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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Oct 14, 2014
Mhosmhan:
Guys i swear not even only dat sef...u go stil c some dumb nd useles guys on f.b dy comment nd like any thing wey gels post even tho' na meaningles things nd dis go mak girls dy feel important...mhen,sum guys suck
That attitude annoys me too. A lady will post "Today is Thursday"- and you'd see 15likes.
WTF?!

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Oct 14, 2014
MarthaK:
"Send me some of your pics"
"What are you wearing now"
"Send me a hot pic"
Are you mad? angry
True talk dear... Hahahaha
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by ojaydedon(m): 5:01pm On Oct 14, 2014
creamy1990:
its not about forming..I do that a lot and its because of crazy guy who misuse the opportunity given to dem to chant and rant rubbish...guyz dnt av respect for ladies again these dayz and I won't sit and watch a guy trample upon my pride and integrity on social medias

so its an opportunity u gave d guy dat chats with u Smh... From dis ur post, it seems like u are a demigod... An opportunity ke, na job opportunity Abi to chat with u na job Is some guys dat caused dis sha... I dnt blame you.... I blame d guys dat accept ur job offer...








I know some guys may be jerks, but not all guys are d same...




Another thing, not every guy dat chats with u, wants to ask u out....


If a guy wants to trample u, y not delete him instead, or tell him abt it and den delete him if he doesnt change...


And guys learn to delete girls too dat take u for granted and for a fool... U r not a slave to dem.... And dey r not worth havin u as a friend..


And guys know dat life is not all about girls.... A girl dat is nice to u doesnt mean she wants u as a boyfriend but maybe she loves ur companionship...



Girls know dat life is not all about d number of guys dat are hovering around u... Is 4000 facebook male friends, 500bbm friends, 300whatsapp friends, 2000 twitter followers, etc not too much? If u wunt be nice, or if it will be a burden to u later, y accept such number of friends



Make we remember say Dere is God in everything dat we do sha...

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by pansophist(m): 5:02pm On Oct 14, 2014
Dress like a king and get treated like one. Dress properly so that you will not be addressed improperly, when the brain is loaded, the man is needed, na as goat take keep himself, na so dem de price am.

The logic here is simple, do not put yourself in a position that will make a lady ignore you. Ladies are usually the one after guys, if you position your game in such a place that they will like to attain, it will appear like a magic when they will be flocking over you in a speed of light.

Ladies needs attention, they need care and some might even argue to an extent that they are natually insecure and need men to validate them, funny enough you will see some of them treating men like trash and the reason is simple, you do not appear like someone she will like to spend her time with.

Upgrade yourself, work on your intellectual skills and most importantly, be independent. After this, you will notice a drastic changes on the way they relate with you. As in eh, you go brush kpomo you go tired. I've been there.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 5:03pm On Oct 14, 2014
kandiikane:


I'm confused here. So a woman should sleep with every man that has been chasing her for months? I mean if your situation with her doesn't change for months then it could be she just isn't into you. You make it seem like she is obligated to like or sleep with you because you have been sniffing her azz for months. The latter is why you get treated the way you do.

cheesy bros I tire, his post stinks of frustration and sheer bitterness of a victim of such cases!! I totally understand

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by pansophist(m): 5:09pm On Oct 14, 2014
chlowi:


cheesy bros I tire, his post stinks of frustration and sheer bitterness of a victim of such cases!! I totally understand

Lol, and thats the best you can come up with? Infact to be more specific, Nigerian ladies have a stinky attitude and the OP post is a typical example of it.

So according to your book, complaining about the dirty attitudes of female ignoring a male friends is acceptable right? hence you tagged them as a victim.

You are a typical example of the girls he is referring to, I blame those boys that inflates your ego so high, that you lost common ethical skills in social communication.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by creamy1990(f): 5:11pm On Oct 14, 2014
SeverusSnape:
They do that just to feel important, Anyways, I don't blame them a bit; I blame all those sissy boys that makes them feel so important. Any lady who ignores you when you're saying something sensible doesn't deserve to be your friend, do the needful by deleting them ASAP.
No sane lady ignores a sensible talk...check urslf
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by vega84(m): 5:12pm On Oct 14, 2014
Oh I thought that shit only happens to me. Yeye naija gals . #vegayarns#
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by ayukdaboss(m): 5:13pm On Oct 14, 2014
creamy1990:
its not about forming..I do that a lot and its because of crazy guy who misuse the opportunity given to dem to chant and rant rubbish...guyz dnt av respect for ladies again these dayz and I won't sit and watch a guy trample upon my pride and integrity on social medias
Why did you add him in the first place?

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by creamy1990(f): 5:15pm On Oct 14, 2014
Mayorwer:
God punish you, you ugly bitch. Who cares about your reply. Soon you will get old and start looking for TB joshua for deliverance. Mtchewww
you need deliverance for telling her that. Your case needs SHILOH ewu south korea
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by ayukdaboss(m): 5:15pm On Oct 14, 2014
creamy1990:
No sane lady ignores a sensible talk...check urslf
Every sensible talk starts with "hi" or some form of greeting which girls willfully ignore...So tell me, how the fork are you both gonna have a sensible talk when you don't reply the Guy's greeting?

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Kennedyiheme: 5:21pm On Oct 14, 2014
girls tink they are smart.....bt boys are smarter, lol bt why do africans hve stupid mentality......why shld a girl see texting hello to a boy first a crime...u'll feel to big to start a conversation, i call tht foolishness nt ego.......he finally sends u "hello", she is fully aware the boy has sent a message, she feels so happy bt decides to put noodles on the fire, so she could waste time small, so he wont tink shes cheap..........blackman mentality, we have a long way to go

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by olagockay(m): 5:21pm On Oct 14, 2014
Odilafta:
And when she needs recharge card,conversation goes thus when she sees you online.;

Girl: sweetheart,hi good evening..I've been waiting for you.

Boy: honey I'm fine..I've been sending you messages but you weren't replying.

Girl: yea,the network was hanging..how was work? Have you eaten?

Boy: yea..thanks

Girl: sweetheart,can you credit me? I'm so broke

Boy: ahh,hmm,okay lets see what happens tomorrow evening.

Girl reads and updates status,''mtcheew''

Boy: honey are you there?

Girl: typing
25mins later,
Girl: typing.
U speakin 4rm xperience bro?
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by BANGERLEE1(m): 5:22pm On Oct 14, 2014
Mprex:
Lol. I'm sooooo guilty of this.
So many unreplied messages on my facebook, bbm and e-mail undecided



its not like a ignore the messages with any purposeful intent sha. Juzt that most times i'm busy, bored with your chats or i feel there is really nothing for us to talk about tongue
Yu are Busy yet u will hold your phone pressing it as if u are pinging God... Yet you are busy?? Ur reasons are dumb and pointless.... If yu have ok niggas on ur bbm u won't ignore them its because u have okada riders and hungry jambites that's y the situation is like tha

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by creamy1990(f): 5:23pm On Oct 14, 2014
Sanguine:



Lol. Imagine someone asking you ''how was your night?'' at say some minutes past 2 in the afternoon... Smh! Or ''how was your day?'' around 12noon. It can be real annoying...
hahahhahahahahah u cracked me up,greatest mumus' av ever seen yet dey kip throwing all their useless weights on us. Most of dem talking here are slaves to girls o abi aw can a guy come just @ d sight of a lady he had a crush on. If una no get better tin to take ur mouth talk abeg make una go slp for gutter
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Norajones(f): 5:29pm On Oct 14, 2014
But i don't
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by CoCoLav(f): 5:29pm On Oct 14, 2014
That's why its important to have only your close friends on your BBM and not some random guys who chatted you up at a party or on the street corner because your friends know when you are busy and will forgive you when you read their chats and reply two days later.

They won't come ranting on NL about how much of a snob you are...
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by thandii1: 5:30pm On Oct 14, 2014
princesa:
Lol, guys can so worry over the craziest of issues. Na by force to chat?

Quite amusing I tell you. Someone ignores you and you are whining and sulking and cursing , whatever happened to moving on. Why the anger na? So much pettiness from the so called made guys.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 5:30pm On Oct 14, 2014
pansophist:


Lol, and thats the best you can come up with? Infact to be more specific, Nigerian ladies have a stinky attitude and the OP post is a typical example of it.

So according to your book, complaining about the dirty attitudes of female ignoring a male friends is acceptable right? hence you tagged them as a victim.

You are a typical example of the girls he is referring to, I blame those boys that inflates your ego so high, that you lost common ethical skills in social communication.

It is simple! If someone ignores you, ignore them back, generalizing and using such demeaning words on the female folk was rather uncalled for. I bet you, it is not every girl you chat up with on social media, so why the mighty fuss about the ones who ignore you?
Personally, I do not snub people and that doesn't mean I entertain every convo from every male common, would you like your woman to be that kind of lady?
I do not know about the kind of ladies HE referred to, but I work for my own money and pay my own bills and I live a contented life and rely on no one! Whatever my man gives me is a plus.

Some guys can be really nasty, u give em an inch they wanna take inches.
If I do not find your messages reasonable enough or you ain't talking business ideas or innovations or politics am so ignoring you! Its my life my rules! I owe no one apologies!

Friendship is good yes.! But I refuse to respond to every dick and harry in the name of observing your so called ethical skills in communication.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by WoodcrestMayor(m): 5:31pm On Oct 14, 2014
Your moniker says it all smiley
Sanguine:
Well, personally, this ain true for me. I try as much as possible not to ignore the guys. As a matter of fact I've more guys on my list than girls...in fact, na me go first 'hi' you gan sef. Lol. But then what puts me off is when you start shortening the words unnecessarily and replying me with 'k' 'kk' 'ai' 'xup' and all of that. Nothing irritates me more...
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Donkaz(m): 5:32pm On Oct 14, 2014
Pervert1:
ya bro,it pissed me off when I visit a female friend's wall on facebook and I see stuffs like..."thanks dear for accepting me". Geez,that's fuk up.


that can be forgiven.

But some guys go as far as "thanks for sending me a request"
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by chlowi(f): 5:32pm On Oct 14, 2014
CoCoLav:
That's why its important to have only your close friends on your BBM and not some random guys who chatted you up at a party or on the street corner because your friends know when you are busy and will forgive you when you read their chats and reply two days later.

They won't come ranting on NL about how much of a snob you are...


Am telling you!
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by berbs112(m): 5:34pm On Oct 14, 2014
HARDDON:


Vic wor? Sorry to disappoint u.
A lion does not turn a puccupine at the flip of d coin. If every guy was like yours truly, men would eat at the very exalted tables they were fashioned for n not scrub scraps ...

Let's say I'm a voice of correction to these whack guys that don't know that not for naughts were they born .
N to C snubs like u who think d sun shines out of ur bu77s , try something more challenging like having Kul people who u can hv intellectual talks with n r challenging, not having 500bbm contacts yet none got brains.

"No disrespect buh I killa queen !"






Btw, how twisted can u get? Advertizing ur pin on ur signature so u can hv more recharge card clients? N when they don't send, u turn blind eyes to their pings ?



Gbam!

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by BANGERLEE1(m): 5:35pm On Oct 14, 2014
Number 1 reason is that girls who snub thr male contacts seem not to know them physically or perhaps don't like them.... Number 2 if a girl snub u on chat it maybe because she wasn't the 1 tha gave you her contact...u stole or grabbed it. Number 3. Girls are proud in nature, they always want you to say Hi to them first...number 4. Some guys chat with gurls as if they are conducting interview...ask irrelevant questions like are u in the sitting room? Have yu taken yur bath? What's yur mothers name.... 5. They hates unattractive guys... We all do..... 6. Some guys Bleep up in the way they chat.. They can hardly construct a simple sentence...the list goes on nd on.... The blame is not on them alone! Some guys are really FK in blood!
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by creamy1990(f): 5:36pm On Oct 14, 2014
pastormmadu:




Off point. What is she saying?
she's damn on point-lame man's english so wht part of it don't u understand? She's simply telling u why she ignores guyz on social media
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Mftivi: 5:36pm On Oct 14, 2014
Pervert1:
ya bro,it pissed me off when I visit a female friend's wall on facebook and I see stuffs like..."thanks dear for accepting me". Geez,that's fuk up.
Hahahahaha. I think say na only me e dey pain. Well dem galz do that on my own wall. Guys dey mumu.
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by pansophist(m): 5:40pm On Oct 14, 2014
chlowi:


It is simple! If someone ignores you, ignore them back, generalizing and using such demeaning words on the female folk was rather uncalled for. I bet you, it is not every girl you chat up with on social media, so why the mighty fuss about the ones who ignore you?
Personally, I do not snub people and that doesn't mean I entertain every convo from every male common, would you like your woman to be that kind of lady?
I do not know about the kind of ladies HE referred to, but I work for my own money and pay my own bills and I live a contented life and rely on no one! Whatever my man gives me is a plus.

Some guys can be really nasty, u give em an inch they wanna take inches.
If I do not find your messages reasonable enough or you ain't talking business ideas or innovations or politics am so ignoring you! Its my life my rules! I owe no one apologies!

Friendship is good yes.! But I refuse to respond to every dick and harry in the name of observing your so called ethical skills in communication.




Ok, lets turn the table around. How will you feel if you message a guy and he didnt reply? he blatanly ignores you like you are worthless meanwhile deep in you, you might need an important info from him?

You owe no one apologies doesnt mean you should treat them bad. Why accept/add them if you know you wont talk to them? why stress it? In as much as I agree that its your choice to reply and talk to male folks, ignoring their message is rude, I wonder which society you grew up in that made you think its normal. Delete them instead and make it clear, let them know where they belong

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Oct 14, 2014
If your profile picture is the type that has Range Rover Sports in it plus you always on blazers posing with Dollars on a trip to Dubai, Paris and USA...trust me, they will not ignore you

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Gabbiddo: 5:42pm On Oct 14, 2014
ojaydedon:


so its an opportunity u gave d guy dat chats with u Smh... From dis ur post, it seems like u are a demigod... An opportunity ke, na job opportunity Abi to chat with u na job Is some guys dat caused dis sha... I dnt blame you.... I blame d guys dat accept ur job offer...








I know some guys may be jerks, but not all guys are d same...




Another thing, not every guy dat chats with u, wants to ask u out....


If a guy wants to trample u, y not delete him instead, or tell him abt it and den delete him if he doesnt change...


And guys learn to delete girls too dat take u for granted and for a fool... U r not a slave to dem.... And dey r not worth havin u as a friend..


And guys know dat life is not all about girls.... A girl dat is nice to u doesnt mean she wants u as a boyfriend but maybe she loves ur companionship...



Girls know dat life is not all about d number of guys dat are hovering around u... Is 4000 facebook male friends, 500bbm friends, 300whatsapp friends, 2000 twitter followers, etc not too much? If u wunt be nice, or if it will be a burden to u later, y accept such number of friends



Make we remember say Dere is God in everything dat we do sha...
I deleted one yeye girl like that.
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Mhosmhan(m): 5:43pm On Oct 14, 2014
U ar ryt bro....d gels too go dy form posh...God dey sha

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Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by BANGERLEE1(m): 5:43pm On Oct 14, 2014
90percent of the people who commented don't know what the thread is about! It is Why girls ignore male contacts on social network....Not what will yu do if a girl snubs yu....
Re: Why Do Ladies Ignore Their Male Friends On Social Networks? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 14, 2014
Iwe iwe, iwe!

Iwe iwe, Iwe!

Iwe n'ewe anyi na umu nwanyi fa zaro anyi na social media iwe!

Umu nwanyi mere gini?? Every time fa zanyi with K

grin I'm bored in this library embarassed

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