ojnnaco:
after been mere friends for 5years and still courting for like 4months now and u think d man is still happy with ur gumy attitude ... Haba
#Change
#WiseUp
if u love him endure d slap and continue to marriage maybe by dat tym it must have gotten to wrestling

Truckpusher:
Then I guess we've been saying the same thing all this while.

Babymama1:
Dearpreye have you seen the woman with the largest breast implant
Is that your spec

Thought you were female all along

ijecks:
i have learnt to tolerate a lot of things from anybody including a man but when it comes to beating i will hate you with passion,if the love was there before,it vanishes sharp sharp

EggovinMma:


Even worst! I can't leave anybody that hurt me without hurting back. I have a big problem when it comes to revenge.Thats me!Until I take my pound of flesh, I won't rest.

standd:


Lol@wresting

Some women endure abuse because they have been told that they are old and have to settle down. So they settle into beatings and tears and bitterness for the rest of their lives.

standd:


Not me Just saying, hope you will learn. Talking about turning a woman into a punching bag is cool huh?

MzNelly:


I guess so too.

EggovinMma:



Court ship kor, judge ship ni.
No man dare raise his hands on me. It's better you call off the relationship. I am good in packing and leaving without being told anyway. I go slap my own back!

ijecks:
i have learnt to tolerate a lot of things from anybody including a man but when it comes to beating i will hate you with passion,if the love was there before,it vanishes sharp sharp

Truckpusher:
I would rather walk away from a provocative woman than turn one into a punching bag.However , What you wrote up there is pure evil and heart chilling and can't be far from the mindset of the individual that came with such misguided idea though you can deny it ,because you have no idea how many people that are in this situation that could be reading this and might buy this crazy idea of yours and apply it thereby causing more problems for themselves.

How on earth you came up with such a mentality is still something I have been trying to figure out and people like you are more dangerous than the average wife beater out their.

My dear, no marital issue should be solved with cold blood murder.


Don't take Truckpusher too seriously!
Jesus!!!

dearpreye:


On the contrary, she's actually running INTO the arms that derives so much pleasure from slapping her!

Na the cocoa be that!

Truckpusher:
I don't have it

Emma4Jesu:





The girl might be fast and uncontrolable talkative that have prompt the man to slow her up a little bit by a kool sharp slap, ebe like una never jam this kan babe, una just dey blame the guy for nothing, the guy self may be looking for way to end that relationship because of fear of what the girl might turn to be in future

Truckpusher:
This is some kind of agreeing to let you run to your bf.

Truckpusher:
I would rather walk away from a provocative woman than turn one into a punching bag.However , What you wrote up there is pure evil and heart chilling and can't be far from the mindset of the individual that came with such misguided idea though you can deny it ,because you have no idea how many people that are in this situation that could be reading this and might buy this crazy idea of yours and apply it thereby causing more problems for themselves.

How on earth you came up with such a mentality is still something I have been trying to figure out and people like you are more dangerous than the average wife beater out their.

My dear, no marital issue should be solved with cold blood murder.

Jesus!!!

EggovinMma:



Send the gurl out! Period!
I prefer to be sent out, call police to push me out if I refuse.I prefer it that way.
But hitting me?No oo no no no no no no no!

dearpreye:
That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender!

She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!!

I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge!

She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow!

If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision?

Was my advice a wrong one?

Willams789:
luv no get eyes oo, What if these guy is the love of your life. never say never.

krispycash:



That my dear is recipe for an abusive marriage... No matter what a woman does, the man has no right to lay or even raise his hands against her... better to walk away... so in my own personal opinion, The lady should discontinue such relationship, because he's going to do it again, no matter what...

MzNelly:


You ehnn....
You have a p.
Who is handling your craze ATM?

EggovinMma:



.And then you'd wondering dis the love flew out from the windows. So fast!
Truly there is a thin line between love and hate.

Truckpusher:
Dearpreye.....She should be taken seriously .

Haba! how can one even think about doing that to an unsuspecting individual - Omo! I fear the girl sha.


How can you be recommending poison in a public forum - She needs to be investigated for even using such a strong language.


The way she said that thing and how she said it sent some chills into me - If you end up with somebody like that one small provocation and not necessarily beating will push her to the edge ,she might even go extra length to push you to hit her to justify her action.

Honestly , I thought she was joking but when she responded again then my worse fear was confirmed - She sound like a poisoner.She was too bitter and emotional about it.

EggovinMma:


Even worst! I can't leave anybody that hurt me without hurting back. I have a big problem when it comes to revenge.Thats me!Until I take my pound of flesh, I won't rest.

standd:


Hey, listen up and stop quoting me out of context.
Just trying to let you know what's happening as my Doctor friend once told me. Most deaths ain't natural and since there's no way to prove it, no one can actually bring offenders to book. Unlike when a woman is abused and everyone points at the man.

See you trying to give me a bad name as if my future husband is on this thread . Give up already , you ain't quoting a dumb person.