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there is notting bad in this issue.... mayb those they are saying that they cant cook for their BF no sabi cook well, so as not to embarrace themself.....she will maintain her position on d chair.

TahariX:


My dad cooks for my mom. My mom NEVER went to his place to cook for him before they were married. They've been married for 21 years now. What was your point again?

I don't want us to drag issues here. ur dad and ur mum are living deir life which u know. but yous., for now u don't know how is going to be. prepare ur mind for d future and when it comes embrace it. any single mother or father dat was into marriage can best explain how dey perceive marriage before and after. years ago dey were of ur age. fasten ur belt because it is a long journey. have a nice day

miembamish:
Na all this kind girl were de claim de later vist prayer houses for husband. Now u have the time to prove yourself, but your "Ego" won't let you. Heaven helps those who help themselves ooo!!!

Even the white ladies they are trying to copy from cook for their partners with joy. At least, I belong to a group like that on fb that's basically about Nigerian dishes, and majority of the members of that group are foreign women- Australians, Americans, Indians, Chinese, Germans, etc...trying hard to learn how to cook Nigerian meals for their various partners, and our dear sisters are here forming James Bond online, kai...our sisters are indeed awesome!!

DailyNews:
Thanks for this great comment! One thing that’s making nairaland look unserious is how people lie and deceive others here just to gain some minute of e-popularity and likes. All the girls I know that are in relationships; including those from first class family backgrounds who even schooled abroad do cook for their boyfriends, of which I typing this have ate a lot of such great meals

But its so so disappointing how people, especially ladies would come on nairaland always to form Queen of Sheba, gosh! Nairaland is really becoming something else.

The other time, every nairaland female was claiming she dumped her boyfriend. I have never come across a nairaland female who is honest enough to tell the truth of how her boyfriend left her for a better chick …instead, they always claim that they dumped their bfs when we all know that in Nigeria, guys always do 95% of the dumping and break up . The only time ladies have absolute control of a relationship is during ACCEPTANCE of a guy they want to date, after wooing and acceptance, men control the relationship, except for very few cases. If una like, make una attack me or lie as usual, but we all know the real life truth, capish


Like you said my brother, I pity the gullible-minded young girls that would take this broad-day lie from some wannabe-feminists

Exactly brother u ve said it all...likewise my self I ve been priviledge to many of such home made meals on several occassion...deze lies can only get to dose that decides to accept it or the nairaland kids...

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welll the ladies are really bringing a new rule into the game...ok

how doea it sound to u....if u dont cook all ur delicious meals how wil u convince him u are a 100 yards wife material.....by fucking him day and night?

DailyNews i seeth thou

nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

I think u attend hicc? Right?

TahariX:


What kind of low mentality is this?

and wat showcases high mentality in what you hav demonstrated now?? Get dis straight mistress,,cooking everytime u visit doesn't make him take u for granted,,,ditto to otherwise...

Don't take this thread serious, the op is a confused immature girl.
She only wants people's advice cos she just found her 1st love.
U can't cook for ur bf and u're a little ugly, girl I pity you.

How will I know if she knows how to cook? She has to cook?

lovemaths:

Unfortunately, I don't do such. Marriage is good with the bed undefiled. That's what the Bible says.

Story for the gods....nah who we go ask?

Nashoji:
what's it then? you don't want to perform wife like duties but you fully expects him to perform husband like duties right. double standard at it peak.

Why should I perform 'wifely' duties for him when I'm still his 'gf'? When we now get married what would we do together? After we have done and tasted all?

All I'm saying is ladies shouldn't give their bfs undue husband privileges when they are not married and vice versa,at least they should keep some things they hope for when they finally are married. Most times such men who husband privileges have been bestowed on them still dump those same ladies and look for fresh faced lady to settle down with.
Husband privileges doesn't guarantee marriage why don't u save urself the heart ache and save if for the 'husband'?

Most of d ladies that have commented+those that will still comment+those that will not comment r quilty of this topic. Ladies market themself with anything possible 4 them to win their man. If u can allow ur guy to make love to u almost all d time u visit,is it food that u can't cook. D only thing that most mature ladies doesn't do is to bear children for their guy during dating,every other wife's duty is perform by ladies during dating.Stop pretending,d truth is not hidden.

I don't think there's anything wrong in cooking the food I'll eat with my bf. I'd rather cook d food sef as long as he doesn't expect me to jump into the kitchen every time I go to visit. Don't read too much meaning into it, just free ur mind.

MaziOmenuko:
The responses from the girls on first page is ridiculous. Its obvious you girls are still young.

@topic, girl dey come spend weeks for my house, na who go dey cook during those weeks?

Lol.

i dy tell u....

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

Before nko? Of course! So we should be cooking for u because we have to prove our selves worthy of being married to. Funny enough most of you have other ladies set aside as the main chick and she doesn't even cook as you do worshipping and over shopping
.Una don see glorified house gal shey?
No lady should enter kitchen with out a ring a ring on her finger.

I Find it a silly question ,@ OP nt an insult though!...u should ask whether ur bf fit Bleep u wen u pay him a visit? If u dnt want to cook,then u are LAZY! All these mummies pet,using 'Bf and cooking' as an excuse..Unna better go learn how to cook ..

Why should I cook for my boyfriend? He no get hands to cook? It is either he does the cooking or we eat out. I cannot play the role of a wife to a man am not married to . I don't mind cooking for him if he comes over to my house. if you like cook all the delicacies if a man wants to leave you he will.

it depends tho... I love cooking when I have the time...But my gf coming over and not cooking? hmmm... I wld ginger the girl, heavy petting in the kitchen + I have strong Worktops in there... trust me cooking wld be fun!

Yet, when the curtains are down, they are all cooking for their boyfriends.

Exactly why I don't visit the so-called Family Section, all marriages there are fine and going great with no hiccups whatsoever. They were all made on planet Mars. Talk about e-life and the gulf between it and real life

Pants on fire

emiraty:


Before nko? Of course! So we should be cooking for u because we have to prove our selves worthy of being married to. Funny enough most of you have other ladies set aside as the main chick and she doesn't even cook as you do worshipping and over shopping
.Una don see glorified house gal shey?
No lady should enter kitchen with out a ring a ring on her finger.

And they will remain unmarried like ur old ugly aunty @ 35

Gloria3389:

thought I was the only lady who had that policy... my male friends Don abuse me tire...if u come to my place I'll cook for you but coming over to cook in your Place is a NO for me.....

what you do during courtship will only change slightly,so girlie wise upand do as he says, going to his house everyfay does not mean u have to cook for me. A good GF will make a good wife , if yoi have the mentality that I have to cook for ur bf the same mentality u have during marriage, #I don't have to cook for my husband all the time he should help me syndrome of jaa babes If you are not willing to do it a thousand and one will do it. WISE UP

Sapphire86:


Yes! She is still a guest after all.

if the lady cooks well she won't mind doing it a thousand times and he will never get tired of her cooking even after marriage. so my dear change your thoughts

hayorbaami:
Why should I cook for my boyfriend? He no get hands to cook? It is either he does the cooking or we eat out. I cannot play the role of a wife to a man am not married to . I don't mind cooking for him if he comes over to my house. if you like cook all the delicacies if a man wants to leave you he will.

This is exactly what I said that got all these men butthurt!

for sure..some even ask you on phone...wetin you cook for house?..hmmm NAIJA gals when sabi cook only indomie for their house, go dey ask you weda you KNO cook soup for house?

Girls with their wahala! U can never please them. Ask them not to cook for u, they will turn it to a fight. I tire 4 dem jor

rufdyamond:

Story for the gods....nah who we go ask?

Ask google, father christmas or ghostbusters. ewu. aturu. onye iberibe. useless thing.

aguizm:
My brother as in ehn. I got angry by their statements that was y I used the term ugly. The can't cook for him because they are not yet their wives but they are right to bleep him as a GF. Hypocrites.

You see these small small girls enh.