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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Toks2008(m): 12:01pm On Jan 10, 2015
joanpinkie:
Nice one Op. Well i dont mind doing the job. Now that i 'm out of job. If you can pay in 6 figures we can have a chat. You dont even need to see me. All you have to do is hand ur gate man ur keys in the morning n get it back in the evening to meet a tidy house , stocked up fridge n food filled pots. Make my payment through my account number . Write down your complaints or things that you needed done on a note and place on the fridge. We dont even need to even get to see each other. Hehehehe

Nice innovation but it is that six figure im not game with. Anything over 15k i no do.Remember that you will also eat part of the food and accommodation also comes with the package.
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jan 10, 2015
lonngmann:

Some ladies can make you do somethings you don't want to do

It sounds like men are victims who are powerless.
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jan 10, 2015
sleekman:
Chairman d best way is to employ an unemployed graduate. That way 1+1 might be 2. Just look out 4 humble girls sha and not people like remsonik.

Hmmm...

Thinking about it!
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by ifeoluwa237(m): 12:04pm On Jan 10, 2015
grin
enjoyment tinz. I trust ma guy I'm no go Bleep up
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by carik(m): 12:05pm On Jan 10, 2015
That's laziness to the bone!
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Alezy(m): 12:06pm On Jan 10, 2015
remsonik:
Op I dont get....you have two hands and two legs yet you can't do your chores and cook your own meals!! I pity the woman you will marry
must everybody know how to cook and all that
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jan 10, 2015
striktlymi:
Thinking seriously of getting one who would help with the house chores to include preparing my meals.
...house-help or girlfriend?I am sure you imply girlfriend...

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jan 10, 2015
stardragon:

guy use ur head o!
that's a dangerouse adventure! shocked





"she can easly ham u, by putin LOVE or DEATH potion in ur food" undecided



the heart of a man/woman is desperatly WICKED! cry




Food for thought!

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Toks2008(m): 12:10pm On Jan 10, 2015
tosyne2much:
That's if everybody thinks the way you do

I bet to disagree with your comment. Let's stop deceiving ourselves here and face the real fact.. There's no reasonable point to justify why a man of marriageable age will habour a matured lady ( 23- 25yrs) for home chores and so on... Sex or no sex, I mean it doesn't make sense to me.. To each his own opinion


The only reasonable point is that our girls are not ready to settle down. If a man is of marriageable age never get marriageable finance to organize marriageable ceremony,what happens?

Until our ladies learn to be with a man for love and not money,until our ladies understand that marriage is different from marriage ceremony and until our ladies can accept to settle down with man who at least have a roof over his head and is hard working as well as ready to marry them in the little way he can.

Lady bankers are complaining that guys are going for the cleaners and security ladies and ignoring them but trust me, the time is coming when ladies will be applying openly for a husband no matter his financial status. Rubbish and nonsense

When all you need is to pay just 10k or thereabout a month to have a sweet young succulent fresh blood to take care of your home and maybe end up as a wife if you like her services, you expect same man to start worrying his head over one grammar speaking,over used and dumped arrogant high class lady with secondary skin color.

I dey vex angry

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jan 10, 2015
LydayBobo:

well I don't see anything wrong in that but how do you want it....I used to have myself but its on calls.

That is she only make the food delicacies i desire and leave. Sometimes moinmoin and also stock my fridge with drinks. She washes clothes in btw cooking too clean the house and leave. No long thing you just need to know when to draw the line.

Okay, thanks!

I thinking of getting someone who would come in daily when I am away at work and leave after she is done. We need not see each other till it's time to pay her.

If it's a daily arrangement, how much do you think is a fair wage? How much do you pay for the arrangement you have?
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by ify84(m): 12:12pm On Jan 10, 2015
striktlymi:


Dunno but I think the place needs a feminine touch.

U mean say u no get cousins around dat even need help.... Let her stay with u.... U buy waec and later jamb form for.... Or register her in a handiwork......

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by juman(m): 12:12pm On Jan 10, 2015
Better go and marry.

Just do small marriage rites and take in your wifey.
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by lacicrips(m): 12:14pm On Jan 10, 2015
elantraceey:


Seconded .



@op i'll see him as lazy and .........


Not really sure i can date such.
You're just being naïve. Why would I take out hours from my work week to clean and cook when I could just pay somebody to do it? That time could be invested in reading or thinking up solutions to a business problem.

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:16pm On Jan 10, 2015
deavicky:
I have the same tot but It's absord. What we need is wife not a maid accept u wana marry the maid

I understand but I don't think I should get a wife just because I am too lazy to do my own chores. A wife should be more to me than a house help.

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jan 10, 2015
lacicrips:

You're just being naïve. Why would I take out hours from my work week to clean and cook when I could just pay somebody to do it? That time could be invested in reading or thinking up solutions to a business problem.

Gbam!
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Toks2008(m): 12:18pm On Jan 10, 2015
stardragon:

guy use ur head o!
that's a dangerouse adventure! shocked





"she can easly ham u, by putin LOVE or DEATH potion in ur food" undecided



the heart of a man/woman is desperatly WICKED! cry



Which kind am you.All die na die.

As long as you treat her very well, the worst she can do is to give you love portion and that s harmless enough.

You guys just dont get it.

Ok look at this case. I want to get married and i want a sweet sexy looking chic but if i approach nkechi she will access me by the old model mazda im using and if i approach sandra that works in a bank she will start forming telling me she does not have time and yes i know its not all of them but the last time i checked i am not that irresponsible to keep woing ladies around.

But go to a good house help agency and you will see young pretty sexy ladies in their very late teens and early twenties who are mostly victims of circumstance ready to work as a maid and tell me why it does not make sense to have one of those without stress and eventually marry her.

I just heard yesterday from a lady friend that the now popular genevive was actually impregnated when she was serving as a maid in her teens as her parents were so poor.

Maid are born the same way the sophisticated ones were born too. Its all about tushing them up to standard.

OP carry go abeg, i understand where you dey take matter to even if you no spell everything out.
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jan 10, 2015
sexyseun:
Haaaaaaa!!!! This kain topic dey front page since and i no no? OP, OP oooooo.... me iyam very very interestingly interested with the job with interest oooooo.
1. I can wash clothes either manually or automatic
2. I can cook any type of meals(my great great great grandmother made Jesus' last supper
3. I can clean the house, bedroom and even where u no send me
4. I can fetch water, pound yam, grind pepper and iyam a very good company
5. By the way i am a secondary virgin


When and how should i apply? Please reply Asap thank you

grin

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by 9jatatafo(m): 12:21pm On Jan 10, 2015
My advice, look for a woman to marry because if you get a female house help and you are single the temptation of bleeping her is there, it will hurt your ego and the house help will feel equal to you. Better still look for a neighbour's son probably one of those secondary school boys who is humble, call him to help you do some of the house chores when you are around and give him tips, buy him some clothes sometimes to make him happy. House helps of today are very dangerous, she might seduce you or you same to her.
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by elantraceey(f): 12:23pm On Jan 10, 2015
lacicrips:

You're just being naïve. Why would I take out hours from my work week to clean and cook when I could just pay somebody to do it? That time could be invested in reading or thinking up solutions to a business problem.


But you'll agree with me that there are busy men who still does that and i prefer them.
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jan 10, 2015
Juliet84:
Hey u don't feel like having a company of a lady 4 how long has dis been going on and how long do u intend it last.its either hormonal inbalance or gay just joking but guy if u have a need to always meeat ur house on point pls go get a homely Gf or better still a wife

Lol!!

Really, I believe the need for a house help shouldn't be compared with one's need for a wife. I think the status of a wife is too precious to compare her with a domestic staff, if any.

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 10, 2015
I now know the reason your mumcy keeps asking after your ex.
You don't just need a woman, you need a soulmate.
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 10, 2015
Omotolu:
...house-help or girlfriend?I am sure you imply girlfriend...


Lol!!!

I don't expect a girlfriend to do my house chores, though it can be appreciated. grin

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jan 10, 2015
ify84:


U mean say u no get cousins around dat even need help.... Let her stay with u.... U buy waec and later jamb form for.... Or register her in a handiwork......

Nah...no such relative.
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by maryhaam(f): 12:26pm On Jan 10, 2015
nacosprof:



Then you stands to lose the opportunity EDO guyz can't do without pounded yam
sire you will manage poundo yam
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by maryhaam(f): 12:28pm On Jan 10, 2015
joe17:
U can apply by 'directly' or 'indirectly' proposing to him.

BTW, don't worry about anyfin da av to do with 'pounding' he can do that beta without complains, even yam sef grin
Looooll let it be professional pls
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by 2rez: 12:34pm On Jan 10, 2015
joe17:
E go make sense if she ends up being ur wife grin

Buh bros, seriously I fink u need a wife instead cheesy

mehn, thirded. Wordz so on point, wa gbayi cheesy

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jan 10, 2015
lacicrips:

[s]You're just being naïve. Why would I take out hours from my work week to clean and cook when I could just pay somebody to do it? That time could be invested in reading or thinking up solutions to a business problem.[/s]
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by happyzed0(f): 12:40pm On Jan 10, 2015
Also tink seriously on gettin a wife

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by markpenk: 12:46pm On Jan 10, 2015
Well, make sure she's not attractive physically. if she looks anything like one of the pictures below, you're screwed lol tongue

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 10, 2015
joe17:
E go make sense if she ends up being ur wife grin

Buh bros, seriously I fink u need a wife instead cheesy

So his purpose of getting a wife is to have someone to do his chores and cook his meals? So to you house help/cook = wife ?? Smh

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Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Nonywendy(m): 12:50pm On Jan 10, 2015
striktlymi:


Definitely!

Probably between 20 to 25.
*smh*
Re: What Do You Think About A Single Guy Getting A Female House Help? by Sunshinelady(f): 12:51pm On Jan 10, 2015
striktlymi:


Thinking of an arrangement where she may have a key to the apartment.

That would necessarily imply that I know her well enough.

So it could be that kinda arrangement. I cone home to meeet no one but a neat home and the kitchen smelling nice. cheesy
. Lol, I like dis OP , hahaha (not trippin tho tongue)

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