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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 1:35am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 1:41am On Jan 20, 2015 |
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Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 1:42am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus: Truth is this kind of relationships can be dicey. Some step-children can NEVER be content! Some step-mothers can be wicked! The story above is just two sides of a story, unfortunately, the 3rd side(which is the truth) is not something we have access to. If viewed from various angles, the story truly does not add up. My mum might cook for my 10-year old cousin staying with her and assume I'll find my way out. I wouldn't crucify her for that, my dad wouldn't too. If it were to be the other way round, I being the 10-year old and my cousin being me, they'll say she's maltreating. It's SOMETIMES the paranoia associated with complicated relationships. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 1:43am On Jan 20, 2015 |
You're right. I have this friend who's father remarried somewhat recently because their Mother died long ago. I used to swallow her stories about how bad the new wife was until I went to visit them and spent 2week with them and up until today, the lady is my pal and cool friend. I've even helped her to see that the lady is just human and not a bad person who's there to wipe away their mother's memory. Kids without moms tend to have mommy issues and the new wife can't ever please them. Even if she scolds as she would scold her own kids, it is assumed she's doing it because they aren't her kids. walking around egg shells. In most women's case, it is all work and no gratitude.the one's she didn't do right will be magnified while the good she did since will be conveniently forgotten. The people in this story have conflicting reports so I chose the path that makes more sense: alutacontinua: |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 1:46am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:- she always handled them in a rough and cruel way. “My wife always maltreats my children, she hates them to the extent that she only cooks for her children and refuses to give her stepchildren food. - “Due to frequent fighting and rivalry with them, I rented another apartment for my children but she still refused them to visit me.” - she does not respect me and she talks to my parents rudely. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 1:49am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:I'm not trying to wiggle out cos whatever you wanno think is your BIZNIZ... Just know that you can NEVER be sure of anything about me that I didn't tell you, except you just enjoy wallowing in delusions... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 1:50am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus:convenient. I will catch you soon dissing single mothers 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by soulglo: 1:52am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus: That using this particular excuse tells me he is full of shit. He could have said she's difficult to live with. She's violent. She's financially irresponsible. She's an unrepentant adulterer. I would buy any of those but not this one. Keep in mind that I personally think that NIgerians make the worst and most dangerous step parents I have seen. So I am not saying that she's an angel. I'm just saying that if he actually came to the court and those were his specific reasons for ending this marriage then he is full of poop. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 1:54am On Jan 20, 2015 |
Believe the one you like She said the children were too rude and crackhaus: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 1:55am On Jan 20, 2015 |
Add washing of clothes to the pathetic excuses and you will know it is a classic case of a bored man seeking new adventure. soulglo: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by soulglo: 1:57am On Jan 20, 2015 |
alutacontinua: True. There are even children who have this same issues with their own parents. You have husbands who come on Nairaland to complain that their wives do not contribute a kobo to the homes needs but sponsors all her siblings through school. Adults who are so resentful of their fathers "training" everybody's child in the family and now he cannot afford to help them out with their own school fees. It gets stretched when it becomes step parent or in laws. Let's just try to be objective is all I'm saying. She might have been spiteful at times but I have to say I cannot respect someone who would date someone who does not accommodate their kids much less marry the person. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 2:00am On Jan 20, 2015 |
alutacontinua: - she always handled them in a rough and cruel way. “My wife always maltreats my children, she hates them to the extent that she only cooks for her children and refuses to give her stepchildren food. - “Due to frequent fighting and rivalry with them, I rented another apartment for my children but she still refused them to visit me.” - she does not respect me and she talks to my parents rudely. If you read deep, you will see that there are three sides already: The husbands', the children's, and the woman (whose side coincidentally prove there is indeed some animosity between her and the children) So the question becomes, is this not enough reason for the man to ask for a divorce? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by Nobody: 2:02am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus: Don't you find it convenient that you choose to believe the man's story but not the woman's? The woman and the kids are not friends, no doubt! And that is exactly the point! We cannot say whose fault that is! As for the man, pfffffttttttt! Did you even notice he kept impregnating her even when he knew he was gonna file for divorce? How do you even have sex with a woman he described like that? As for the marriage, it's all crap anyways. When your child starts slaping your wife, that's no longer a marriage, it's a jungle! I am not an advocate of divorce though! But this marriage needs a huge re-structuring, which I doubt will ever happen! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 2:07am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:Standing by the opinion that kids need father figures in their lives, and thus single motherhood is not something to be glorified - is this what you call dissing? I can do this real long, just keep trying to crawl out of the hole you dug for yourself at the beginning of this thread while canvassing for support left, right, and centre. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 2:18am On Jan 20, 2015 |
alutacontinua:Sorry to disappoint you, but I believe the man's story as well as the woman herself who confirmed that the kids don't get along with her. It's you who found it convenient believing the stories this woman made in her own defense. So how come she didn't deny stopping the children from visiting? How come she didn't deny talking to his parents rudely? I'm glad you realize the marriage is crap - isn't this enough reason for him to be granted the divorce he wants? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 2:24am On Jan 20, 2015 |
soulglo:Okay. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 2:31am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:That she also stopped the children from visiting their father's home and that she talks to her in-laws rudely, are also pathetic excuses? (remember, she didn't deny these) Oya na, CONTUNU! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 2:36am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus: Lmao. I don't need support to air my opinions. I didn't email anyone what to type here. You obviously can't stand different opinions. Now cococandy is the one canvassing their support. Can we manage not to get childish today? At least for once. I was almost happy it wouldn't veer that angle. So much for hoping. My opinion at the beginning remains the same. Dude has a pathetic excuse. So I ain't trying to dig out of anything. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 2:39am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus:yet they managed to visit? They probably visited and fought her because she didn't make fried rice and chicken to serve them on her knees . I'm almost certain that's when the slap happened. And Yes she denied being rude to her in-laws. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 2:43am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:It's childish stating (which is evident for all to see) that you are quoting left, right, and centre the ladies that support your line of thought - but it is not childish when you tell me to my face that I can't father another woman's children? So apart from the excuse of her maltreating the children or not washing clothes, the other complains are pathetic? Me I like being childish o, that line always bounces off me like ball on rock... Na you go taya... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 2:57am On Jan 20, 2015 |
Of course it is childish you have problems With who I'm quoting. Thank God you noted their points of view supported my line of thought. So tell me again how I'm canvassing for support. One would have thought I was trying to convince them to change their posts to type what supports mine. Since it already did, how did that make sense for you to say I'm canvassing for support? Oh your problem is that I quoted them Nothing I won't hear from you. Ok I won't quote them again. In fact I won't like any posts that doesn't agree with your opinion anymore since all those things give you headache. Of course I maintain you can't father another man's kids. All you have to do is say you can and I will stand corrected. Who are you kidding? Let me go and pray. I will be back. Na you dey keep vigil. crackhaus: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 3:04am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:How do you know they managed to visit, and why are you almost certain that's when the slap occurred? |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 3:07am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus:where did they slap her before? In their own rented apartment? They came to their father and his wife's house and slapped her. Brb. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 3:10am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:How do you know the slap didn't occur before they got their own apartment, and does this change the fact that the woman stopped them from visiting? |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 3:38am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:- Childish? - I don't mind. - Can't father another man's kids? - your opinion, I can't be bothered convincing you of anything personal to me. - Headache because of you? - only in your wet dreams. Did I leave anything out? Cos it's about time we get back on topic fruit-cake 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 4:17am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus:mmm. Nothing is impossible anyway. But I'm wondering how she stopped them from visiting. They are more than one and probably in their twenties. One can believe they don't get along when they visit but to say she stopped them from visiting as if they are infants that can be told what to do makes me have further reasons to doubt this man's bogus tales |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by cococandy(f): 4:20am On Jan 20, 2015 |
crackhaus: If you really like to stay on topic, you wouldn't love so much to deviate from the issues and complain about who's quoting who. Well you obviously have a headache with who's opinion I like especially if it is against yours. You can prove me wrong by remaining on track next time instead complaining about it. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 7:04am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:I never deviated, I only made a passing statement that you are trying to crawl out of the hole you dug for yourself while canvassing for support - you're the one who made a big deal out of it because you don't like reading the truth Proving you wrong is not something I'm quite interested in. |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by crackhaus: 7:08am On Jan 20, 2015 |
cococandy:All this you're typing is irrelevant in the bigger picture. Did she deny stopping them from visiting? And what has being in their twenties got to do with being restricted from visiting? When you're ready to let go of your unrealistic and biased linear thinking, let me know. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by SAMBARRY: 7:55am On Jan 20, 2015 |
dinachi:this wimp doesn't want to give up sha.pele employment will soon come for you and your likes entertaining yourself on nl and putting food on seuns table. Awon loosers and weaklings association of nl ALAW of nl 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by bukatyne(f): 9:40am On Jan 20, 2015 |
laplace12: This is where you guys fail and start wailing that women like money.... What if the wife was the one paying the food? It automatically makes it right for her to starve them (if true?) And you expect a woman to cook for +18yr olds (Are they handicapped?) 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Hates And Starves Her Stepchildren by dinachi(m): 9:42am On Jan 20, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Get busy managing the rotten graveyard between your legs first. STINK MISTRESS of nairaland. 1 Like |
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