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Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:12am On Nov 18, 2014 |
19naia: I like the way you see life easy breezy. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Neroanna(f): 11:13am On Nov 18, 2014 |
will1am:U sound like a red pill reader.... will1am:U sound like a red pill reader.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by NOLONGTIN1(m): 11:14am On Nov 18, 2014 |
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Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by NOLONGTIN1(m): 11:14am On Nov 18, 2014 |
[/b][/b] cupidhero: Really, are you telling me you refused your GF offer of sex to protect her? because you didn't want her to claim that you used and dumped her. Wait oooooo, You did that to protect her and not because of d many sexual problems you have? tlk true. Pls this story does not fly. Abi you think say we be Adamus' 4 here? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Elcapo(m): 11:21am On Nov 18, 2014 |
CoolHunk: |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by FLAWLES(f): 11:23am On Nov 18, 2014 |
lalasticlala:.eeh |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:26am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Ladies have this weird and annoying mentality |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Jonzingmaster(m): 11:42am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Chai! NNE I owe you a kiss for this assertion.. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 11:54am On Nov 18, 2014 |
most ladies xpect 2 eat their cake n have @ d same time. its never done. eni wa ifa wa ofo, it means Those who re xpecting free tins re looking 4 loss |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 11:59am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Majority or women only look for what they can take from a man and not how they can affect him positively.Why would u want man to promise you the world before u say yes to his proposal of a relationship? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by neighbourhud: 11:59am On Nov 18, 2014 |
Word!!! will1am: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by RuuDie(m): 12:04pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Toks2008: You're fumbling there, you still dey learn... the day a woman will dump you, you will use your mouth and testify! A man can dump countless women, but it takes only one woman to dump a man to totally devastate him!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Emperoradrian(m): 12:07pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
FLAWLES:U DO D DUMPING abi No let nonso hear u o....after him don dump u last wk,u cum NL cum d talk say "u do d dumping" |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Emperoradrian(m): 12:08pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
FLAWLES:U DO D DUMPING abi No let nonso hear u o....after him don dump u last wk,u cum NL cum d talk say "u do d dumping" #godiswatchingyouontelemundo# |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Basildvalour(m): 12:13pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
CuteMaro:Pls, sir, how do u expect a virgin to enjoy sex and after all the emotional attachment, u leave her. U dont know if she places a curse on u with the blood u have erupted in her, no prayer would stop it from coming to pass except she forgives if while alive? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Toks2008(m): 12:13pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
RuuDie: You are getting it all twisted. A man ofcourse can feel dumped WHY NOT. When a lady you love jilts you it can be tantamount to dumping so i quite understand all that. But in the morale world where i belong to and where i believe most responsible people do, a lady can only claim to dump a man if he has not gotten between her legs hence its the other way round. Do you know that a lady's goody bag is her integrity,pride,treasure and ultimate sacred possession so how can a man have access to that and you still pride yourself to dump such a man. So please look at my assertion from a responsible point of view because i still maintain that ONLY A SLUTTY LADY WILL SAY SHE DUMPED A MAN. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by will1am: 12:19pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Neroanna: 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by franklynx(m): 12:19pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Actually the fact be say na naija mentality be "dumpin' s**t.." For yankee na mutual fun n enjoyment. infact u go dey hear smthang like " The MF( moorfkr) knows what he missin".. s**t..!!! when the dude decide to free her.. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Hila12(m): 12:28pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Bag of poo! It's only a foolish person that never takes responsibility for actions when it doesn't yield expected result. Women have been blaming men for failed relationships and marriages since 1943 when it is obvious that both genders have sexual urge and share the freewill to say NO! Men are emotionally involved as well in relationships even though they don't express it (it has to do with the ' I'm a man belief'). Men invest time in accommodating all the nagging and hormonal turmoil. Men (for those that can afford it) go extra miles to meet your outrageous fantasy of buying heaven and earth (all off his pocket). Men have to distance their close friends for you just because you don't like them (probably might have dated them before). Men have to fix all your mess because you feel the advice your girl friends gave you is better ( run back to us after you've made a shame of yourself). Men have their faults and alot of them too, but so do women. Some men cheat, some women do as well. Some men in relationships texts other girls, some women in relationships text other guys as well. Women invest emotions, men do as well. Men get sex a 1000 times, women asked for it 600 times. Women have biological years lost after a breakup, so do men (we could have invented cure to ebola in this time). So both genders share the blame when relationships fail. Ladies want all the alpha qualities of a bad boy and end up getting hurt once he's done with them (you get served your order!). Men never put guns to your head to keep you or lay you, most times you give and allow us freely. Finally, women say we lie/deceive them - rubbish! They've been thinking with their 'heart' since 1964. You can figure out lies some of the time if only you think above your hormones and using your head as well. PS: Not every man/woman does this, there are still some well mannered and rational ones out there if you look. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by ihedinobi2: 12:29pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
UjSizzle:In one sense you're right. In another you're quite wrong. The first is in the sense that humans were built for one another. We need each other to make our lives work. The second is this: humans were not built to be mercenary. We were not designed to define each other solely in terms of what benefits we can derive from each other. We were designed for mutual benefit and are naturally at home with acts of altruism. That means that we are, at least, as much at home with being of use as we are with using someone else. We don't merely compensate someone for being a good resource then. We are normally supposed to be attracted to relationships where we can be of benefit in a relevant way and someone can also be of benefit to us in a relevant way. With respect to the topic on hand, women can make that complaint because what a woman derives from a man ordinarily is security. Where women get it wrong is in assuming that they can exchange sexüal gratification for that security. That is not how it works. Sexüal gratification is not the currency that works in exchange for security. What a woman can exchange for the security she wants is ability. That's another way of saying "inspiration". A man's ability is severely limited until a woman inspires him. The fact though is that a woman's gift of her attentions in any way is generally inspiring to the man taken with her so it is easy for her to assume that she is helping him by sleeping with him rather than deriving some benefit for herself. But a wise woman knows that without a strong commitment, some gifts will only be despised rather than appreciated. So she would keep her sexüal attentions and offer instead other attentions that would also inspire the man, increase her value in his eyes and thus make him want even more from her. It's like a man's gift of his wealth (a symbol of the security we are speaking of here). If he has not first proved for himself the woman's competence and sense of value for his wealth, sharing it with her will result in a loss of them and a sense of regret and despoiling. Therefore, while we are built for mutual benefit, we are not built to be mercenary. We go as much where we can have our needs met and our dreams fulfilled as where we can meet somebody else's real needs and fulfill their dreams. This is why there generally is some kind of resonance or agreement or "complementariness" between the two sets of needs and dreams. When both sets are disparate then "mercenariness" sets and we have a sense of scrambling and hustling. Everyone will be after satisfying their own needs first at whatever cost to their partner before considering giving whatever they feel is some kind of concession to appease their bruised conscience. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by UTEWUOJO: 12:52pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
I de always tire 4 dis question ooo!!! ladies common, take it from here. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by youngice(m): 12:53pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
logica:It aapplies to both men and women but men ... |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by sleek82(m): 1:03pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Ilovenigeria:thats a good piece u wrote there but wasting ur time shouldnt even be ur regret....as it would only make u a beta person and increase ur knowledge. I bliv ur regret should be....if after those years you look back and noticed you learnt nothing from the experience then u could say it was a total waste of ur time. Since you cant tell the best man from afar, you are bound to waste time in searching for one....ur first pick could be d answer or vice versa |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
will1am: What of the men? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Not all women no doubts, but those who say they are used and dump are right, cos they are mere play toys. Real women understand that sex and love is mutual venture. And in every venture, risk of abortion is real. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Emaprince: 1:19pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:wow!!..sophy,this is fantastic!!!...it should be among the comments of the year..it should educate all these clueless ladies out there.. @kachisbarbie I've seen few of ya posts...honestly,whoever you are...you are pure gold!...always on point!!.. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Neroanna(f): 1:32pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
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Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by will1am: 1:51pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Neroanna:yeah, I do but not an ardent reader |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Mrfils(m): 1:52pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Use and dump? are you a tissue? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 1:54pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
andromida: Lol, I'm a changed man and I stopped selling dreams to chics. These days I just keep it real (sometimes too real), and once I see through for who she's. Rather than sell her a dream, I just keep it moving. A lot of these chics are fake and phony, they love big dreams lol. However, there is absolutely nothing bad in selling dreams to chics that love dreaming big, and exist in their own grandiose fantasies. It is either you play smart or end up being the victim. And being a victim is a sin. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Maeblaq: 1:57pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
cupidhero:so all dis while dat u' ve been running away frm dose precious opportunities,aw av been coping with ur sexual lifeabi u dey self-service |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Maeblaq: 1:59pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Maeblaq:shey u dey self-service? |
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