? More like shutting you and the lies you spew using the mentions of the name of a God you pretend to know down.
God of Israel who made clear in Deuteronomy 32 that Israel is His only inheritance in the land of men permitted those of other Nations to worship any gods they please. But here you are demeaning their God-given right, why?

You churchians serve your religious leaders; they are the gods you serve.

santaclaws:
■ LOL no peace for the wicked... Keep quoting the scriptures.

You go explain taya 😸😹

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Kobojunkie:
Scripture when taken in context is pretty much self-explanatory (unless someone quotes from a version beyond one's comprehension of course) .

Anyways, Your response is clear that the God of Israel isn't your cup of tea at all; your pastors are your gods whom you serve. So why not accord others the same freedom to pick the gods they desire? Let me guess, your pastor no gree?

And furthermore:

“And in that day there shall be a root of Jesse, which shall stand for an ensign of the people; to it shall the Gentiles seek: and his rest shall be glorious.”
— Isaiah 11:10 (KJV)

What have you to say about these?

SharingIsLife:
I have never come close to tolerating gay until I read this. I used to have hot arguments with my neighbor who said that many gay guys are born that way. Could this just be true? I'm actually shedding tears right now😭

My advice is: Since even you agree he has been like that from childhood, don't try to put any pressure on him. Just hand him over to God and let him be. This world's got uncountable mysteries🙏😭

Scholace:
Some weren't born that way. just like a girl that was forcefully raped by some group of Men, if the said girl didn't get proper rehab, she might end up being a prostitute. Some of these guys were raped, their first encounter with sex was through their fellow men probably older who forcefully raped them.

These guys couldn't speak up due to stigmatization, particularly in Nigeria, where we found rape victims being stigmatized and got blamed. Being their first time sexual experience they probably got used to it and automatically tow that line. Some are influenced probably for financial aid, sense of belonging, cultism et al, and some of these guys are still saint in the sense that they haven't had sexual intercourse with the opposite sex before, so it'd be easier to lure them and get adapted

from op narration, i guess some are truly born that way.

Hathor5:


They were forcefully raped by homosexuals and that`s why they like to engage in homosexuality. There is absolutely no logical to the trash you have typed here.

Scholace:
Why don't you keep yourself after your first sex experience? Why do you explore with same guy or other guys? Why do some girls engage in prostitution after being molested by several Men?

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.