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Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by boboLIL(m): 9:40pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
Dats how d world roll |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:18pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
PenSniper:then close ya nose too |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:22pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
ayobase:you figure that out |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:26pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
faithboi: no idea...cos I've never bought....but where can I buy please?...police station |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:31pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
pickabeau1:o puleeaaaasssseee shut the fk up |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by pickabeau1: 11:33pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: o puleeaaaasssseee shut the fk up Continue showing your class ... |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:37pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
tonychristopher:tony kiddo but I saw your mates going to school .why do you want to be a truant? Is it that someone is bullying you at your school and you are taking out your frustrations here Pele o.olorun afun elalafia |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:38pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
pickabeau1:abeg scram.is it by force to quote.BACK OFF! |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:41pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
tonychristopher:go and rot too na |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by pickabeau1: 11:43pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: abeg scram.is it by force to quote.BACK OFF! .... You must be feeling funky tonight |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:46pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
pickabeau1:so you still dey loiter around me. You no dey hear word ni? So sambarry is so irresistible that you find it difficult to obey simple instruction to scram |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:47pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
pickabeau1:last warning picka BACK OFF.MOOOOOVVVVVEEEE IT |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by pickabeau1: 11:50pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: so you still dey loiter around me. You no dey hear word ni? Why dont u stop quoting.. U r calling n stalking me me yet trying to turn d table... Dont quote me after this.... |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 11:54pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
pickabeau1:who is stalking who? Who's been ranting all over the place when I just turn small table, I never even turn am finish you dey cry fowl. Just go with your wahala |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by pickabeau1: 11:58pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: who is stalking who? Who's been ranting all over the place when I just turn small table, I never even turn am finish you dey cry fowl. Just go with your wahala Na ram u go cry as per say Na Allah For both of us who dey rant now |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 12:01am On Oct 04, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I said go |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 12:02am On Oct 04, 2014 |
BananaBender/ShollyPopz Utter tosh and illogical retort ridden with a classic case of cognitive dissonance induced by emotional reasoning. Take a deep breath, read my posts slowly, take your emotions out it - and think critically about what you're going to post next. Just ask yourself about what your worth as an educated woman, with at least a degree. A woman who craves empowerment - and not just a mere appendage and an item sexual satisfaction, for someone who's under an oath with his other half. Just schooling you like I'd school my younger sisters Firstly, I cited "Nefertiti" because she represents female empowerment, and something you always crave. So, calling you a "Nefertiti wanna-be" isn't an insult. Take your emotions out of it, read slowly, and comprehend my post. That's like someone labelling me a "MalcolmX wanna-be." I'd take that because his ghost represents black empowerment, and something very powerful. And that was the greatest black man to ever live IMO, apart from the genius of ImHotep. Nah, I'm not a "wannabe-gangsta" - I was wayward during my teen years, and was a certified young G. I did put in work, and earned stars and stripes. However, I did make a gradual transition and progression, moved away from that - went from being a problem child, to the apple of my parents' eyes, and exceeded all expectation. And I've been able to mentor my younger male cousins, on how to navigate life without being caught up in that lifestyle, and their parents are forever grateful to me. So, whenever you see me allude to certain things - just know there's no "wannabe" there. It's just basically part of my experience and the versatility that comes with my journey so far in life - the realness and the best of all worlds. Secondly, the reason why I've got an endowed black woman on my profile is to show that I appreciate the beauty of black women, and their black features. It represents what I love in black women. And I allude to that all time. I'm a proud black man, and I'll never swap for anything else on this planet. My blackness represents my struggles, tears, blood - and those of the black ancestors who paved the way. A unique experience. Now onto what you outlined: 1). You can't preach female empowerment in one breathe, critique and cast aspersions on certain women who still believe in the core values of what a black woman should be. Then turn around to say it's alright for women not to have self-worth, and keep messing around with married men. Especially when you and your ilk are the ones who would come back, and castigate married men for being worthless cheats. A clear case of utter cognitive dissonance there - and I caught you slipping, hence I'm on your case. 2). I don't need a job because I've never been out of work. That comes with the territory, and having tons of qualifications. And also running a company and providing services on the side. You know my field, and you know how I get down lool. Well, I actually thought I was a condescending arrogant jerk like some posters have alluded - the self-esteem thing is new and utterly shocking to me loool. So, which one am I today, Sholly? - I'm confused. Well, I'm neither - just a supremely confident young black man. An alpha male who caught his e-friend slipping, and decided to call her out - to point out the obvious. Stop trying to win an argument, you lost already with your first post. You're just going to keep digging a deeper grave for yourself. 3). I'm not a chauvinist pig, never have and never will be. And I told you that there are type of black women: biitches, and upstanding strong women. Hell yeah, I objectify the former because they have no self-worth, and it's only right that I call them by their name. However, I adore the latter, and I'll always treat them with respect. So, why are you all worked up about how I feel about biiteches? So, basically, you don't mind throwing yourself in the same gutter with the worthless scums on "cheaters," no? Where's your self-worth, and your education? I won't be surprised if you were to start citing the hoodrats on "Maury" and "The Jerry Springer" TV series to buttress your point - absolutely shocking Anyway, I had to cite naija women based on the mentality espoused on this thread. And what I've seen around. Yes, cheating has no race or nationality. But using general acceptability of women cheating with married men, and doing it openly without any shame, as a yardstick, I don't think other folks can be compared to Nigerian women, based on what I've seen. It's like a norm to naija women. Hence I'm of the opinion that naija women are very promiscuous - no apologies. Sholly, trying to smack some senses into me - bwahaha. You can't even handle the Saga-guy - your nemesis. I'm the man with the dyck, and I'll always dominate. Hence I see you on every thread alluding to fvcking people in the ar.se with ya non-existent dyck. Just leave it, yeah - and save face. You lost, man. Btw, I just got some nice fish from a naija restaurant on my way home. That shyte tastes nice - and more reason why you need to go learn how to cook. And don't forget you're allegedly my alter-ego - so act right! Le sigh - biggest epistle ever! |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by pickabeau1: 12:13am On Oct 04, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: I said go Barka de Sallah |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 12:51am On Oct 04, 2014 |
@Shymexx: I don't care. Obviously, your post has nothing to do with my opinion on this thread. You have deluded yourself and created a new stance for me so you can perpetuate your bullsh1t. A woman that chooses to be a side piece, second wife or whatever, isn't less of a feminist than a woman that doesn't. Except, she's enforcing the same on her kids or whoever. If you want a cookie for being delusional and bipolar, here. [img]http://www.velux.be/fr-BE/PublishingImages/cookie733.jpg[/img] 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 12:56am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Cognitive dissonance personified a la Sholly. How about post picture of yourself making cookies? - oh no, you can't cook. Anyway, next time I want you to post a picture of yourself making what's below: |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 12:58am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Shyte, Horus just inspired me by posting a video of Fela Kuti's music. So, Sholly, I'm dedicating Fela Kuti's "Lady" to you. |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 1:02am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Hypomania personified a la Shymexx How about you post a picture of yourself grilling fish and making vegetable soup? Oh, you can't? Get yourself in the kitchen and learn how to cook a decent meal like this. 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 1:02am On Oct 04, 2014 |
shymexx: Shyte, Horus just inspired me by posting a video of Fela Kuti's music. Don't talk to me! |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 1:34am On Oct 04, 2014 |
BananaBender: Hypomania personified a la Shymexx Lmao...I don't need to get in the kitchen - I'm a black man. Something you always want to be but can't. Just take a look at the beards, broad shoulders, biceps, triceps, physical specimen and force of nature, supreme cognitive and mental reasoning of always making it out of nothing and against all odds etc.. You can never be that. Evidently, the black man has no place in the kitchen. I'd jump off a cliff if you actually made that. |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 1:37am On Oct 04, 2014 |
BananaBender: Bwahaha The great Fela Kuti actually talked extensively about the cognitive dissonance and madness of African women like you on that "Lady" track. He was a prophet, the greatest musician to ever come out Africa, and the most sampled African artist ever!! Go listen to Fela Kuti - and change ya ways. He saw into the future! Anyway, I'm about to go get jiggy to my Fela collection...bring ya mouth and flat batty here, and let me smack both before I go! |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 5:04am On Oct 04, 2014 |
shymexx: shymexx: Crap! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by PenSniper: 6:27am On Oct 04, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: then close ya nose too Ha, okay. |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 6:44am On Oct 04, 2014 |
pickabeau1:same to you |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by SAMBARRY: 6:47am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Sharap.no be your mate be this shymexx:
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Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 8:04am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Misogynist2014: So you have never being oppressed . It's not what I said. Let me just tell you about oppression when I was in Secondary school. You haven't explained how you were oppressed you just said that you were. 2) Men were given cutlass to cut bushes and ladies were only told to uproot weeds. Why? We are equal! Why are they oppressing us. Did you complain? Were you told that you have to do it because you are a "lesser being"? 3) Women were made to see collecting money from guys was their birthright and if a guy asks for money, he becomes inferior. When guys sat to think of future in class, ladies gossiped because they new they had an option of 'ready made' guy to fall to, if education does not work out. This is a good example. Do you know how such an unfair belief developed? It developed because women have been told to stay at home for centuries and men encouraged to go out and make money. Thus women became dependent on men and after a time considered it normal to ask for everything. I am not a fan of it AT ALL. 4) We were told not to fight with girls, just because we differ in physical features. You should have been told NOT to fight with anybody. 5) We recieved hotter cains for same offenses. Pls are these not oppression. Stop violence and oppression against men, pls. Men and women should go into labour market and work their åss out................... (Sorry for not putting most of my points in past form.) Unfair treatment, indeed. This is why I question these old-fashioned practices. From my point of view, they are useless. However, too many men want to preserve them because despite all the examples you have given, you will NOT be told that you are a "lesser being" BUT that yours is the supremacy. |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Misogynist2014(m): 8:33am On Oct 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:lerrus lauf 2gera . So your husband, brothers father grand grandfather and all your male ancestors were lesser beings lwkmd . When you throw stones in market, its gonna hit your family member. You know what I was trying to pass across We had to go through serial oppressions, to make the les... bei..s relieved and happy. |
Re: Why Can't Single People 'Just Say No' To Married People? by Nobody: 8:35am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Misogynist2014: lerrus lauf 2gera . Done. So your husband, brothers father grand grandfather and all your male ancestors were lesser beings lwkmd . Who said so? When you throw stones in market, its gonna hit your family member. Did I throw stones? You know what I was trying to pass across We had to go through serial oppressions, to make the les... bei..s relieved and happy. Don't tell me you are so altruistic. And even if you did, your reward was POWER. |
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