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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by chikkydear(f): 3:14pm On Oct 08, 2014
My dear this is the wrongest place to drop your relationship issues. You will just end up heavily criticized.
Ask God for wisdom who gives freely to all without finding faults.
Please I feel you should avoid both ends for now please. You are still young to face such complications. Face your books. This is the best time... As you get older, you become matured in reasoning... A time will come when you will begin to ask yourself what on earth was I doing with this guys? You don't need men for Now. Bet me! They are all distraction. This is exactly what I will pass to my children. I made a 4.46 in school. You can imagine the reason.
Please concentrate.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by kokomailler(m): 3:15pm On Oct 08, 2014
i gat a story........story!!!
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by barnabas91: 3:16pm On Oct 08, 2014
vivaciouzz:
yea,I know he was a cultist all dis while but I hv trying to save him from being known..only few pple know abt it..its not as if I got into a relationship coz of dat.I knew so many tinz I stopped him from doing like smoking.. I made him take his studies serious.. I really helped him..hez d quiet type n recently has been having issues with the school security, n I don't want to get involved dats y I want to leave ..d oda guy doesn't know dat I had a crush on him n hez loving me now..n hez in anoda school coz assuming hez in my school..dunno wat would hv happened to him n I didn't start my new relationship with se.x..I just wanted someone dats free from problems n who I can b with without being afraid dat something bad might happen to him
To save †ђξ other guy frm tragedy, leave †ђξ both of them. If U̶̲̥̅̊ continue with †ђξ cult guy, U̶̲̥̅̊ are endangering ur life and future. You av to mek a stand. Don't cloud ur mind with r/ships trauma now dat u are still in schl, or else U̶̲̥̅̊'ll regret it 4 life. Count my words. Thinks of what lies ahead of you when you are through with school.
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by wiringdpt(m): 3:16pm On Oct 08, 2014
Crush not love...its just an infatuation, what you feel for the new guy isnt real.
vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Kechukwu: 3:22pm On Oct 08, 2014
U can date him for anther 3 years then date another then another. After series of dating u open your eyes and realize who luvs u.

silly girl

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Aitee1: 3:31pm On Oct 08, 2014
Youngpo413:




agen annang ajid,atiedie?
Nde agen eka afo o,nto Abak!

Nice to know u are bro

*big hug*

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by 50calibre(m): 3:36pm On Oct 08, 2014
Odunharry:
50calibre i see u




i swear many gals are confuse and they aint loyal

Looool
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by IbokUtoroh(m): 3:43pm On Oct 08, 2014
ugoezeik:
wen dem released u from quarantine center ehhh










U SAY WETIN?
WAT ARE U SAY.............
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by fidzy(m): 3:45pm On Oct 08, 2014
Its high time u guys realize some of this stories are baked and they prolly don't take this advice(for those writing paragraphs), before long they gonna create another thread with another story, shey she has friends, they dint advice her? Smh...its all fun reading comments tho
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by halix239(f): 3:53pm On Oct 08, 2014
[quote author=understatement post=26961355]Mtscheew..abeg who don see eclipse for in area?[/quote
chai, guy u wicked, looolz
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Youngpo413: 4:01pm On Oct 08, 2014
Aitee1:


Nice to know u are bro

*big hug*



thanks a milli...
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by halix239(f): 4:02pm On Oct 08, 2014
Youngpo413:



you just realized he is a cultist after 3yrs?
Just leave him if you don`t love him anymore,just forget about an unneccesary excuse...
By the way your ex(to be) is cute,you posted his pix on twitter,tagged "MY BOO"
hmmmmmm
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by lastpage: 4:07pm On Oct 08, 2014
vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

Both GUYS are stewpid!

Why they still dont gerrit that you are not worth a rats life, talk-less of their combined lives, is beyond belief!
shocked shocked shocked

Lastpage!

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Youngpo413: 4:15pm On Oct 08, 2014
halix239:

hmmmmmm

what?
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 4:16pm On Oct 08, 2014
Sanguine77:

The story of an incoming runz girl. Keep both of them and get extra 3 guys as back up cos most guys are cultists or drunks or womanizers or abusers or sane people.
LAFMAOOOOcheesycheesy

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 4:25pm On Oct 08, 2014
Meggy007:



LOL. Couldn't agree more. Dumb and dumber this post. This is what happens when one thinks 'short term' when getting into a relaish. You saw the good in a cultist and went on to date him,now you wanna bail on him for someone else? Oh well carry on, maybe 'the good in him' will make give give you his blessings as you do so. You didn't ask anyone's opinion to date him, now you do to ditch him. Pele o. You can't have your cake and eat it. I sha wish you get out alive...and prolly unscratched; and then GET SENSE!
lol

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 4:27pm On Oct 08, 2014
ugwum007:
y is that anytime am happy and come online, one post in nairaland will make me unhappy & remind me y God shouldn't ve created women.....what is wrong with dis female gender? u just knew he is a cultist now.....
my stomach ocheesycheesycheesy

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by adorable29(f): 4:34pm On Oct 08, 2014
ugwum007:
y is that anytime am happy and come online, one post in nairaland will make me unhappy & remind me y God shouldn't ve created women.....what is wrong with dis female gender? u just knew he is a cultist now.....


Relax Jare! What do you mean by female gender? Haven't you met men who leave their wife and 6 kids for a little prostitute because they just realise their Dicck needs more sex?!

At least, hers makes sense. She isn't married to him and secondly, she fears for her life and if she were my sister, I would advice her to leave the cultist unless he is ready to change!

Afterall, she has tried to make him better. But do people really change?
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 4:36pm On Oct 08, 2014
DailyNews:
my stomach ocheesycheesycheesy
lol..nairaland 4 u

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Odunharry(m): 4:38pm On Oct 08, 2014
lastpage:


Both GUYS are stewpid!

Why they still dont gerrit that you are not worth a rats life, talk-less of their combined lives, is beyond belief!
shocked shocked shocked

Lastpage!
lmao

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 4:41pm On Oct 08, 2014
Tintinix:


May God continue to bless Nairalanders like you who make my day and put laughter in my mouth.

awww...
you jux made my day
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 4:45pm On Oct 08, 2014
Aitee1:


Going thru ur profile officially u are a clown

And I luv u that way kiss
awww...
And she's pretty too kiss

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 4:46pm On Oct 08, 2014
redcliff:


I have not liked any post in a long time. This would be my first. That aside, a wise man once said Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't." (Erica Jong, How to Save Your Own Life, 1977)
what can I say?
I was inspired grin

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 4:48pm On Oct 08, 2014
CoachDX:

You guys have a way of making people laugh cheesy
nairaland is just funny, you never know what will go viral

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by equlibrium(m): 4:50pm On Oct 08, 2014
ayo4dworld:
grin grin grin grin grin grin You won't kill person with laff oooo
try not to die dassal

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 4:52pm On Oct 08, 2014
Odunharry:

lol..nairaland 4 u
as in, they make Mr Bean look like a learnergrin

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 4:55pm On Oct 08, 2014
adorable29:


Relax Jare! What do you mean by female gender? Haven't you met men who leave their wife and 6 kids for a little prostitute because they just realise their Dicck needs more sex?!

At least, hers makes sense. She isn't married to him and secondly, she fears for her life and if she were my sister, I would advice her to leave the cultist unless he is ready to change!

Afterall, she has tried to make him better. But do people really change?
lafmaoooocheesycheesycheesycheesy
Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by Nobody: 5:01pm On Oct 08, 2014
And yet you say all this on an anonymous forum with your picture up?? You told the whole world he is cultist shocked I pray he loves you this much lipsrsealed

Vivaciouzz face your studies and leave men alone o.

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by fpeter(f): 5:03pm On Oct 08, 2014
Na wetin ur parents send you go school to study be that? Ehn??
How old are you sef? You had better focus on your studies and spend
time serving God if you want true happiness...#REPENT

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by pickabeau1: 5:21pm On Oct 08, 2014
if u r d one in ur profile.... u look too young to be even involved in such relationships

vivaciouzz:
yea,I know he was a cultist all dis while but I hv trying to save him from being known..only few pple know abt it..its not as if I got into a relationship coz of dat.I knew so many tinz I stopped him from doing like smoking.. I made him take his studies serious.. I really helped him..hez d quiet type n recently has been having issues with the school security, n I don't want to get involved dats y I want to leave ..d oda guy doesn't know dat I had a crush on him n hez loving me now..n hez in anoda school coz assuming hez in my school..dunno wat would hv happened to him n I didn't start my new relationship with se.x..I just wanted someone dats free from problems n who I can b with without being afraid dat something bad might happen to him

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Re: My Relationship Dilemma, I Need Your Advice by mocmike(m): 5:58pm On Oct 08, 2014
justmag:
Leave them both n take ya asss to church. You need jesus!
yes ooooooo, u r on point

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