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Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 9:57am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Seems like people are just here to judge. Its not all about money. For a genuine young woman, it's about the commitment and time. The promises made and loyalty she gave. If a man promises that he would marry u and she commited her time, her love and every other thing to you and suddenly the man wakes up and say I am not interested. That to me is being used and dumped. You don't no what it feels to commit your life into a relationship of 5 years. Doesn't mean the woman was not working or earning her own money. It's all about commitment. I am upset that some I to know women commenting on this thread are busy blaming women to. Whether we accept it or not women are always at the receiving end. Nobody is perfect and people are different. We were not all made to be morally strong when it comes to abstaining from sex. But a woman who is loyal to a man believing that all will work out well should not be blamed when the man decides to live her because he found someone better or he suddenly lost interest in her. That to me is a bridge of trust and loyalty. People enter a relationship for different reasons and it is stupid to think a woman who feels used is because she doesn't work or because she is dependent on the man. No matter how u guys colour it. What is wrong is wrong. Do not make promises u cannot keep same goes for women. Love is about loyalty and commitment. Anybody who made a promise and did not fulfill that promise is a user. Period! A woman always feel used and dump because most times she is at the receiving end. If the woman is still in love wiv u and u just decided to leave her, is she meant to be happy. A virgin can feel used because of the time she must have invested in nurturing the relationship. Or maybe I am not getting the point or being used has a different meaning. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by sabyab: 9:58am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Gals wil be shouting dey used and dumped dem.wat abt gals dat ar collecting money from d guys without touch dem,at d end dey wil run,buh guys wil not shout...... |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by herrdeustch: 10:02am On Nov 18, 2014 |
I want to see this use and dump issue from a biblical perspective.When God created a woman because of Adam , it was so that she could be a help for him.Then the Bible further said that Husbands must love their wives as Christ loved the Church ,for the wives , the bible said that wives should submit to their husbands.My submission is that any man in a relationship with a woman owes her love and care and nurture.The period of his relationship with her, he must pursue her development emotionally, intellectually,health-wise, financially , spiritually , socially,career-wise and any other positive way.If he does these things, then even if they are not together any longer, the guy has played his part in her life by adding value and so he is fair.It is worthy of note that sex is not the only way a man uses a woman-it could be emotionally, financially, socially,etc,but a major way that hurts women the most is in terms of the time,commitment,love and sacrifices they make for their guy.Summarily,guys pls dont commit a womans emotions when you know that you are not going all the way with her,girls don't give what will hurt you till he takes you to the altar coz all this will amount to using and dumping whether na guy or girl 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by zubby29(m): 10:03am On Nov 18, 2014 |
FLAWLES:lol,pls change ur signature,u r 2 pretty to call urself dat |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by uruomostephen(m): 10:03am On Nov 18, 2014 |
most girls give it out 4 free & she don't kw if the guy love her or not,the nest word you will ye 4RM them is that guy dump me |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by mosesakoja: 10:04am On Nov 18, 2014 |
This girl took my moni no sex n she left she used me WHY God deoooooooooo |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by mosesakoja: 10:04am On Nov 18, 2014 |
This girl took my moni no sex n she left she used me WHY God deoooooooooo |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 10:05am On Nov 18, 2014 |
SpaceGoat: Put your own na. I will personally dedicate the full pic to you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 10:09am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: Someone has pretty eyes. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by FLAWLES(f): 10:10am On Nov 18, 2014 |
zubby29:.hehehehe |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by hapiness44(f): 10:11am On Nov 18, 2014 |
dopedealer:no offence please..I hope you have a sister! |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 10:11am On Nov 18, 2014 |
herrdeustch: Summarily,guys pls dont commit a womans emotions when you know that you are not going all the way with her,girls don't give what will hurt you till he takes you to the altar coz all this will amount to using and dumping whether na guy or girl [/quote] . That is exactly my point. Why should they blame women and remove men from the equation. It all boils down to trust, loyalty and commitment. People are not trustworthy anymore. Even when a relationship is defined from the beginning. The man or woman still ends up messing up. Who ever is at the receiving end would feel used. Simple. Men should stop making promises they cannot fulfill. Define your relationship from the beginning. If u no its sex u want and u don't want commitment, there are a thousand and one girls outside who equally wants sex and doesn't want commitment. Look for such girls and don't go hurting innocent ones. Same as women who is all about money and not love. Don't hurt an innocent guy. Chop all his money and then realise he is not fine enough for u or he is not your taste. If we all are loyal and truthful, nobody will be using anybody. Till thy kingdom come, people will be getting used. Nobody is the smartest. We just pray we don't get caught in between those lines. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 10:12am On Nov 18, 2014 |
churchboy004: Well guys like to fell all macho and don't care like its not a big deal and i agree with you guys get used as well. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by iykedare(m): 10:21am On Nov 18, 2014 |
moreeni: story for the gods |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 10:21am On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: So if a chic is sleeping you use her? This is why society has prostitutes to meet your randy needs not "use" the sleeping beauties. My humanoid friend you need to start paying for services. The game is never going to be stepped up but men can choose who they want to be Real men or man boys. Which real nyggahs? take a quick browse through the romance section. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 10:25am On Nov 18, 2014 |
youngice: I thank you for noticing. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by bukatyne(f): 10:34am On Nov 18, 2014 |
FrancisTony: I think you all are not fair to Nigerian ladies... The same people expect them to get married et al turn around and castigate them for trying to get married. Don't you see the amount of BS posters spill on Rita Dominic threads? @OP: You guys are just being funny as usual. Who started the use and dump talk? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by lalasticlala(m): 10:43am On Nov 18, 2014 |
FLAWLES: Hahahahahaha |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by logica(m): 10:47am On Nov 18, 2014 |
youngice:No wonder I have been a shadow of myself (and I therefore have no shadow since a shadow cannot form a shadow). The woman who took my virginity used me! I spent money on her, and got drained. This also applies to men right? Or is it for only women? Sebi we are equal na? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by FLAWLES(f): 10:48am On Nov 18, 2014 |
lalasticlala:.why er laffing na |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by bukatyne(f): 10:48am On Nov 18, 2014 |
youngice: God bless you for this I wonder who started the phrase... Ok, let's be real... (What do guys mean when they say use and dump)? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by bukatyne(f): 10:50am On Nov 18, 2014 |
youngice: I have heard of cases where guys date a lady for years just to access her honeypot and ends the relationship after the deed |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by lalasticlala(m): 10:50am On Nov 18, 2014 |
FLAWLES: Quite hilarious |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by lalasticlala(m): 10:51am On Nov 18, 2014 |
dopedealer: Lol. Nawa o. Una wan kil person with lafta |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by lalasticlala(m): 10:53am On Nov 18, 2014 |
alaura: |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by cupidhero(m): 10:55am On Nov 18, 2014 |
disloman:oga na true o,i wish i was like you o. wish i could just do it with them and dump them easily. it is so bad my default character is still the same after all i have been through. before you scream "busted",just check your lie detector,it might be busted. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Neroanna(f): 11:03am On Nov 18, 2014 |
TheNaijan:i think he is a red pill reader too.... He made some valid points. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:06am On Nov 18, 2014 |
pussyaddict: No she wont give in if you just meet her and tell her you want to hit it but you know what there are girls who are slutty and will even get turned on by your directness look for those also there are prostitutes for men they don't need to con a girl to give it up. Use prostitutes and pay! different kind of prostitutes sef high class, low class, roadside ones, runs gals anyone that suits their fancy but you men won't because you like it free, disease free, you want the illusion of romance and love, this is why you lie. Men like to think they are above doing cheap hoes but want to devalue the good gal who gave up her prized possession in hopes of satisfying her darling. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:07am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Reason I will always ask ladies to liberate themselves. All these stupid guys around are not worthshit. You don't have to f##k him to please him,do it to please yourself. Buy some good stuffs for yourself and be happy. When you feel Hot again,call him over and end it there. You can then face your own normal business. Love is a sham for those that care to know. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by blaise26abj(m): 11:09am On Nov 18, 2014 |
People are generally selfish and unfortunately this trait doesn't take a backseat in relationships. So till this world ends, people will be used. The dumping is the dependent on how fast the victim soji (wise up) himself/herself. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by deleo16(m): 11:10am On Nov 18, 2014 |
When Expectation is higher your disappointment will be higher. thats the problem of many of them |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by NOLONGTIN1(m): 11:12am On Nov 18, 2014 |
cupidhero: [ b ] Really, are you telling me you refused your GF offer of sex to protect her? because you didn't want her to claim that you used and dumped her. Wait oooooo, You did that to protect her and not because of d many sexual problems you have? tlk true. Pls this story does not fly. Abi you think say we be Adamus' 4 here? [/b] |
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