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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by cheechee16(f): 11:33pm On Jul 30, 2015
its fine when u want to know abt her previous relationships and not who deflowered her...cuz wen u finally know,ur mentality abt her changes
The qtn is nt necessary if u ask me,it can only bring up more qtns like a lady asking her man who disvirgined him and how many ladies has he disvirgined....c'mon shit happens!!!!
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Swagk101(m): 11:34pm On Jul 30, 2015
Chubbiehills:
..With the cases of molestation here and there, remember that this victims will grow up and if this same answer is given,that means you won't believe them.. 70% of Nigerian's girls are victims of molestation, it is only some of these men are caught...
Haba madam Linus where did you get your fact?

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Jul 30, 2015
BrainnewsNg:

Ladies do not want to be called a w-h-o-re.
Support me with some LIKES/SHARE.
Op, this is the answer that you seek!!!
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by yeman2012(m): 11:37pm On Jul 30, 2015
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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Mcowubaba: 11:39pm On Jul 30, 2015
OREMUSSANCTUS:
That was how I asked my first gf, if she was a virgin, she said Yes and No. I was confused, she now said d guy penetrated her, buh it was painful she now asked him to stop. I was so vexed.
My oda ex, told me she was disvirgined becos her mum wasn't caring and was always scolding her. I was just looking at her like mumu, so no woman wan accept say she want am.
I don't trust grls at all, not even yourmain
Lol
Some will say it was Accidental (along Ore-Ibadan express rd cheesy )
Some will say the fell on a sharp object grin shocked maybe cucumber

I don't really care abt Virginity status...it only pisses me off when girls lie abt it, why will the tell us that the are "Virgin mary" only for us to discover that the are "pornstars" sad sad

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jul 30, 2015
Too many ladies commenting on this topic while the guys in the background watching cheesy

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by dotfak: 11:42pm On Jul 30, 2015
All this young Shidren, should you even be talking about this. You better go and face ya studies. When I was your age, I was counting my books!!! Gbamm#
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by ronald4lif(m): 11:42pm On Jul 30, 2015
Of what importance is it for a guy to know how his woman was deflowered? I don't get it, really.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by DonX001: 11:42pm On Jul 30, 2015
Shaadey:
ah-ah......most of em can't repair a broken plastic bowl

hehehehe....lol, you no serious grin
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by MichaelSokoto(m): 11:43pm On Jul 30, 2015
Dudes, all girls I've dated opened up on me how dey got deflowered, honestly I neva asked nor was I bothered about stuff like dat. Jez bang em onCe & dey leak all their life secrets on u. Dunno why undecided
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by totalhouse(m): 11:45pm On Jul 30, 2015
BrainnewsNg:


This is motivational and real.

God bless.
I completely disagree.You can't sweep the past under the carpet in relationship. What you call doesn't matter will become matters arising tomorrow. You need to deal with the past and accept It inorder to move on. Don't ever make mistake of brushing such an important issue aside. You may regret such action in future.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by MichaelSokoto(m): 11:48pm On Jul 30, 2015
INTROVERT:
Virgins have no business on this thread.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Shaadey: 11:48pm On Jul 30, 2015
DonX001:

hehehehe....lol, you no serious grin
lol na true na
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Jul 30, 2015
OREMUSSANCTUS:
That was how I asked my first gf, if she was a virgin, she said Yes and No. I was confused, she now said d guy penetrated her, buh it was painful she now asked him to stop. I was so vexed.
My oda ex, told me she was disvirgined becos her mum wasn't caring and was always scolding her. I was just looking at her like mumu, so no woman wan accept say she want am.
I don't trust grls at all, not even yourmain

Lol shocked. I don't need to lie.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by komek(m): 11:55pm On Jul 30, 2015
The truth is that the guys don't ask them atimes but in a bid to present themsefs as good girls they tend to come up with those stories of "how one brother forcefully deflowered them" or how one street boy put his hand in their borehole. Who cares.

Meanwhile guys don dey fetch water for the borehole before it got to ur turn. Just starting to dislike Naija babes I must confess.

Some old girls will even tell u how the last time they slept wif a guy was 20yrs ago but when u eventually get in there, u will be disappointed.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by sahm4u2nv(m): 12:05am On Jul 31, 2015
Buh why shoud they?
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by BestySam(m): 12:08am On Jul 31, 2015
One told me that she had toilet infection so the doctor had to insert something into her borehole.

Another said she was molested at a tender age.

One said it happened when she was learning how to drive a bicycle.

Same storyline I guess.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by SylarsMcQuins: 12:09am On Jul 31, 2015
Thank God I disvirgined my Fiance, no tym for dz bullshit

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by whizqueen(f): 12:15am On Jul 31, 2015
If she tells you I was df at the age of 15 by her Ex or something you'll call her cheap angry now she's trying not to look cheap just because she cares you're now ranting here again undecided

What does nigerian guys want sef
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Gurgle(f): 12:17am On Jul 31, 2015
SylarsMcQuins:
Thank God I disvirgined my Fiance, no tym for dz bullshit

Lol grin
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Gurgle(f): 12:18am On Jul 31, 2015
BestySam:
One told me that she had toilet infection so the doctor had to insert something into her borehole.

One said it happened when she was learning how to drive a bicycle.

Same storyline I guess.

NO NO NO NO grin grin grin grin grin LOOL

*modified

but anyway, these might be true. that's the sad thing

But I think if I were her I would have evidence for the toilet infection ready, to prove that its not a lie
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Gurgle(f): 12:19am On Jul 31, 2015
totalhouse:

I completely disagree.You can't sweep the past under the carpet in relationship. What you call doesn't matter will become matters arising tomorrow. You need to deal with the past and accept It inorder to move on. Don't ever make mistake of brushing such an important issue aside. You may regret such action in future.

hm

so what do you suggest

just spill everything?
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Adaeze003(f): 12:21am On Jul 31, 2015
Uhm... some girls were raped as children especially those who lived in the face me I face you houses. Even those who grew up with a silver spoon got molested one way or the other under their own roof. Should I even mention the "daddy and mummy" games?

It shouldn't come as a shock to anyone with the kind of men we have in the society...

I'll always tell parents to know where their kids are at all times.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Tomasboy(m): 12:28am On Jul 31, 2015
Its because most of their flowers is not Rose, most of their flowers is Weed-like Flowers cheesy

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by gabbidonb(m): 12:30am On Jul 31, 2015
It's in their genes to tell lies and don't want men to see the hoe in them

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by hardychris(m): 12:30am On Jul 31, 2015
christinie:
Can you prove this allegation?
hahahaaha but christinie that's true dear, I'v heard it from many guls.

Dis is no big deal there cus wat has been opened has been open it can't be sealed back again.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 12:31am On Jul 31, 2015
That is even the mild part of it. Some try to fake virginity by whatever means they can. It's when they can't achieve that that they resort to lying.

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Adaeze003(f): 12:33am On Jul 31, 2015
Hmm...
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 12:36am On Jul 31, 2015
lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?
BECAUSE THERE ARE ALL STVPID angry

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by UpLoyo: 12:38am On Jul 31, 2015
lawnreigh:
I find it difficult to believe how most ladies lie about how were disvirgined to their boyfriends/Fiancé and co, most times they usually lie, it's either they were raped by a neighbor when they were young or probably one brother in their area which makes it hard to even believe the one saying the truth because it seems to be the same lie trend among ladies.

Is there anything bad in telling your boyfriend how you were truly disvirgined by former boyfriends et al?

Height of joblessness, of that relevance is somebody's else virginity? Some of you are just too disgusting to be allowed amongst sane people. There's always a stupid article about ladies, do you perverts have a mother or sister in your lineage at all? What is your damn business if a ladies lies about her virginity to her man, is that your freaking problem? Bunch of jerk offs, I blame the clown responsible more monitoring this website, it has really gone to the dogs.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by toshmann(m): 12:39am On Jul 31, 2015
Nneka123:
Why should one even bother going down the memory lane

If he's going to ask me stuff like that, he should also be ready to open up as well. But this topic ain't for me. Bye grin
How cant trust be built if there are things that are hidden? What's the big deal about how you were disvirgined? He's prolly trying to know you better. And its better he hears it first from your mouth than from outside. And vice versa.

@topic, no blame the girls sha, abi u wan hear say na those people wey u hate wey break dem? grin

Methinks you should be more interested in knowing the last person to sleep with them, and not the first. You'll be surprised, you won't even be the last person grin
Or even better, ask them the first person to sleep with them AFTER you started dating and screwing them. grin

Hehehehe, make i run comot grin

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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Lie About How They Were Disvirgined To Their Boyfriends? by Nobody: 12:41am On Jul 31, 2015
1miccza:


That's why it's important also for both parties to understand themselves perfectly.. Just as i said,before making such request,the guy would have made up his mind to open up and accept anything he's about to hear...
If you will honestly accept what's the need asking?

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