hamilton62:

I love this reply dear... Thanks for the light you've thrown to the dark part of some lady's ignorance...
If a man makes #50,000 it doesn't mean that's his worth... Every rich dad and dude today was on such financial level once before this present milk and honey-wealth-realm.
A lady with vision must know if a man earning #50,000 has vision garnished with hardworking and is ready to provide for his family. He might not be spiritually strong because most men are defaulters in this but he must be a flexible dude, even rigid it doesn't matter. It's left for the lady with light to bring it into the life of this man and with prayers for God to grace and favour the man because the word of God says; He who finds a wife, finds good thing and obtaineth favour from God.
Men might be the head of the family but women are the neck and without the neck the head is a fool because it's in one direction without reasoning...
I am a guy but kudos to any lady who knows how to be a wife because their responsibility is much both in prayers, fasting, encouragement etc.
Ladies have a better stress absorber than men... So behind every successful man is a woman (not a female ooo).
So ladies, better start reasoning before you end up as divorcees or the skeleton yielding money for a foolish guy in his deepest room.
Thanks and God bless!

einsteino:


how much is ring? we are the ones who set hurdles for ourselves, we keep pushing the bar. who even said he must do a white wedding?

what even makes you feel a guy who earns stupidly high would be interested in you? it is demand and supply, the more cash a guy commands the higher his tastes(particularly in beauty), so before you start ranting ask yourself if you qualify for such a guy. it is wrong for a lady to expect a man to build the world she dreams of, she is in a better position of doing that since it is her dream.

i am not saying money isn't good, it is but it shouldn't be a pre-requisite. just the same way some guys are so conscious of the outward appearance of a lady, it is wrong. let these things be a plus not the foundation!

Ajekpakororo:


Lmao.
Sorry I be the type wey like hustle. Now get out! Na me dey train myself for school.

fzero:


but truth be told Igbo girls sef get their own for body..

EggovinMma:
God forbid!
50k salary inside marriage. Na before ooo.But now, I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF POVERTY IN MY LIFE.My bible tells me to seek and I shall find, and whatever I bind here on earth shall be bind in heaven. I stand upon the rock of St Peter and I am binding every spirit of poverty in the life of my future husband, every spirit of meagrre salary. I lose your hold on that poor future husband of mirne.IT SHALL NOT BE MY POTION.50K SALARY KE? Which kind rough play be that?

ferdimako:

3c ycle is still waiting for her oil worker near toaster. hahahaga

EggovinMma:
A guy earning 50k, him no go chop? transport, you no go wear clothe, what about small small things wey go still need money? How much kon remain? In a month? That's hypertension dey kill una before 50.My advice to guys wey dey hype here, IF THATS YOUR SALARY, BETTER MARRY WOMAN WEY GET BETTER WORK TOO.Any woman wey go manage you needs to get her ass . s to work too, else na so so pikin she go born full house.I GO MARRY NO MEAN SAY I GO STAY


Desperados!

watered:
No wonder! Dog wey no get owner no dey different from you. So na who go collect the bride price incase any mugu show up?

humilitypays:
In as much as I understand your point, pls I will advice u to pls start now to change your mindset towards money...money or wealth is nothing. You seem so ambitious for money or wealth and its not good for u as a single lady because it may land u in the wrong hands and possibly before u can learn it becomes too late and u see yourself embracing what u rejected. Nature and God reads our hearts...tell God your desire and don't look down on any man or woman because of their present financial status because future and time changes many things and brings shocking changes too.

And pls stop shouting that as an Igbo girl u are that u can't marry a guy earning 50k/month...because its painting Igbo girls bad in the eyes of guys and that's not funny as u think.

My own elder sis married a guy she earned higher than who had no bike talkless of car, and today, that man is very buoyant than my sister and even her friends' husbands that were rich back then.

Just pray to God and tell Him to help u not by your power or else God will shock u...no sane guy wants to be poor or earn 50k/month...in fact, majority of guys want to be richer than Dangote...but at the end, God blesses those He will bless, so pray for God's grace to meet the right man with good future.

Don't judge a man by his today worth and financial status, only time can tell!

bokoarerams:
You see why a lot of Igbo girls are not married!!! my dear I earn 48k and I am married, my wife is very pretty, she finished from a private University but was humble enough to marry me. We have a pretty daughter and we are very happy

This is what they called true love, that your wife is truly a wife material she loves u for who u are and she believes things can still change for better, what a wife u got.

And always make her happy too.

Pineapp:
If he already has a house and is working towards greater things,then yes

EggovinMma:


My brother, that was during our mother's time.Where I come from, as an igbo gurl, my father made sure he slaved to give me the best, despite the fact he is not a graduate. I CAN NOT MARRY A MAN THATS LESS THAT MY FATHER. I CAN NOT EAT THERE SQUARE MEALS IN MY FATHERS HOUSE, ONLY TO EAT ONCE A DAY IN MY HUSBAND S HOUSE.THATS ILL LUCK.I should be the one earning that kind of amount to support my husband, and not him.Its not a sin o, but it's way below what I grew up with despite we weren't rich.BROS, ONCE AGAIN HOLY GHOST FIREEEEE! !

scribble:
4 years ago I was making about 50k


Now its about 1.5m


Married the woman who was there when it was 50k


I live for her now because she supported me with love, prayers, advice, encouragement and a constant smile.

sexyseun:
Sure i can marry a man who earns 50K as long as he loves me and i love him too. We plan together and we both work also..

But...........................................The man must sabi go many rounds on bed oooo, i no wan hear story for night ooooo

favoryte33:
m already falling in luv wif U,,,,what a write-up,,,,

EggovinMma:


50K SALARY IS EXACTLY WHAT GOD WILL FORBID IN MY LIFE! !

scribble:
4 years ago I was making about 50k


Now its about 1.5m


Married the woman who was there when it was 50k


I live for her now because she supported me with love, prayers, advice, encouragement and a constant smile.

EggovinMma:



I give so much care about the salary of who I decide to marry tomorrow. My quest to acquire as much as I can is to give my children the best in case of any ill eventuality. I refuse to accept such meagre salary, although I really appreciate ladies who really don't see it as a problem.
It all boils down to choice.

EggovinMma:
God forbid!
50k salary inside marriage. Na before ooo.But now, I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF POVERTY IN MY LIFE.My bible tells me to seek and I shall find, and whatever I bind here on earth shall be bind in heaven. I stand upon the rock of St Peter and I am binding every spirit of poverty in the life of my future husband, every spirit of meagre salary. I lose your hold on that poor future husband of mine.IT SHALL NOT BE MY POTION.50K SALARY KE? Which kind rough play be that?

3cycle:

Stop mentioning my monicker. You won't like my next statement if you mention me again

danbrowndmf:
Question For The Ladies, come tell us your Answer.