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Re: Getting Engaged @19 by chimerase2: 10:57pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Choi men sharp die Different ways of killing a cat If plan A no work plan B go work Op easy de give amu cat kill remember u re sombody's future wife, dnt let amu widen dat ua Cat to an inelastic eluelu Dats ma advice and advice no be curse |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 11:00pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Peterjosh:Exactly,imagine she's jst 19 and she's that bold to say she's already had sex with her bf severally,i mean how do they gather that courage from?doesn't she feel guilty?wow!jst stop opening ur leg for a man that is not ur husband,have u no dignity or pride?hmmmmmm*sighs* 1 Like |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by MizMyColi(f): 11:10pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
folameme: You know normally, when I see people being bashed here, I'm always quick to come to the rescue or offer a word of encouragement. For the first time on NL, I decided not to say anything. I am indifferent. Sometimes, people need to go the hard way to learn. Unfortunately, I'm loosing my hard talking skills. Ride on guys. I'll come around later to do my part [size=2pt]Tag: Ihedinobi2[/size] |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Pervert1(m): 11:11pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Funke4Jesuss:If you have a crush on me why not say it in private! |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 11:11pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Pervert1:sorry bro,so u can advice ur lil sis to go and have premarital sex?#smh# |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 11:14pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
3DCYCLOPS:i wasn't tryna convince or persuade ok?that was ma opinion! |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Funke4Jesuss(f): 11:15pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Pervert1:it is funny how everybody now think i have a crush on them. It is well o www.nairaland.com/1936441/she-always-reminds-me-she#26925103 |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Meggy007(f): 11:22pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Crocz: ROTF.....hehehehehehehe. |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Pervert1(m): 11:23pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Funke4Jesuss:I was just kidding....but it would be kinda cool though. |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Pervert1(m): 11:29pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
folameme:nope. the deed is done,and It's not like premarital-sex education even helps anymore! some Teenagers feel fulfilled this way. Inasmuch as I don't think it's right,I'm not against it. shaking your head doesn't change the fact that in all part of the world,premarital sex happens,and neither you nor I can stop it.don't crucify the young lady if you have not crucified the thousands in this country in the same act. |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Crocz(m): 11:48pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Meggy007: Lolz...are you Yoruba?..if I may ask And are you Meggy Bonds?...007? |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 11:54pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
MizMyColi:lolz,how are doing sugar? |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by RiffRaff: 12:04am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Dont Let anybody tell you that you are a child. Most people still get feed & sleep on their parent's chair @ age 30 in Naija. They term themselves "YOUNG boy/girl" Let the hypocrites keep ranting about sex, most of them are not virgin either. They wil mouth off all form of crap online to look holy. Pay them no mind. @ 22 most of d losers are probably still writting jamb. They cant wrap their brains around it that a man can be emotionally, physically and financially matured @ that age. Its the bane of a retrogressive society. To the main issue @ hand: Gettin engaged @ 19 is no big deal. It simply means ur Boyfriend knows wat he wants in life. Its a step in the right direction. U guys are both adults. Are u certain he is the 1 u want to spend the rest of ur life with? Is he the man you want to be the father of ur children? Are u willin to walk the mile with him com rain, com sunshine or wateva life throws @ u? If all ur answer to the above question is YES! Then give it ur best shot. An official engagement involving family members might be out of the question for now cuz of the kind of country (Nigeria) u live in. Ur parents will probably not recieve the news too kindly. So u guys av to take things slow. For now, a promise ring will do. When u are on holiday, try inviting him over for family function or visit. Drop subtle hint that he is the guy u are seeing, let him get familiar wit ur family. Get familiar wit his too. The more they see him around the better. After a while u guys can take d bold step of a real engagement involving family members. That being said dont lose sight of other priorities in ur life. Education: Make sure u get good grades & chase ur dreams. As for ur BF, let him take the time to build his career, Be supportive. For d sex, u guys should keep usin protection and dont take things for granted. When that time comes after ur family must have been aware of ur relationship. U guys can get engaged officially. Age doesnt determine whether a Marriage will be successful or not. i know a lot of people who got married early and have a wonderful married life. Same as a lot of people who married late & their marriage hit the rock. There is no blueprint, every1 should get married when they deem it right as long as they have attained adult age of consent. I wish you guys goodluck & all the joy and blessings that coms wit love. Most people can only dream of the kind of love you have for Each other. 6 Likes |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Hardheolar(m): 1:35am On Oct 07, 2014 |
RiffRaff:d only reasonable contribution. . 1000likes 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Emmandus(m): 2:07am On Oct 07, 2014 |
never be afraid to take action , do every thing with wisdom and be guided. Maturity is not in age, but ask yourself, can you two =, really handle the responsibilities that come with it. If you both can go for it! 1 Like |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by MizMyColi(f): 7:01am On Oct 07, 2014 |
folameme: I am fine Dear Good morning Jare. How far, the lady @topic, is she coming around? |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by MizMyColi(f): 7:05am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Hardheolar: Because he supports her having sex or because he actually made some sense bar the sex part. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by Hardheolar(m): 7:19am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Try to read through his response once again slowly cus dats not d only point raised and analyzed. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by MizMyColi(f): 7:20am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Pervert1: I quite agree with you. I think what irked Folameme and most of the people throwing jabs at her is that, she sees nothing wrong in/with doing so. Not really the fact that She's doing it. You get? I quite agree that they were extremely harsh, but then, different strokes, different folks. Besides, I think it's in order to make her see reasons, if I have the capacity to do good to One Single Person (Tautology), do I hold back simply because there are a million more who are in the exact same (Tautology again) position? And for obvious reasons, I couldn't possibly reach out to them? These are my thoughts on the matter.
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Re: Getting Engaged @19 by jaydee87(m): 7:54am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Funke4Jesuss:It shows how trained you are coming here and pretending u the best, funke I now girls like you. pretend to be the saint while deep down u ain't. tell me u dint av sex before 20? answer the question pls... |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by jaydee87(m): 8:03am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Funke4Jesuss:shows funke had a similar experience probably at the same age and that's why she's trying her best to advice u not make same mistake... 1 Like |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by jaydee87(m): 8:06am On Oct 07, 2014 |
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Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 8:59am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi:u aint standing alone on dis matter jare babe!d truth of the matter is,any young lady who isn't ready for marriage yet,shouldn't go into r/ship becos doing this prolong thingy of r/ship,becos it will bring abt wah u're tryna avoid.men these days do not value/appreciate a decent innocent woman,they believe they've gotta be physical wif a lady b4 love can be proved! Buh sex aint love,and i strongly believe a woman's pride and dignity is in a virtue asides other qualities that makes a real woman(attitude,loving,God caring,understanding,impacting lives ETC)don't get me wrong,i aint hating on the d non-virgins,i jst believe there's a way they can start been celibate and keep their dignity. Virginity is not a big deal,its all about discipline and self control!its not a passbook to a successful r/ship its jst doing what u know its right even wen others are doing otherwise so@op,I'm also 19,done wit one course and I'm studying anoda course in uni,i gained admission at a very young age and i get loads of guys asking me out even wen i knew i was that young,i knew i shouldn't get myself involved wit such!dnt get me wrong,its not as if have never had a bf too,atleast in ma church mind i tot i had one earlier dis year we met jst once and we communicated through fone .jst checked ur profile pix,and u're a really pretty gal,i dnt even look or act my ma age,that always make me have more advances from guys,u need to see me(lipssealed),buh i believe one's got to be focused. for now its all abt keeping ma grades up u can also do that sugar,dnt break up wif ur boyfriend,jst stay off sex and NO dnt get engaged now,i believe u're also naïve like me too,so we don't really know what we want out of life. For now,so jst focus on ur Education and wen d right time comes,u'd know wah to do and pls babe,before going into a r/hship pray abt it,i hate it wen ladies have so many Exes it aint cool,isn't it better jst to stay single till d right guy comes?so babe i love u as a friend,dnt accept d engagement ring.ps:I'm sorry abt how harsh i sounded the first time,its jst becos u're same age wit me,and i believe there's a way u could have abstained sorry babe,love u mucho.@mizcoy hw are u doing today?hope u're gud? Funny enough,most of ma friends are way more older than me lolz 1 Like |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by naijaboiy: 9:17am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Funke4Jesuss:OH shut the Fùck up I hate it when people try to form holier than thou You think because you attached 'Jesus' to your rusty name means you can come to preach rubbish to us Just stop being a hypocrite 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by MizMyColi(f): 9:20am On Oct 07, 2014 |
folameme: I'm good deariee. Very good o. Thanks for your input. I'm happy at reading your post. You certainly don't reason like your age mates. It's okay Dear, I've been accused of that too. You might wanna be spacing your texts more. I understand that when writing from the heart, there's really no time to be adding some effizy, but I think it's a lot better and better helps to drive home your message, you get? Please forgive me if I sound offensive dear, just something I thought you might wanna look into |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 9:32am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi:thnx dearie,na vex make me write am like tha jare,i didn't even prove read i hope i didn't gbagaun sha Will try to space it. Are u also 19? |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by MizMyColi(f): 9:36am On Oct 07, 2014 |
folameme: Uhn Uhn Two Decades and A half |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by kmoneyman: 9:58am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi:wow! When I looked up ur profile pic,I was able to guess ur age |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by MizMyColi(f): 10:06am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 10:14am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi:sorry babe,meant proof read,oh u're 25?u're ma lil mum on nairaland now *kisses* 1 Like |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by kmoneyman: 10:18am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Yeah. Pls keep up with d good writing style. I used to write back in d days for Hints and Hearts magazines.I can see u going places. |
Re: Getting Engaged @19 by MizMyColi(f): 10:23am On Oct 07, 2014 |
kmoneyman: Waow! Thanks I have a project I'm working on, more like "should be working on". Thing is my head's so blank on what to write about. Like I've hit a writers' block It gets better though. |
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