Babymama1:


I have passed truck and wheelbarrow level
He needs to be on something more sophisticated that can accommodate a kokomama

rigarmortis:



She has some points though.

Girls want to claim equality with men but they still use the ''weaker vessel'' shytte when it suits them.

I watched some female body builders on sony max the other thay, these girls aint weak by any standards sire.!


Check out this scenario, boy cheats, girl discovers, girl confronts guy and gives him a dirty slap, boy is told to take it like a man.

Girl cheats, boy discovers, boy is expected to walk away and take it like a man.

Watch jerry springer show to see what am talking about.

MzNelly:


I don't like being bitten.....ever.

About your siggy....let it go nau.

It's not worth it.

dearpreye:


U see ya life. ...

Babymama1:
Truckpusher is looking for a woman to push in his truck

dearpreye:
They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to reality

Truckpusher:

Justfollowit:

I just remembered, I am a Sagittarius

We easily get detached emotionally, try beating that

slimwhite:


I understand u perfectly but one thing you should know is that something prompted the slap.....they guy didn't just wake up one morning and decided to slap her....yes their was an argument ....but we don't knw the topic of argument.....wat if the argument is based on something the girl is doing wrong......that he slapped her 3times in 4 months doesn't mean they have argued just 3 times in 4 months....there must be a reason for every action..... My advice is both of them should understand themselves better and knw hw to handle their issues without bringing violence into every issue...

EggovinMma:



Court ship kor, judge ship ni.
No man dare raise his hands on me. It's better you call off the relationship. I am good in packing and leaving without bring told anyway. I go slap my own back!

Sophyrocks:


That means if you talk to me anyhow, you deserve a slap from me right?

dearpreye:
That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender!

She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!!

I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge!

She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow!

If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision?

Was my advice a wrong one?

BUT BROS OP TELL US WHO START DAT FIGHT AND DEN WE CAN GIVE REASONABLE ADVICE TO U UR FRD

UnimkeAk:


It is ok to slap ur gf/fiancee bk 2 reality, like the nigga in the gist did.. And end it there.

Chics can be very unruly.

Just scanned tru the front page ; all the ladies saying they'll quit; can't take it; are actually the ones suffering from serious abuse.

Truckpusher:
Ok, I will but on one condition.

Whenever he wants to write his stupid stories ,he should keep my moniker off his dirty,useless stories.

Talk to him o ,because whenever I see trouble I'm always happy ,I don't know why but this is how I feel.

MzNelly:


Okay Truck Pusher.

Truckpusher:
But bro on a serious note ,how would you feel as a man and some persons with some form of authority keeps beating you up every now and then over little arguments that can be overlooked.

Sometimes we should put ourselves in the shoes of those being slapped around for voicing out their concern - To me ,this is pure intimidation ,after all if you have the same argument with a fellow guy you won't just dish out slaps if his mouth is getting the better part of you.

I still maintain that a strong warning and sometimes a simple joke over some issues will make a difference though I have always said it to girls that I have dated that the day you make me so mad that I would turn up a woman beater ,I will just walk away and I WILL NEVER LOOK BACK ....It is better to walk away forever from a provocative woman than try and beat some senses into her.

Babymama1:

You can always tell a woman beater when you read their posts

Babymama1:


So I don't go off topic suffice it to say that that essence of courtship is to get to know your partner before saying I do
And the essence of the knowledge you acquire at that period should guide you in moving ahead or calling it quits.
A violent man or woman has a major flaw in their character
And multiple acts of violence should send the other partner running quickly and far far away
Choosing to go ahead with it is unwise
That is the summary of my posts
You salvage marriages ,you don't attempt to salvage a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship especially with violence involved
It's a total waste of time

Truckpusher:
Gerrout of here

Babymama1:


So there are nairaland men as reasonable as this
Kai

MzNelly:


Get in here

Okay, goodnight.

slimwhite:





We aren't in any relationship so if I get a slap from you I won't hesitate to retaliate with better and more resounding slaps......
We are taking abt relationship swthrt

Truckpusher:
Is too early. Is your bf threatening you with a slap?

Babymama1:

You can always tell a woman beater when you read their posts

Sophyrocks:


I am female by the way.

People get talked down by bosses, friends and others. People dnt go slapping anyone who talks or runs his/her mouth. Thats the analogy i am using. relationships arent just byfrnds-girlfrnd types. They include friendships and other kinds. Just saying that for the fact that one talked to you in a way you dnt like doesnt mean you must slap the person. Even men could have toxic tongues like women. You've forgotten that men can be verbally abusive too. Its nt just women. No man has any excuse to raise hands on anyone.

Truckpusher:
That won't count the moment you've been caged.