Deejavuu:


Smh

Enegod:
this old woman... u never retire for the day?
Go and cook!!!

mizkeleke:

Seconded.
True talk. Men need to be appreciated too. They want ladies to be romantic as well. It should be a mutual thing.

Yea,,exactly!

We men know that we bear the major brunt of the romantic scale but all we need from you women folk is just that little return of romance.

You don't need to do much.

A simple hug or kiss given to your husband before he goes to work can take him a long way through out his day and it could make him not stop thinking about you.

How about a call or text in the middle of the day when he's at work or during lectures. Even if it's just a simple "I LOVE YOU" or "I'M THINKING ABOUT YOU RIGHT NOW"

Very simple little things,,but we don't get that. All we get is a sign of ungratefullness unappreciative effort from you folks saying we are not romantic AT ALL!.

As far as i'm concerned the only time majority of nigerian girls remember to be romantic is on their guy's Birthday and that one sef na by force.

Let's not even talk about valentine.

chimerase2:
de fool go gree?

stephenqueen:
Sometimes I dey blame God for creating me for Naija because of Naija ladies .Why God no troway me to European countries make he create me dia
To do this things no be problem but person wey u dey do amu for go dey take you for mugun, I tire for Naija ladies walahi .If you show care for them, they will take you for fool
You see say kingt om never marry,the mumu dey fear Naija babes.We dey plan to arrange babe for him for Burundi

ronald4lif:


It's no surprise that most of their mindset have been routed in a direction that sex is their only boon. Little wonder they deploy it as a tool/bait whenever they intend to make a man fulfill his pledge or do their bidding. They have consider it their greatest asset and the the most valuable thing they have to offer in a relationship.

They keep raging on how they want a caring, romantic, and one who worships them negating or play ignorant of the fact that men need to be worshipped, cared for and loved too. Even some ladies you don't know from Adam would wake up and question your lack of concern towards her interest. Like men are a log of wood and some manipulative tool.

No one is hating on anyone, it doesn't add any value to our lives. However, a smart woman would assimilate and digest our agitations and subsequently treat their man right.

Exactly Bruv!!

Funny they keep deploying an overrated mechanism called sex. Little wonder why their hearts have multiple fragments as a result of several heart breaks.

MrsChima:
I have said it before and will say it again. Womwn do not need men to take care of them and they can do whatever a man can do expect ejaculate sperm or pee standing up!

Hustle for what you want and use your brain and talent to be successful and do not rely on a man for shit. I know Nigeria isn't for women empowerment but male superiority.

Fortunately, there are men that doesn't think with their assholes and truly God fearing that if you must have a man. You should be able to support yourself if your man passed and not jumping to the next man!

These same niggas will cry about feminism but bishing about womwn not contributing and depending on them too much!

What is the fvck is you motherfuckers really want? You can't have it both ways. You can't have a independent woman that depend on you!

Selfish motherfuckers!

kinglekan:

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Finally!!

Exactly what I have been expecting. Too bad a lotta ladies wouldn't agree with that. Truth is they are the ones always complaining of not finding a romantic man when they are not even close to being romantic.

For example; its her birthday, she expects her man to give her a treat, go shopping, do all sorts, spend the money he doesn't have just to put a smile on her face. Hell yeah!! Some ladies would say, he should do all that. Which is fine by me.

Then his birthday comes, she gets him a 500naira BYC singlet or probably a wristwatch and of course she still expects him to take her out and do all sorts, spend money he doesn't have else he gets tagged as being stingy.

Utter Rubbish!!

What would it cost her to give her man a simple dinner treat? It doesn't have to be something expensive. Now that's being romantic.

Well like you rightly put it, all women are not the same and do not have the same desires in a relationship. Finding that one who shares similar views always proves to be an herculean task.

Its good we have been able to find a common ground, which is that a lady shouldn't demand what she can't give in a relationship, so also the man.
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naijaboiy:

Yea,,exactly!

We men know that we bear the major brunt of the romantic scale but all we need from you women folk is just that little return of romance.

You don't need to do much.

A simple hug or kiss given to your husband before he goes to work can take him a long way through out his day and it could make him not stop thinking about you.

How about a call or text in the middle of the day when he's at work or during lectures. Even if it's just a simple "I LOVE YOU" or "I'M THINKING ABOUT YOU RIGHT NOW"

Very simple little things,,but we don't get that. All we get is a sign of ungratefullness unappreciative effort from you folks saying we are not romantic AT ALL!.

As far as i'm concerned the only time majority of nigerian girls remember to be romantic is on their guy's Birthday and that one sef na by force.

Let's not even talk about valentine.

MrsChima:


And boys don't think life is about them? Too many threads on NL is about what women should do and should learn...bullshit!

I'm not oblivious of the fact that joining words in issues like this is no different from the stimulation Chima gives you when home after a long day at work. But hold your breath a bit.

What we all are saying is that women should give what they want or expect from a man in a relationship. No one is championing the superiority of the male gender here like you're alluding. Give what you want in a relationship. The sex bait doesn't cut it for guys anymore. We need more than spreading of legs if you expect all those caring and worship twaddle crap you people normally rant about.

Ploutos:
What kind of hogwash is this you just typed??

Opining that a lady should return romantic gestures her man gives her means we're complaining about their dependency??

Someone needs to go back to school.

KingTom:

ronald4lif:


I'm not oblivious of the fact that joining words in issues like this is no different from the stimulation Chima gives you when home after a long day at work. But hold your breath a bit.

What we all are saying is that women should give what they want or expect from a man in a relationship. No one is championing the superiority of the male gender here like you're alluding. Give what you want in a relationship. The sex bait doesn't cut it for guys anymore. We need more than spreading of legs if you expect all those caring and worship twaddle crap you people normally rant about.

MrsChima:

Fvck you and your old dick trick!

MrsChima:


What you said has nothing to do with the core definition of romance. Romance is about doing something for your mate without expecting something in return. Each couple have their own opinions of what they think romance is but it still doesn't change the definition of romance. It is simply means doing something or saying something of love or kindness.

If you are dating a jobless or broke woman...you can't expect her to lavish you with gifts and if you are giving with hopes of getting something back then you are not romantic. Simple.

No one should not give a gift and then say because Boniface you a gift where is mine? No one is forcing you to give a gift or so things for other people. You don't get a reward for doing nice things out of your free will. You should get a thank you but that is it!

Men need to stop throwing things at broke or selfish womwn and then get mad if she doesn't do the same thing!

You are at fault! Learn and do better!

MrsChima:

Why are mad Did I strike a nerve?

And if i went back to school..will that you less of a dumb ass bish?

And still, she couldn't type coherently. So much for been a dumb ass feminist.

Stay on topic.

Ploutos:
Feminism would have been something laudable if these dullards hadn't misconstrued the tenets of the movement.

Mtcheew! !

Tomfrench:
ye ur right...#teamforeignchicks

Ploutos:
And still, she couldn't type coherently. So much for been a dumb ass feminist.

Stay on topic.

MrsChima:


Your opinion of feminism is your own...you can't teach ignorance.

You are obviously the ignoramus here.

MrsChima:

I am on topic dumb bish. It was [size=20pt]coherently enough[/size] for your dumb ass to respond and comment!

I now understand why you are so confused.

Of a truth, half education is a disease.

naijaboiy:

No No No I disagree with you.

Being romantic is something you do out of love for that person. It is part of loving someone.

Please stop giving excuses for the wupon theirselves that it's solely a man's job to be romantic.

It's wrong!

MrsChima:


What you said has nothing to do with the core definition of romance. Romance is about doing something for your mate without expecting something in return. Each couple have their own opinions of what they think romance is but it still doesn't change the definition of romance. It is simply means doing something or saying something of love or kindness.

If you are dating a jobless or broke woman...you can't expect her to lavish you with gifts and if you are giving with hopes of getting something back then you are not romantic. Simple.

No one should not give a gift and then say because Boniface you a gift where is mine? No one is forcing you to give a gift or so things for other people. You don't get a reward for doing nice things out of your free will. You should get a thank you but that is it!

Men need to stop throwing things at broke or selfish womwn and then get mad if she doesn't do the same thing!

You are at fault! Learn and do better!

Seems you read my post in reverse. Did you skip the part where I said "she expects her man to do...."

Humour me with the core definition of romance? Who talked about getting something in return? Please don't even twist my words.

You clearly missed my emphasis on the fact that she still expects her man to give her a treat on his own birthday as if its her right.


You are so quick to start adding missing puzzles to my post. Saying what if she is jobless and broke. If I turned tables round and said the same about the guy, you would rant as how it isn't right for him to be in a relationship if he is broke.

Yet you forget so quickly where you opined that ladies should bring the same thing men bring into a relationship.

Since you have the standard definition of being romantic, what has it got to do with being broke?

MrsChima:


What you said has nothing to do with the core definition of romance. Romance is about doing something for your mate without expecting something in return. Each couple have their own opinions of what they think romance is but it still doesn't change the definition of romance. It is simply means doing something or saying something of love or kindness.

If you are dating a jobless or broke woman...you can't expect her to lavish you with gifts and if you are giving with hopes of getting something back then you are not romantic. Simple.

No one should not give a gift and then say because Boniface you a gift where is mine? No one is forcing you to give a gift or so things for other people. You don't get a reward for doing nice things out of your free will. You should get a thank you but that is it!

Men need to stop throwing things at broke or selfish womwn and then get mad if she doesn't do the same thing!

You are at fault! Learn and do better!

MrsChima:


Then why are you and company choosing girls who think that sex is all they can give? Blaming girls for boys choosing those types won't change anything.

Choose better!

Ploutos:
You are obviously the ignoramus here. I now understand why you are so confused.

Of a truth, half education is a disease.

Ploutos:
1st paragraph > and it's solely a man's responsibility right?

2nd paragraph > There is no amount of poverty that can stop anyone be it a man or woman from been romantic. It doesn't have to be an expensive dinner or buying expensive gifts. Oh well, you don't even know what it means to be romantic. Love/romance is a two way thing. It needs to be requitted for it to be ever green. When we show affection, we don't do it for what we will get in return(unlike most ladies). We do it out of love but when it's not requitted, it gets sour.

3rd paragraph > already answered.

4th paragraph > Nonsense!! So, because you're dating a broke girl, you shouldn't do anything to spice up your relationship right?? Humour me!

5th paragraph > You're the one at fault.

Nailed it!!!

kinglekan:



Nailed it!!!

ronald4lif:


This issue is not about us or our individualistic experience from our current relationships. Perhaps past ones.

We're just raising some anomalies and nettlesome trait a lot of Nigerian girls seem to have adopt as a tradition. I expect you to know that the characters and personality of the guys raising concerns on this issue won't condone women with similar behaviours neither would they entertain it even for a split sec.

ronald4lif:


I'm not oblivious of the fact that joining words in issues like this is no different from the stimulation Chima gives you when home after a long day at work. But hold your breath a bit.

What we all are saying is that women should give what they want or expect from a man in a relationship. No one is championing the superiority of the male gender here like you're alluding. Give what you want in a relationship. The sex bait doesn't cut it for guys anymore. We need more than spreading of legs if you expect all those caring and worship twaddle crap you people normally rant about.

MrsChima:


i will be whatever you think that I am and you are still an ignorant gay bish who couldn't retort intellectually.

Keep calling me a dumb Feminist while you wait for someone to help you!

Keep reading my "incoherent" posts dumb bish!

Bouncing on you is the last thing you'll want me to do. I pointed out your errors to you and the only thing you could do is to resort to vulgar words. Intelligent feminist my foot!! You lots have this awkward way of reasoning. Pray I don't catch you in any pro-feminism thread. You'll regret your e-life that day.

Cretin!

kinglekan:



Nailed it!!!

No mind that olodo.

MrsChima:



Nigga....what's the fvck are you on? You need to write down who said what because not one time I said it was a man's job to be romantic! If you actually read my post I said that if you pick a selfish and broke woman. You should expect her to do for you! You should choose a woman that will do for you! It is your fault for choosing these type of girl!

I also said romance is about doing things or saying things of love and kindness..so why are disagreeing with something you just repeated what I said

The emboldened is so typical of Nigerian women. An absolute gimcrack excuse of not demonstrating enough romance and care in a relationship whilst they expect men to be at their maximal best.

You've been told repeatedly that you don't need to be working or rich to take your man to a restaurant and give them special treat like they'll expect the man to. How hard is that to grasp