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Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 8:33am On Nov 07, 2014 |
Ilekokonit: I lyk d last paragraph. I tot I was alone before I created dis thread. I'm shockd men all ova d country (if nt even d world) r sick n tired of women. 2 Likes |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 8:36am On Nov 07, 2014 |
Segirl18:Story...no be who dey alive..go thank u? 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 8:37am On Nov 07, 2014 |
Segirl18: d reason men shudnt marry is dat marriage is overrated n we can do just fine, if nt even better without it. simple n short 3 Likes |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 8:42am On Nov 07, 2014 |
marilyn01: u tok lyk a woman, insults insults insults. no sensible contributions. tomorrow man go carry u put for house. shey u see y I said men r better of alone. its cos of gals lyk u 3 Likes |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 8:50am On Nov 07, 2014 |
twerkjack: tnx for ur honesty. one love |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 8:51am On Nov 07, 2014 |
ferdiii: Me selfish? Look whose calling another selfish. How can you even be in a position to advice against marriage when you have never even been married before. If there is anybody out there that regrets marriage it almost always that the problem was from him and not the other person. I'm not saying there isnt the off-chance that the marriage was truly crap. But really let me ask you, since you are all knowing even when you haven't crossed that bridge, what causes rifts in marriage? Oh and please try not to respond with hear says. Try and respond with a real life experience. Preferably one that happened to you. If you cant do that, my friend PARK WELL!!! |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 8:54am On Nov 07, 2014 |
ferdiii: my friend plz stop exchanging words wit dis lady. she knows d truth. she's just trying to get under ur skin. 2 Likes |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 8:55am On Nov 07, 2014 |
ferdiii: hahahaha! nyc analogy! 3 Likes |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by modele2: 9:02am On Nov 07, 2014 |
Long lonely days ahead mi dear poster. Long lonely dayw killjoy:s. .my days are definitely not painful. Well but since i am a woman it would not count as your focus is on the guys. At least you did not deny the fact that your ideology would lead to lonely Ness. It makes plenty sense don't vex or get me wrong it's just the repercussions i am scared of. But if you are happy then who are we. |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 9:16am On Nov 07, 2014 |
modele2: short painful days ahead mi dear modele2. short painful days 3 Likes |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 9:39am On Nov 07, 2014 |
ferdiii:ur talking gibberish,console urself wt lies.which pix r u talkng abt.Picsure no dey ur profile oooo,hehehehe. |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Debbiemma(f): 10:28am On Nov 07, 2014 |
Which family are you talking about,was it not as a result of marriage,,what u need is to change your mentality about marriage. |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by DaBullIT(m): 11:09am On Nov 07, 2014 |
killjoy: [size=25pt]Brosss Chop knuckle. You don spoil market for them[/size]. Wedding sorooo dey catch them Somebody can not come and go and be tying us down with wedding. Men want to be free 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 11:11am On Nov 07, 2014 |
Debbiemma:No be everybody go do that shiitt. 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 11:12am On Nov 07, 2014 |
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Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 11:14am On Nov 07, 2014 |
princefunmi:Married pple come begging unmarried ones and we help them. They are in trouble! 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 11:18am On Nov 07, 2014 |
killjoy:I know so...here is faceless. When I finished my sec.sch. she must have been sucking. Only marriage she looked forward too. I'm just having fun and a laugh on how uptight and deceitful pple can be. 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 11:40am On Nov 07, 2014 |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by tosyne09: 1:02pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
*Ladies HandBag - #9,000 while Men's Wallet - #700 *Ladies: Fixing of Hair - #5000 while Men's hair cut is just #150 *Ladies: Fixing of Nails - #1500 while Nail cutter is #50 *Ladies Bra is #1500 while Men´s Singlet is #200 *A set of G string is #1500 while Men´s boxers is #300... *Sanitary Pad is #250 while hankerschef is #50. *Ladies stomach is extra large while Men"s stomach is extra small* IF I DONT TAKE GOOD CARE OF MY SELF WHO WILL?, 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by tosyne09: 1:09pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
[quote author=killjoy post=27797020] I lyk d last paragraph. I tot I was alone before I created dis thread. I'm shockd men all ova d country (if nt even d world) r sick n tired of women. like Seriously serious! men including myself are absolutely tired. there was a day I was just thinking about how men work to get money. then man has to beg a girl to accept for him and squandered all he has worked after all. despite the fact that the sex is mutual enjoyment and its even punishment to men atimes. 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by modele2: 2:03pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
DaBullIT: Sorry dear happily married with kids and a good career to boot. You feel you are showing women pepper, but you are also doing your self a diservice. Imagine, you think you do women a favour by marrying them... . Well as i said earlier you would only believe a mans side of the story, so let me hold my peace, but i can tellyou for free tht my hubbie is having a ball. |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by SHOCK7(m): 2:10pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
MrsBreezy:4 dis last reason u gave u're very wrong.u should 've argued is companionship/comfort. |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by SHOCK7(m): 2:23pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
killjoy:I admire d way u defend 'ur post though I raise objection to point 2.There is such a tin as love(inlove) |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 3:18pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
killjoy: Wanna speak one-on-one with you...on phone. |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Xmani: 3:23pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
All u've said is true. i know a few married men dat wud rada stay single but thr's one thing most men can't fight.BIOLOGY. dat's why most ppl get married. at some point u' ll find urself craving the company of a woman.not because u'r a womaniser but because ur natural clock says u've got to b with one. if i cud, i wud'nt go a 100 miles near a woman.let alone marry one. No beef intended. Appreciating d womenfolk out dia. 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 3:45pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
kilijoy, I support you 10000000%, I don't know that someone shares my view and thinking. Am a realist too, that's what I call myself. Am 36 years plus I don't want to marry. below is my reasons which I wrote last year. I wish the eyes of Nigerian men will be opened like men of developed countries who have realised that marriage these days is a problem not a solution. And you don't need it to be happy. Read my reasons too. Staying Single: Reasons. 1) Bible says it is good for a man to remain as he is; single (1 Corinthians 7 : 8, 26 KJV). 2) I don't want to carry unnecessary baggage (responsibility and worry) about some other people else, don't want any pain in the arse. 3) Don't want to bring people into this bleeped up world to come and suffer, and nobody will blame me while suffering. 4) I have suffered, I've seen reproach, I have see issues, I've seen problems, I seen griefs, I don't want more griefs, I need peace, happiness and rest. 5) Marriage is not an achievement, it's not compulsory, neither is it N360 million so, it's not part of what I want out of life. 6) I can't bear the thought of sharing my life, space and possessions with one stupid stranger. 7) Marriage is a dime a dozen, every Dick and Harry is getting married, I want to be different, you know, dare to be different. (For me alone). 9) No need to bring people into this difficult struggles to make heaven. 10) Single hood shows discipline, toughness, strength, and uniqueness. 11) I need freedom to be myself, express myself and take risks. 12) After all these sufferings, I don't think I can go and get one idiot who didn't contribute anything to my life, to come and be provoking me. Na! 13) Our over bursting population doesn't need more people, it needs to checked. 14) Marriage is very monotonous, you keep seeing the same fool everyday forever. 15) Once the bleeped up marriage starts, next is offloading kids like chicken, the sweet home gets disorganized, messy and filthy . Oh Lord, I pray, earnestly and fervently, turn the good wife, the wonderful children to money and cars and give to me, that's what I need. In the name of JESUS CHRIST! AMEN! Note: my parents are happily married and lives together, but I loathe the shallowness and hollowness of marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 4:31pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
nnafather: lol y na? am I in trouble? |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 4:41pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
ColinAdua: lolzzzzz. leme do d maths. 15+7=150. so in all 150 reasons nt to get married. guy tnx for adding d oda rizns tym didn't allow me to add. u too much |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 5:04pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
SHOCK7: Well I don't agree. |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Nobody: 5:08pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
101 reasons to stay single 1. Everything in your house is yours. 2. You don't have to hide gifts, receipts, and other purchase records in ridiculous places. 3. If you buy something "yummy", you don't have to buy twice as much. 4. The only person you have to dress up for is your boss. 5. Your late nights are all yours. 6. Less stuff to move when you do move 7. One bedroom apartments feel more spacious with only one person 8. You never have to ask for permission to orgasm. 9. Only the doctor can tell you what to eat 10. You decide what to shave and when 11. Valentines day costs less 12. No anniversaries to remember 13. No extra birthdays to remember 14. No extra family to shop for during the holidays 15. No irritating in-laws to deal with 16. You can walk around naked whenever you want. 17. Only your sense of decency has any say about where you leave your dirty clothes. 18. You don't have to share 19. You don't have to change your life because someone else has jealousy issues. 20. The only insecurities you have to deal with are your own. 21. Getting that out-of-state job doesn't hinge on what someone else wants or thinks. 22. The only people complaining about music volume are the neighbors. 23. You can fall asleep anywhere without getting any guff for it in the morning. 24. You don't have to use the "headache" excuse anymore. 25. You don't have to worry as much about the "oops, I'm pregnant" factor. 26. The only person who goes through your stuff is you. 27. The only person who sees your inbox is you. 28. More time to spend with friends. 29. You don't have to live with someone who can't stand your parents. 30. If you want to go for pizza at 3am, no one stops you or asks you why. 31. You can date more freely. 32. The cute secretary is fair game. 33. The whole wedding mess? Yeah, none of that to deal with. 34. You don't have to share your closet with anyone else. 35. You always get to watch what you want. 36. You always get to read what you want. 37. You decide when to crawl into bed. 38. You can throw yourself into bed and snore without dire consequences. 39. No one else's annoying (or disgusting) habits to deal with at home. 40. The only fetishes you have to deal with are your own. 41. You can talk to yourself without people saying "what?" or worrying about your sanity. 42. There are religious benefits, if you're into that kind of thing. 43. Single people can still adopt, if you're into that kind of thing. 44. The only annoying friends you have to deal with are your own. 45. You don't ever have to wonder if you really love the person you live with. 46. There's only one way to do things- your way. 47. You are the master of the thermostat. 48. The only messes you have to clean up are your own. 49. The only disasters you have to fix are your own. 50. If an argument starts, you can walk away... forever. 51. You don't have to make excuses for yourself. 52. The whole "old maid" thing is so last century. 53. Dinner can be as simple as a frozen burrito. 54. When you eat, you buy and cook for one. 55. No one else is going to eat your leftovers. 56. No one else is going to raid your stash of sweets (you don't even have to hide it!) 57. You don't have to share your bed with anyone. 58. You can even eat in bed if you want to. 59. You can decorate the entire house according to your taste. 60. The only person spending your money is you. 61. Three words: Marriage Tax Penalty. 62. The only debts you have to pay off are your own. 63. Kids with single parents can get more financial aid. 64. Bickering couples are at best a relieving reminder and at worst hilarious. 65. Less pressure about body weight. 66. Married people are fatter on average anyway. 67. Suddenly, it's okay to look (and flirt). 68. It's easier to focus on your career and your dreams. 69. You're the only person who gets to decide if you "need to make more money." 70. The only mood swings you have to deal with are your own. 71. There are a lot of lonely and violently psychopathic people out there. 72. You don't have to change your religious beliefs one bit. 73. There are 6.5 Billion other fish in the sea. That's 6,500 x 1 million. Yeah. 74. Food is cheaper, easier, and comes in more varieties. 75. The toilet seat only moves when you move it. 76. Cohabitation is legal, fun, and less of a hassle than marriage. 77. You don't have to deal with someone else's kids all the time. 78. Divorce is pricey. 79. You don't have to deal with "compliment fishing." 80. Fewer minutes spent with a phone attached to your ear. 81. No endless nagging. 82. You never have to answer the phone "right now!" 83. You can drink what you want, where you want, and as much as you want. 84. No doubts or worries about someone sleeping around. 85. Things stay where you put them. 86. You can meditate and have your quiet time when you need it. 87. The only thing whining about not being fed is your cat. 88. You can take out the trash when you feel like it. 89. You can shower or bathe when you want, as often as you want, for as long as you want. 90. You can even leave the door open when you shower. 91. The longer you wait, the better you know yourself, instead of someone else. 92. Children learn how to treat themselves by watching how you treat yourself. 93. A bad relationship is like a lingering knife wound- it continues to ruin your whole day. 94. You can be as eccentric as you want. 95. Your car can be as dirty or unusual or artistic as you want. 96. You decide how long it takes to get ready. 97. Say goodbye to heartache, dumping, and being dumped. 98. You get your weekends for you and your projects. 99. You can be the wild friend with all the really juicy stories. 100. You can still get laid. Maybe even more often. Certainly with more variety. 101. Being single and staying single isn't selfish. It should be seen as putting your happiness first (Where it should be.) 3 Likes |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by killjoy(m): 5:21pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
ColinAdua: hahahà. I love numba 45! still reading 1 Like |
Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by blackdiamond1(f): 5:42pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Hi OP, I'm not advisingu to get married or fall in love or anythinglike that. I mean y would u do something u hate so much? But from ur post and responses it seems u are angry and bitter abt some heartbreak from a lady u dated for 2 yrs( I may be wrong tho). She has taken those 2 years from you, don't let her make u miserablle for life. Don't make one singe human being have such effect on u, no body is worth it. You really can't tell what future pain God was preserving you from and made her leave. What if she stayed and married u and made ur life hell. I mean if she leaves u and u know ur worth, its her loss. Yes u spent money, you can make much more. You gave her 2 yrs of ur life, u have ur whole life ahead of u, u loved her, u can love another(yes u can if u let go of that hurt ) NB : I am a woman a good woman for that matter and so I think its unfair that u generalise that we are all bad, gold diggers, obtainers, etc. We have some really hard working women who are independent financially and never look up to a man for nothing. You don't want to marry? fine, u advise men not to marry? Great! but abeg sofly dey yab us u hear? TNX in advance and I wish well. Peace! 2 Likes |
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