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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Fedric(m): 9:27pm On Feb 27, 2015
no time to wast time. Woo a lady for one month? For Wetin

now that ladies are in abundance? At least when u tell her u love her, she go thinking and reply. Shikena life na jeje

No get heart attack oooo

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Feb 27, 2015
tripleBgirl:
Bless u brother. your type are rare...
Dunno why they are rushing for a relationship like they want to get married any minute.
You dont y'all learn from this brother.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by unamama(m): 9:33pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?

she probably feels u r going to dump her after a short while just like u did to the other 2 gfs u had in d past.
so my dear, don't blame her. she has to guide her hrt wit all diligence, for out of it are d issues of life.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Feb 27, 2015
bluesam:
I met girl 4yrs ago, when I asked her to be my GF, she say no to that only want me as a fri so I have to be her fri for 3yr but today she's my wife






....Godbless you real Big and bless your Union too

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Bitojoe(m): 9:37pm On Feb 27, 2015
Stop asking this question here again.how many time are we going to treat this same question here.abeg.no lady will ever agree with you if you are not ready to learn.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Olukokosir(m): 9:37pm On Feb 27, 2015
Adam never woo Eve... y ll girls delay my proposal.....I hate stress

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by henribj(m): 9:37pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
I met this beautiful girl last year on a public bus and she decided to give me her number. She is 22 years and a final year student of a major university. We have been texting and calling back and forth for the past 2 months and she told me she is single. I have been trying to woo her to be my girlfriend for over 2 months but she insist on us just been friends and she don't want a relationship.

I really like this girl and would love to date. but I feel like maybe she don't want to date me so yesterday I told her we should end our friendship because if she feels that am not good enough to date her then we shouldnt remain friends. I really don't want to waste another month trying to win her heart and later find out that she end up with another guy.

My last 2 previous relationships too me less than 2 weeks to woo my previous girlfriends so I am kinda surprise that after 2 months of trying to win her over she still insist on not dating me. At first, I thought maybe she was playing hard to get but I think 2 months is long enough.

My questions to nairalanders is how long should a guy try to woo a girl before giving up and moving on?

mehn truth be told, no one can accurately answer this your question o cos no two humans are the same, don't forget each dude has his own toasting style/format, some guys dey preach to woman from morning till night and e no go click, some other dude will come around and ordinary hello/hi and the chic don dey dream love for her head. what i think you should do is check how this girl responds to you, check her emotions towards you, but wait o, after the first day you guys saw, have you seen again? cos if una never see, mehn na long thing you dey on o. besides from my own experiences, once a woman tell you "lets just be friends", mehn no just think am again o, the woman don arrest you, arraign you for her court, judge you, and conclude say you no be her type.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Feb 27, 2015
searching4love:



And what are you feeling like Person dey hang on you for 4yrs and u still no get shame to know you're delaying your divine crown? When you reach menopause your eye go clear. Ewu undecided



Eya nigga is pained....
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by TheEmShow: 9:41pm On Feb 27, 2015
searching4love:



And what are you feeling like Person dey hang on you for 4yrs and u still no get shame to know you're delaying your divine crown? When you reach menopause your eye go clear. Ewu undecided

grin grin cheesy
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:




Eya nigga is pained....


undecided

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Raiders: 9:45pm On Feb 27, 2015
khia:




I hope she isn't AA because those women are the scum of the earth according to you.
lol. How is SoCal? I never said AA are scum of the earth. I said uneducated AA female are always ratchet, ghetto and loud. I only date educated AA with college degree or in college, trade school. I have nothing against AA women because I only date black women.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Feb 27, 2015
TheEmShow:


grin grin cheesy



No mind the shameless thing. I blame the dumb nigga crushing on her for four years. Girl wey dem boys go don over stretch her pusssy with uncountable deeks forming fly

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:






Nah not offended at all..... He's actually my best friend and I'm scared of loosing my bestfriend,cos we v to drop some things and start up some things if we should date... buh he doesn't want to understand that part.

Bia this gurl am so interested in the story, please what's the Title of the movie?

Meanwhile am really not here to pass judgement but just feeling like giving you 98.9% blame for wasting precious tyme of that mofo! If u actually fell d same way this guy feels then turn the likeness to love it's called CONSOLIDATION!

And I bet it you aiint seen best shot of ur best fwend until u allow intimacy to flow in then u would understand there is more to love! Pls say yes to that guy this year and ur life will never remain the same again!

Mofo when I was desperate for serious relationship I met my wife in church and was asking her out for more than 7 months. Yet she was busy saying NO but one Sunday she said YES and the rest are now story! Saying that for you to no that some babe's actually worth waiting 4 forever! If she actually worth the stress please wait for her and if she's not happy searching!
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by brize(m): 9:47pm On Feb 27, 2015
You dey woo her, she be wool? Abi wolf?
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by villavic(m): 9:48pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.

tell me if u really need something and you are ask to wait for 4yrs how would you feel...no wonder you girls later fall in the hand of those that can't even wait for an hour (chop and clean mouth)

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by BABYLUVLY(f): 9:49pm On Feb 27, 2015
I have a guy that has wooed me for 5yrs. Another for 3yrs. Still not sure if I can really love any of them. It depends on what you want.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Feb 27, 2015
naughtyboi419:
Junlucky fr me am d guy *sobin*







Oh my darling! I wish......Lol
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Feb 27, 2015
adesinaabiodun:


Bia this gurl am so interested in the story, please what's the Title of the movie?

Meanwhile am really not here to pass judgement but just feeling like giving you 98.9% blame for wasting precious tyme of that mofo! If u actually fell d same way this guy feels then turn the likeness to love


The title of the movie is "A TALE OF A FAKE BITTCH FRIEND ZONING A DUMB MOFO" cool

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by khia: 9:50pm On Feb 27, 2015
Raiders:
lol. How is SoCal? I never said AA are scum of the earth. I said uneducated AA female are always ratchet, ghetto and loud. I only date educated AA with college degree or in college, trade school. I have nothing against AA women because I only date black women.


Please stay away from my sistas, they deserve better.
Some Nigerians are very loud, ghetto and ratchet also.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Feb 27, 2015
villavic:


tell me if u really need something and you are ask to wait for 4yrs how would you feel...no wonder you girls later fall in the hand of those that can't even wait for an hour (chop and clean mouth)




....Anything that's worth it,you should take it slow...
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by jerrymej(m): 9:53pm On Feb 27, 2015
How deep is your love and feelings for determines!
No specified time nor limit in wooing a lady!

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Feb 27, 2015
kendrick9:
if u show her the money then u probably won't need to wait too long..
Money talks, bro

couldn't have been said better
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Feb 27, 2015
two months is no time at all, I have had guys who wooed me for 3,4 years and I didn't give in. so if you know what you want no amount of time is too long considering she also want you. in my own case, I wasn't interested and they did not comprehend it, they thought I was trying to play hard yo get... you will know a lady that will yield right from time from the one that will not yield. the bottom line is know what you want
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by christaddicted: 10:24pm On Feb 27, 2015
Airforce1:


For your mind grin

heheheheheheheheheheheh
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Perelo(m): 10:24pm On Feb 27, 2015
I can't stay that long not after witnessing nd experiencing a heart break from a lady I really loved, I have been in love wit this girl since primary school, wen she got admission to js1 in a borden school, mehn dis babe sweet me like broom, after her waec I was able to get her number, so I started calling her on regular basis, we became close not knowing dis babe had her plans, can u imagine dis babe just passed me by saying Hi, as a guy I calm my self nd happy to see her I said hello pretty oboy she said hi nd passed, simply because I scolded her on phone she became annoyed, so brother I let her go immediately
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.
Do you really think you are worth the four years? But wait o, are there not many fishes in the ocean? The guy must be a big fat joke.

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Perelo(m): 10:26pm On Feb 27, 2015
I can't stay that long not after witnessing nd experiencing a heart break from a lady I really loved, I have been in love wit this girl since primary school, wen she got admission to js1 in a borden school, mehn dis babe sweet me like broom, after her waec I was able to get her number, so I started calling her on regular basis, we became close not knowing dis babe had her plans, can u imagine dis babe just passed me by saying Hi, as a guy I calm my self nd happy to see her I said hello pretty oboy she said hi nd passed, simply because I scolded her on phone she became annoyed, so brother I let her go immediately nd I have deleted her number I never called her nd she never called back dis happened last week.. So if she not good for u just let go of her nd u will meet others better than her...

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Edusouls(m): 10:27pm On Feb 27, 2015
christinauju:
OP as long as the feelings stays....I'v got a nigga who's bn hanging on for me for the past 4yrs now and I'm still not convinced about him buh he's still crushing despite the distance....so its up to you.



....If you feel she's worth the time and stressstill stand strong,buh if she's not worth it just check elsewhere jare.
you girls are naturaly carnal and devoid of human feelings, look at the type of advice you are giving a fellow human being, so he should continue to stress himself ,emotion, resources, feelings, energy until he dies, out of thinking if this very confused and complicated girl will someday accept to date him. You are a very confused girl,and you like seeing men suffer for your sake, your type of women end up in the arms of the very wrong man,and that guy wooing you for 4years is jobless..are you even pretty at all or busty? What really in you that can keep a man wooing you for 4years?

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Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Lukmanraji(m): 10:29pm On Feb 27, 2015
it depends on how much you love the girl...

I have waited for over a year to win my ex gf's heart.
now, am currently on hold to win my new girlfriend's heart and this is just the 5th month av been trying n I believe am gonna win her heart someday.

never give up on ur heart desires.
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by yungest(m): 10:33pm On Feb 27, 2015
ALKARULEZZ:
u don behold exam time-table?
kinda o...na faculty of pharm I see...30th GST
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by donphilopus: 10:33pm On Feb 27, 2015
Truckpusher:
Bro , they've perfected and changed that game plan.
They will keep you close enough with enough hope that one day your dreams will come true, but the truth is she's keeping you as a backup just incase the old guy starts jonsing they will now run into your arms and you'll be feeling like a king that just conquered a territory without you knowing that you've been on the reserve bench. grin

Bro, see as ur post dey sweet cheesy me for Romance Section. But Politics Kai... Nice one. Kudos!
Re: How Long Should A Guy Woo A Girl Before Giving Up? by Danieldexii(m): 10:43pm On Feb 27, 2015
1 month....afta dat liv her

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