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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 4:33pm On Apr 14, 2015
all4naija:
This is not about vocabulary but it is about the nitty-gritty of the argument.

if I change the definition of men or male...that is me trying to support a ramble that doesn't make sense like you have done.

We may not like the definition but it is what it is.

Change will come regardless if you like it or not.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 4:38pm On Apr 14, 2015
all4naija:

You are a rabble-rouser. The type that would do anything just to get their views across as meaninngful.

It is not just about change but change for the better that comes with agreement, understanding and good reasons.

And you are a vapid jackass. The last paragraph you have stated supported my statement that men and women needs to work together and respect each other values! Gotdamn! It is not that complicated!

Promoting harmony and balance SHOULD be meaningful.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 14, 2015
MrsChima:


And you are a vapid jackass. The last paragraph you have stated supported my statement that men and women needs to work together and respect each other values! Gotdamn! It is not that complicated!

Promoting harmony and balance SHOULD be meaningful.
This one is finally done with different purpose in mind. I can see it is done through tongue-in-cheek expression.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 4:50pm On Apr 14, 2015
MrsChima:


if I change the definition of men or male...that is me trying to support a ramble that doesn't make sense like you have done.

We may not like the definition but it is what it is.

Change will come regardless if you like it or not.
How is calling your fellow female SHALLOW the right thing to do? You'd be the first person to react negative when addressed as a primitive African woman.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 5:08pm On Apr 14, 2015
all4naija:

He analyzes it the way it is with many relationships in Africa and beyond. I think he is right to a high extent. Yet some section of women still think men should congratulate and compliment them after intimacy. Well, if that would help to inflate their deflated egos I would kindly do it and say, ''thank you madam for giving me the best intimacy so that I can live because it is the air I breathe''. grin cheesy cool
Hahaha, you just failed on every level. He is your level and more. Barbarian
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 5:11pm On Apr 14, 2015
Mandu94:

Hahaha, you just failed on every level. He is your level and more. Barbarian
For saying what is real?
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 5:24pm On Apr 14, 2015
all4naija:
For saying what is real?

For exposing both your true sexist and backwards nature. Did you see his 'fresh jokes', half of which I understood. Just not cool, only sad. He conforms to the stereotype of your 'primitive' description, but you share his views yet pretending you care about gender equality. Stop lying to yourself. You only care about materialism and 'fast life'.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 11:12pm On Apr 14, 2015
Mandu94:


For exposing both your true sexist and backwards nature. Did you see his 'fresh jokes', half of which I understood. Just not cool, only sad. He conforms to the stereotype of your 'primitive' description, but you share his views yet pretending you care about gender equality. Stop lying to yourself. You only care about materialism and 'fast life'.

You want me to be who I am not. From my prior post I frantically say his analysis is based on some relationships in Africa and beyond. Looking at the posts of others you would agree with me that is what most women want. They are oftentimes in the mood to be congratulated for offering guys the sweet thing or whatever. grin grin grin.

There is nothing primitive in siding with the guy's opinion for expressing very well what is happening in the society. That is what I agree with and it doesn't make me a hypocrite, sexist, stereotype and backward. I doubt you even know you are discussing with a civilized person here. You should be proud of that so you can learn one thing or the other about modernity to help Africans get organized and develop.

You are always looking for ways to attack me with your feminism, not only that, being a feminist by heart makes matter worse. What more do you expect of me? After all, you don't like my super car, my affluence not to make mentioned of my swag and my views. Excuse me lady! I don't buy into your idea to discriminate against men. Hahaha...
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 11:42pm On Apr 14, 2015
LMAO. grin grin

Good job Mandu..it is really not fair to pick on the ret@rd but hey... smiley

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 1:23am On Apr 15, 2015
MrsChima:
LMAO. grin grin

Good job Mandu..it is really not fair to pick on the ret@rd but hey... smiley

Why won't you support your partner in crime ? You are an accomplice of a 'feminist by heart'! grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 1:51am On Apr 15, 2015
LMAO at this nigga bragging about an used car. grin

Feminism rocks!! grin

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 5:30am On Apr 15, 2015
LMAO AT 1 LIKE. grin grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 1:58pm On Apr 15, 2015
I wouldn't use the n word to describe him. But I think being personal about him is a waste of time. He knows exactly what I think of him.

He is a guy who like to feel superior amongst others, whether its females, his fellow Africans, anybody really, but mainly those who are negatively stereotyped/oppressed because it makes him feel better about himself.

Every week he's drinking umboquothi with his mechanic boys, talking about girls, reading pornos and how he is going to 'do' them on their bus or pounce at the roadside corner. He is part of the roadside hustlers, shoe shining passersby.

Nairaland is his escape and fantasy. So Ms Chima lets give him the opportunity to pump up his diminished and obliterated ego.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 15, 2015
Mandu94:
I wouldn't use the n word to describe him. But I think being personal about him is a waste of time. He knows exactly what I think of him.

He is a guy who like to feel superior amongst others, whether its females, his fellow Africans, anybody really, but mainly those who are negatively stereotyped/oppressed because it makes him feel better about himself.

Every week he's drinking umboquothi with his mechanic boys, talking about girls, reading pornos and how he is going to 'do' them on their bus or pounce at the roadside corner. He is part of the roadside hustlers, shoe shining passersby.

Nairaland is his escape and fantasy. So Ms Chima lets give him the opportunity to pump up his diminished and obliterated ego.

You are just an i d i o t! I don't need to brag to primitive Africans like you. How in the whole wide world would a mechanic have the chance to post online as I do? It is time you get to make good use of that grey matter.

You are not my type in the first place because I don't roll with Township bucket poo system user like you.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 2:23pm On Apr 15, 2015
MrsChima:
LMAO at this nigga bragging about an used car. grin

Feminism rocks!! grin
No used car for me,lady! Ain't nigger! Ain't dirty African either but partly Nigerian!
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 2:25pm On Apr 15, 2015
MrsChima:
LMAO AT 1 LIKE. grin grin
You know I would get that because there is always somebody who can reason properly on Nairaland.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 2:42pm On Apr 15, 2015
all4naija:
You are just an i d i o t! I don't need to brag to primitive Africans like you. How in the whole wide world would a mechanic have the chance to post online as I do? It is time you get to make good use of that grey matter.

You are not my type in the first place because I don't roll with Township bucket poo system user like you.

Not sure that exists here. wink, loool 'dirty' African. You see, you hate your African part.
Haha, you are sewage level. Don't cry please, go to your 'latina prostitute', she loves you very much indeed. In fact you are either broke or you use your plastic supercar to get gold diggers. So essence you are a lowlife nerdy shoe shiner. Do you lick the crap off white men's shoes. #Feminist by heart
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 2:50pm On Apr 15, 2015
Mandu94:


Not sure that exists here. wink, loool 'dirty' African. You see, you hate your African part.
Haha, you are sewage level. Don't cry please, go to your 'latina prostitute', she loves you very much indeed. In fact you are either broke or you use your plastic supercar to get gold diggers. So essence you are a lowlife nerdy shoe shiner. Do you lick the crap off white men's shoes. #Feminist by heart
Oh, sh*t! The moment I expect something new from you I often get the worse of a smelling South African living in the dirty Township. Please, you need to fix your bad xenophobic nature first before talking to me here. If I must take you serious you will have to learn to behave like human being in the first place,including your half-n a k e d primitive people going about the street like deranged animals looking for African immigrants to attack, before anything else.

You poor HIV/AIDS sufferer or victim!
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 3:05pm On Apr 15, 2015
all4naija:

Oh, sh*t! The moment I expect something new from you I often get the worse of a smelling South African living in the dirty Township. Please, you need to fix your bad xenophobic nature first before talking to me here. If I must take you serious you will have to learn to behave like human being in the first place,including your half-n a k e d primitive people going about the street like deranged animals looking for African immigrants to attack, before anything else.

You poor HIV/AIDS sufferer or victim!

Is life soo bad for you, that you insult dying people. Awww poor you. You must be a saadd lowlife. (I cry for you) By the way is that supposed to be an insult,lmfaoo, just asking because I am really confused.

#Feminist by heart

Lets set up a charity for HIV/AID sufferers.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 15, 2015
Mandu94:


Is life soo bad you, that you insult dying people. Awww poor you. You must be a saadd lowlife. (I cry for you) By the way is that supposed to be an insult,lmfaoo, just asking because I am really confused.

#Feminist by heart

Lets set up a charity for HIV/AID sufferers.
If you didn't know it is an insult it means you do not have any idea of your problems. What is the matter?! Zulu master doesn't know xenophobia is bad. Prick!

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 3:11pm On Apr 15, 2015
all4naija:
If you didn't know it is an insult it means you do not have any idea of your problems. What is the matter?! Zulu master doesn't know xenophobia is bad. Prick!

Looool @ Zulu master. Not going to lie, this one is actually funny.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 3:32pm On Apr 15, 2015
Mandu94:


Looool @ Zulu master. Not going to lie, this one is actually funny.
Then find solution to your xenophobic nature and stop harassing Africans living in your society.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 3:59pm On Apr 15, 2015
Gracyel:

No my dear. It only means we've got self respect and dignity for our selves and bodies. It only makes us classier. It only means African women have got more pride than other women from other continents. It only means we arent dogs. It only makes us DIFFERENT!
make we hear word tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 4:11pm On Apr 15, 2015
all4naija:
Smh...! You really lack basic comprehension. I wish you would stop and think a bit about your decisions.
u dis guy sef grin
u too sabi argue with woman grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Gracyel(f): 4:42pm On Apr 15, 2015
lefulefu:

make we hear word tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue
Lol...wetin do ur tongue??
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by faith2ogesco(m): 4:50pm On Apr 15, 2015
Wen all of una tire una go go sleep... smiley

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 12:11am On Apr 16, 2015
@ Mandu94

What part of South Africa are you from? I used to think you were from the UK
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 12:15am On Apr 16, 2015
all4naija:
No used car for me,lady! Ain't nigger! Ain't dirty African either but partly Nigerian!

1 person liked that shot and it was your alter user.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by MrsChima(f): 12:16am On Apr 16, 2015
lefulefu:

u dis guy sef grin
u too sabi argue with woman grin

Most gays do.
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 12:28am On Apr 16, 2015
MrsChima:


1 person liked that shot and it was your alter user.
It wasn't! I think it should be one of those smart random guys. cheesy
Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Nobody: 12:30am On Apr 16, 2015
MrsChima:


Most gays do.
You jerk! Haven't you read I've got a Latina chic? grin grin grin grin cheesy

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Re: Why Do Ladies Think That Having Sex Is A Favour To The Guy by Mandu94: 7:47am On Apr 16, 2015
all4naija:
@ Mandu94

What part of South Africa are you from? I used to think you were from the UK

This question tells me a lot about your nature. Xx

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