edwife:


Do you know anything about it?

I need to know.

It may help a manopaused man ..who knows

18 years gap.....hmmmmm

Can dry bones rise again

Put aphrodisiacs in his food at dinner time never try it at breakfast, unless he will be home all day

This man is evil. Since he knows that he does not like sex why did he not marry someone as advanced in age as he is. OP you married a man with two divorces. Did you bother asking him why before you married him?

pickabeau1:


It may help a manopaused man ..who knows

18 years gap.....hmmmmm

Can dry bones rise again

Help him ermm where if i may ask?

edwife:


Help him ermm where if i may ask?

Who knows

Na wa o.. so @ 33 ur sex life is already dead? Till death? E hard o. Me I can't imagine it. Some things a Love Machine can't fix.. how long will u continue? Ur husband won't change, he's already set in his ways. For his 1st and 2nd wife to leave cos of same issue and he's not even being considerate enough to work on himself to keep d marriage. Anyway if u can, learn to use d intimacy gadgets. Anything 2 save d face of d marriage. Success in ur endeavours

beeevan:
Seriously this man is old, let him be before he breaks his waist. You swore to celibacy the day you chose a man almost two decades older. For better, for worse....

phew!!!
Beeeevvvvvvaaaaannnnnnnn!

soulglo:
This man is evil. Since he knows that he does not like sex why did he not marry someone as advanced in age as he is. OP you married a man with two divorces. Did you bother asking him why before you married him?

"if i had known/you should have known" doesnt solve anything..... It may even lead to resentment.

It has happened o..... the koko is not about being starved, but making the starvation as pleasant as possible.

oweniwe:


"if i had known/you should have known" doesnt solve anything..... It may even lead to resentment.

It has happened o..... the koko is not about being starved, but making the starvation as pleasant as possible.

I agree but sometimes taking ownership of your mistake can help her make a better decision on the next step to take

Pepunis:
What do i do, when my husband has no interest in sex, after several conversation on the issue, he told me point and black that he drive no happines in sex, that sex is not his life style, that if not for children he will remain enuch till death. This sex issue destroyes his first and second marriage, He made me to know that the prevous was caught wit different men to the extend of them getting pregnant, mine is the third marriage, now i know he is the cause of their unfaithfulnes, for me i don't want to sleep with another except my husband, but he is starving the madness out of me, like once in a month, if u ask him either he has prayer or he has major problems not sex, i inquire and was made to understand that, that is his life right from youth, am 33 he is 50, please am dying silently, but i know he is a good man but this sex is the prob i have with him, and i love sex at least 3 times a week,

tell your husband


to marry once is a duty, twice is folly and a third is madness

Young ladies should learn from this. I have been reading a lot of similar stories like this lately. Maybe it is the way our society treats sex talks like a taboo.

Are you sure your man isn't gay? He might not know it. From my research and work, it is very hard to find a man who doesn't like sex at all...unless he doesn't feel sexually attracted to women, then he must be feeling sexually attracted to men. Even Pastors are sexually attracted to women, they just do a good job in controlling that urge.


Anyway, I think the only solution to your problem is for you to get intimacy gadgets and help yourself. Your man can't change how he feels, so you have to live with that reality.

it goes to show that people should settle the area of sexual compatibility before marriage.. its nice to save it for d wedding night ..but again there might be rude surprises awaiting u.sex is a necessary sin in my opinion.@Op well,u have made a non refundable purchase by marrying him..no turning back now.. I wud advise u get busy with work,church activities etc to take your mind off sex..Because the truth is the day u find yourself close to a man who desires u..I doubt if u can be able to withstand the temptation...

skyladon22:


You are still asking why no courtship

Aint you going through the same thing despite your courtship?

The question would have been "why didnt they sample during courtship"?

Why must people sample themselves during courtship?

Sampling from one courtship to another.

Op, if these sexx issue will lead you to adultery, sleeping with other men it is better you divorce him and remarry a man that will give you 5 times a week.

You are still young.

Spike his food with aphrodisiac. You can contact a local drug store in ur area. He will come raging at u like a lion.

tintingz:
Op, if these sexx issue will lead you to adultery, sleeping with other men it is better you divorce him and remarry a man that will give you 5 times a week.

You are still young.

So you support divorce but not sampling

Both are sins if you don't know

So where is your for better for worse or your own is for better to stay for worse for go

And don't tell me that you will divorce your wife if she fails to satisfy your urge

Things men do. Easier said than done

skyladon22:

So you support divorce but not sampling

I support divorce not sampling there and there.

imagine someone in a relationship going to like 5 times, in each relationship there will be alot of sexx sexx sexx.

then later he/she will be dumped.

What's is the use?

Both are sins if you don't know

Divorce is not a sin.

So where is your for better for worse or your own is for better to stay for worse for go

The op husband case is not about for better for worse thing, the husband doesn't like sexx.

A couple being satisfied with his/her one lifestyle should not use it to suffer his/her own partner.

And don't tell me that you will divorce your wife if she fails to satisfy your urge

Things men do. Easier said than done

I don't pray for such.

....but when things are not going well with both couples it is better for them to divorce.

normally I don't commet on such topic and I know this is going to sound kinda wicked, the truth is, he not not going to change. if this is his first marriage it is understandable but his third? and all these counselling stuff I don't thing it is going to work because from ur description, he seem to be Mr know it all and attempt to bring the matter to hear is going to be a bruise on his ego the problem is psychological one. you are already stuck with him, the solution is either you quit or stick to him and adjust ur own sexual orientation to match his.
all the babes wey never marry test the thing whether e dey work, if it is the babe asking the guy to wait until marriage it is understandable but if it is the guy then you should be concerned.

edwife:


Please inform me here,because i am seriously confused.

What are their benefits?

groundnut and carrot gives u serious x urge and vibrator will help satisfy u instead of commiting adultry

coogar:


invest all your next month's salary on dïldos & duracell batteries.

....

fluffyz:
groundnut and carrot gives u serious x urge and vibrator will help satisfy u instead of commiting adultry

OK

how old is this marriage?

s,e.x toys are wrong...n in the long run cant still compare with the original.
spiking his food with aphrodisiacs..is also dicey......he might hv a heart condition/it might make him ill.u can try it as a last resort.
you have a 7yr old kid?..u r 33?..that mean u married at least 7yrs ago?.......or this is ur 2nd marriage?
how have u been coping for the past 7yrs?..or this his condition is a recent thing?

serious something! Can't imagine life without sex, na to craze be that o. Same thing my mum faced, popc was way older too.

Bottomline my dear Op, things won't change, if you like fast for 100 years, d age gap is a big no-no.

That's hw one old fool too wanted to tie me down, he had 2 kids already o. Serious thing, sotay he even gimme ring, i turned it down o after calculations. How long can u m*sturbate?

tintingz:
I support divorce not sampling there and there.

imagine someone in a relationship going to like 5 times, in each relationship there will be alot of sexx sexx sexx.

then later he/she will be dumped.

What's is the use?

Divorce is not a sin.



The op husband case is not about for better for worse thing, the husband doesn't like sexx.

A couple being satisfied with his/her one lifestyle should not use it to suffer his/her own partner.


I don't pray for such.

....but when things are not going well with both couples it is better for them to divorce.

I don't support divorce and it is not right to sample in every rship but romance and some smootching are

allowed. In this her case she should have know better.

If it was a no sex before marriage courtship, she should have discussed the issue of sex

Since she is an active type

Sorry pepuins, when u have the urge jux self service and keep on praying for him

cretin:
how old is this marriage?

s,e.x toys are wrong...n in the long run cant still compare with the original.
spiking his food with aphrodisiacs..is also dicey......he might hv a heart condition/it might make him ill.u can try it as a last resort.
you have a 7yr old kid?..u r 33?..that mean u married at least 7yrs ago?.......or this is ur 2nd marriage?
how have u been coping for the past 7yrs?..or this his condition is a recent thing?

got married 2005, and had my first child 2007 sept, may be he pretended that time, after my first child he show whom he is

Pepunis:
got married 2005, and had my first child 2007 sept, may be he pretended that time, after my first child he show whom he is

Woman he is not pretending


U married a man almost 20y your senior

Do u expect his libido will b d same of man in 30s or even 40s

He needs you for companionship in his old age and gave u a child to make u feel secure.

The more u push along dis line the more one wonders what u saw in him
Was it an arranged marriage?
Was it an escape for u?

If ur eyes have opened up now..get a divorce and marry a younger man instead of committing adultery or worse poison him to hasten his exit

If not take responsibility for your decision and stick with a vìbrator

Everyone here is blaming the man while few wants to tell u d truth. Only beevann did

That's the issue if u dont want to accept

cretin:
how old is this marriage?

s,e.x toys are wrong...n in the long run cant still compare with the original.
spiking his food with aphrodisiacs..is also dicey......he might hv a heart condition/it might make him ill.u can try it as a last resort.
you have a 7yr old kid?..u r 33?..that mean u married at least 7yrs ago?.......or this is ur 2nd marriage?
how have u been coping for the past 7yrs?..or this his condition is a recent thing?

married 2005, had my first children 2007 sept, this whole thing started when i was preg, he pretended those few months, until he show who he is

Pepunis:
married 2005, had my first children 2007 sept, this whole thing started when i was preg, he pretended those few months, until he show who he is

sorry about that. Its not really about men..... Women pretend a lot before marriage too.

Men marry women hpoing they never change...... Women marry men hoping they will change...

After marriage, both often end up disappointed as its birtually impossible for a woman not to change physically and emotionally after marriage/childbirth....... While the men, well, their attitudes often get worse.

You have to make up your mind whether you can endure it all till "infinity" or you will "play ball" or "check out".....

Gud p.m

A confirmed runz babe from d response so far
And guys r already falling for it
Some hv started communicating tru pm.
Toto!
Always reset a man's brain anytime its mentioned

moca:
A confirmed runz babe from d response so far
And guys r already falling for it
Some hv started communicating tru pm.
Toto!
Always reset a man's brain anytime its mentioned

How did you get the scope

pickabeau1:

Everyone here is blaming the man while few wants to tell u d truth. Only beevann did

And that seems to be your problem