alutacontinua:

and that's the thing-y'all think the women are in it for nothing.
Just as the man thinks she's a cvm-bucket, the woman has her own needs (whatever they are) also been met. This 'use-and-dump' story is just one of the many stories that you men talk about to feel cool. It's just sex to most of these women (heck, if the man is good at it-it's even another added advantage). In the end, she gladly dumps the married man too and moves on to another victim.

Shymexx, it's easier being the side chic than the so-called 'main chic'. If a man thinks I deserve his ring but still goes out for intimate gratification, then, what's the use of the ring? I'm just the legal 'side-chic', nothing more! And that hurts more

Moral needs, dignity, and self-worth should always be the priority. I believe whatever need a woman who feels it's alright to be worthless has, has to be materialistic. The sex excuse just sounds funny to me, when a lot of married men are notorious for not being able to perform in bed with their wives. Hence a lot of married women aren't happy in their marriages.

Also, if these people prefer being side-chics, why can't they get with normal guys who aren't married? There are so many willing guys out there who wouldn't mind. So, why people under an oath, with a family?

vanbonattel:


The older a man gets, the more caring. We young men are always fast to bang and run to the next baba whil old man go catch smal babe dey toast am, spend enough time to make her relax before chopping her toto

....dem get time

vanbonattel:
Solomon had more than a thousand concubines and you people are here forming James bond over just one more babe

...Actually.. Its 700 concubines and 300 wives...
Get ur facts straight...

obamasbabe:

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EXCUSE ME PLEASE IT IS NOT TRUE. I FOR ONE NEVER CHEATED WHILE I WAS DATING YET MY HUBBY IS READY TO SLEEP WITH ANYTHING AS LONG AS IT HAS HOLE. IT'S SO BAD THAT HIS CHEATING NATURE HAS TURNED ME TO A SAD WOMAN COMPARED TO WHAT I USED TO BE BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED. MARRIED MEN, THE TRUTH IS THAT YOU MAYBE HAVING UR FUN BUT TRUST ME YOU ARE DESTROYING YOUR WIFE'S JOY. I FEEL THEY CHEAT BECOS EVERY OTHER 'COOL GUY' IS DOING IT. GOD HELP ME

...chai.... On behalf of all men both married and unmarried, faithful and unfaithful.... I say a big ...I AM SORRY...

SAMBARRY:
a child of God

...
I doubt that....

BananaBender:


All women are cum buckets, okay?!

Humans are not properties to me, they are higher intelligent animals who can make decisions for themselves.

If a man is feeling me and I'm feeling him too, sorry wifey. I no dey look Uche face.

How does that make me classless? What exactly are you accusing me of?? Did I break any promise, did I betray anyone, did I lie to anybody, did I steal??

..wetin Uche face do u na...

50calibre:


[s]It's not crap my dear shollypopz, it's the gospel. Listen & learn as it will serve you.

You're are undergoing a mental/psychological mutation. You know I've said to you before that you're exhibiting symptoms consistent with someone suffering from a severe form of identity crises, you seem to overcompensating for an insecurity.

You can't be what you're not, drop these stu*pid & unnecessary ideologies, which you are not able to uphold to their fullest.

Just be normal, be the African woman you were meant to be, it will make you happy, it will make your husband happy, it will make your family happy.

I hope this just an e-personality else, you're going to have a really fuc*ked up life.[/s]

If this is the definition for normal , I don't want to be normal.

I'm insecure because I'm a feminist? This is ridiculous and extremely sad. I'm really sorry for Nigeria. No wonder Africa is the backward continent. This is very sad, very very sad. SMH

shymexx:

[s]Don't mind her. What's next? Sholly is going to start making excuses for groupies!

We care because Sholly is the homie. Shyte, who doesn't like free pu.ssy? But there has to be a balance out there because we're going to have daughters, and we don't want them coming into a fvcked up world, where women don't know their worth. At least, if we can get sholly to act right - she might end up becoming a positive role model and a voice future generations can emulate.

Alicia Keys said it best in the video below:[/s]

You are fvcked up.

#Jesuswept.

I was about to start lighting a*sses up in this b1tch, then I realized these mofos are obviously joking.

lol @ 50calibre, always acting like he knows me....like we just saw each other @ Starbucks yesterday or something.

Seriously, these are suppose to be the men?? Have several seats puccies! A stadium full of them.

shymexx:


Bwahahahaha! Sholly is just cray!

Hopefully, she won't end up fvcking those Pastors in the ar.se with her phantom dyck, else a slap for Jesus might suffice to put her in check like a pair of Nike, before the proper spiritual cleansing starts.

Swiss used to be super-gangsta and ghetto. I remember I used to see him in a lot of hood DVDs like SmackDVD, ComeupDVD etc. back in the day, in the projects with guns and gangstas. And the Ruff Ryder thing he used to run with his Uncles back in the day, when they had Eve, Jada, Styles P, Sheek Louch, DMX etc. was more like a street fam.

Basically, the whole street thing kind of mask the potentials of a lot of guys, and most chics who think they're "classy" and "educated" don't really like digging deep before judging people. They prefer the cover, not what's underneath. However, once you're able to explore beyond the surface - you'd find out that a lot of guys with this super-gangsta front, are some of the most gifted people out there. They're just a victim of circumstances and a product of their environment. And all they need is basically someone to discover them. A lot of folks we celebrate today as heroes and success stories are from the same environment. Look at the UK for example: as small as Peckham and Brixton are with all the bad rep, you'd be shocked that both areas have produced more outstanding black people than almost all other areas in London.

Shyte, rap music made it to Harvard curriculum and lecture rooms. And not just Harvard, a few top-tier American Universities. It has also created tons of millionaires and jobs, and universally influenced today's culture. That's something that can't be matched!

You're right!! A lot of these gifted folks are hastily judged based on the gangster image they portray, & it takes a genius to see beyond what's apparent & recognise a person's true potential. Some of these guys require a mentor to bring them out of that lifestyle & set them on a proper path where they can flourish.

Rap & sports has done a lot for the black community; 30 years ago, who ever thought an illiterate nigga from the hood could ever be a millionaire? Even rap pioneers didn't make much from it.

In general, I think mainstream rap has shifted a lot in the last 5-10 years from the gangsterism it used to portray to something more acceptable.

Sleek & Styles P held a concert in London some months back, besides DMX fell off hard!! I have seen or heard from him in a long time.

BananaBender:


If this is the definition for normal , I don't want to be normal.

I'm insecure because I'm a feminist? This is ridiculous and extremely sad. I'm really sorry for Nigeria. No wonder Africa is the backward continent. This is very sad, very very sad. SMH

So you're directly or indirectly trying to use civilisation as a justification for your loss of identity? Who told that's what civilisation means?

BananaBender:


You are fvcked up.

#Jesuswept.

Dayuuum! Here she comes!

Do you know why Jesus wept? - he wept because of the sins of humanoids like you. And since Jesus loves mentoring sinful women, like he did with Mary Magdalene - I believe you need to let him take the wheels.


BTW, you can't light up the ar.ses of real men. It's the other way around. Women back their ar.ses up, spread it wide open, and let real men put fire in there. You need spiritual deliverance ASAP ROCKY!

BananaBender:
I was about to start lighting a*sses up in this b1tch, then I realized these mofos are obviously joking.

lol @ 50calibre, always acting like he knows me....like we just saw each other @ Starbucks yesterday or something.

Seriously, these are suppose to be the men?? Have several seats puccies! A stadium full of them.

I don't need to know you on a personal level before determining your personality.

From what you say, one can begin to decipher your thought process (that's if the things you've said here are to go by)

You see yourself as a feminist, I see you as a delusional, a pseudo-feminist with inconsistent views.

I'm going to be your therapist for free.

shymexx:


Well, if single chics were to start closing their legs, a lot of things would change. Basically, the power to control the weakness of promiscuous men, who think it's a "norm" to sleep with all kinds of women still falls solely on women.

Men will always be men, but women can change a lot of things. They have got the power.

Oops! You want single ladies' help in controlling your brain since your third leg controls it. I can understand now

50calibre:

You're right!! A lot of these gifted folks are hastily judged based on the gangster image they portray, & it takes a genius to see beyond what's apparent & recognise a person's true potential. Some of these guys require a mentor to bring them out of that lifestyle & set them on a proper path where they can flourish.

Rap & sports has done a lot for the black community; 30 years ago, who ever thought an illiterate nigga from the hood could ever be a millionaire? Even rap pioneers didn't make much from it.

In general, I think mainstream rap has shifted a lot in the last 5-10 years from the gangsterism it used to portray to something more acceptable.

Sleek & Styles P held a concert in London some months back, besides DMX fell off hard!! I have seen or heard from him in a long time.

Yes, and I believe that's basically what the society needs to start doing. Hardship and survival instincts propel creativity, and mechanisms, which often turn to rare gifts. That's the gift and curse that come with such environment.

It's definitely great to see more black folks make it in sports and entertainment world. And with that, they'll be able to raise their own children the right way, and make them great - via the quality education they would be able to give them, in the space they're in. And hopefully, the next generation will also take it from there, and eventually put the black race on the map. Also, black people need to start showing interest in owning some of these organisations/machines they're making money from, and learn to control the economics.

Mainstream is crap today. You've freaking wanna-be black chic Iggy Azalea, wack-ar.se Nicki Minaj, and Drake dominating everything. There has to be a shift back to what the art-form used to be about.

Yes, I saw a video of Sheek, Jada, and Styles in London walking around with no security and signing autographs. You know London loves those guys to death...and I still don't know anyone who never used to bump their mixtapes back in the day. DMX is coming back soon. I follow Swiss Beatz on Insta, and X is in the studio right now.

BananaBender:


You are fvcked up.

#Jesuswept.

Don't mind them.
Let them keep ranting, na feminism go kill them.

shymexx:


Yes, and I believe that's basically what the society needs to start doing. Hardship and survival instincts propel creativity, and mechanisms, which often turn to rare gifts. That's the gift and curse that come with such environment.

It's definitely great to see more black folks make it in sports and entertainment world. And with that, they'll be able to raise their own children the right way, and make them great - via the quality education they would be able to give them, in the space they're in. And hopefully, the next generation will also take it from there, and eventually put the black race on the map. Also, black people need to start showing interest in owning some of these organisations/machines they're making money from, and learn to control the economics.

Mainstream is crap today. You've freaking wanna-be black chic Iggy Azalea, wack-ar.se Nicki Minaj, and Drake dominating everything. There has to be a shift back to what the art-form used to be about.

Yes, I saw a video of Sheek, Jada, and Styles in London walking around with no security and signing autographs. You know London loves those guys to death...and I still don't know anyone who never used to bump their mixtapes back in the day. DMX is coming back soon. I follow Swiss Beatz on Insta, and X is in the studio right now.

Iggy Azaela is freaking annoying, I saw this new Vid she did with J-Lo, that girl is trying too hard to be black. Infact gangstar rap died with G-unit. They're back together again but thèy so far haven't been able to re-create that buzz.

Lol @ walking around with no security, hood mentality. They were lucky not to get mugged, well depends on where they were anyway.

DMX is done, his career is done but who knows.

Shirley07:

Oops! You want single ladies' help in controlling your brain since your third leg controls it. I can understand now

Well, as a guy, I know my third leg has a mind of its own. Hence whenever I want it to stay strong after ejaculation and keep putting in hard work, it never listens to me - sad.

So the onus is on women to control themselves.

shymexx:


Well, as a guy, I know my third leg has a mind of its own. Hence whenever I want it to stay strong after ejaculation and keep putting in hard work, it never listens to me - sad.

So the onus is on women to control themselves.

You mean your 3rd leg = Your brain. I gerrit.

50calibre:

Iggy Azaela is freaking annoying, I saw this new Vid she did with J-Lo, that girl is trying too hard to be black. Infact gangstar rap died with G-unit. They're back together again but thèy so far haven't been able to re-create that buzz.

Lol @ walking around with no security, hood mentality. They were lucky not to get mugged, well depends on where they were anyway.

DMX is done, his career is done but who knows.

Iggy is a fraud with that fake South accent. An Aussie with a draw accent - mind boggles and no ratings. I think the machine is just trying to push a white face on rap music, and steal it like they did with rock, jazz etc.. They keep telling us Elvis was the greatest, but even white rock purists know Little Richard and James Brown were the greatest. Rap music has gone too far for them to nick it now. Loool

The J Lo and Iggy 'ar.se' video is trash. Overrated ar.ses - I prefer the humungous ar.ses on black women lol.

I believe they know Ldn streets love them, and they are safe out here. They went everywhere, including Brixton. You know there is no love for US rappers out here, and they always get robbed. Ja Rule got robbed. The Game got chased in Birmingham. Juelz Santana got kidnapped by Brixton boys (the video is on YouTube), and Cam'ron got chased out of London lol. They think the UK is soft and everyone drinks tea looooool.

DMX can't die - X gonna give it to you! Where my dawgs at?! Lool. He just needs a hit and he still has it.

Shirley07:

You mean your 3rd leg = Your brain. I gerrit.

Nah, my brain isn't my third leg . However, my third makes a lot decisions by itself. Lol.

shymexx:


Nah, my brain isn't my third leg . However, my third makes a lot decisions by itself. Lol.

It definately is, since it makes decision for your brain.

Shirley07:

It definately is, since it makes decision for your brain.

Nah, it isn't. However, I'd say it also has a tendency to react to reflex actions induced by women. So women indirectly have more control over it than I do. Lool

shymexx:


Nah, it isn't. However, I'd say it also has a tendency to react to reflex actions induced by women. So women indirectly have more control over it than I do. Lool

Then Women have control over both your 3rd leg and brain.
Women > 3rd leg > brain.

shymexx:


Iggy is a fraud with that fake South accent. An Aussie with a draw accent - mind boggles and no ratings. I think the machine is just trying to push a white face on rap music, and steal it like they did with rock, jazz etc.. They keep telling us Elvis was the greatest, but even white rock purists know Little Richard and James Brown were the greatest. Rap music has gone too far for them to nick it now. Loool

The J Lo and Iggy 'ar.se' video is trash. Overrated ar.ses - I prefer the humungous ar.ses on black women lol.

I believe they know Ldn streets love them, and they are safe out here. They went everywhere, including Brixton. You know there is no love for US rappers out here, and they always get robbed. Ja Rule got robbed. The Game got chased in Birmingham. Juelz Santana got kidnapped by Brixton boys (the video is on YouTube), and Cam'ron got chased out of London lol. They think the UK is soft and everyone drinks tea looooool.

DMX can't die - X gonna give it to you! Where my dawgs at?! Lool. He just needs a hit and he still has it.

I don't understand the Elvis hype as well, James Brown shi*ts on Elvis in a every way, but the white establishment always want to project a white face.

That video is called "booty" but I don't see any booty in it, just two people with average sized as*s trying too hard. Even Nicki minaj's Anaconda video has more booty in it

Hahahaha you know most of these guys have a false impression of the UK, they see it as a benign environment with posh people but when they come down here, reality smacks them in the face.

They should know they're probably more unsafe in the UK. unlike America, they can't walk around with guns here, meaning they're naked. Lots of desperate mofos out there to prove a point & take that expensive chain you're wearing

50calibre:



So you're directly or indirectly trying to use civilisation as a justification for your loss of identity? Who told that's what civilisation means?

You're silly. Why are you trying to define my identity for me? Who told you I have none?

Do you know how stup1d this is? You created an identity that I'm suppose to miraculously fit in, in your head. Then you accuse me of losing my identify because I don't fit into the box you created for me.

Are you high? Should we all have the same identity? Why is this stranger telling me I have lost my identity? It's either you don't know the meaning of identity, or you're high on some of dat Katt Williams weed.

Have several seats, negro.

50calibre:

You see yourself as a feminist, I see you as a delusional, a pseudo-feminist with inconsistent views.

I'm going to be your therapist for free.

Let's have this therapist session and let's see who who really needs help.

Why am I pseudo-feminist? Shoot.

Shirley07:

Then Women have control over both your 3rd leg and brain.
Women > 3rd leg > brain.

Er, Shirley Bassey, the process involves four stages:

1). Women indirectly control the reflex actions of the third leg.

2). The third leg responds and develops a mind of its own.

3). Then I take control of my third leg to put in work.

4). But when it's time for eja.culation, the third leg develops a mind of its own again, and this time, it has control over my body and soul.

See with the four stages above, I only have absolute control over what happens during stage three. However, women control the first stage which happens to be the catalyst for everything else.

That is why a chic created a thread crying for help about the inability of her man to eja.culate after pounding the bottomless pit for an hour straight. And ol'boy has tried everything humanly possible to no avail.

BananaBender:


You're silly. Why are you trying to define my identity for me? Who told you I have none?

Do you know how stup1d this is? You created an identity that I'm suppose to miraculously fit in, in your head. Then you accuse me of losing my identify because I don't fit into the box you created for me.

Are you high? Should we all have the same identity? Why is this stranger telling me I have lost my identity? It's either you don't know the meaning of identity, or you're high on some of dat Katt Williams weed.

Have several seats, negro.

Shut up negress!! I'm not trying to define your identity because you don't have one, that's what I'm saying.

I'm not asking you to be anything, I'm asking you to tell me what you are because I'm confused. You reek of inconsistency, inferiority & gullibility, you're neither here nor there, in fact you're all over the place spouting off propaganda like someone under a hypnotic spell.

My question to you is; why are so susceptible to propaganda? Are these load of bullshi*t you keep propagating on NL the core values you were raised with? If not, what happened to you.

Tell me and maybe it will start your redemption.

50calibre:

I don't understand the Elvis hype as well, James Brown shi*ts on Elvis in a every way, but the white establishment always want to project a white face.

That video is called "booty" but I don't see any booty in it, just two people with average sized as*s trying too hard. Even Nicki minaj's Anaconda video has more booty in it

Hahahaha you know most of these guys have a false impression of the UK, they see it as a benign environment with posh people but when they come down here, reality smacks them in the face.

They should know they're probably more unsafe in the UK. unlike America, they can't walk around with guns here, meaning they're naked. Lots of desperate mofos out there to prove a point & take that expensive chain you're wearing

Elvis was one of the most overrated artists ever. I was going to cite The Beatles as well, but you just can't go against the genius and legend of John Lennon - and he was The Beatles. Anyway, a lot of the things we label as white inventions today were actually invented by black people, but white folks registered the patents first. That is topic for another day. And intellectual/cultural theft isn't a new thing. That is basically what they are trying to do to hiphop now by giving it a white face.

Lmao at booty where there is non. I will never understand the hype about J.Lo's bum. I'm actually a big fan of her old tunes, and her tune, "if you had my love" will always be one of my all time greatest R&b tunes.

I guess it is because we speak proper English, the accent, and the royal family lool. They are just ignorant. The same Caribbean folks who made NY and Miami tough in the 80s and 90s, are the same ones out here. Black people are the same everywhere and every hood is the same like Ice Cube said.

UK is more or less US' younger brother when it comes to the black communities in both places. And both communities are intertwined, hence you see AA academics and their activists also coming out here to Ldn to support black folks, and most people here look up to them. But the US rappers started it by taking money for shows and not making any appearance, and people decided to start robbing them since they know US artists need UK tour money. They make more money in Europe on tour than they make in the US, coupled with the pounds being almost twice the dollar lool.

BananaBender:


Let's have this therapist session and let's see who who really needs help.

Why am I pseudo-feminist? Shoot.

Good girl!!

The willingness to cooperate means we're off to a good start.

You are a pseudo-feminist because you're inconsistent.

Now my question to you; why are you inconsistent?

shymexx:


Er, Shirley Bassey, the process involves four stages:

1). Women indirectly control the reflex actions of the third leg.

2). The third leg responds and develops a mind of its own.

3). Then I take control of my third leg to put in work.

4). But when it's time for eja.culation, the third leg develops a mind of its own again, and this time, it has control over my body and soul.

See with the four stages above, I only have absolute control over what happens during stage three. However, women control the first stage which happens to be the catalyst for everything else.

That is why a chic created a thread crying for help about the inability of her man to eja.culate after pounding the bottomless pit for an hour straight. And ol'boy has tried everything humanly possible to no avail.

Huh?
Are you saying your 3rd leg controls that cerebrum of yours to go woo a single lady? You know what my advice is? Cut it off and go for brain transplant.