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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by mencade5(m): 8:23pm On Jul 24, 2014
rozzay: . Yep dear it is very tormenting, we women like to argue nd receiving response makes d arguement more favourable cos we r sure to win, so d smart guys just kip silent kinda like saying silence is d best answer______ tis so so humiliating
i see...interesting
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by alienware(m): 8:27pm On Jul 24, 2014
rigarmortis:

i learnt from other ppls mistakes bro...and I almost fell victim too...

have you ever been with a gril in the room after you have finished "the bizness" her real man bf calls her and she starts the bedroom voice I will call you back later shiiiiii, that taught me a lot sire.

also females in general detests guys they can predict, guys who act all proper and good, and who can surprise them with fun.

the uncertainty also keeps them on the edge and makes them act proper all the time, don't ever commit totally, let your presence be fun, but let that be all you offer, no permanent strings in the foreseeable future....unless.....keep it dangling...

like I said I almost fell, may way of life is what I have painted above, but there was this girl who I fell for, I committed to her.....in the beginning she was more commited too, infact she loved 90% and me ten percent, I saw the future in her so I dropped every and commited, called, gave a my company, time and body exclusively, it was soooo fun for a time, then she started acting up.

I guess I was too nice, breaking my own rules, I was in my finals in school then, subtle things that a born mugu wont notice, but I did, she started taking me for granted and all that, she just assumed that she had me hook which she did at the time, that whatever she did I wil still be there...well I was no born mugu...I went back to my own style...

and guess what!......she started loving up again, calling, texting, asking me whats wrong all the time, I just smile and laugh and say nothing, then just arrange a surprise outing, she thinks we gonna be together, I just form an urgent call and kiss her goodbye....

gradual the outing turned to no outing no time no calls, she started planning surprises and gifts and two birthdys a month for me, flooded me with attention and gifts even when I acted bored all the time with her, cut most of her calls, but when I pick I gist and laugh like nothing is going on.......it was too late then.......

now its almost 4 years later and she is still trying to win me back, I work in Abuja now while she is in warri but she comes to Abuja, gets a hotel and calls me, I just say am busy...

then, whatsapp, and facebook...

my guy...forget.......

don't get suckered onto this mess
u are a real G ! Real niggies recognized in T.I's voice.
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Asable(f): 9:28pm On Jul 24, 2014
mencade5: picture of you being a good girl or......
are you sure its only picture you want?have got vide0s too
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by mencade5(m): 9:37pm On Jul 24, 2014
Asable: are you sure its only picture you want?have got vide0s too
i no dey do video ooo. Na physical things. Na touching things i dey ooo. tongue
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 11:13pm On Jul 24, 2014
rozzay: . Hhahahhahahhaha Haba y u go touch pesin thing. Ok if u want to c send pm den ull c it privately not for all eyes
Kilode?




Na national treasure?



Abi na diamond
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 11:17pm On Jul 24, 2014
Mr op......




The 5th point is d one dat upsets me d most



Its always the guys fault when a relationship breaks down



They mostly don't accept their fault

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jul 24, 2014
xtervaganza: Kilode?




Na national treasure?



Abi na diamond
. 50 percent of both
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 11:28pm On Jul 24, 2014
rozzay: . 50 percent of both
na wa ooooo




A beg u wan see am then
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Nobody: 6:10am On Jul 25, 2014
xtervaganza: na wa ooooo




A beg u wan see am then
. U will fill d sight form for seeing it. Its sold @ d office of the president, gudluck j den after uve filled it u submit in d white house wen obama sends me a pm ill upload

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Nobody: 6:13am On Jul 25, 2014
xtervaganza: na wa ooooo




A beg u wan see am then
. U will fill d sight form for seeing it. Its sold @ d office of the president, gudluck j den after uve filled it u submit in d white house wen obama sends me a pm ill upload
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Mariopgomery(m): 6:31am On Jul 25, 2014
temigracie: ...y do u guys always blackmail and badmouth girls??....for cryn out loud we r weaker vessels and shud treated like a gem and something valueable....so,u mean guys too don do fake things...if i may ask,y is dat guys loves lieing??gimme reasons y u shud lie to impress a chic..na evrybody get im own for im body....unna too get unna own bad syd nah...enof of d badmouthing n evrythin...if any girl dumps and plays a good guy den she s cr*zy....apart frm dat,not all d girls in d world r bad nw....

most girls are crazy and please don't start with that weaker vessel ish

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 6:35am On Jul 25, 2014
rozzay: . U will fill d sight form for seeing it. Its sold @ d office of the president, gudluck j den after uve filled it u submit in d white house wen obama sends me a pm ill upload
I'm coming



I de find pen
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Nobody: 6:42am On Jul 25, 2014
xtervaganza: I'm coming



I de find pen
. Gud
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 7:14am On Jul 25, 2014
rozzay: . Gud
better
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Asable(f): 7:59am On Jul 25, 2014
mencade5: i no dey do video ooo. Na physical things. Na touching things i dey ooo. tongue
your own beta
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by rigarmortis: 8:20am On Jul 25, 2014
xtervaganza: Mr op......




The 5th point is d one dat upsets me d most



Its always the guys fault when a relationship breaks down



They mostly don't accept their fault


all na mind game to make you feel guilty, once your mindset is compromised you are done for

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by mencade5(m): 8:53am On Jul 25, 2014
Asable: your own beta
make we start am na? tongue
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by xtervaganza(m): 10:41am On Jul 25, 2014
rigarmortis:


all na mind game to make you feel guilty, once your mindset is compromised you are done for
lol




The good thing is guys are getting smarter

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by birdsview(m): 5:45am On Dec 12, 2014
I asked her out for 3years..she kept saying no...she kept asking for gifts/favours...I kept giving with the hope that one day she'll get to like me.never worked..there was this time she asked for a favour and I was like " as what"..that's the last time we have such spoken.which is six months ago..its such a relieve

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by rigarmortis: 11:18am On Dec 12, 2014
birdsview:
I asked her out for 3years..she kept saying no...she kept asking for gifts/favours...I kept giving with the hope that one day she'll get to like me.never worked..there was this time she asked for a favour and I was like " as what"..that's the last time we have such spoken.which is six months ago..its such a relieve


its like a burden off your back man, I know the feeling

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 12, 2014
Tales of the broken hearted. cheesy

It is well.

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by remsonik(f): 12:23pm On Dec 12, 2014
Guys will always whine and cry over a girl who breaks their heart yet they are quick to jump into them once they get the opportunity. Mtcheeeew tongue

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Emmalot121(m): 2:37pm On Dec 12, 2014
That's sad.
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by dre11(m): 2:40pm On Dec 12, 2014
So, it means that some old thread still fit get chance to make front page


This is interesting
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Misogynist2014(m): 2:40pm On Dec 12, 2014
birdsview:
I asked her out for 3years..she kept saying no...she kept asking for gifts/favours...I kept giving with the hope that one day she'll get to like me.never worked..there was this time she asked for a favour and I was like " as what"..that's the last time we have such spoken.which is six months ago..its such a relieve
You should be hanged! angry

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by akpanikpe(m): 2:42pm On Dec 12, 2014
LaurelP:
Real man my arrse!
I Jst look at ur pics and hit like shaparly grin hmmm wit dis type of ur beauty (if dat was u anyways)I now see y u say real man ur ass.
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by dre11(m): 2:43pm On Dec 12, 2014
birdsview:
I asked her out for 3years..she kept saying no...she kept asking for gifts/favours...I kept giving with the hope that one day she'll get to like me.never worked..there was this time she asked for a favour and I was like " as what"..that's the last time we have such spoken.which is six months ago..its such a relieve

What
She has friend-zone u for ages

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by drkay002: 2:44pm On Dec 12, 2014

Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by zinaLPF: 2:44pm On Dec 12, 2014
rigarmortis:

7. Shallow mind and ignorance.
She knows BB10, iphine, mercy Johnson, kim, k, ,,...thats the end, go deeper and you jam a brick wall, without a helmet you might get migraine for life, some of these girls are dumb as a doornail,, keep it up, keep steve jobs family rich and complain whne you are 50 and single.



You have probably been hurt by a female, if so I sympathize. If not, watch that cynicism, it will keep you from finding love and respect.
Truth is the making of this list is itself shallow and ignorant, not to mention hypocritical. Most of the traits on your list cut both ways - men and women both do stupid, self destructive things.

I wish you luck in love!

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Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 12, 2014
yes oh I totally agree with you...how do you explain this, dated my ex-gal for 2yrs and before I can say jack she broke up with me, with al the 10k I used to send to her monthly + her house I furnished, guess I was a ***hole...as for me no more my nice guy angry
mencade5:
o boy see testimony oooo. Chaiiii...this is the exact thing most of them girls like in a guy.
I like to see things like this ooo. Well done my brother.
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 12, 2014
Hahaha. I agree with OP cheesy
Re: Annoying Traits Peculiar To Naija Girls - concerned Nairalander by freecocoa(f): 2:51pm On Dec 12, 2014
One bad experience and all girls are the same, smh.

You are only depriving yourself my dear, if you fail, pick up yourself and try again, now this doesn't mean you become a f00l, loving someone doesn't turn you into that, love the right person.

She was loving you 90% and you loved her 10% and when the tables turned, she's the devil? Did you stop for a minute to think about how she must have felt when she was the one taken for granted? Listen my dear, it's trying to play too smart and acting out a script so you don't lose out that makes it harder than it should be.

If someone loves you and you don't love them back, be human and civil enough to tell them the truth and move on, if they happen to fall for you and you think you can feel that way too, then put an effort and make it work, if you both fell for each other, then by all means love yourselves without trying to be the one who doesn't lose out, just do things the way is supposed to be done, simples.

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