My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

@Op, I think you didn't name this thread right
It should have been. " I am so dumb that my boyfriend got married behind my back"

Because seriously, was it love or just your silliness that made you blind to the signs. I am sure there must have been signs.

At least this is a good lesson for you. Next time you would use not just your heart in a relationship, you would also use your head.

About the suicide, you are free to make your decision

Why do I find this hard to believe?

Please you don't have to! It doesn't end there! You have to get over it! You are a girl! Definitely a guy who is worthy of you will come your way ! You just need patience..

Sorry, move on

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

maybe the fault is from you maybe not. I will suggest you go thru tosyne2much and emusmith treads in romance/family section may be you might find something consoling. Dont bother killing urself for he will never miss you.

The side chick

Dust yourself and move on!
Note: Thank God for delivering you from the hand of a demon!

Take heart dear.... look at it this way you dodged a bullet pity the lady that he got married to cause once a cheat always a cheat, no guy is worth your tears not to talk of your life so chin up, put on a killer dress and go party your tears away (or if you are the religious type go to church and pray for God to bless the guy)

Ebezina chukwu nonso....

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

Hugging transformer is ur best bet lol. Hey girl suicide should be the last thing on ur mind, the fact that he married another girl shows that he's not yours .Life goes on u knw .

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

no need to kill yourself dear your life is worth more than a man who does not value you.

14 months, well let me tell you your story is even good, a Friend of mine turned his back on his GF after 8 years + when he became a LG chairman and married another Girl. I felt for the girl

dust yourself, move on with your life, just live a decent life and you will attract decent men

see the original thread here -------->> HERE

anybody body that believes this is a fool.
too many plot holes. bro, brush up your lying skills.
any "female" that registered this febuary is a fraud.
peace!!!

Weird. Where did the "friend" get the pictures from & why did s/he wait until today to share the news with you? Something sounds fictitious about this.

My dear, everything happens for a reason & like its said every disappointment is a blessing in disguise, dis happen to avert future disasters, Committing suicide is not d best option
U deserve better & u will get a better partner only if u can hold on
instead of shedding tears, devout ur time in doing something reasonable to better ur life & at d perfect time, mr right will surely locate u without much stress on ur part
Be strong dear

Redoil:
maybe the fault is from you maybe not. I will suggest you go thru tosyne.2much and emu.smith treads in romance/family section may be you might find something consoling. Dont bother killing urself for he will never miss you.

you are just making me laf here

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

suicide for what?.abeg forget that,in a few months you will get over it and life continues

Booked

Move on with ya life ... But there must be a reason behind his action. He did Trad without breaking up wit u .. ma sis check yasef..

TickTickBoom:
Weird. Where did the "friend" get the pictures from & why did s/he wait until today to share the news with you? Something sounds fictitious about this.

same question on my mind

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

The first thing you should ask yourself before inflicting any pain on yourself is this: "is he worth it?" if you permit me to answer for you, then I will say this: he doesn't deserve you in the first place and you don't deserve a man that irresponsible. Some people just move out of our lives not because they are too good for us but really because they realise they don't deserve that much good that we are. I understand your pain, but just let go and involve in things that soothes your spirit. The best is on the way. Good luck.

He must have seen something better in his new wife, that's why we always tell you to be good girls, respect your in-laws and friends, don't double date. Now that he's gone with another lady, your problem now becomes something to be discussed on NL, I shake my head.

VALENTINE SCAM.

It happend to a friend of mine,a guy funy thing is that they are from the same village and childhood swthrt,from secondary to IMT,went to service,after service they were planning their Tm,the guy went back to lagos like today and the girl got married the next day.

Babe move on , dont die over someone that will later cheat on you. He doesnt deserve you in anyway, I dont know why Nigerian ladies dont believe much in themselves, if you really know who you are, you will just cry, laugh over it and thank God that he lost a jewel like you

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

mkpakanaodogwu:
same question on my mind

You know! The bleeding hearts can play their tiny violins but I'm not buying this fairytale lol.

Committing suicide won't do any harm to him, neither would it end the marriage. Try and move on. He's not your man.

TickTickBoom:


You know! The bleeding hearts can play their tiny violins but I'm not buying this fairytale lol.

d tory get as e sound

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

, no one iz above mistake. @ op, ALL IS WELL!