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Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Sunshinelady(f): 2:07pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:. Chop knuckle! |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by cupidhero(m): 2:10pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Maeblaq:There is always another chick willing to give it up and go her way, a silver tongued dark adonis lie me can't be tied down. when you a beautiful boy these girls come at you in numbers while some wanna stay for long which ain't my style.if you play your cards well i'm sure you won't need to play her BF or man before she gives it up. i'm a fineboy,having a girl is a must weda i like am or not.I hate lies. a huge percentage of humans self service once in a while even you that asked me this might just be a chronic m*********r. all is fair in love and war. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Ilovenigeria(f): 2:12pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
sleek82:You are right thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by cupidhero(m): 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Maeblaq:i'm a man and not a boy,only boys self service,if the heat gets toomuch there is always some naive girl you can fool. as long as you are not living with your parents getting a girl to make out with is as easy as ABC. i'm a go getter bro,there is always girls that wanna give it up without being your GF. plus i never said i didn't have a GF currently,i realy liked her thats why i couldn't do it to her knowing i would leave her immediately we do that. money over everything still. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: Changed you said? Its their fantasies you musn't be in it. This change a recent thing? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by dennywayne1(m): 2:46pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
but to leave person no be bad thing na..... if God no join una together nkor, u go force urself make him marry abi. the talk sound stupid and bored, any gal wey tell me dat one eh, i go throw am for sanko straight. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
andromida: Lol, if folks are perpetually domiciled in fantasies, what other way is better to get in there, than be part of it? And you can only do that by selling them a dream lol. Nah, I have been a changed man for time. I tell chics the end game from the get-go before they get in too deep. Like these days I just tell chics that I'm not mentally in a space where I can deal with relationship cos I'm self-centered and I only care about myself. And what you see is what you get. If you understand, it is cool. But knowing is complicated. But if you can be patient, who knows what is going to happen, if it is meant to be? Lool 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: You mustn't be part of their fantasies, you can create yours or establish your own fantasies selling them a dream is not the problem, selling a dream you can't bring to reality is the problem. Good to know you know "knowing" is complicated maybe you give them reality checks from time to time lol but they won't hear anyway. Patience is no virtue in this instance given that its a game of nobody knows tomorrow. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by omoiseselagba: 3:33pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
andromida:this man deserves a BOTTLE OF ALOMO BITTERS |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by omoiseselagba: 3:34pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
FrancisTony:MOST OF THE TIME |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
andromida: Well, staying away from their fantasies is somewhat impossible cos men are the hunters. Also, conversely, men (not manginas) don't create fantasies - they create their own reality in women's fantasies. And when you are the hunter, you need a few tricks up ya sleeves, to be efficient. That's where the dream-selling comes in. Dreams chics can't refuse lol. Anyway, life itself is a game and our survival is a game about the survival of the fittest. It is competitive and you've to be fit to survive and to be able to make the best out of it. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by shomutuski(m): 4:11pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
will1am:. Ever since I joined nairaland, this is the first comment that I'll say has been very incisive, spot on, thought provoking in every way. You hit the nail on the head with a BANG!!! God bless yah brains. Bitches aint loyal. I had a babe like that we dated for bout 4months wifout doin the thing. I broke up wif her and she told me I dumped her even when we were dating I was buying her stuff. Abeg how I take dump am oh. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: Don't know how true that is but a man has to do what he has to do as long as he does not harm others. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by LINKINPINKY: 5:12pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
ℓ☺ℓ°˚˚˚ℓ☺ℓ°˚˚˚! Mayb bcus...........dey did alot 4 d guy.....d spend money and risk deir life 4 dem and also had sex millions of time wit dem.........and smtimes dey might tink dah dey are going 2 get married.....ℓ☺ℓ°˚˚˚ℓ☺ℓ°˚˚˚! Funny question.. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by lastpage: 5:12pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
mizzkeji44: You are right on the button! If a girl says "he used and dump me".... she has just entered the VICTIM MENTALITY mode! She is trying to appear as a "victim" so as to curry sympathy and make the guy look like bad person ...with th sole objective of taking further advantage the guy! Have you never seen a lady slap a guy, only to "burst into tears"... claiming "he made me do it" and thereby trying to exonerate herself of blatant assault? Its all a clever ploy of manipulation. It works most time sha. Lastpage! |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by akanbiaa(m): 5:26pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
It's quite unfortunate I have seen a girl that keeps asking for things from a Guy that takes her so serious and she later dumped him she called h she wanted to visit him and that he should send transport money and when he did she. Locked his numbers these is a girl he has been dating for over a year although no sexual relations, I also know of ladies that will be buying things for guys and even connect them to have good jobs and give them sex but yet they don't end of marrying such they avoid her and look for another girl to enjoy with and settle with so it's so complicated only God knows why these is so snd why can't the serious guy meet the caring ladies? |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by GoodFaith: 5:31pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
What about a woman that lack " honesty,integrity,trustworthiness,thrift, sensitivity, wholesome values , morals, secretive and manipulative" If u tell her I am done She run to the world to tell the world that she dump U-------------What a FOOL |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
andromida: Ok. Heard you |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
andromida: However, when others are out to hurt his feelings by residing in fantasies - what do you expect him to do? Lol Just tell folks what they want to hear, that is the easiest formula to winning lol. Android, can I sell you a dream? I think I still have a few dreams left. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by GoodFaith: 5:36pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Tabh:Really? Okay |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 5:48pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: Their life, their fantasies nobody hurt you joor. You mean lie? Humanoid my reality looks good you can't beat it. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
andromida: So android, you want more male humanoids to turn homoerotic, no? Lol. Selling a dream is the easiest way to get some, don't knock their hustle lol. I don't tell lies, only chics lie. I just wanna sell you a dream you can't refuse. A dream to make android shatter the iOS semi-monopoly, and put ya total package on the map lol. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
SirShymex: I want more masculine real men i like men that way so more of them please. I get lying is the cheapest way to get some just sad though. Only chics lie? you just told a lie |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
andromida: Well, masculine real men create their own realities, and if it happens to fall into the space where chics create fantasies. That doesn't diminish their masculinity. However, only manginas create fantasies like chics. You can't call it lying, it's like a pseudo-hustle, but selling a dream is the name of the game. Anyway, android, I don't know how to tell lies - I'm Muslim in my outlook and telling pork(ies) is haram. I just quoted that "women lie" from the tune, "Deuces." And most women live and die by lies...honesty is sacred amongst women folks. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by domwis25: 6:22pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Most lady does nt kwn they have value,dat is why they fall into dat victim. guys always appreciate lady with value |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
FLAWLES:. Not funny also. Do normal nd reply my pm. |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by wisdompraise(m): 7:20pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
FrancisTony: Nice one brother! Is because of some ladies's selfish interest that's why they are been used and dumped. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Fourwinds: 8:57pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
FrancisTony:guy dis ur comment make sense die. girls can ask for recharge cards daily from different dude and expect d dude not to ask for d content of d pant. y cannt dey give demselves life |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by dopedealer(m): 9:56pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
OP in answer to your question I want you to view it this way Age weighs unequally on the sexes,a woman brings her youth and a man his money into a relationship A woman"s youth is fragile and diminishing resource so if she invests 2yrs in a marriage/relationship and then gets rejected by the man........ She has given up a valuable asset that is unequal In other words the man gets everytin and the woman nothing from this arrangement As far was honesty, integrity etc goes in a relationship Men are the worst offenders When caught they say they are testing the lady, so who tests the men? Men have and will always tell stories( 100% lies) to get women Remember they are always older and wiser,,,,, they know all the tricks 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by joshrare(m): 12:10am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Truth be told, if purpose is not defined what do you expect? By my own rule it is wrong to date a girl for than 15months, think about this, You dated a girl for 5yrs. During those days you had sex once a week. Calculate this for the next five years you will see that the so called pot of honey underneath isn't going to be that honey. That's an excuse for the ladies Now my questions 1. My guy dated this babe for 9 yrs and the babe dumped him,luckily for him he's married now.I met the guy and the babe in 2008 cohabiting only for them to be separated in 2012. Now,the babe is giving me deep green light. What do I do? Guess I chop and clean my mouth 2. This babe left me last year june, now she's calling me everyday..Am definitely going to use and dump her Pls don't blame me! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them? by delishpot: 12:29am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Same reason men complain when a woman leaves them. |
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