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Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Nov 20, 2014
Vivly:


Nah..... It takes about 24 hours for an egg to be fertilized. Now, those morning after pills can be taken even 72 hours after sex. That is after conception must have taken place. Going by your logic therefore, they are also guilty of committing murder as the op. smiley
trust me,u do not knw d moment an egg is fertilized..i wont say again... All dose rubbish theories of it takes 24 hours for an egg to be fertilized is all bla bla...
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Vivly(f): 7:55pm On Nov 20, 2014
ignis:


Should we allow her to choose what she feels Is best even when we know it's absolutely and entirely wrong?
Should incase you don't know, an embryo got life. If it ain't got life, why do blood have to flow out during miscarriage?
Google is your friend dear.
Personally, I don't support abortion and I can't force my views on her.
BTW, the op's mind is made up already. Goodluck convincing her out of it.

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Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Nov 20, 2014
JustBimbo:
Pls I need help seriously. Am trusting on you girl for serious help. My parents will kill me. I feel like killing masef. Ma dad will bury me alive. Pls help me. Exam is at the corner. I wish I need did it. Pls
Pls
Pls
i believe notin we say can change ur mind.....do what u knw is best for u.goodluck
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Nov 20, 2014
Vivly:


Nah..... It takes about 24 hours for an egg to be fertilized. Now, those morning after pills can be taken even 72 hours after sex. That is after conception must have taken place. Going by your logic therefore, they are also guilty of committing murder as the op. smiley

you cant be so sure of that as there are whole lots of processes the spe.rm has to undergo before it can fertilize an egg, not exactly 24hours plus there are some sper.m that are not too viable, i.e they are slow and not that active smiley
Besides, taking morning after pills 72hours after sex is less effective and even if it is effective, you are killing the sper.m, not a fertilized egg. So, its no murder smiley

its been always advisable to take pills within the period of 24hours after sex as thats when its best effective cos the spe.rm hasnt met the egg yet and so the pills kill the sper.m. So, no, 24hours is never the time for egg fertilization smiley

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Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Karleb(m): 8:15pm On Nov 20, 2014
I don't really get why all these people are going all religious on the OP like they don't sin. angry

See, the best thing to do is to stay celibate till marriage but not every one will do that, so in that case the use of contraceptives must be practiced! angry

But it's obvious that our dear OP failed in that department also. Infant, I personally think she should be flogged for getting an unwanted pregnancy at this age and time! angry

However, I would rather her do something about the pregnancy than give birth to a baby she can't fend for. Trust me, the horriblest thing that can ever happen to an human being is for him or her not to have a proper upbringing.

... and unless you guys are ready to care for the OP's baby, I think you should just leave the mata.
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Nov 20, 2014
JustBimbo:
Pls friends help Me. Am serious disturbed and not happy, can't go for lecture cos am week. Have an unprotected sex with a friend last 3weeks. I was feeling down n I opt in for urine test which I discovered am pregnant. Pls help... i need to finish school first. i am about three weeks pregnant and i need to know ALL the ways of getting rid of it before it's too late. please don't think badly of me. this is hurting me real badly but my boyfriend dosen't want a child right now either.
there are 2 things involve is either you give birth to the child or you abort, if you give birth to the child, you are safe, if you abort, there are 2 things involve, either you die(in shame) or you lose your womb, if you die, you are save, if you lose your womb, there are 2 things involve, either ur status is single or your status is married, if your status is single, you are save, if your status is married, there are 2 things involve, either your hobby take in another wife to produce a child or you and ur hobby are moving from hospitals to churches ,if your hobby take in another wife, you are save, if you guys are moving from church to church, hospital to hospital, shrine to shrine, motherless home to fatherless home , there are two things involve, either you get frustrated and kill your self, or you are finally given a child in the motherless home, if you kill your self, you are save, if you adopt, there are two things involve ,either the child get to know, you adopted him or the owner of the child show up, if the child get to know, you are safe, if the owner showup , 2 tin involve .. 2 be continue
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by ignis: 9:18pm On Nov 20, 2014
Vivly:
Personally, I don't support abortion and I can't force my views on her.
BTW, the op's mind is made up already. Goodluck convincing her out of it.

You seem not to get my point.
Please let's not have misunderstanding over this trivial issue.

Hope we're cool.
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Vivly(f): 9:27pm On Nov 20, 2014
ignis:


You seem not to get my point.
Please let's not have misunderstanding over this trivial issue.

Hope we're cool.
Sure smiley
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by cupidora(f): 9:29pm On Nov 20, 2014
tellwisdom:


How can u adopt a baby when u yourself never chop bellefull?? sad....u don chop this afternoon??
*chokes on fufu*

Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by cupidora(f): 9:37pm On Nov 20, 2014
I wonder what d OP is doing @ dis moment,how she's feeling cry Justbimbo pls,be careful dat in ur desperation u dnt end up combining too many of the suggestions as it could be hazarduos to ur health.
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Equado(m): 9:51pm On Nov 20, 2014
JustBimbo:
Is it an abortion. Is just 3weeks pls guys help. Don't wana commit suicide
pm me...and ill tell yhu wt 2 do...most advise givers here are hypocrites...if they were in d same situation dey'll do same
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by gede7744(f): 9:57pm On Nov 20, 2014
shindarayo:
d same ryt u hv to discuss her issues is d same ryt I hv since u decided to open dt gutter u kall mouth to spew nonsense on dis thread.wat ryt do u hv to judge her wen u re not holy urself.even God doesnt judge d way u did.and dt is y hr sf he who is wtout sin shld cast d first stone.abeg stop forming holy wen u knw ure not.we knw ur type forming mary on net yl ure not beta dan dos wr know.


for your information
l was taught that whatever l cant create l shld not eliminate. and he/she that killed by d sword must die by d sword
so to every action taken there is a reward
am not going to trade insult with u am far above that level

u might be afraid of d future because of d abortions u ve done in that case l can't help u but pls

ur frustration is showing!
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by kingphilip(m): 10:31pm On Nov 20, 2014
ChurchillStorm:
These iiddioots that have been brainwashed by religion and can't use their sense again... This is for you lot.

Cutehector and his fellow simpletons, you guys wan kill the girl ni cos of a mistake. Are you all without sin? Huh?

most of you have already told lies today. Lies and abortion are the same thing according to Christianity so y'all should STFU.


She can't take care of the baby so giving birth to it would be ruining both her life and that of the baby's.

You people should use your senses more often.
boko haram can't take care of the northerners so allowing them to live would b ruining their lives n that of the northerners

Ok ur point has been noted I think Jonathan should withdraw the troops
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Enoquin(f): 10:36pm On Nov 20, 2014
gede7744:



for your information
l was taught that whatever l cant create l shld not eliminate. and he/she that killed by d sword must die by d sword
so to every action taken there is a reward
am not going to trade insult with u am far above that level

u might be afraid of d future because of d abortions u ve done in that case l can't help u but pls

ur frustration is showing!

Whatever you can't create you shouldn't eliminate? Ants, cockroaches, plants, mosquitoes, chicken?

Make una chillax on top this matter. The rain falls on the good and the bad, on the righteous and unrighteous. In the end, God decides whom he will give his mercy to, not humans. There are ways to pass along words of advice to a troubled soul. Sin as everyone is shouting is sin oh, lies, fornication, theft, idolatory, abortion etc all join. When we all go before his throne everyday pray for people like the OP and others. Leave whatever judgement to God who might still decide to pardon her.

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Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by ChurchillStorm: 10:39pm On Nov 20, 2014
kingphilip:

boko haram can't take care of the northerners so allowing them to live would b ruining their lives n that of the northerners

Ok ur point has been noted I think Jonathan should withdraw the troops
you are very re.tarded
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by shindarayo(f): 11:08pm On Nov 20, 2014
WarRLaY:
there are 2 things involve is either you give birth to the child or you abort, if you give birth to the child, you are safe, if you abort, there are 2 things involve, either you die(in shame) or you lose your womb, if you die, you are save, if you lose your womb, there are 2 things involve, either ur status is single or your status is married, if your status is single, you are save, if your status is married, there are 2 things involve, either your hobby take in another wife to produce a child or you and ur hobby are moving from hospitals to churches ,if your hobby take in another wife, you are save, if you guys are moving from church to church, hospital to hospital, shrine to shrine, motherless home to fatherless home , there are two things involve, either you get frustrated and kill your self, or you are finally given a child in the motherless home, if you kill your self, you are save, if you adopt, there are two things involve ,either the child get to know, you adopted him or the owner of the child show up, if the child get to know, you are safe, if the owner showup , 2 tin involve .. 2 be continue
so u took tym to write dis rubbish.
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by shindarayo(f): 11:12pm On Nov 20, 2014
gede7744:



for your information
l was taught that whatever l cant create l shld not eliminate. and he/she that killed by d sword must die by d sword
so to every action taken there is a reward
am not going to trade insult with u am far above that level

u might be afraid of d future because of d abortions u ve done in that case l can't help u but pls

ur frustration is showing!
helllo?afraid of d future.**laffn in arabic** I hv a family already.and yes hv hd an abortion b4.so what?mschewww.lets c wat d future hold for u.or do u tink its only dos dt hv abortions dt cant conceive?.u must be a learner or just plain ignorant.
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Nov 20, 2014
It better you wanna get rid of that little tin, contact me and I will tell you wat to use..
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Nov 20, 2014
shindarayo:
so u took tym to write dis rubbish.
Yes, and that bcus am jobless, and which 1 is ur own?
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by adepiero: 11:34pm On Nov 20, 2014
derrick333:
PM me,lemme gv u d name of d drug n aw2use it,
Hope you ain't thinking of POSTINOR 2? undecided
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by kingphilip(m): 11:39pm On Nov 20, 2014
ChurchillStorm:

you are very re.tarded
tnx for d complement

so wat r u
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by shindarayo(f): 11:44pm On Nov 20, 2014
WarRLaY:
Yes, and that bcus am jobless, and which 1 is ur own?
;oya sorry now.
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by myouri(f): 12:03am On Nov 21, 2014
Lol. Had sex 3wikz ago n itaff aiidy turn to 3wikz preggie..na so e dey fast reach ni. Buh if this is tru..I feel for d OP oo..When God warned against fornication..it waz for our good. Buh d deed haz been done..I wud advice you see a doctor n get a proper preg test..Maybe it'z malaria/typhoid sef..lol. Buh if it'z real..Face ur parents,Keep the Baby, go to school..pregnancy doesn't stop one from goin to school iGuezz...Don't be shy..You might be carryin a Dangote/alakija oo..n when that time comes..you will surely be celebrated.
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by mildteddy(m): 12:03am On Nov 21, 2014
My strong point would not be to convince anybody, I'm only trying to fulfil my moral obligation. I think that this a matter of conflict b/w the 'best' thing to do and the right thing to do.
For me, the 'best' thing would be to abort the darn fetus and move on with your life; But is that the right thing?
You made a mistake, everyone is guilty of making one mistake or the other at some point, the important thing now is what happens after you've made that mistake. You want to flush it out like it never happened? Or you want to pick courage and take responsibility. Life is like a hulla-hoop, it spins round and round.
You want to make everything right, baa? By using a wrong to cover your wrong? *Two wrongs can't make it right.*

Funny, I know how this thing will end if you try to abort that child, One of you is going to wind up dead, either the newly conceived or the old or even both of you. It's unfortunate.
Peace.
#Do_the right thing. God can still take the child if He choses, without you necessarily given birth. Just show some remorse and contrition for your wrong.
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by derrick333(m): 12:09am On Nov 21, 2014
adepiero:
Hope you ain't thinking of POSTINOR 2? undecided
Lol,u c d ops coment again? We don settle d ishh sins aftoon
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by adepiero: 12:21am On Nov 21, 2014
derrick333:

Lol,u c d ops coment again? We don settle d ishh sins aftoon
Funny how some young girls behave. common condom she couldn't offer her partner now she is running helter skelter for abortion tips. I just pray she doesn't contract any disease in the process na then she go know say this life no get part two
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by derrick333(m): 12:24am On Nov 21, 2014
adepiero:
Funny how some young girls behave. common condom she couldn't offer her partner now she is running helter skelter for abortion tips. I just pray she doesn't contract any disease in the process na then she go know say this life no get part two
U rite ade,but de Wud prefa flesh2flesh
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by adepiero: 12:38am On Nov 21, 2014
derrick333:

U rite ade,but de Wud prefa flesh2flesh
I just get pissed at young ladies who cook up stories of their sexcapades and yet they don't know jack about healthy sex or pregnancy and disease prevention.

Imagine this OP! what she could have prevented with 30 or 40 naira now she has to spend a lot more coupled with stress to get herself ok. funny enough, her future depends on it but I doubt if she knows this too undecided

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Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Psalmwise(m): 12:53am On Nov 21, 2014
go and drink lime water ....dose people saying u shed kip it they themselves wud reject it if it were them ooo.and I believed wat is in or stomach asnt formed into life..soo I tink for Naw its not yet too late or a bad tin to flush it out
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by Veckylord(m): 2:53am On Nov 21, 2014
Dont abort pls if chritiano ronaldo mother had aborted him will he be great today
Re: I'm About 3 Weeks Pregnant. How Do I Get Rid Of It? by pretydiva(f): 4:15am On Nov 21, 2014
derrick333:

Sis,nobody way no de make mistake,we r all human,n wen she kip d baby NA,NA una go call am bastard
den u prefer she commits murder by killing an innocent child bah. God is watching

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